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MrOpppo 6y ago
Made plans to hang out with a girl I've been banging at night and she agrees. Tell her to come over and she says that she's busy. How to respond? Soft next? Don't even respond and act like nothing happened?
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
Ignore her until she hits you up again Fuck her hard if she meets up with you
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I was talking with some chick and she kept bragging about all her sexual experience. I mostly ignored her, made a couple jokes about her promiscuity, etc. Is that the right move?
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
Should’ve just put the moves on her right there. Mostly girls only discuss sex with guys they want to fuck
LazyMagus 6y ago
What happened to /u/slmc1? Has he deleted his account? I can't find him on my friends list or by search.
Edit: he has ????
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ProcrastinatingPlz 6y ago
What is TRP? Is it like AskReddit? How is it different?
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DJ_Nade 6y ago
This 9 in my class I've been making small talk with and chatting with a bit. When getting her number she was super nervous? Good right? Didn't reply to text at all. Hmm
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
Don’t text her anymore unless she txts you. If she texts try setting up at date
DJ_Nade 6y ago
Yeah figured as much. Soft next
agent_of_chaos90 6y ago
What is the advantage of having traits be labeled masculine and feminine? I was debating with a friend (as carefully supporting men as possible) and his point was by shitting on more assertive women and less assertive men, we are enforcing stereotypes that aren't necessarily true at all.
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
People are allowed to label things however they see fucking fit but at the end of the day it does not matter. All that matters is that you are working towards becoming the best version of you and not taking anyone else’s bullshit
agent_of_chaos90 6y ago
Dude, your answer doesn't try to understand what I'm asking at all
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
Because it’s a dumb thing to get hung up on
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WorldNewPilla 6y ago
Seen a few posts and heard stories about girls fucking a guy for couple of times and immediately fall in love with him,just for that. What is the explanation for that?
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
If that alpha dick is good enough, yeah a woman will go crazy for it
Gotmilkyy 6y ago
This is going to be sort of vague but how many of you guys have started your own business? I'm 21 and I'm extremely lucky because I basically live rent free right now therefore ive been able to save and invest a good amount of money. However I'm getting tired of working away at someone else's dream 40 to 60 hours a week. I've read a few books in the past on the topic (Millionare Fastlane, Think and Grow Rich, Outwitting the Devil, etc) but just seeking some knowledge/experience from you guys.
Any tips from you older guys with more experience? Or even younger guys just starting out?
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
21 can be difficult to start a business with a lot of client contact. I started mine at 31 and people would ask me for "the boss" and express surprise when they found out it was such a young guy. What matters was, I was extremely competent in my field and had a good reputation with others in the industry, clients, and vendors. It also takes a lot of capital, and a lot of belt-tightening as you'll go through boom and bust cycles. You don't clock out and forget about your business like you can as someone else's employee. If you have the skills, and the moxie, you can make a go of it sooner or later. In the mean time, try to learn everything you can about every business you work for. There's a negative skillset that is part of the learning curve- things you should NEVER do if you want to succeed. Better to observe and learn these lessons in someone else's company than have them rear their ugly heads in yours.
My company is in its 18th year with 3 long term employees.
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captn_ryan 6y ago
What do you do? Or what do you want to do? I'm an Electrician, for me and all other tradesmen who begin their own business, a successful take off comes from previously net working. As an apprentice I tried my best to portray myself as a friendly, funny and hardworking guy in an effort to make myself known within the construction community. After two years of working as a qualified tradesmen (6 years including the apprenticeship). I began working for myself. Whilst hiring an apprentice of my own. Building solid relationships with clients and other tradesmen, I was able to take on enough work to expand my business to the point where I now employ 8 qualified tradesmen, and 3 apprentices. I hope you can take my experience, and use it as a model to thrive in which ever industry you work in.
Gotmilkyy 6y ago
I work in sales as a recruiter. Great experience to have i feel, learned a lot of good skills from this job. Wasn't planning on getting into a trade. But not really sure to be honest with you.
What made you choose a trade for your business? Just something you grew up around Or did you really just enjoy it?
theoracleofbromaha 6y ago
I have a bit of a pickle. I am about to be offered a high visible full time position at a small firm as a Project Manager / Lead for a development team. I also have another offer for a 12 month contract at a very reputable firm (I.E Facebook, Amazon, Netflix).
The smaller company pays less but is in my geographic location and requires no relocation. The other requires me to move to a very expensive area, this it evens out the compensation.
I’m about 4 years into my career, any insight here? I know being a contractor doesn’t guarantee employment however having a big company like FB on your resume is golden.
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I’m in a similar-ish situation. I’m a co-op student and I’m deciding between a job that is about an hour from my house, or one that is about 4.5 hours away (so I would live in that town for 4 months). The experience is pretty similar for both and the pay is similar as well. But the one that is further away is a way bigger and more impressive name in my field.
As a youngster, I will almost ALWAYS go for the big name, even if it means re-locating or getting paid less. If you’re only 4 years into your career, I think you should go with the bigger name and get a really impressive name on your resume, not to mention you could probably learn a lot there, and if you don’t like it, you’re only there for 12 months
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If you're in a place you'd like to stay for a long time, you may want to take that local job.
You sound young, though....a 12 month contract at a high end place is a very good call, esp. if you haven't lived many places. After the contract, if not offered a full time job, you can bounce to another place you haven't seen.
Enjoy that freedom, and I would say maintain it, if you can.
coco5440 6y ago
Take the big firm position if, and only if, its good experience. Good big firm experience opens lots of doors.
theoracleofbromaha 6y ago
From what I’m seeing, is that contractors at big name companies take on the shit that FTE don’t want to do, dirty work if you’d say. Do you know if that’s the case? Or is having the name worth it to open doors? As in will working as a VP of a small firm compare to being a mid level contractor at Facebook/Amazon/Google?
