Hello everyone
I'm noticing more and more some patterns with the women surrounding me (20's) Mostly they strive for attention and doesn't care for individuality, only the numbers and in the result, makes every man talking to them quite disposable and forgetable The thing that made me realise this is firstly that most of the girls i've talked to didn't "came back" at me, I always had to be the motor of the conversation and say hello or I would just be alone And secondly is that recently, I got added by an "artsy" girl to a discord server and it just baffled me There's 30+ men for 2 girls, and every dude are super kind with her, are an endless fuel of compliments and reassurance
Meanwhile, each time they got the occasion, the girls put down the guys, insult them, are openly bold and uncaring and NEVER returned any compliment in the short time I was in the server. Most baffling thing is that they show the thousands of DMs they do everyday with an neverending supply of dudes and it's insane how the dudes are so mistreated and toyed with. In a way I feel like they go on with men who has the most value they can give (the most attention, most kindness...) at a particular moment, which means each and everyone of us is in a perpetual competition and if we flinch for 2 seconds the game is lost. I've never been really competitive at first and so i've got a few questions :
How to battle against this ? How to win in the game of attention and basic human needs if they don't need to bat an eye to have quite everything ? What can I read to learn more ? What can I do to free myself from this disposable/value-circle ? How to find a girl who's out of this loop, if there even one that exists ? One that primes individuality before anything else ? Why do we gotta do tons of thing to improve while they doesn't need to ?
Thanks for reading and helping my surely naive and blooming thoughts.
Redsabre2003 3y ago
Stop giving a shit about females on discord be the one who only compliments her once in a blue moon she’ll take notice be different than all the men who shower her in attention.
I agree with JohnnyKing. Work on yourself and women will flock to you. Keep your chin up and stay calm under all circumstances learn to become like water. I’ve done a transformation financially, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Start improving on yourself. Gaming is fun but it’s not what is gonna get you to be the one every woman’s eyes dart to when you walk into the room whether it be digitally or in the physical world.
Go all fucking in!
My final word of advice for the discord art girl if you’re really interested in her bro. You gotta her give less attention than the other men, you playfully tease her every once and a while on something you think is cute about her that you notice, when the other 30 guys attack you because you teased her stand up for yourself and say you were being playful and did it with good intentions. Remain CALM!!! Ask her to talk privately to you about it. Tell her you don’t give care about the other men and you only care about her. You’ll stand out like a gem in the rough you’ll be the one she’ll remember and you’ll start getting all the attention you deserve bro. Make sure to not compliment her too much women hate that. Hot and attractive women are used to that behavior. The roles will reverse and you’ll be the one getting chased after. Real Alphas don’t need validation and constant attention you’ll get these things without asking if you practice these tips.
If shit works out she’ll eventually only want to talk with you. Don’t give a shit if all 30 guys hate you they should because you’re the one getting the women they all want.
Let me know how things go with an update. This video helped me swallow the red pill https://youtu.be/ewT018ysDO4
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
The real question is why do u care so much, alphas don't care, they set themselves up to win by Working on themselves first being ambitions, Health, physique and money first, women will come after
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JohnnyKingD 3y ago
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