I walk into a Barnes & Noble to work on a sales proposal. At this location there is an organized area with shared desks for community reading. I see an open seat with a young woman around my age. I ask if anyone is sitting there, she said no. So I grab a few books and sit down. I immediately open my macbook and get to my work, as she's sitting right across from me.
After 5 minutes of not paying her any attention, she starts making these moaning/whimpering sounds WTF? After a few minutes of doing this I thought she might be mentally challenged. But I realized she just wanted me to at least look at her, or give her some kind of attention. I had no time to drop game so I continued to work. She was clearly bothered by this, her body language conveyed discomfort. She finally looked at me and asked "Are you busy doing work?", I said "Yes" with a slightly sarcastic tone. She said "Oh that's good". I got back to work and she left 5 minutes later.
It just occurred to me that these women actually believe in the imaginary pedestal their propped on. Just because you have a pussy I'm suppose to stop what I'm doing and acknowledge your existence?
TLDR - Random girl wanted my attention, my frame was too strong and she left.
Edit - To all the butt hurt users in the comments saying that I’m bragging or that this is insignificant. This is nothing to brag about, I didn’t smash.
It just surprised me that women EXPECT you to give them attention just because they exist.
Aazaad 6y ago
I've had similar reactions on the subway when some woman is sitting across from me, all dressed up and I don't even bother to look up from my tablet. Especially when it is not crowded. Not often but occasionally. On one particular occasion, a woman started humming and singing. When I looked up and our eyes met she popped a smile. I gave her a bored expression and went back to looking down at my tablet. She left at the next stop.
Like, am I supposed to chat up or adore you? Bitch I am busy.
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So to sum up your post: You are bragging about how a girl sitting next to you in the library obviously wanted you to talk to her. You ignored her and then she started moaning. You continued to ignore her and then she started to talking to you. You brushed her off sarcastically and she left because your "frame" was so awesome.
Can you please explain to me how you are claiming some sort of victory from this encounter? I think maybe you are confused. Your job is to try to insert your penis into the vagina, not to intentionally drive willing vagina away.
Dallasmoon 6y ago
Some women have daddy issues that the might need to address and egos that have been deflated it's a whole slew of reasons it's the same for men I suppose they just shouldn't be emasculated because of a natural instinct to not be dismissed or ignored all people deserve to be noticed but it's not the duty of good looking people to do it for everyone
max_peenor 6y ago
I look forward to reading her "Almost Raped" version story on Instagram.
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bkk123 6y ago
Unless you're in a megacity like Tokyo where most people have absolutely tiny apartments where they don't like to spend time, it's a place where socially challenged people who crave socializing go. She probably thought you tried to chat her up in the indirect way that most beta guys are most comfortable with, who expect her to initiate further convo because they're too shy to take the lead. Should be a standard experience for lots of women.
You sound like a weirdo as well tbh. If you want to be left alone stay at home.
plainposter 6y ago
yeah this happens all the time.. try it and laugh.. don't even acknowledge their presence especially when they try super hard.. it's hilarious
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
She was attracted and wanted you to bag her.
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Yes that is the only thing I got from this story. Has everyone here gone insane? Don't we like when women give us a signal that they are interested?
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tropzumuch 6y ago
Reading too deep is freshies big mistake. I make that mistake a lot
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Oh for fucks sake you losers are fucking full of shit. 90 percent of this shit is in your heads.
askmrcia 6y ago
Seriously. She may have been moaning because was holding a fart/shit in. And she got up and left quickly because she had to let it out.
I mean that whole scenario that OP described could be taken anywhere. She probably didn't even notice he was there. Or she did and got mad because now she could not fart in peace because some guy sat next to her when he could have sat somewhere else.
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BluepillProfessor 6y ago
Bingo! This is why Dread works so well. The fear of losing time and attention is almost always greater than their aversion to having sex with their husband. Most of that is all about power anyway and to a woman power (pussy) is only for getting attention. Take away the attention and you take away the pussy power. They go crazy. It is almost like a look of panic or perhaps the look of a beaten puppy when you ignore a girl trying to get your attention.
It is glorious.
Bad_nuggets69 6y ago
My take: woman goes to place to get picked up. Sees man approach and confidently sit in front of her. Waits for him to make move. Tries to create conversation to allow man to make move. Move never comes. Woman gets up and moves to new place to get picked up as man preventing pick up.