Gotmilkyy 6y ago
Which one lines up with your goals? And think long term. Im assuming you're aspirational becaue you're on TRP so whichever one is the most uncomfortable is probably the one you should do.
theoracleofbromaha 6y ago
I agree, I believe most on TRP are the type of guys that like to push themselves. Issue with the big company, is that it’s in Silicon Valley, that area is just stupid expensive to live in. It’s my main hindrance at the moment.
Gotmilkyy 6y ago
That's a lame excuse dude. There's always a way to find cheap housing, roommates, etc.
If that's the only real thing holding you back then you might as well go ahead and accept the job offer.
tornadoboy33 6y ago
What are your favorite places to pick up/meet new girls? (If your first answer is a bar or club, please include a second place as well, as I am under 21)
LavaPipe 6y ago
Raves or concerts are good for under 21
tornadoboy33 6y ago
Is it viable to get long term plates at these kind of things or more along the lines of one night stands?
abc69 6y ago
Keep in mind that most of the chicks you'll meet at raves will be there because it's the only place where they don't need an excuse to dress like whores, nowadays barely any of them go there for the music.
These chicks work M-F for months to save up a few hundred dollars, then travel to the large city where the rave takes place. So, treat the chicks you meet as one night stands...if later on the chick turns out to be local, and you can get a date where it's just the two of you, you may look into the possibility of having her as a plate.
LavaPipe 6y ago
I think abc put it pretty well. Yeah a lot of them are most likely just a one night thing but you can always ask to see if they’re from the area and get their number.
tornadoboy33 6y ago
If y'all would like to keep helping me, I have a couple more logistics questions haha.
I'm still 17 so I live with my parents, with these rave girls do I pretty much have to save up hotel money or are there other options for hooking up locations that you like?
LavaPipe 6y ago
Their place is always an option. I’m not sure how laid back your parents are but your home could work. A car is risky but can work
ImHerWonderland 6y ago
I know people are divided on this, but I meet girls on campus. If you're doing everything else girls will give you obvious signals and you can just go from there.
tornadoboy33 6y ago
What signs should I be looking for? Usually I walk with purpose and I make eye contact with most girls when I walk by, should I be taking that as a sign and what are the other obvious ones to look for?
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
Search for posts about IOIs or Indications of Interest. Study kinesics or body language, particularly rules of eye contact.
ImHerWonderland 6y ago
To be completely honest, I'm still early in my journey. Like mentorpheus said, look up IOI's and read about them. In my experience, if a girl is really interested in you, she'll make it known. My biggest advice if you pursue this is to pay attention to their actions, and not words. That and amused mastery has literally skyrocketed my game.
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Bit of a contradiction here. If you're walking with purpose, you won't have time to adjust to an IOI.....this is a major problem of mine, I'm out to get shit done and despise the sloths in my way.
You should see me at fucking Costco on the weekend.....people will get out of the way of my cart and filter in behind me like a wake.
OK for Costco.....not looking to pick up whales.....not great for campus.
tornadoboy33 6y ago
So how do you suggest I portray the same confidence while no longer walking with purpose.
In short you're telling me to stop and smell the flowers.....er....fish?
wowmansohacked 6y ago
Posted isn't the only thing however it is important. One of the biggest things that had improved my game is letting myself show how happy and excited I am to live life. So many guys forget that you are supposed to be happy when pursuing your own goals and taking ownership of your life. This is going to make you attractive to the best kinds of people. Happy people are confident people, and confident people are successful not only socially but financially.
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Posture, of course, is huge.
I hope someone else chips in here. I share your problem. I recently left the gym building on campus after doing some bouldering, with a nice pump in my forearms, nice and veiny. This cute nerdy girl essentially eye fucked me but I was moving with such velocity I couldn't react smoothly.
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Good point....but for the most part most TRP'rs recommend day game, which sort of required IOI's, right?
CallMeBR 6y ago
Why is it important not to share your past sexual history with girls you're looking to fuck? They seem to always want to know as I get asked this question a lot. I usually answer but keep out details. Can anyone explain please?
jackandjill22 6y ago
Don't trust a single word that comes out of a girls mouths.
Don't do it. They're waiting to use it against you. It's essentially a shittest feigned as concern.
majorketone 6y ago
I encourage you to read what Tomassi has to say about it in the Iron Rule of Tomassi #2. Basically she will see every girl before you as ammo for emotional blackmail to use against you in fights. Its better to keep it a secret as it helps to plant a seed of competition anxiety. Plus girls love mystery.
TheGovernorPR 6y ago
stuck at a weight, have been fasting, and eating less while working out, any recommendations to break the plateau I have hit?
anferny08 6y ago
Whole30
I had excellent results and lost very little strength overall. No fasting and no calorie limits.
red-arctic-tern 6y ago
Low carb diet. You don't need to fast.
captn_ryan 6y ago
You said it bro, keto does wonders
CallMeHaseo 6y ago
How do you guys go about finding a strong male friend circle?
darchetype 6y ago
I’d actually say my existing friend circle slowly started to evolve and strengthen as they saw me working hard to improve myself. The majority of them found inspiration from it; a few dumped their girlfriends and are now in monk mode, one friend actually found and embraced TRP on his own, and there’s maybe a couple who haven’t jumped on board yet, but you can tell the flame is there.
It’s been an amazing transition to witness. We’ve started playing more organized sports together, traveling together, finding new hobbies and interests that we share (whereas before, our only shared interest was getting drunk at the bars).
Granted, I have this luxury because we’ve all stuck around the same general area since high school, so I understand the difficulty if you’ve moved to a new city away from your pre-existing circle. Making new friends is hard as fuck past the college age, much less finding a whole new group to call your own. I’ve had some luck going to a few events hosted through Meetup, since you’ll usually find people who are super passionate about whatever it is you’re there for, but it definitely takes a lot of effort on your part to be outgoing and keep in contact with those guys.
TRP_mask 6y ago
Actually, one of my closest friends and member of the friend group I am in now encouraged me to check out TRP and all of us are lifting now. Sadly one of them is overseas for half a year (pretty much the leader) and one of them is often too far away, exept for weekends sometimes. I guess I've just been lucky.
