This is a sad story but a true story. I'm obsessed over my first girlfriend. We only dated for approximately 7 months and broke up in June 2019.
Since then, i've been obsessed with her. Time has healed my heart break but I still think about her . I don't stalk her on social media but sometimes i can't help myself and have a peak once in a while (she has a boyfriend now).
I just loved what I had with her. The sex, the love, the affection the fun, i didn't want it to end. I've tried with other girls but have given up because it doesn't feel like it did with her. It even saddens me thee memories are faded.
I want what i had with her back. I'm obsessed about it. I tell myself she wasn't that great and she doesn't care abut me and to move on but the reality is im still obsessed and want her back. that's the truth. sad yes, pathetic yes. What can I do?
I already go to the gym, read books, and do all that but it doesn't wrk.
PaleOrc 4y ago
"... it doesn't feel like it did with her. "
That's always going to happen. It's like your first roller coaster, fist real drunk, first time having sex - nothing is going to come close to the initial high. That's life.
"I already go to the gym, read books, and do all that but it doesn't wrk (sic)."
What are you doing in the gym? If it's not power lifts and heavy weight, do that. No excuses. What books? Books aren't an instant cure. There is no instant cure.
Closest thing you're going to get to an instant-fix? Talk to other women.
No offense, but I can tell from how you wrote this that you've not seen enough of life to be able to say with any real certainty that you're not going to find another woman whose company you'll cherish as much.
Let go, move on, live for yourself. Stop wallowing - it doesn't pay off. She's moved on and she's not coming back.
You're intelligent enough to recognize this is totally unproductive, so stop feeding into it and wallowing.
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needhelpbro 4y ago
cheers mate, going to watch the video.
needhelpbro 4y ago
bumped for op