PantsonFire1234 6y ago
This, OP sperged out allot. But in all seriousness in allot of situations i'd do the same. Contrary to women's popular belief, men have more shit to do than only date and fuck around like they do.
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This. What makes it difficult is exactly what happened in this situation: the woman goes there to live her special romantic movie, the man goes there to fucking work without being annoyed.
And you know what, if we did the same thing they would smell the reason we're in the cafe/pub/library from MILES and rightfully avoid us.
She did what she was supposed to do, probably will do it again and finally find a man she clicks with. A man who went there for a completely legitimate reason. That's how it works.
buddhadarko 6y ago
I can't say I'm surprised. Women will actually freak the fuck out if a guy doesn't notice them (because a lot of them learn around the time they start developing that their worth is tied to how much attention they get) and they will do the same thing if a guy who's trying to hard DOES notice them and says something. Really, it's all about the attention itself and the fact that, as OP said, they each put their pussies on a pedestal and wait for the admirers to line up and oooh and aahh at them.
This was great OP.
TimmyTurnersNuts 6y ago
Happens to me by this one particular woman at work. Usually lots of sighing and breathing hard or 'ughhhs". Continue to ignore unless you're genuinely interested
hodltaco 6y ago
Fucking shocking. I had no idea Barnes & Noble was still a business.
ex_addict_bro 6y ago
TRP subreddit. Come in for the pussy, but please stay for the added value.
Luckyluke23 6y ago
yeah, I thought the OP was bragging about going into a Barnes & Noble too
rigbed 6y ago
This is their last marketable feature over Amazon.
TheWardylan 6y ago
I worked for them a few years back. It was interesting to say the least.
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Thotwrecker 6y ago
I know right, who the fuck goes to a B&N when they need to do work SO bad that they can't spit a little game at a chick who's literally moaning for attention.
Project_Thor 6y ago
This is commonplace for us, plebian.
Thotrecked.
sqerl 6y ago
If he gives attention, it's toxic masculinity. If he doesn't, it's toxic masculinity. Treats her like a human being/customer, yep, it's toxic.
Obviously the only proper response was for him to get on bended knee and offer the sweet princess whatever fancied her interest.....
And had he gotten into the sweet princess' pants, he better have fucked her real good otherwise regret would have set in and she'd have to cry about #metoo all over Facebook.
K_J_K 6y ago
Honestly, it's like dealing with a small dog. It sits there whining quietly for attention, and it just makes you want to punt it like a football.
Nobody likes a whiney little animal.
Aktiv8r 6y ago
Beyond that, if you give that dog attention while it is still whining, you are reinforcing that whining gets it your attention. Women are the same way. This is basic shit and I'm thoroughly disappointed in the thirsty ass people this forum is infested with right now who are truly making pussy their priority in life.
sternje 6y ago
I like this sub. I really do. But this sounds like bragplaining. "Bitches be all up on deez, and I'm like chill out, you're on they pay-no-mind list tonight."
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sigma272 6y ago
I have noticed it's especially true in coffee shops. My theory is that many young women have watched too many romance movies and have a fantasy of meeting their true love in a coffee shop or book store. I occasionally work in starbucks to get away from the home office for a bit, and the IOI's are off the charts compared to anywhere else. Since I'm there to do work, I ignore them 90% of the time, which leads to almost exactly the reaction you describe. They walk off in a huff after being ignored.
Throwawaysteve123456 6y ago
"Me too". I pray you guys got this reference.
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fromthecrypt8 6y ago
I need to test this myself
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rigbed 6y ago
I’m literally incapable of ignoring women. I make eye contact with almost everyone I pass. I need advice. To asktrp I go.
tropzumuch 6y ago
You are the perfect trp-bro. You even advertise the proper subreddit for questions
CarnivOre93 6y ago
You guys remember those wwjd bracelets back in the 90s? I'm selling some that wwGLOd- what would gay lube do. I think it's important that everytime we feel we are at a fork in the road for a very important decision that we stop and say- what would the creator do?
Hmu for pricing
-carni
GeorgeKarlin 6y ago
Did you find her attractive ? Why you didn't speak to her ?
To me it looks like she was attracted to you and was giving you signals to talk to her.
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As as all women are attention seeking and borderline histrionic - many just simply are histrionic. The most powerful thing we can give a woman is our attention.