[deleted] 6y ago
You should try and rape strong looking men. Those who can fight you off are worthy of friendship.
[deleted] 6y ago
Compartmentalizing. I have judo friends, climbing friends, nerd friends, with little overlap between them.
INTJokes 6y ago
You don't bring them together at parties? (ie invite people from each group to the same place)
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Actually yes, I have been known to do so. Cards Against Humanity is a real icebreaker.
[deleted] 6y ago
I have the same thing going on, different social circles but I don't introduce them to each other.
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48756394573902 6y ago
Be a strong male, live right and they slowly accumulate. All of mine are people I knew growing up or people Ive done business with or worked alongside for long enough that I got to see what they were made of and vice versa.
spnger4life 6y ago
What is the preferred method for breaking up with a plate? I could let her down easy, but since I've been seeing this one I don't want to explain anything. I'm not rude enough to ghost, but since we are physically apart it seems easier to call or something.
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billybobjoecarl 6y ago
Call her and say you want to make her squirt or you’re done with her. I guarantee she will either fly out to ride that dick or you’ll be set free
womans_algorithm 6y ago
Tell her you dont feel anything for her anymore. It's a logical reason she cant counter.
red-arctic-tern 6y ago
She would ghost you. Don't be a pussy.
JacksOnJaxOff 6y ago
So idk about all of you guys but physical affection is my thing; kissing, sex, massages, cuddling, you name it, anything involving skin contact. With plates and hook ups and even LTRs, I've always been insatiable and felt like I was never receiving enough affection. It's certainly not that I was getting denied or that they wouldn't be affectionate, it's just that I always wanted more than what was given in the end.
I used to blame it on the girls I was with, thinking they should be giving me more affection, etc. and I would obviously come off as needy. I don't do that anymore, cause that's weaksauce, but now I feel that I still have to subvert them or nudge them in some way to get them to provide me with what I want.
My problem now is, how do you maintain an idgaf attitude, and effectively get a girl that you're regularly seeing to give you physical affection without coming off as needy, and prefereably, having it be something that they do for you, as opposed to having to be sollisicted or rather, initiated by you?
I know it's long, but I feel it's something that I haven't been able to figure out for a long time.
TLDR: How do you get girls to be affectionate TO you without coming off as a needy bitch?
captn_ryan 6y ago
Scout girls that are into the same as you, if they aren't, fuck them off and continue the hunt, brother
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
I'm an oxytocin junkie and love cuddling. Some women just aren't into it and can't be made to like it. They'll even think less of a man for wanting to cuddle.
Keep churning through prospects, you'll find women who are more into cuddling and who will gladly do a good job massaging you etc in return.
Practice the intermittent reward schedule of reinforcement. Reward her for initiating or reciprocating what you want her to do, in ways she wants to be rewarded (which isn't necessarily how YOU would want.)
Ask her to massage you. A good caring partner will start doing it on her own, maybe even bring over some massage oil/creme for the purpose.
An important aspect, like kissing: Break it off slightly before she is satiated so she is left wanting more, rather than continuing on till you're probably both oversated for the moment.
Every woman is different as to how much and in what manner they express physical affection. Over time, you learn to nonverbally test for affection practices and preferences, and from there reinforce the ones you want more of.
This is the beauty of dating more than one woman at a time; it's a tall order for ONE person to be everything you want and need; the challenge goes both directions. Therefore, having plates can be like hedging your affection bets. For example, main GF is great companion, conversationalist, and cuddler, eager to please but very vanilla in bed. Plate 1 is great and exciting in bed and is cuddly and affectionate till she comes, but after sex is "done" till our next tryst; we would make a lousy full-time couple and both know it. Plate 2 is very low-maintenance, very DTF and will cuddle as much as I want like a good sport but not initiate it. Any one of the three exclusively would leave me feeling unfulfilled, but between the three of them, our affection cups runneth over.
Remember the principle of Acta, non verba. Lead with actions and nonverbal communication as much as possible. You can't lecture a woman into wanting to cuddle with you.
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JacksOnJaxOff 6y ago
I've definitely noticed that as I've gotten more cut. I climb a lot so my arms and forearms have got some good mass to them.
zarr0k_kt 6y ago
I broke up with my ltr gf (6years) 4 months ago and although I have pretty much overcame her sexually I find it hard to stop caring about her. I still have feelings for her and wanna know if she is doing fine (lives abroad alone for the past 2 years), but all trp advice is to ghost her. Should I do what basic trp says or should I act on my own?
We havent been in touch for over a month and the last time she "approached" me and had a chat i was really harsh and distant. This doesnt seem right to me as I loved the girl and I feel like my current behaviour is ruining everything she's thought of me and everything we had.
Ps. Writing this makes me feel really bluepill-ish but i feel like i should question some things here and not take everything for granted.
womans_algorithm 6y ago
It's normal to still have feelings for her. Rule of thumb is it will take you roughly half the time that you had the relationship, to forget about her. So in your case around 3 years.
What you can do about it, is rationally realize what is going on and why are you feeling those emotions. It will take time.
LavaPipe 6y ago
Are you ever going to fuck her or be with her again? If the answer is no, you need to move on.
zarr0k_kt 6y ago
Yes I think it is probable. But i feel like my current behaviour is lowering the chances of it happening.
LavaPipe 6y ago
That’s good that you’re able to introspect like that and I agree that if you’re trying to get in her pants again then you might have to change. Alpha doesn’t mean being mean. You can try implementing game on her again but I think if she isn’t receptive it’ll eventually boil down to you having to move on. Remember you don’t want to focus all of your attention on one girl when there’s millions out there for you to meet
zarr0k_kt 6y ago
Allright, this kinda feels right to me. The whole ghosting for ever strategy doesnt seem to work or maybe I am not using it right. However there is one more thing i didnt mention.The last 2 years we had an ldr. She moved abroad for a job.This is when she started changing. The point is i am moving abroad as well next year. What i want to ask is if it's worth chasing her now when she wont be able to see the changes in me or try it next year? I feel like if i ghost her for thst long every chance of me winning will be gone.
