Hey guys,
I've been in a relationship with my gf for over 2 years now and we've always talked about how we wanted to have a threesome of both kinds. I really get off to MFM threesomes and I totally love the idea of it. My gf is up for it, too, and we have been talking about arranging it in the near future, because we agreed that were were young (22) and we both wanted to explore this idea that we have both been finding enticing.
The thing is, since we basically said to do it I have been really unsure about myself and the whole situation. When I think about this fantasy with her it gets my dick rock hard but I normally am more of a jealous person and I am unsure if I can handle the real thing. But on the other hand, I really want to try it out. I don't want this to ruin our great relationship, but I am afraid of not being able to handle this threesome and getting so jealous that it ends up destroying our relationship. Again, on the other hand, I really want to do it and it could end up being the hottest thing we've ever done.
In my eyes this whole thing has both the potential to either completely fuck the relationship or be extremely hot. Does it mean I'm not ready for this kind of threesome if I have strict limits on what guy we would pick? It would be a stranger since the city we live in is really close and I don't want to involve our friend circle, buy my limits are that he can't be more muscular or better looking than me and his dick has to be comparable to mine. I think then it would work out, but I'm really torn on this one. Normally I know what to do and how to solve issues and I've been navigating this relationship really well, but I guess this topic has me returning to TRP again for some guidance.
How do you guys see this?
nini00 2y ago
cuck All other resoppnses telling you to try it out suck
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Bro it's your threesome. Live your life and have fun. But remember, this is yours to direct. Be picky as you want to be. Set up rules and talk about them with everyone. And be ok with pausing or stopping if shit gets weird or you need to process shit.
I've done a lot of group shit in my time so hit me up if you have questions.
BMP2CPM 2y ago
You need to figure out why you want a guy in your bed.
If you are really straight, a good woman should be all you need and your woman should be all you need.
If you are not straight, well … either way, you should not be in a relationship with this girl.
You have much to figure out on your own, I think.
Life is too short for this kind of stuff.
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Bro let the guy like what he likes. What's it to you? Don't yuck his yum.
OP, do your crazy unhinged shit. Don't settle for one girl and learn to be a proud sexual man.
BusterVadge 2y ago
You pick the person, you have exclusive contact with the person, and when you're done destroy the contact info. It's not that complicated. I've had a few FFM threesomes in the past and that's how it goes. You never involve someone that you know unless you like inviting trouble.
carnold03 2y ago
As disturbingly gay.
qwertzuiop 2y ago
what if I say no homo after?
Tousen71 2y ago
Serious question, is this a cuck thing? You seem to want to watch your woman physically dominated but there's an element of insecurity that the other partner would be more dominant—and by extension, appealing—than you. No judgment.
qwertzuiop 2y ago
Good question, that could be. No idea where I picked that up though. But if it was a cuck thing, that exact thing of the other guy being more dominant and more appealing than me would be what I would want to get out of the threesome, right? I wanna avoid that at all costs, though.
Tousen71 2y ago
I think you're young enough to explore it and learn the hard way if you have to so I say go for it. But I would also assume that if you feel generally insecure with the threat of a more appealing man catching your girl's eye (and heart), this might actually exacerbate that dread. Let's say you both have a great time—her specifically—it might cause her to think about other potential partners. Then she's bringing up the potential of more MFM threesomes ahead of you. Then she's bringing up open relationships or polyamorous relationships.
I say go for it, but be wary this could be a quick sand type situation.
qwertzuiop 2y ago
Yes that is exactly the chain of events I am afraid of. Given the fact that she has been 1000% loyal without a doubt and seems rather naive when it comes to the concept of love (much different from today's standard girls) I think I'm gonna give it a try and hope I haven't opened Pandora's Box. To be honest I have been telling myself that since I am so young it would be sad if this scenario were to happen and we were to ultimately break up because of it but it wouldn't be the end of the world. She's a great girlfriend and my first one, too, so I don't necessarily mind being able to have sex with more women down the road one day. I mean, what are the odds of marrying your first girlfriend? I don't think I would be happy having slept with just one girl my entire life...
Tousen71 2y ago
Do it and report back. And yes, if it doesn’t work out, consider yourself lucky that you gained lifelong wisdom through short term pain. Win or lose this will build you for the better in the long run.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Agree limits on what will and won't happen. Start slow, eg "blowjob, no sex". Or whatever you're ino.
Only you can decide this.
Limits are reasonable.
Now you sound like a girl..... "she can't be prettier than me, taller than me, hotter than me, or less hot than me".
I think it might work better with a guy you semi (pun intended) know. Much easier to negotiate limits, ask dick size, respect boundaries, etc.
qwertzuiop 2y ago
Well to be fair I don't want her getting railed by some dude with a 9 inch dick and enjoy it lol. I'm not small myself but am insecure about that happening. I did some reading about these threesomes because I wanted to figure out if I was gonna do it for real and to be honest the only thing I'm scared of is her finding the other guy more attractive or her getting pleased by him in ways I physically can't (like dick size). I don't really mind sounding like a girl in that department to be honest as long as the threesome goes the way I want to
Tousen71 2y ago
You're 22. Just do it and learn something new about yourself. This COULD have serious repercussions on your relationship but when you add another sexual partner to your relationship (male or female) this is always a possibility so you need to accept it. Outside of that, I agree with the other commenters, it's your show so tell her how it's going to go and take the lead.
kingofthecastle 2y ago
An MFM threesome in a LTR? It smells like a relationship-ender to me and based on the last paragraph it seems like you know that too.
Once you give her permission to hop back on the CC she'll will want to do more and more until she's not satisfied with the relationship anymore
But If you still want to go through it, be my guest.