As I wrote before, I only date women between ages 18 and 25—never any woman older than 26.
I don’t because once they hit 26, in my experience, their attractiveness diminishes to the point where their flaws are greater than their virtues.
You see, I don’t mind putting up with a whiny, flakey 22 year-old hard-body. But a whiny, flakey 28 year-old who’s beginning to get baby-rabies? Who is no longer as attractive as she used to be? I’ll pass, thank you, but do help yourself if you’d like.
/smirk
As to dealing with some woman who has a kid? Are you high? It doesn’t matter if she’s a 20 y.o. hottie who is a unicorn in every department—I’m certainly not going to spend any of my resources, be it time or money, on someone else’s brat. That’s just non-negotiable—as non-negotiable as, say, my unwillingness to have unprotected sex with a decomposing corpse.
Now, with women over 30 who are single and without a kid? They are a disaster! Baby-rabies has likely made them insane, and they are likely Career Gurlz! who want to challenge me at every opportunity, no matter how trivial the issue, just to show to themselves that they are “strong”. And who needs that?
So 18-to-25 year olds it is. My sweet spot is 20-to-23, but that’s neither here nor there.
Now, the reaction I get from other people is interesting. Let’s divide these reactions by demographics—but non-traditional demographics which Normies won’t get, but which people here on TRP will recognize and understand instantly:
- Alpha males of any age.
- Beta males of any age.
- Women under age 25.
- Women over age 30.
- Feminists.
Feminists hate me, plain and simple. When I walk down the street by the hand with my current gf (24, 5’11”, hot), their eyes shoot daggers at me. (I can recognize Feminists by the unnatural hair colors, and those nose rings that make them look like baby cows who have miraculously learned to walk on their hind legs.) One time, a Feminist called me a misogynist for dating younger women. Again, /smirk: I am Jack’s complete lack of surprise. But for the most part, Feminists don’t really bother engaging me, probably because of how I look and dress: I come across as a card-carrying member of The Patriarchy. So they know better than to waste their time with me.
Women over age 30, interestingly enough, try to hit on me—at first. They are often quite blatant, if they are even remotely attractive. They flirt outrageously, they keep touching my clothes and my hand and my arm, they keep giving me these heavy, soulful, doe-eyed glances.
But when they realize that I’m not vibing to their pitch, they drop all pretenses and get incredibly bitchy with me, saying that I’m a sick man for going out with younger women, that I’m too much of a weakling to deal with a strong woman my own age.
That whole “You’re too weak to deal with a strong woman like me” hamstering is huge with women of this age group. I usually agree-and-amplify, which is pretty funny once they realize the implications of their bizarre logic, and get that “Oh shit” look to their faces. But one time, I was being particularly annoyed—and I was feeling particularly cruel—so I answered a particularly annoying 40+ woman who was hassling me with something along the lines of, “I date younger women because I want to have children, and I don’t think a woman of your age is fertile any more.”
That was inexcusable, I know, I know, but . . . it shut her up. Finally.
More than once I’ve been told by these women that I have serious psychiatric issues, that I should see a shrink. One of these women actually said that I should check myself into a clinic, because I am so obviously insane.
Really. They think it’s a sign of a psychiatric disorder, for me to want to fuck younger women.
Women under the age of 25, however, look at me curiously. They notice the girl I’m with, and by the look they give me, I can tell what they’re thinking: “How did this old guy get with this young girl who’s my age?”—and as if by magic, they all of a sudden want to get with me. No surprise why, to anyone here on TRP. More than once, some younger woman has surreptitiously given me her number—or called me herself—solely based on the fact that I date someone their age.
Beta males of any age act exactly like women over age 30 act—but with a difference: The concern trolling from these beta boys is strong. “Don’t you think there’s something . . . wrong with dating a girl young enough to be your daughter?” They throw around that issue a lot: The fact that the girl I’m with could be my daughter. “But she’s not,” I say. “Yeah, but she could be,” they reply. “But she isn’t.” “Yes, but . . .”
A lot of “Yes, buts”.
