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loneliness-inc Mod 2y ago
Take your white knighting head out of your stinky ass and stop blaming men for everything.
This forum is a place to demonstrate the times when women are responsible for their own problems.
OwenWentFullMGTOW 2y ago
https://i.imgur.com/u8CEC0e.jpg
Without knowing the specifics, I'll venture that she's under 35 and after three years, she's ready for another child. Hence, time for more sex!
He's not feeling it tho, gee, wonder why...
[deleted] 2y ago
It never seems to occur to women that there are things men want, need, desire, and hope for from their relationships.
It just doesn't register with women that men are humans too, and they want and need things from their relationships too.
[deleted] 2y ago
The only real woman tears are when she's alone in her home.
Snoid_ 2y ago
"...he doesn't see me as a sexual partner anymore and I'm heartbroken."
You mean like how you didn't see him as a sexual partner for years, but now that it affects you, it's not only a bad thing, but also his fault?
RobStonman 2y ago
Too bad so sad. You had plenty of chances. You denied him sex. Now you are complaining because he doesn't see you in that way anymore.
Well guess what. Now you know what it feels like for men everywhere. When women reject us. Notice I said when not if. You don't deserve to be happy. Why? Because you have caused so much misery for the man you're with.
Boar_excrement 2y ago
Low libido? Hog sh!t. Chances are the husband is getting a lot of attention from potential side chicks and the frigid wifey does not want to lose her plow horse. That is the only reason I see that she would try to warm things up.
RobStonman 2y ago
+1
deepak8411 2y ago
Too little, too late.
loneliness-inc Mod 2y ago
Yup.
After 3 years of rejection, even the horniest of men, will lose interest in her.
Blackbarnabyjones 2y ago
3 Years of rejection?
You had better have a Ottoman sized piece of ass cancer growing out of your ass that pulsates with its OWN heartbeat and SPURTS when you touch it.
Even then, I'm getting some sharp knives and we having some steaks till I get to that booty.
3 years?
You better be DEAD. IF you have a problem for 3 years you just can't be DYING ALL THE TIME.
Imma need some PROOF..
RobStonman 2y ago
I'd lose interest in a month. Two at most. Three years. Pfft I would have forgot she existed.
OhBarnacles_007 2y ago
Dam 3 years? If a girl started that shit with me for no good reason imma head out. Don't expect me to do my part and you no do yours.
loneliness-inc Mod 2y ago
Easy to say that. Harder to do it when you're married with a child.
OhBarnacles_007 2y ago
True.
Flashy_Glove6208 2y ago
3 years and no sex?
He's done.
The child kept him to try but there is a limit when men just throw a towel.
Ok-Adeptness4906 2y ago
I'm not buying the "I had a vaginal tear in childbirth 3 years ago and the stitches didn't heal properly". Vaginal tissue heals like crazy, because it has such a good blood supply.
Source: I've sutured plenty of vaginal tears.
Traksimuss 2y ago
But hoe else can she abscond her responsibility? It was not her ignoring needs of her husband, it was natural causes!
Overkillengine 2y ago
Haha that's cute she's shocked to find out that he isn't just a penis she can keep in a secure glass case and only be taken out on her demand.
I don't begrudge a woman time to heal from an injury but three fucking years is ridiculous. She has sent a very clear message that she does not desire him and it is very clear she's only really worried about losing her easy meal ticket and retirement plan.
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That is not the problem. The problem is that she wants to do what you say, but doesn't want people to think she is doing that.
You are not helping her at all, you're doing the exact opposite of helping her by talking about the truth. Well, what about her truth? She just wants to have her cake and eat it too and sell cake share MLM while men celebrate her strength and independence.
panzer22222 2y ago
Got a theory about this situation, after a certain point a guys mind auto places a woman into the 'no sex', like growing up with sisters etc. You cant turn it off once the woman in in this category.
RobStonman 2y ago
+1
Traksimuss 2y ago
He found other solutions to no sex with her and closed issue as resolved.
DarthBroker 2y ago
her mouth hands and feet still worked all those years....even if her vag didnt
sooooo....oh well
RobStonman 2y ago
You forgot ass if she's into anal.
Snoo16680 2y ago
Because you cant be sexual with your man if the vagina doesnt work..
loneliness-inc Mod 2y ago
You'd be right if it was 3 months.
But this is 3 years!
It didn't work because she allowed it to slip out of commission.
Snoo16680 2y ago
Yeah, absolutely.
In a healthy relationship they would be doing something even if it was true.
She is using it as an excuse.
creepyhardwood 2y ago
i feel like i am missing what lead up to this, but you cannot negotiate genuine desire. She may try to keep you around with duty sex or love bombing if she thinks your going to leave, then stop once she thinks your back around her finger. The wait is never worth what she is offering.
loneliness-inc Mod 2y ago
You aren't missing anything. She had a change in her body, hormones and life demands when she shit out her kid. Instead of keeping her flame burning, she allowed her sexuality to go to shit.
Now that her marriage is in danger, she wants to somehow get it back.
deckran 2y ago
Honestly, i think their marriage is done and she will cheat on him most likely. He doesn't desire her physically anymore and now that she got back into shape it won't be that hard for some random guy to come and give her what she wants. Attention and validation. The attention her husband doesn't give her at home.
Traksimuss 2y ago
Yes, but she will get no money anymore and no free butler or validation.
Fairwareprovidence 2y ago
Very very dangerous prospect to deprive a man in his mid 30s of sex. We're not like we were in our 20s. At some point our libido does go down and when that happens we start to look after our interest more. If you as a wife haven't taken your place among these interests, you may find yourself in an awkward position as the man is now able to picture life without you. He may leave you. He may kick you out. He may ignore you. He may just start treating you as a friend. You're not a sexual partner anymore and it's almost impossible to shake that idea once it's taken root.
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BeholdTheHair 2y ago
Much appreciated, sir.
RobStonman 2y ago
+1
maruadventurer 2y ago
I won't deny that she could change, but likelihood is not there. Nor does it have to do with which sex, men or women. The fact is we are creatures of habit and proclivities and as the ole saw goes, "leopard don't change their spots", applies. For most folks it take an epiphany level event for change to occur. Something deep and personal has to occur for that to happen but I don't think a busted relationship is anywhere near that level.
Goldmansachs3030 2y ago
I wanted to have sex but he was just not up for it.
My fault? No. How can that be my fault.
"No, but you just said there losing weight and getting back into shape after all this time.You.."
Shut up.You are being a rude misogynistic piece of shit.How dare you....x1000.
loneliness-inc Mod 2y ago
Nothing is ever her fault.
Responsibility is a tool of the patriarchy!!!
deepak8411 2y ago
"Now she is ready"
sassboysamJr 2y ago
Okay what story am I missing causes all I get is a link and explanation of this story everyone is referring to
SeedsOfDoubt 2y ago
There is a link in the link that says "Post for reference"