I know i have oneitis. I am searching for ways to get over her. Every girl i used to like before her or during our ltr doesnt attract me anymore. I get bored too fast. And i catch myself thinking about her very often.
LavaPipe 6y ago
I would say I agree with you on not ghosting forever. It’s one thing not to reach out and another to just block them on all facets. I think the fundamental thing here is that you’re being the chaser. She should want, desire, and be chasing you. You need more of a prize mentality my friend. I think it is okay to keep in touch with her but having oneitis and making her your only object of affection is unhealthy and damaging to you. Keep improving upon yourself and focus on your life. She is out there living her life and doing god knows what. You should be doing the same, focusing on your mission and the women in your vicinity. My ultimate advice to you is to not ghost her but don’t cling or try talking to her too much, focus on yourself and improving, game other women that are available to you now even if you don’t lust them as much as your oneitis, and maybe down the road you can meet up with this girl again when you have achieved more and you two aren’t so far apart. Best of luck to you in your travels
zarr0k_kt 6y ago
Thanks a lot friend! You really helped! Good day
the_real_lunch_box 6y ago
Working on my approaches when I have time outside of lifting and hobbies, work. How early in the interaction is best to show interest? Is a direct opener better than indirect? I've noticed the moment i show interest with a direct opener it feels i'm stepping in her frame a bit... Does direct intent work better when your are more muscular/attractive?
Greek-God-Brody 6y ago
Don't focus too much on this technical detail. Any opener can be direct or indirect, depending on the vibe you're projecting. What you want is always to be polarizing / convey masculine polarity. Masculinity is attraction. Masculinity is Direct.
AdamNJH 6y ago
Go for the direct opener, its polarising. However it has to come across as assertive and charming rather than serious and creepy. This lets them know you arnt fucking about and know what you want.
the_real_lunch_box 6y ago
yeah makes sense. i think i might be showing to much interest beyond this point stepping into creepyville
Gotmilkyy 6y ago
Tagging on to this... get some sales experience and you'll be able to understand more in depth what /u/AdamNJH is saying.
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billybobjoecarl 6y ago
I think you need to lay down the law a little harder. Don’t let her walk into your frame talking like that. She either needs a good hard fucking so she knows who’s in charge or to be punished when she acts out. Do not negotiate or argue with her petty ass mind games
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
This is a pretty insistent shit test. If I didn't leave for the evening shortly after that, I would have for sure after she said,
"Okay babe, see you [time you want to see her next.]" Kiss her goodnight and be on your way.
If she actually picks fights with other women, run don't walk away and find someone with better developed Feminine qualities.
ineedtoquitigotthis 6y ago
View of TRP on not making use of instagram or other social media platforms?
Tarmyniatur 6y ago
Social media is one of the lowest value activities you can do.
capnmykonos 6y ago
I completely disagree. Instagram is one of the easiest and most visible ways of demonstrating social value.
Tarmyniatur 6y ago
Taking a picture instead of enjoying an experience - while traveling - or focusing on a task - gym - is a low value activity that detracts from other higher value activities. Posting it, wasting time inspecting others, hunting for events, liking things, commenting, every facet of social media is devoid of any value. I personally struggle to understand arguments in favor of social media, even if you're 15 y/o.
capnmykonos 6y ago
Wouldn't you consider replying to my comment a low-value activity? And if said Instagram post ends up getting 15-20 comments and hundreds of girls liking it wouldn't you say that has some value?
Tarmyniatur 6y ago
Debating online? Lower value than some, higher than others.
So what's the result of that comment / like? That's what matters, not the comment / like itself. Most of the time, the result is nothing, you get nothing from that comment / like. How many times did you get something you wanted from a comment / like versus other methods?
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Honestly, why do you ask? Do you feel like it plays a relevant and healthy part in your life, or not?
Personally, i only use mine for messaging. Haven't posted anything in years and don't keep up with any of the new trends. I'm sure some RedPillers do though.
rikleeRed42 6y ago
im way happier without it. just one less thing to worry about
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I recently sanitized my Facebook.
Yay mountains! Yay family! Yay friends! Yay food! Yay judo!
You get the picture, nothing remotely controversial, random pics of gorgeous fall days.
And I like nothing other than things produced by friends or family. No companies, no news stories, at all.
I think it's weird to not have FB....weirder still to use it as a news platform.
mushroom_overlord 6y ago
Older post to save time re-answering: http://archive.is/nZefU
TL;DR if you can use it only as a tool for social circle and generating DHV feel free to utilize it. If you are "killing the beta" or would otherwise seek something unhealthy from it like validation, delete it until you can use it effectively.
CaptainBW 6y ago
Went full scale and deleted my Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat two weeks ago. Bit of a withdrawal period but now I feel great. Not to be dramatic but I feel very free lol. You don't realize how much time you actually spend on them until they're gone. I keep going back and forth on my nixing of Snapchat though...though it can be a useful tool, and I liked the face-to-face style communication...I think maybe that's just a way around legitimate hanging out in person? Idk. Feelin' great so far so I'm just gonna roll with it.
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Do you not just spend all the time you used to spend on those other apps, on reddit now? Cause that’s kind of what I do. Deleted my fb and Instagram and basically stopped using Snapchat (I don’t ever look at other people’s’ stories and I don’t maintain streaks). But now I spend more time on reddit.
CaptainBW 6y ago
Even Reddit has gotten boring to me, and since I deleted all my social media it’s been easier to be mindful about the time I’m spending on here. I’ll refresh through this sub, and asktrp, but once I get bored of that and I have free time I’ve been reading the books I’ve been meaning to read, or I work on music.
Archangel_1993 6y ago
1)How did you guys quit PMO?
2)How did you find TRP and has it made your life better?
red-arctic-tern 6y ago
What is PMO?
I was googling for advice after I dumped a girlfriend.