The other word they throw around a lot is “inappropriate”, as in, “Isn't it inappropriate for you to be . . .,” blah-blah-blah. They’ll go on this tack for hours on end, if I let them. Even if I’m civil to these betas, and give them good reasons why there’s nothing wrong with dating someone young and hot, they’ll say, “Yes, but . . .,” and go on and on and on . . .
. . . yet there’s a clear look of wistful jealousy, in the eyes of these betas. It’s not aggressive, or butt-hurt. The true betas just look at me as if I were a lottery winner: They envy me my luck—or what they think is my luck. They don’t admire me—can’t admire me—because they don’t believe—can’t believe—that I worked to get this hot young thing beside me. They think she just dropped out of the sky, onto my lap—just as if I’d won the lottery. So they envy my luck, but they don’t envy me. More to the point, they certainly don’t think that they’ll ever be so lucky—so they never try to improve their luck.
Of course, they cannot accept that luck played only a minor role in my reality. Their mental constitution won’t allow it.
Alpha males, on the other hand, have a completely different reaction: They don’t notice the age gap. They take it completely in stride. Interestingly enough, so do their wives, regardless of the age of the wives. In fact, now that I think about it, the wives or gf’s of alpha men—whether these wives or girlfriends are young or old, whether there’s a big age gap with their men or not—don’t even allude to the age gap between me and whomever I bring along.
They act as if it’s just the way things ought to be.
TL;DR: Blue-pilled people freak out that I (49M) refuse to date “age-appropriate” women, and instead date in the 20-25 y.o. bracket. These blue-pilled people think I’m clinically insane, or else that I’m too weak to deal with a “strong, independent woman”. The only ones who don’t even notice the issue are alpha men and their mates.
If you want to see what I look like and hear more of my rantings and ravings, check out my YouTube channel, “Coach Red Pill”. Thank you.
eccentricrealist 6y ago
You're eight years older than my dad and dating girls my age. I'll keep working on myself so I can date girls my age in 30 years, goddamn
agirlindenver 6y ago
i'm a 28 y/o woman and single, so by no means in OP's dating pool. (also his post seems a bit apocryphal but i'll take him at face value, because i assume others are doing so).
i'm not here to bash/judge anyone's dating prerogatives. everyone is welcome to date who they want. but from the female perspective, i will say that the older dudes who hit on us when we're in our early twenties and at the apex of our hotness are kind of a joke. when macho alpha 50 y/o comes over and tries to woo us, that's generally when we smile politely and grab our friends by the elbows, signaling that it's time to pull us out of the uncomfortable situation. again, with no offense to OP, and call me hamstering all you want (after all i'm almost 29 which lands me either near or smack in the center of "the wall" heh) - but EVERY cute girl gets hit on by people that look like our dads. i can't speak for the motives of the gals who take the bait, but this approach does better on youtube and reddit forums than it does in practice. i think that about a lot of the posts on here, but this one in particular made me chuckle.
ilovewesties 6y ago
He also looks a lot older than 49 lol.
red-adherent 6y ago
Get the fuck off of our sub. And no we are still not going to vote for Hillary, you complete fucking loser!
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Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Right away, sounds suspicious.
The phrase “the apex of our hotness” makes me pretty sure this is a guy who’s sock-puppetting. A 28-y.o. woman would never describe herself this way—and never admit that her peak attractiveness is in the past.
This is true. Getting a woman does not involve “wooing” her—it involves getting her to chase you. Any man of any age who is “wooing” a girl in today’s sexual marketplace is destined to fail.
agirlindenver 6y ago
no way. men chase women, we select, that's the way it works. people flip the script but it's not natural - in my experience/observations, men tend to be put off by women who pursue them. guys seem to be more satisfied when they pursue someone they're excited about and get her. second, i'm sure you're well aware of when you hit peak attractiveness. likely you would rank that somewhere in your thirties. i am aware that between 18-26 i got significantly more attention, it was easier to stay in shape, didn't have any lines on my face. with that said, the main thing that's changed in terms of male attention is i don't have to deal with bros and random creeps anymore ;) and to a different point, my best friend (same age) is a lot hotter now than she was in college - people have different peaks! ya dipshit!
agirlindenver 6y ago
also i'm not very active on reddit but if i were a dude "sock puppeting" it would be a 5 or so year commitment. haha
MyLittlePonyofDoom 6y ago
"Really. They think it’s a sign of a psychiatric disorder, for me to want to fuck younger women."
