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God this is going to sound stupid but I've notice if I'm just fucking or plating a woman, I am not ticklish. If am starting to catch feelings it kinda works. When I'm full blown hooked that bitch can tickle me.
Another example would be me feeling her emotions. I've know the boss of her company for a few years. He's kind of a fuck off and she was going on about him yelling at her. I caught myself getting angry at him for this. I wasn't there. I don't know the entire situation or how exaggerated yelling might be used here.
mattyanon Admin 1w ago
Look, I'm going to make this easy for you.
Love doesn't exist.
When you realise this, everything looks a lot clearer. ......How come a woman who is in love with a man will cheat on him in a heartbeat..... how come a married woman can cheat...... how come she says she loves me but we're not having sex...... how come she loves me sometimes but not always....... blah blah blah.
This whole "love" thing is carefully designed obfuscation to make you believe in something and do something that is against your best interests. "I believe we're in love therefore I will support her". It's designed to switch your brain off so that you don't do stupid things like hesitating to marry her.
Ask your question again now that you know this.
Kloi 6d ago
Then what emotion do I feel towards my dog, son, family and friends?
Women love conditionally. In my mind that means from moment to moment. Right guy, right place, under the right conditions, any woman will cheat.
The rest of it, I'd argue are people simply saying the words without actually any real meaning behind them. I see a lot of relationships I'd swear they say I love you! To each other, simply out of habit and conditioning.
Conditioning from society that you highlighted well in your last paragraph.
mattyanon Admin 5d ago
Care and attachment
No.
Women do not love by the male definition of the word. What does love mean..... care? nope. sacrifice? nope. putting someone else first? nope.
They love their offspring in a certain limited way. But not men.
Right
SeasonedRP 2 1w ago
That is a good answer.
odaklanan_insan 1w ago
You can gauge it with how much compassion and empathy you have for her. So, your assessment is accurate.
This applies--to a degree--to all of our loved ones in our lives. Our parents, siblings, pets, etc. Compassion and empathy includes protectiveness, but more than just that.
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adam-l Moderator 1w ago
There's this obsession where you think about her practically every minute. What 's usualy called infatuation.
Then, there's caring. She awakens your protective instinct.
Idealisation, too: she's totally perfect, and her little imperfections make her even more perfect. Every little thing she does is magic.
First-light 1 1w ago
This is a bit simplistic but you know you are in love when you can't help but declare yourself to be in love. Seems to have worked for me anyway.
JPCantell 1w ago
Illogical thinking; thinking that’s at odds with what you would normally think / with what you know is logical. In essence, when you start taking on a feels before reals mentality. Big red flag is justifying behaviors or traits you don’t approve of.