SextupleRed 6y ago
Porn, masturbation and orgasm. IMO, just do the first 2 in moderation while getting orgasm from plates.
womans_algorithm 6y ago
I broke Iron rule of Tomassi #2 ("NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover."). To be honest I lied to her (said I had more women than I actually did, of course.) What does this mean for me now? Can I tell her I lied and never tell her the actual number?
LavaPipe 6y ago
Don’t tell her you lied. If it bothers her that much you’ll have to next her. You should’ve never gotten trapped into her frame enough for her to ask that question and get an answer out of you in the first place
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Reading Evola - where to start and how to proceed?
mrust 6y ago
How and when do you transition from treating a girl in a way that she doesn’t feel like she is a whore to treating her like the slut she is? The obvious answer is when she is turned on enough and naked. Any nuances you can share?
Girls will pull all kinds of comfort and shit tests to avoid feeling cheap, and also paradoxically get turned on when you treat them like sluts. Is there a frame you can present that straddles that thin line or is it a matter of getting buy-in before progressing to riskier direct game?
Tarmyniatur 6y ago
Any time you are with your friends or her friends or in a social gathering not known for embracing the "treat a woman like a slut" attitude, treat her like a lady. When you're alone, in a secluded place at a club / festival / etc, be bolder.
drunkracing19 6y ago
Does anyone else spend hours and hours a day driving for work? How do you deal with keeping your mind from getting the best of you? I usually keep the radio turned up, usually helps but not always
nebder 6y ago
Turn that around. Get the best out of your mind while your body is on autopilot.
My round trip commute is about 75 minutes. I listen to audiobooks and podcasts. Spotify when my mind needs a rest.
Hulegu2 6y ago
Download books from Librivox.org. My favorites are The Count of Monte Cristo and The Three Musketeers.
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RPTA3498 6y ago
Download audible and knock out the sidebar!
nebder 6y ago
I’m 5-10, 175-180lbs. I’ve lost a lot of weight this year. I’m lifting since May with a few stretches of time off. Im at 305 squat, 290 DL and 145 bench for reps on SL3x5. All that lifting was done on a caloric deficit.
I could lose 10 more lbs to be shredded. However, We’re coming up on winter. My plan is to put that last bit of weight loss on hold and bulk till March 1. Cut from March to summer.
My question is lose the last bit of weight or bulk through winter. Also bulking has some psychological challenges for myself as I don’t want to get fat again. Any advice on that mind part? Logically I think a cleanish bulk should be mostly muscle as I’m still in my first lifting year, yet it’s still a hangup. Never will I allow myself to get fat again.
Cesare_MA 6y ago
You squat more than you DL?
nebder 6y ago
For now. StrongLifts has you squat every session and DL every other. Over two weeks I’ll add 30 to my squat and 15 to my dead. Eventually squat overtakes deads at that rate.
Cesare_MA 6y ago
You need to get off stronglifts, your numbers are too high and it's a novice program. Your bench especially is extremely weak (one of the weakest I've seen relative to your other lifts). You can't look swole if your chest is weak.
nebder 6y ago
Bench has been a challenge on getting form dialed in and my numbers reflect that. I hurt my shoulder relatively early on (flared elbows, fixed that) and deloaded when that was better. Recently found out my grip width was a bit too narrow and hitting the triceps more than the chest. I was failing the final sets with the narrow grip so I wasn’t progressing as quickly as squats and DL. Widened up my grip some and lo and behold I can hit all my sets again and feel it in my chest where it belongs. I haven’t failed work sets on squats or deads so those kept going up when bench was stalling a bit. I was not worried as much about the hard numbers themselves and more with the progression. If I’m progressing then I’ll get there eventually is my motto.
I know I’m getting near the end of SL as it’s an LP intro program. I’m still able to put more weight on every time on 2 of the 3 so I was holding off and lightly researching intermediate programs. I also had to consider that all this lifting was done on a caloric deficit so that’s going to impact things as well. Adds an extra variable to the mix.
Recommendations on intermediate programs?
Cesare_MA 6y ago
I'm on nsuns 531 6 day split I highly recommend. It has you progressing based on how many reps you get of you 1 rep max for that week.
Bench took me the longest to get as well. Everyone treats it like a simple, straightforward lift so you never really bother researching and perfecting technique. My bench is also lagging so I replaced my two bench days on nsuns with another program called deathbench and I've been loving that so far.
TheJedi_Lied 6y ago
Clean bulk, if you get fat lift harder and cut 50 to 150 calories. Keep modifying based on how you change. It's not cutting sewaob
do_it_or_leave 6y ago
I recommend you to slowly increase your calories, so nothing happens too fast.
Try to maintain the same weight for a month.
This is what a body builder friend of mine does.
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Jailhouseredpilled93 6y ago
Never will i allow my self to get fat again.
That is your first step. Stay away from sweets, focus on getting 200 grms of protein a day, and lift! Lift heavy. Squat (dont neglect the overhead squat or the front squat), deadlift, bench, shoulder presses, olympic lifts (clean and jerk, snatch). If you feel like you need some cardio because you cheated and ate a whole cheese cake then do sprints, 100 mtrs EMOM for ten 20 minutes. If you only cheat once a week that will take care of it.
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chauncy_popperstein 6y ago
Do supersets!! They can maximize your time spent in the gym. When done right they also keep your heart rate sightly elevated. This helps.
I have started hitting the row machine after I am done lifting. It has been a good way to keep the heart pumping and way to "cool down" after a workout.
Don't forget to stretch. Young guys often do, but it keeps you limber and you don't want to pull anything while lifting. Nothing feels worse than wanting to work out but being unable to because of an injury.
edit Oops replied to the wrong person. Meant this for "nebder"
Trooper_1868 6y ago
Supersets are amazing. Also I found doing random excercises sometimes together, such as pull ups with push ups or squats, that works a lot of different muscles will sometimes give you a nice burn than working two similar groups.
Check out Mike Vasquez's full body workout. I just do these randomly in my workout to give my heart that extra pump whenever I can.