You mean hundred of thousands of years of evolution?
embraze 6y ago
I like your style coach. subscribed
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blackedoutfast 6y ago
lol this guy is so full of shit and y'all keep lapping it up.
"hey guys i'm a dopey looking 49 year old but i'm totally banging 20 year old supermodels and spitting witty comebacks at post-wall feminist bitches! if you want to be like me just subscribe to my youtube channel!"
there ARE older dudes out there being total alpha fuckers and slaying hot young poon, but this guy isn't one of them.
All_In123 6y ago
Won't your wife find out about your lifestyle because of your youtube?
[deleted] 6y ago
I love dating 19 year olds. Our conversations on Twilight, The Jonas Brothers and Instagram fame are so deep.
redpillbanana 6y ago
The weak protests from the beta male amount to the following: "It's not fair...you're not following the rules like we do!"
Yeah, we know what the rules are. In fact we know them to the extent that we know whose rules they are, what they are for, why they exist, and when and how they can be broken.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
lol, absolutely right. Here's to the rule-breakers.
Troll_Name 6y ago
It isn't breaking the rules of life.
It's simply refusing to be bound by the whims of the HR hambeast and her pet manlet.
FloridaKen 6y ago
I am 53, my wife is 23... We have been together since she was 18, we met in a college class. She liked my sense of humor and kindness. She asked me out... I can add pics if you want... lol
1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 6y ago
You offered...yes, the world wants to see them...
cherryCanSuckMyDick 6y ago
sure, pics or it never happened
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max_peenor 6y ago
Why would you go an ruin a perfect thing?!?!
FloridaKen 6y ago
How do I even add pics here???
[deleted] 6y ago
I don't believe any of this. Not humble, much bragging. I could see these "young girls" going after this man for his money, but I haven't seen him explain any methods he's used to get girls besides "when other girls see me with my girl." Plus the YouTube channel promotions.
As far as I'm concerned, this is an ad for a YouTube channel not backed with any real evidence.
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[deleted] 6y ago
I think people should start posting pics here cause I just don't believe have the bullshit I read on here haha.
IAmA_TheOneWhoKnocks 6y ago
Yeah, the /smirks he threw in there made feel more like a daydream fantasy than something that an actual person is writing.
[deleted] 6y ago
Yeah exactly that made me cringe so hard. Like he tipped his fucking fedora /smirk
Helpcalculus 6y ago
Yeah dude I checked his channel. Don't believe a single word he says. 100 bucks that in couple of years he will be in news being accused of jacking in the street in a trench-coat while wearing a batman mask or some shit.
All his posts are about promoting his channel. Videos made me cringe.
Goodava 6y ago
I'm glad I'm not the only one to notice this.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Go to my YT channel and check out my videos. You'll be able to tell if I'm full of shit or not.
Goodava 6y ago
Yea, just checked out the channel. The guy is way below average, creepy looking and definitely full of shit. Repulsive not attractive.
ilovewesties 6y ago
He also looks older than 49.
greatslyfer 6y ago
Yea I have a hard time believing he bangs 20 year old girls on the regular.
He could be just mass approaching and just have really good charisma when he talks to girls, that may happen. But yeah, he doesn't look like a slayer purely by his looks lol, no offense.
Gawernator 6y ago
Sugar daddy dude, he probably has money
prodigy2throw 6y ago
It's called being a sugar daddy
Shaman6624 6y ago
Just out of curiosity. What do you gain with browsing trp as a woman?
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TaylorWolf 6y ago
The dude is a 6/10 for his age at least. How many 20-25 guys would fuck a 6/10 49 year old woman? A decent amount. Same goes for girls the other way around.
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Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Awww!!! My feewings are huwt!!!
oneofthefewproliving 6y ago
You're trying to be sarcastic but failed
Goodava 6y ago
Oh please don't be. Didn't mean to be stingy when addressing your midlife crisis. BTW isn't the time for you to switch to Beta, it's father's day...