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MikeN_ike 6y ago
You should still hit the gym bro
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ttam07 6y ago
Just now realized after reading this, why my ex-wife acted the way she did when she came for a visit and I had no emotional attachment to her. She started making cuts at my physical looks and sat in a pissed off posture the entire rest of the time... I had no idea what RP was at the time, but I assume this was me backhandedly and unknowingly holding frame? Either way it worked lol
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ttam07 6y ago
I'm actually currently having this not with multiple, but just one and it's the only female here, but she kinos everyday from ass slapping to hand grazing mixed with sexual looks, the more I ignore the more she comes on. Still not sure whether I should pursue or not so I just keep not paying any mind to her lol
What experience tells you not to pursue coworkers now?
mishasam89 6y ago
" after having talked about my intelligence,"
Can you clarify who talked about intelligence?
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InstantKarma706 6y ago
You were more interested in the dude than the topless chick..?..????????
PhishPhan700 6y ago
Well yeah. Gaining a new bro is usually better in the long run than some random tits. Prepping for this comment to get downvoted by the high school aged kids on this sub.
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S-Blaze 6y ago
Think she was just attracted to you m8.
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redvelvet_oreo 6y ago
I feel like you could have made this work in your favor but as you said you had no time to drop game...I guess.
If you were really busy I can understand but dont get into a habit of not gaming because your TO busy and TO red pill. That shit will get you no where fast.
You should be gaming everyone if you have the time and capacity to do it. Its also dosent take a whole lot of time to quickly chat up someone and tell them you are busy. You may have been able to number close her in those 5 minutes she was attention seeking....the same time you were mentally masturbating about how annoying this girl is because of her typical behavior.
She may be a self entitled whore that believes she should be put on a pedestal but if you wound up fucking her that night and cumming on her face then who really gives a fuck about her attitude?
I think its important to remember and emphasize that after you swallow the pill and have a good understanding of female nature and behavioral traits that you need to get off your high horse and stop judging these bitches based on their natural instincts. Just accept it and be a man and stop bitching about it on here. More importantly stop ingraining in your head how shitty women can be because you will sit there and play mental fuck games with your self how women suck and always be to busy to game anyone.
/r over. Just kind of sick of these shit posts lately.
I apologize if you're new here.
BallsMahonie 6y ago
Exactly.
I'd never blame a lion for attacking me if I wandered into its den. That's just the way it is. Understand women for how the work, but don't hate them for it. I'm not saying you have to like it, but don't be angry towards them. Learn to work with it.
Good rant. It was refreshing to read. Thanks man.
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WhorehouseVet 6y ago
Reminds me of this happened to me a few weeks back. I was walking to the gym in the morning rush hour, so lots of people on their way to work walking at different pace.
I usually take a leisurely stroll so I was a bit slow, and others passed me often. Then this lady walked passed me, cut in front of me, and started walking at my pace. I was thinking "WTF, why did you pass me and now walk at my pace?" Then I noticed, she was wearing short skirts and wanted attention from people. We walked for 10 min or so at the same pace.
Women.
Comicus 6y ago
When I was in my early 20s and going to a community college, I hung out with a clique of nerds and outcasts that contained mostly guys and a few almost-attractive women who had boyfriends, and this one bitch who was barely a 4 on a good day - body like a 12 year old, weird face, annoying voice, terrible personality and really dumb. She'd throw temper tantrums all the time and loved making drama over everything, plus she was a furry. But half of the necbkearded virgin guys in our group still liked her and kept inviting her to our parties, because simply being a non-obese girl who likes videogames and anime made her a 10 by their standards, and also she had a well-earned reputation for being a total slut, and they all hoped it would be their turn next. She didn't respect any of them and treated them like shit, but still hung around because they were the only people who would give her attention and make her feel like she has any value.
Naturally, I didn't pay her much attention, but I'd still be polite if she approached me. With me being one of the few single guys in the group that wasn't a fat virgin neckbeard, it frustrated her tremendously to not get any affirmation from me, with me still not doing anything to her that would give her something to complain about, so she kept trying to get my attention, first by flirting with me, then by posting nasty comments on my Facebook newsfeed to pretend to be sassy in her own retarded way. This only led to me blocking her on Facebook and ignoring her at parties. She then went around telling my friends about how I was "a super asshole" who treated her like shit for no reason, and one of her beta orbiters even started harassing me and told me to stop "viciously attacking" her (although he recanted after realizing that months of driving her around, giving her money and harassing other guys on her behalf wouldn't lead to her taking his virginity). Keep in mind that even then, I'd never had a full conversation with her or said anything rude to her.