Salted_Pretzel 6y ago
How do you become more confrontational? Is it better to confrot people or ignore them as they are a waste of time.
Golden_Ratio_ 6y ago
Don't waste your time on petty stuff, but if it is something that is important to you, stand up for yourself.
ImHerWonderland 6y ago
Can anyone link me to a few decent posts on dark triad methods in general when it comes to plates?
womans_algorithm 6y ago
illimitablemen dot com / power /
jackandjill22 6y ago
FAKERY seems to be the common-theme here.
Why do girls who've made a series of terrible decisions thirst for guys who seem like they have their shit together?
I've seen in the context of "using guys" girls who have good "girl game" using comfort tests as gauging the interest of the potential orbiter. Girls who're cunning for instance: will use teasing as a way to keep their multiple partners placated as they run them. Similar to "keeping male plates".
she makes herself accessible but cuts contact at key moments. When questioned massive lying & convenient explanations ensue....
They lie so effortlessly, they say anything to keep you comfortable & when you question it they get indignant & throw a "drama-storm" if you don't "Trust them". Essentially Gas-lighting.
"Can't turn a hoe into a housewife" How do you identify these traits in girls when you're meeting them meaning what are behavioral red-flags. & if they're not LTR material how do you make them comfortable enough to "have fun" without them feeling judged by you?
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jackandjill22 6y ago
Dude, I've seen some crazy shit. I was going to post some field reports about it. You can neglect it if want to(if you want to be taken advantage of). but my wing-man & I while on our "off-time" professionally; swooping chicks noticed some SAVAGE behaviors by women.
Bro, after I torched a plate she STOLE 1k WORTH OF CLOTHES from me. Now some friends & I are trying to get the merchandise back. I'm turning on the charm attempting to "Comfort test" my way back in.
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jackandjill22 6y ago
No, what happened was: we were super cool plate situation. She flashed me in the parking lot. Had me in her Mercedes benz. High Kino. I heard something about her fucking certain dudes through mutual contacts. & absolutely BURNED her. She got so upset she blocked me from everything & started curving me hard another mutual friend brought me up after the argument & she was distraught.
She unblocked me recently & said she wants to "talk to me about something & meet". So, my friends & I are trying to figure out how to "backpedal" so she doesn't think the argument we had means I hate her.
Scymnus 6y ago
You let a woman get you all riled up and emotional, that’s getting played. Take your benz somewhere else before it gets keyed.
jackandjill22 6y ago
_ "She doesn't know where you live right?" Friends collectively
What should I have done? Objective thinkings easier when it's not happening to you.
Scymnus 6y ago
Same thing you always do when a woman crosses your boundaries, withdraw attantion. If you’re not comfortable with her fucking other men you should always ghost completely as soon as it becomes an issue.
jackandjill22 6y ago
That's the problem: This happened in a timeframe of a week. We met for fucking on Sunday & by next she was with another dude. I figured it out on the prior Monday, through intuition/mutual contacts/information that I didn't have access to before.
That Monday all the way through Friday tried to setup meetings to get my stuff back. To avoid her having it during the weekend when I knew this was going to take place. Too many scheduling conflicts.
It's only been a week in a half. That's how fast this situation unfolded.
Scymnus 6y ago
Your mistake was not expecting her to fuck around. All girls do it these days, get comfortable with the thought and just ghost when you figure it out if it's an issue.
DSetupDTitleDMenu 6y ago
Two questions:
1) Best college clubs to meet chicks or just awesome people who love life in general? It'd be great to go to decent parties for once in my life. I'll be a STEM major next year tackling a difficult major if that answers any questions. And don't worry - I know my degree comes first.
2) Any weightlifters ever dealt with a major foot/leg fracture before? I fell from a tree in July and had to have a titanium rod inserted into my leg. I want to get back into weightlifting, but I'm going to have to swear off any kind of physical activity for the end of the year. At least I can tell chicks I'm a cyborg now. Help me, brahs.
WISE_TURD 6y ago
1) I'd probably steer clear of doing anything strictly for women. Going to bar events like trivia night, joining a kickball team, and concerts are a good way to go. Joining a fraternity's another way to meet a ton of people. I'd just make sure to be your own person if you choose that route (i.e. make some friends outside of the frat).
2) Swimming, especially kickboarding, for legs. You can still lift upper body i presume, so I wouldn't stop that. Biking and elliptical machine until you can lift are also options. Maybe rockclimbing depending on the severity.
Cheers.
jackandjill22 6y ago
Meet people who lack impulse control if you're a responsible long-term thinking type.
It'll be like jumping in icy water. & if unprepared you may get Fucked up. But it will solve your problem.
majorketone 6y ago
The best thing I've done to improve the quality of my life at college is joining a club sport. You meet awesome guys that you become friends with, have more motivation to exercise, and you mix with girls club sports teams and get to know a lot of them too. Highly recommend it.
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It reminds me of GLO's top controversial headline posts....the need to herd sluts, and the need to herd nerds. I'd suggest reading that post.
CallMeHaseo 6y ago
To any high status males on here how much differently do women treat you now vs back in the day? A brief description of your situation would be great.
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nebder 6y ago
Hobbies: try the “throw a bunch of shit at the wall and see what sticks” method. Just now, I googled “cool hobbies” and got plenty to look over. Try the ones that interest you and see what fits you.
Girls: Assume attraction and go for it. Ask her out, go for the kiss or whatever. Get rejected some and you’ll see that you don’t catch fire and die. Not saying it doesn’t suck because you’ll have your ego involved in there. A man goes for what he wants. He doesn’t always get it yet he makes an effort for it. Your role is to escalate towards sex. Her role is to say no if she doesn’t want it. It’s not necessarily about getting the bang, it’s about being the man who takes charge and goes for what he’s after.
All of what I said means you have to DO something. Action and effort define men.
You should read the sidebar. It’s on the right on desktop. On the reddit app for iPhone, go to the main sub, click the three dots in the upper right. Pick community info from the menu. Definitely easier to navigate on a desktop vs a phone.