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...says the random butthurt guy on the internet.
max_peenor 6y ago
ITT a bunch of TRP tards argue with a woman...
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[deleted] 6y ago
I think this dude is a good writer, confident, decent looking, made of money, and totally redpill.
He may not be a 10/10 looks wise, but that isn't what makes a red pill man and isn't what determines whether you get to bang hot 19 year olds.
Suck it up, snowflake.
Goodava 6y ago
Far away from a snowflake but nice try. He might be confident but he is far away from decent looking and he's definitely not made of money.
Growing up among beautiful women I can tell you there isn't many hot 19 year olds that would bang him. Unless they're hookers and he's paying them or they think he's rich while he's not. He's not really all that Alpha either, he admitted he likes being Beta in his family life. I get it everybody wants to be Alpha and get laid but there's a difference between a real alpha and a real jerk.
vengefully_yours 6y ago
The butthurt in you is epic. Face it cupcake, you suck. That's why you can't fuck the hot girls you've grown up around. It's incredibly easy to fuck girls half our age, and not pay them a dime. Don't worry though, it won't happen to you. You'll be miserable at our age, fucking your hand or fat chicks.
Goodava 6y ago
Lol that's right I hope I don't get to fuck chicks since I'm one of them and I'm completely straight. Instead I'll get to fuck my handsome SO who doesn't have to take advices from 50 year old beer belly sleaze haha.
red-adherent 6y ago
Why the fuck are you even commenting on this sub? You know we don't want you here.
Go fucking whine about your feelings at Jezebel!
Goodava 6y ago
I don't give a fuck what you want. I do as I fucking please.
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max_peenor 6y ago
^^^^ Pay attention to this bird, gents. She's telling you the truth. To women, alphas are born, not made. That is how they see the world. Be ever conscious of this.
Goodava 6y ago
You misunderstood. Nobody is born Alpha. Being Alpha is a constant work throughout your entire life. The problem I have with this dude is that his posts and comments are very misleading to very young men. By your comments I would assume that you're no older than 20. Not all men were born confident. It's something they have to work on.
This sub is to help them learn and grow so they can become strong successful men full of confidence and charisma who will not let "weak" women walk all over them. 20-30 year old somethings will know to take this post with a grain of salt. 16 year old might live by it and live his life feeling like a failure. I mean this whole 20-25 thing is just a joke. "Fuck Off Adrianna Lima your vag is too old my 50 year old soft dick". The way I see it. If you are attracted to the girl and she's willing- go for it. If you're gonna stick only to 20-25 you might pass on many opportunities. You're not marrying the girl, you're having sex with her and trust me there are many girls who are more than willing to do just that.
Next thing, single mothers. I would never seriously date a single mom if I was a man but who says you have to "date" her and provide to her "bastard" children to have sex with her. 25 year old mother is better than a 21 year old coked out tramp you met at the club.
Lastly, he makes it seem like having sex with multiple women all your life is the only way to go which could work for some but for many others it is misleading. Believe it or not but at some point you might prefer quality over quantity, that's in case you stumble upon a great girl who will treat you right and satisfy your needs, which is rare but it happens. If you get to live the life of Dan Bilzerian then good for you but that's a very slight chance. Also, keep in mind he's not a ulimate bachelor, not loaded, not physically attractive and also has baggage. If women were going by the same rules as him. He'd never get laid. I hope to God his daughter won't meet a sleaze like him. I mean in my eyes this guy is absolutely repulsive.
The Red Pill is a good sub for the most part where it teaches you to be a strong alpha male. It is not good where it simply makes you a slave to the pussy. It's like going from one extreme to another.
max_peenor 6y ago
First, there are no alphas. We are not pack animals. There are alpha traits and beta traits.
It's pretty obvious you haven't been reading my comments.
None of this has anything to do with my original comment, which was an assessment of what women want to see, not what men need to do. However, I will stop you here. The confidence of young boys does not grow with age, since everyone around them is doing everything they can to instill doubt into them. You find a five year old that finally hit a thrown ball with a bat. That little fucker will think he can do anything. You find an 18 year old that has endured 13 years of being torn down and he won't think he can do anything.
