I don't know if any of you have dealt with similar situation before, and this is probably something rarely discussed, long story short, I happen to be acquaintances with some chicks through mutual friends, so it's not exactly a option to just outright ignore them in certain situations.
Now the problem is, these ugly chicks literally beg for hugs, I've had this happen 3 times in my whole life, and every single time, it's obvious they're trying to cop a feel (Yes, I lift)
I expect to get mocked for this, but the fact of the matter is I have standards, and would very much prefer to not touch these women at all.
Anyway, the question is, how best to handle this? hard to go with a direct "no" in this circumstance. I got no issues attracting, but I literally don't know how to reject in a cordial manner in this situation.
murphy 4y ago
Lol, "alpha problems" am I right?
Try to control your friend groups to not include being around these girls. Try to be the AMOG and make sure they aren't invited or around. The other women will respect you more and be fearful of getting ejected from the group. In the meantime, saying something pithy like "You can't afford it" might hold them off for a bit, but they'll think of a way around it if they're very desperate. You could also communicate to the girl you actually like that you find the hug-begging to be pathetic and disgusting and (because women can't keep secrets) it will get back to the ugly girls eventually and they will stop because they'll know everyone thinks less of them now.
Good luck, man.
Art_of_C 4y ago
That's some good input. Much appreciated. I like the suggestion where I confide in trusted females and just make it a group knowledge that I don't like it, and if it doesn't improve, since I already laid the premise out, I can then simply make sure they aren't around when I am.
And you're correct, if they're really desperate, they always find some ways, including the "run up and sneak hug" . Or things like literally stalking you digitally by trying to add you on all social media venues just to ask you "Why are you ignoring me?" when we literally hung out in a group 1 and a half year ago.
Thanks again.
redpillschool Admin 4y ago
"You can't afford it"
Art_of_C 4y ago
I like it; demonstrates higher value and fucks with them on a subconscious level.