Your life is ahead of you. Take it in your hands and make it what you want it to be. That’s the power of being a man.
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
There is a Sidebar made simple post in AskTRP that is like a guided tour of the sidebar. This is written especially for people so new that all the Red Pill info seems like a giant buzzing, blooming confusion.
Start with articles that sound most relevant to you and your life situation, then continue working your way through all of the theory reading. There is somewhat of a learning curve, and it helps to consult the guide to acronyms and abbreviations frequently at first.
Churff 6y ago
If you’re boring, just be funny. Find a funny friend, hang with them a lot and try to pick up on their habits and their humor, and try to incorporate into your own and mix your own style into it. It’s mostly your outlook, you’ve got to be able to see the humor in everything, and be able to laugh at anything. I didn’t used to be funny at all, and I saw funny people and I kept saying to myself “I want to be funny just like them”. After about 3 years, almost all my friends tell me I’m the funniest person they know, and it’s very easy to make strangers laugh and girls laugh. It’s also a great way to break the ice with strangers, because we all love funny people. Don’t be afraid to poke fun of, and tease especially girls.
P.S smile a lot, makes you more approachable and likeable by females and males alike
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Remember, women are lagging indicators. Women are at the finish line, waiting to fuck the winners.
Cycle through stuff until you find what you like. I live near great rock climbing and a judo dojo, so that's what I do. I've tried many things.
You're probably too young for it, but Kaufman's translation of the Genealogy of Morals and Beyond Good & Evil are awesome. It will take a decade to really get them though.
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Sol_Ido 6y ago
May I suggest that while still working on outside attributes, change your inner discours with yourself ?
"Man that was shit but I did it", "I can rely on myself whatever the situation", "Even with shit clothes I'm still shining", etc
Got the idea ?
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
Read up on Imposter Syndrome and see if it gives any insight.
It sounds like you're doing the right things, but going through all the motions while enjoying not enough good outcomes. Try setting up some shorter term goals that you can decisively accomplish and rack up some mental experience of competence in the world.
Sometimes big and long-term goals become a long slog with the reward always beyond your grasp. Shorter term gains and wins can help you keep the long game perspective you need to follow through on the long term goals.
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In my opinion, you can be a Good Guy who's a bit of a douche without being a Nice Guy feminist faggot. I can't pull off Dark Triad but I can say no.
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True enough. That said, I've been surprised about the degree to which not being a doormat, I mean being a douche, is attractive.
I stick around here because TRP jibes with the realities I see around me quite well.
Drezzzire 6y ago
Dude I completely understand where you're coming from-I think
My sinking feeling in my stomach is more from the constant reminder of the shitty gynocentric country I live in (America).
I'm in a long term relationship currently, but my interactions with females now is always guarded and aware. Realizing the way women are nowadays and how that impacts men is sobering. I honestly don't even think I would get into another relationship with a woman if this relationship goes south. I would suck it up and find a fucking tranny bitch or something Women's mentality nowadays is so fucking toxic, I feel suffocated just being around stupid bitches Idk, it's probably not what you were trying to convey But I have a feeling in my stomach at times too Maybe for different reasons
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I don't know, man....it can be fun. I was just talking to my apartment manager, just taking care of a couple things, and she kept me on the hook, talking....she's married, very cute.....I was regaling her about my cooking skills and fitness, invading her space some....it was all in good fun.
I'd have hit on her elsewhere, but never shit where you eat.
You seem younger, and might want a family, which I have nothing to say about. I'm in my mid 40's, never had kids, no wife, life on easy mode (outside of my work and hobbies, all of which are, of course, hard). Women are playful diversions (and always remember, a lagging indicator....they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners).
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mushroom_overlord 6y ago
Photography is a terrible job market, keep it to your hobby unless you find a rare opportunity.
I don't know about filmmaking, look into your options but the entertainment industry is also really tough.
I don't know beyond that, but find something marketable, web design is one of those things as is general programming but if you hate coding ts not worth it. Maybe try to get into generic office work or sales to get you off your feet beyond what a part-time retail job would do. And lots of places like to see you have a college degree so consider finishing it if its close enough.
TheJedi_Lied 6y ago
I'm a freelance carpenter/contractor. Never went to school. Shit just happened for me. Always network and improve your skills. But for me life isn't about work right now, there's other things I enjoy so I live cheaply and work less. I know a guy that makes bank editing film, but he's apparently good.
jackandjill22 6y ago
Piece of unsolicited advice:
Stick to Web design. The skills are way more valuable.
Your photography is a hobby millions of people do(including people with more money for equipment).
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This. There are two kinds of workers: Those who's jobs are a hobby, or those who work to support their hobbies.
If your hobby isn't profitable, then you need to get a profitable job to support it. And let's face it, "Photography and Filmmaking" is about on the level as a degree in Gender Studies when it comes to making money. You'll spend your life living paycheck-to-paycheck, at best, if you try to make a living from that.
If you think there is way too much coding and too little design, that probably means you're still quite early in your education. All educations start off with years of basic, boring shit. But you need to know it. They don't put it there to waste your time.
jackandjill22 6y ago
It's basically like "creative writing" in the hopes of becoming a famous author or "video game design" in hopes of create the next MARIO. That said when it comes to hobbies like clothes/Photography/traveling etc. these are things who have spare cash/older who didn't get to live out these dreams in their youth invest their time/money into to enjoy it later on when they have it.
It's like a humanities degree: unless you have money to burn with no expectation of getting ROI it's the worst career track to move in the direction of.
The ones who make it like celebrity makeup artists or whatever are lucky; & few & far inbetween.
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Personally, i intentionally choose never to bring these people up, because they are so fucking rare yet every idiot thinks that they are special and will be that one, despite doing absolutely nothing to get there.
bunny1947 6y ago
What you love about TRP if I ask about one?