Life is one gigantic test. Men that ignore the voices and manage to mature without losing that little boy inside them are those that drip confidence.
Single mothers are a giant pain in the ass. They don't own their own schedules and they always have an agenda.
A lot of people think that way, but then I realized the problem with it. I need to own the quality of sex with any female. Ultimately, it's what they want anyway. Any time a male tells me the sex sucked, I tell them it is completely their fault.
Well, ok, I suppose she might have a fetish that's a hard no--there will be exceptions.
Goodava 6y ago
A male with alpha traits is commonly called an alpha male. Nobody said you are pack animals. You're not making any point here.
Fair enough. I had to stop after few...
That's as far as I could read this primitive analogy. You should try publish this theory of yours which suggests that all boys being born with the set amount of confidence that does not increase or decrease with age. I highly doubt you're a second Freud or Erikson though.
Maybe according to you. To a male that does not get sex very often or at all- sex with a single mother is better than no sex at all. They might be a pain or might not but sex with non psycho mom is definitely better than sex with a drunk 21 year old who might not remember agreeing to sex the night before. Hold on, I think I've actually seen few posts like that...
You completely misunderstood my point but whatever. This conversation is really tiring. It's like arguing with a 5 year old. Have a nice evening.
max_peenor 6y ago
Not around here. I admit it is a grossly overused term elsewhere.
No, because that would be wrong. I'm not sure how you missed the point, but it is pretty simple--modern society works tirelessly to tear down the confidence of young males. As such, confidence most certainly does change with age. Those that resist this tend to become leaders.
Thank god.
Personally, I'd rather go monk mode than deal with single mother drama, but maybe that's because I have options. Also, I don't fuck drunk people. A few drinks is fine, but beyond that you need to decide.
We were talking about a point of yours?
And a female-moment before wandering off...
bob13bob 6y ago
the fact that he's not good looking just makes him more impressive. If he can accomplish the same achievement as you with attractiveness, he's just better at the game than you.
Goodava 6y ago
Really? I didn't think I needed a game as a straight female lol. Wouldn't touch him with a stick, good game or not.
PM_ME_UR_TECHNO_GRRL 6y ago
This is such bullshit. I don't know if the guy slays or not. But the number of unattractive men out there banging hot women completely nullifies what seems to be either naivety or hating coming from you.
Goodava 6y ago
I am not hating. I think this is a great sub a lots of great advice here but this guy is nowhere near being a "coach". For a man to bang a hot woman he needs to have either: looks, money, very successful career, sex appeal or charisma/confidence. He's got non of that and he's a jerk on top of that. You got more chances to have sex with women, more than he ever will. At least you're being honest while he's being a sleaze. As I have said, wouldn't touch him with a stick.
vengefully_yours 6y ago
This post proves you know fuck all. Go read the sidebar. Oh wait, you're a girl. Now it makes sense. Thanks for the laughs today.
bob13bob 6y ago
how do you know he doesn't have money? I bet he does. He also does have confidence; for one he has the balls to put himself out there on a youtube channel knowing he's not a model. Also well spoken.
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and what's your YT channel
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5tEELgWBfKbA9fVPRzBzPQ
Incendior 6y ago
You should consider getting a personalised username URL for your channel! It will look far more recognisable than that long string of random letters, and more legitimate as well.
Best of luck lad.
Friendly_B 6y ago
I'm a 37 year old who married someone my age and it was miserable. Now that we're divorced I pretty much date 19-23 year olds. Every time I've tried dating my age she's ready to have a kid, like, right now. It's a basic expectation of mine that any girl even close to my age isn't on birth control, from my experience. The most recent girl I was very much into, and could have imagined building a longer life together with, but she wanted unprotected non-birth-control sex from our first time, and those alarm bells were real. She would have been a crazy person after a few years, I'm sure.
[deleted] 6y ago
I still have lots of learning to do. My last LTR wasn't on BC and wanted it raw. I was reluctant but also enjoyed it. Thanks for teaching me what was up.
