I posted this in the PPD sub, but I feel it belongs here as well. There are things that women can do to increase their value to men. Ladies, here's a list:
-
Stay in shape. Even though your looks will fade with age, being lean and fit can counteract this to a degree. Hit the treadmill, do yoga, eat right.
-
Learn how to cook and do housework. So many women nowadays are proud of the fact that they can't cook. You know who isn't proud of you? The men you want. If you can cook and will do housework in a live-in situation where he pays more of the bills it will increase your value.
-
Keep your partner count low. Every new dick lowers your value and makes it more unlikely that you will ever pair-bond and be a good partner. So try not to have sex outside of LTRs. Guys for the most part have no problem with a woman who fucked one guy 100 times, but they will have a problem with the skank who fucked 100 guys one time.
-
Don't be an insufferable bitch. This should be self-explanatory but let me elaborate a bit. Don't constantly be bitching at him or being overly jealous or demanding. If you are impossible to please he will stop trying and move on. Also, don't shit on his hobbies or his friends. This should go without saying, but don't be a man-hating feminist who blames every bad thing on "The Patriarchy."
-
Don't have children that aren't his. Single mothers are not attractive to single men who aren't beta cucks. So don't have kids out of wedlock.
- Have some interests that aren't female-specific. Guys will appreciate being able to do things with their partner besides taking you out and having sex with you.
Six simple things, and I really don't think they are too much to ask. TRP tells men to better themselves if they want to succeed in the SMP. If a woman wants to land a good man, she also need to better herself.
[deleted] 5y ago
So many of these can't be achieved retroactively.
I eventually learned I couldn't help female friends with relationship advice the same way I could with men because there is nothing they are willing to change about themselves. Sometimes it's not possible to change them anyway.
Only really advice I could give is to invent a time machine. The next best thing is to strongly suggest they only go for men I've ten years older than them (since their SMV truely will be better in that range) but they often get really pissed when you say that. Oh well. I tried. Never again.
ChiTownBob 5y ago
I'll add to number 4: Do not be a narcissist. There are two people in the relationship, and you're not the only one.
Selfishness kills relationships dead.
houseoftolstoy Mod 5y ago
Really not that much to ask for. The first 5 were basically what would be assumed to be automatically fulfilled by women prior to the start of the sexual revolution. But now it is baffling how many women cannot fulfill these requests.
Staying in shape is not just good for the benefit of keeping your partner happy, but also for the sake of being in good health. Cooking is not really all that difficult, as there are so many resources available online to reference, so it is just laziness to not learn how. It will also mean greater control of your health, as you will be eating better than if you eat pre-prepared processed food or eat out all the time.
3 and 5 are simple to do if a woman has self control. It demonstrates good long term thinking, which will be a bonus for any man who can recognize that.
The interests part is certainly a good thing too,, though I would find it less crucial than the other factors. This is not too big of a challenge though, as there are a lot of interests that can be shared that are not either male or female specific.
[deleted] 5y ago
number 5 should be #0 - above #1.
Rick_OShay1 5y ago
To the assholes who insist that "you must test-drive the car before you buy", I say this, "when you test drive the car, you've used the car, and when a car goes from 'new' to 'used', it's value plummets.".
ChiTownBob 5y ago
I'd also ask what dealership allows people to test drive a car for six months to a year before they commit to buy?
​
None.
​
So why doesn't this standard apply to both men and women?
​
Oops.
Rick_OShay1 5y ago
Yep, just as you aren't allowed to know the -woman's- car's crash history.
P.S. How do you cross out a word here?
ChiTownBob 5y ago
Go to advanced edit mode, and use strikethrough.
comptejete 5y ago
It seems to me that masculine men prefer feminine women and vice versa, so the TL;DR of your advice is "If you want a masculine man, be more feminine."
Brickles09 5y ago
Seriously? Is that how much cucked men in 2018 are? Jesus Christ!
AllahHatesFags 5y ago
A partner count of one isn't bad at all and really fucking rare nowadays.
loneliness-inc Mod 5y ago
All six of these are predicated on the idea that women are human beings and men are human doings. Therefore, men desire a sexually and emotionally pure and uncomplicated being who's in optimal shape and pleasant to be around. No accomplishments necessary.
This also comes back to the RPW advice to always keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
Now I wonder how this went over in the cesspool called PPD.
TheYekke 5y ago
They’re becoming an advanced persistent threat here. Sore souls
loneliness-inc Mod 5y ago
Not to worry my dear sir, we've been banning people every day and we'll ban many more. We will whack as many moles as it takes
DogMuh 5y ago
Nah thanks
[deleted] 5y ago
[deleted]
[deleted] 5y ago
You need a better lawyer. I suggest the firm of Smith & Wesson Esq.
bearinfoxhole 5y ago
How dare you not celebrating and rejoicing the right of women to choose and respect their freedoms ^/s
empatheticapathetic 5y ago
There’s a justification (mainly hypergamy) to deny each one of these except the basic shit like cook and stay in shape.