Eventually everyone got sick of her but didn't tell her. When she came back from a vacation and noticed that we were all having fun talking to each other but not paying attention to her, she freaked out, dropped out of school and moved to another county because "people at this school were so mean to me and kept making so much drama." Just because we stopped paying attention to her for a few minutes.
scepticferret 6y ago
TLDR- you went into a coffee shop and used your laptop. Groundbreaking stuff op.
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askmrcia 6y ago
Not just coffee shop, but a Barnes and Nobel. HA
tropzumuch 6y ago
Never heard of this one. I thought this only goes for vegans tho
IdolStud 6y ago
Stop trying to reduce theredpill to bashing women for wanting attention from you. Take it as a compliment, and ditch your negative mindset. What you're saying is bullshit - not some generalised truth. Friendly advice, get a fucking grip.
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yomo86 6y ago
They don't just believe it, it is a fact encouraged and cemented by betas and society. Just live with it. Women - as a pussy carrier - are inherently worth more than men. Ironically, most of their power including status stems from the fact that they have a pussy. As you did here, their whole world view is shaken when a woman much more so a man is simply not enthralled by this wet wedge. It is like saying to a carpenter with several years of experience under his belt that his skills and knowledge is useless for you and your carpenting needs.
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vengefully_yours 6y ago
maybe frame, maybe she assumed you're unable to see a girl throwing signals like most guys, our she realized you're not into her at all and didn't want others thinking you're with her.
You noticed something but went to spergville with it. Yes they believe they deserve attention, but they also put themselves in a position for you to approach them. When they do that, they're into you. Now you don't have to fuck every stupid treat that puts herself into your area of vision, but you can utilize that tendency they have to fuck them.
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If he had given her attention from the start do you think she would have been interested in him? I know there are women who chase men after being rejected but if they were approached from the starting would have rejected the men. Or are these type of women insecure or find that a man that doesn't chase is attractive?
GoingTheHardWay 6y ago
Most women are hugely insecure.
Women only find men attractive when they don't chase if they display some kind of SMV or modicum of interest in them. Without that you're just some random guy like all the others who are too scared to say hi like a normal, well adjusted person.
tropzumuch 6y ago
My theory is that it’s an attention move. Guy ignores her-she acts like she’s interested to get validation-the guy reacts-she feels good and turns down the guy-the guy think WHAT THE CUNT, cunt
I say that’s possible
draculux 6y ago
The magic occurs when you open them without showing interest
BluepillProfessor 6y ago
How does that even work? You approach a girl without showing interest? Sounds like the male version of fried ice.
draculux 6y ago
You approach indirectly.
Etc.
Koschei5000 6y ago
Walking through the city there are a lot of ditzes tottering along on high heels in corporate gear with cleavage... I notice they look st every guy passing to see if they notice their cleavage so on approach I look in the opposite direction... ????????
dingman58 6y ago
Nice man, I made you [an award]( http://www.naemsp.org/PublishingImages/Graphics-Buttons/awards.jpg) for your skills
drypumpkin20 6y ago
I won't skip shoulders/arms with my bro for a chick, but video games? Yeah, i would smash puss over video games any day.
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futmut 6y ago
I can smell your verginity from 100miles away dude...Like wtf is this crap?!
Why do you even care about useless episodes like this?
Usziel 6y ago
Plot twist: she was doing web cam work.
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irl_baldcel_beardlet 6y ago
she was pissed cause there were open seats, probably whole tables, and you sat directly across from her
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he's just reiterating females' desperate insatiable need for attention and validation.
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scepticferret 6y ago
So what happens when you don't give these women attention is that you get some work done? This idea will help guys get pussy? I'm with the downvoted here. Too many are ready to follow the band wagon in this forum, that guy just lost the pussy for corporate America. Downvote away beta fags.
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Haha I know, this thread is ridiculous. A guy is on here bragging about how he brushed off a girl who wanted to talk to him and then she calmly got up and walked away. God what a psycho bitch, right? You don't get any sort of moral victory from rejecting a woman's advances, although I guess he can wack off in the shower tonight while he imagines getting a handy under the table at the library.
Connorconzo 6y ago
Stop being so obsessed with pussy
scepticferret 6y ago
Pussy is life. Literally. Stop cocksucking ops on this forum for upvotes.
scepticferret 6y ago
Pussy is life. Literally. Stop cocksucking ops on this forum for upvotes.
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UrsusG 6y ago
What if she wanted your dick and you blew an opportunity?