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It's a space for men that is surprisingly open to homosexual men and non-white men. Not perfectly so, and we don't have a lot to say about homosexual strategies, but I've yet to see a man berated for being gay or non-white.....I have seen them soundly berated for using being non-white as an excuse, though.
do_it_or_leave 6y ago
Being non judgmental.
You can use what is taught here for wherever you want.
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I like that the people who are further along their “RP journey” are helpful and non-judgmental when it comes to giving advice to newcomers.
A guy with 10 plates at a time has no issue guiding a newbie through their 1st cold approach
red-arctic-tern 6y ago
The change. I've known TRP for 18 months and I have improved myself a lot. I'm very excited about my potential. What will 10 years bring...
womans_algorithm 6y ago
The fathers of trp - Rollo, GLO, omLaLa and other endorsed contributors. They are my fathers who tell me how the world is and what to do to be happy. They have no self interest in it, trully here to help.
newName543456 6y ago
Not being dogmatic and observing world how it is, not how you wish it was.
Work_In_Progress92 6y ago
The community. You have some amazing men here that share their wisdom and of course you have morons and idiots but that is every community. We are all men who have realized we needed to change our ways and lifestyle for the better.
Also what I also like about TRP is that its not the easy way out or easy path. Its a challenging path, it will challenge you physically, mentally and emotionally. Hard times is what makes a man.
Drezzzire 6y ago
I have to say this, and only because I'm appreciative that they exist, there are TRP women who are goddesses in my book. Let's never forget to include them when discussing our community. They are our last hope for women being self aware.
Scymnus 6y ago
What the fuck are you on about. There are a miniscule amount of women who have contributed to trp compared to men. You can appreciate their individual works but this is just another form of pedestalizing.
do_it_or_leave 6y ago
Are you guys concerned with being labelled as players?
I have made moves on girls who climb with me, sometimes successfully, sometimes not. These girls know each other and I plan to make moves on another.
I know I don't owe them anything, I just expect you guys to have experiences to share so I can make the best of the situation.
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If you're labeled as a player, you're doing something right.
Golden_Ratio_ 6y ago
Not concerning at all. Better for your game.
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
The better you are at reading people, and rapidly adjusting your game dynamically to the conditions as they unfold, the less likely your pickup efforts will be interpreted as creepy and become the subject of critical discussion among the climber women group.
The guy who is too pushy and not responsive to feedback, and keeps pushing and pushing until he gets a HARD no earns a bad reputation, especially if he sequentially tries the same uncalibrated moves on every woman in the group.
If a woman clearly rebuffs your advances, and you are responsive and gracious during the process, she's much less likely to speak negatively about you and may even help steer an available and interested person in her group your way.
I'm not talking about acting like a passive syncophant to women, I mean being socially aware in your perceptions and behaviors can bring better outcomes than a bold IDGAF attitude, particularly in places where your reputation matters. You can afford to be bolder and take greater social risks in a chance, one-off encounter. In a group you'll be involved with long-term, this can poison the social well, before you've even tried with all of the individuals within it.
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do_it_or_leave 6y ago
I guess I am fine on this. None of the girls are ignoring invites to climb.
I am more worried about the one I didn't(and won't) approach.
I will keep this in mind, thanks.
WarBoruma 6y ago
Old ex of mine used to say "you are such a dad".
Can someone translate this? Thanks.
billybobjoecarl 6y ago
Who cares what your EX thinks! Dude move on and quit talking to her dumbass. Find some new ladies that’d rather ride dick and treat you rather than your shitty oneitis who calls you a fucking dad. God damn man
MentORPHEUS Endorsed Contributor 6y ago
You were responsible for your age and she was relatively immature for hers.
Young women in their teens and early 20s have this backwards tendency to appreciate the unpredictability of bad boys and find this exciting, whereas good partner potential men are actively disdained. If you can't be Chad to them, keep looking for a woman who appreciates what you offer, one who had a good father in her life and actually appreciates and seeks men like you and I. It's hard in your 20s, the pool of women like this is very small and they tend to be in LTRs much of the time.
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PCS3000 6y ago
My ex who I havent talked to in 6 months called me. I went over there. We have a turbulent past and she's hit me, broken my phones, lied to me, etc. our last get together about a week ago - we drank vodka, did blow all night, and boned. She told me she still loved me and missed me. I wake up in the morning and she tells me she feels guilty and is talking to someone else. I told a mutual friend about it and she texted me back days later "You're a loser piece of shit, I hope you go kill yourself". I was out of her spell for 6 months but now I feel like I'm right back in it.
Should I try to patch it up for the sex and good times or just call it quits? I won't lie. I do have feelings for her still.
FirstNamesMusic 6y ago
Leave her, those feelings are just your body telling you to reproduce.
Imagine your life being that way until you die. Now is the time to say no and step away
daymi 6y ago
I was in the same situation (with an insecure dependent woman) and I kept going back after it ended. It was worse every time. Eventually we had... errr... legally actionable things on both our sides and I stopped going and I don't want to go there ever again. It could have easily ended with serious injuries.
Don't be like me. Stop rooting through the garbage now.
Also, if you like the turbulence so much that you find normal women boring (I did), see a shrink (I did). For real.
That's one good thing of going back there - I definitely don't have feelings for my ex-gf above any more.
On the other hand, you could just go out and do stuff, be busy. Much less painful.
LavaPipe 6y ago
Get out of that shit now. She sees you as a beta to some extent and probably has something wrong with her if she acts like that. Any woman who tells you to “kill yourself” should be ghosted. Go fuck other women because you need to get over the oneitis you have for this scumbag. The only thing you should ever send her in the future is you pumping some other bitch on Snapchat.
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CallMeHaseo 6y ago
How do I get laid while getting my shit together at a community college?
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JacksOnJaxOff 6y ago
Stand up straight and walk like a man to and from your classes. Make eye contact. If you get IoIs from girls, go say hi. Be social. And keep getting your shit together, that's the most important part.
Gotmilkyy 6y ago
I would answer you but that's not what you need. Read the sidebar
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