This is a sad story but a true story. I'm obsessed over my first girlfriend. We only dated for approximately 7 months and broke up in June 2019.
Since then, i've been obsessed with her. Time has healed my heart break but I still think about her . I don't stalk her on social media but sometimes i can't help myself and have a peak once in a while (she has a boyfriend now).
I just loved what I had with her. The sex, the love, the affection the fun, i didn't want it to end. I've tried with other girls but have given up because it doesn't feel like it did with her. It even saddens me thee memories are faded.
I want what i had with her back. I'm obsessed about it. I tell myself she wasn't that great and she doesn't care abut me and to move on but the reality is im still obsessed and want her back. that's the truth. sad yes, pathetic yes. What can I do?
I already go to the gym, read books, and do all that but it doesn't wrk.
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ccvbnm3 about a month ago
I think your issue when it comes to your girlfriend has to do with something else. Your not obsessed with her, but instead i think you misunderstand the importance of your feeling. Let me give you an example. This is from Ecclesiastes, but it is said that sadness is a more superiors emotion than happiness. How do we know this? What touches your heart more, a time out with your friends, or when a close family member dies? With your friends, time moves quicker! But when someone you care about is gone, that feeling is almost nerve wrecking! What songs sound better? Happy or "Sad" songs? And in your case, when a man has heartbreak, what does he do? Fall, or become a better person? Its time...
Fawk_Face 2 months ago
You are doing things that people say you should do.
You have to find something that you'd do even if you didn't have to worry about survival.
For some it's music, others it's painting...
Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7adyYLVJ5OU
When you have purpose in life, you don't worry about trivial things like "this one girl"
needhelpbro 2 months ago
cheers mate, going to watch the video.
needhelpbro 2 months ago
bumped for op