PilledWhiteHat 6y ago
IDK why this is getting down voted. I think op is just bragging about how he gave her no attention. She obviously had a great affect on him since he felt the need to stroke his own dick with this post.
IkWhatUDidLastSummer 6y ago
THEN FKING WHAT? This is the kind of mentality that fuels womens entitlement.
Aktiv8r 6y ago
Who cares? He had shit to do, bitches can wait. Can't believe this is coming from an endorsed.
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originaltransvaginal 6y ago
They're the "cool" guys around here. And I don't mean that negatively. They have a record of consistently contributing and doing so in a calm & collected way, while still imparting unbiased knowledge.
You will see many contributors who fight with their commenters. Loss of frame.
You will see contributors who pre-empt their topic with a disclosure as to why their post will suck. Demonstrating low value(smv) and lack of abundance.
You will see contributors who don't understand AWALT, will White-knight, and have become concern trolls.
Essentially the endorsed dudes allowed the moderators to feel comfortable enough with their contributions that they could be trusted, even when the mod's not around(you're trying to do the same with women). They played it cool and demonstrated value.
As I've tried to expand on above, most simply, they exemplify the Red Pill in their posts and comments. Their frame doesn't allow them to be trolled and their value has already been determined by themselves so they have abundance and can walk away from an online fight. Their rationality and skepticism is strong enough that they aren't afraid to use AWALT as a frame of reference, without their existential world collapsing when their are momentary exceptions. People will slip, mistakes will be made, and tempers do flare, but these guys should be studied because they are using trp here, the way you should use it out there.
BluepillProfessor 6y ago
That is actually almost the standard on MRP- MRP APPROVED guys give consistently solid, Red Pill advice. However, on TRP EC's are given the handle to identify superlative contributors, not just guys who can be counted on to give consistently Red Pill advice without the mods around.
originaltransvaginal 6y ago
I got 2 replies from endorsed dudes(I hardly participate here, so that's always cool for me), and you're both being nitpicky with me about how I described your roles here? ;)
I'm not trying to pick on you guys, I was simply taking a stupid question and attempting to help someone understand what they should be paying attention to around here. If people don't realize that the way a trp man expresses himself is almost more important that what he says then you will be lost focusing on his reasoning. (Frame)
I like to think the ECs do a good job of that around here. Not much fighting with commenters. Cooler heads prevail often. Immunity to trolls. This is them not giving a fuck. That's a lesson. It can be demonstrated in the way GLO trolls in his posts sometimes. It can be done here. No one has to go outside.
But this is the 2nd time I've made some comment attempting to make a helpful insight, and while it does seem to grab an ECs attention, enough to reply, I end up getting corralled back onto the track. (Exactly why I hated school and later feminism. If my thoughts seem off to you, don't pull me into your frame, ask me where I was headed. I'm not dumb enough to care if I was wrong. We were going somewhere.)
If you have any insight into why what I said was "too whacky" or totally off the mark, then that's what id like to be corrected on and learn about. I do appreciate that I was incorrect about aspects of the EC role. Let's go deeper next time.
Rian_Stone 6y ago
More narcisistic view than neccisary. EC isn't in identity, and it's not to make us feel better.
It's a filtering mechanism. So that you, the average guy who just walked in here, can tell, at a glance, which advice is most likely good, and which required more brainpower to process.
Basically, a way to make the slog slightly less sloggish
Aktiv8r 6y ago
Like the comment that started this thread? Lmao
Rian_Stone 6y ago
Thats women having no game. They've never had to have game, so when they try, it comes across as being on the spectrum.
ImVendetta 6y ago
Isn't this the delima we all face at every instant? ????
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TheEndlessRoadAhead 6y ago
I concur with this guy.
Your work can't suck your dick.
Unless you're a gigolo I guess.
Torabor64 6y ago
Maybe he didn't want his dick sucked at that particular time by that particular woman.
IkWhatUDidLastSummer 6y ago
Yeah we should totally attempt to fuck and validate any useless existence just because they have a vagina.
do_it_or_leave 6y ago
I wonder why this guy is being downvoted.
He just wanted to know OPs reason to pass this girl.
IkWhatUDidLastSummer 6y ago
Hes implying that he should care if SHE wants to suck his duck. What if he doesnt want his dick sucked by this ugly irrelevant entitled woman.
irl_baldcel_beardlet 6y ago
she was pissed cause there were open seats and you sat next to her