IkWhatUDidLastSummer 6y ago
I don't get why this BS gets upvoted. What can we take away from this? What can we learn? What can we implement in our own lives? Absolutely nothing. This is non-sense garbage and humble brag - NOTHING else. If you are concerned about what random fems on the street thinks about you, you have a huge issue.
Xoramung 6y ago
Do you have any tips on your approach etc, i watched a few vids but i didnt pickup any clear insturctions etc do these 1,2,3... and win
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Be Zen. Be outcome-indifferent.
omega_dawg93 6y ago
more power to you CRP, but i have one major, major issue with you:
why do you give a shit what ANYONE... blue pillers, white knights, feminists, etc., think?
why even engage these people in conversation... explain yourself... answer their questions?
as lattimore says, "truly not giving a fuck is a super power."
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Because it's amusing. Because I like to see their reactions.
cashmoney_x 6y ago
That's a half honest answer. Dig deeper.
[deleted] 6y ago
I doubt what you're saying is true, unless you're rich. But if it is true, I'm jealous :P what's your height? Just curious.
ayylma088 6y ago
I made vastly different experience than you. Older women are usually way easier to bang for whatever reason (the ones on tinder at least)
Girls in their 18-22 are so flakey to the point that you either have to be a chad AND invest considerable time/patience or shes already riding the next one on the CC
Auvergnat 6y ago
Haven't been shamed yet about my new 18yo plate, but already planned the answer: "Love trumps hate".
cherryCanSuckMyDick 6y ago
I love the freudian slip the wording is designed to trigger
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Metalgear222 6y ago
Isn't it funny given the top comment followed by the negative commenters on this post? Is this not exactly what /u/redpillbanana was pointing out?
"Oh this guy is getting hot young ass? He doesn't even look redpill! Must be a liar!"
Found the group of losers not doing shit with the knowledge they are learning on TRP...
[deleted] 6y ago
Well its more because he ain't even ripped, which is the first thing people aim to achieve when they join this sub.
Metalgear222 6y ago
One of the first posts I read on trp had a line that was close to the following..
"That guy with a dad bod that dgaf? He's getting more ass than you"
SilverFoxMarine 6y ago
Great post. As a 39M dating a 19F, I can definitely relate to this post. I am glad there are experienced men like you who contribute on this particular subject. As I get older (and the gap widens), the reactions will worsen and this advice will become more & more valuable to me. Thank you
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
You're welcome! And thank you for the kind words. CRP
PM_ME_UR_TECHNO_GRRL 6y ago
Very educational. Judging by the response from the endorsed, it resonates clearly with TRP principles. I particuarly liked this point:
Because the road out of conditioning for subservience is tough and at times disheartening. Signs of well-placed faith strengthen the resolve.
VickVaseline 6y ago
You're right. You do look like Mr. Patriarchy lol
You are my god, though. I'm 56 and my girlfriend is 32 and I thought that was pretty young. One white knight even called me a predator over it (seriously, he was really angry).
What is your secret? You are obviously intelligent, educated, and you speak well. You have a great voice. You don't look especially handsome or athletic, though. What is the thing that draws the young hotties to you?!
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
The right foot powder, and regular bowel movements.
/smirk
Cheers, and thank you for the very kind words. Best, CRP
Sir_Distic 6y ago
What was your response to the WK?
VickVaseline 6y ago
I just laughed and said, "I know! I should be ashamed of myself!"
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
And btw, you all think I should change my handle to Mr. Patriarchy?
/amused
VickVaseline 6y ago
I vote for "Mr. Patriarchy."
Auvergnat 6y ago
Id say it'd be a better brand yeah.
I like the idea to actually own what feminists consider a bad thing. Best way to troll.
https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ_P0UhLxVqLTgbcal9SsOs1B3d_17ZrkdtxqARjqGrH53Nao6w7_8i0Q-g
DSetupDTitleDMenu 6y ago
Girls prefer their guys to be older, whether it's by a couple of years or even decades. They go gaga for guys with more interesting lives than they've got - guys who have seen their fair amount of shit and fought through it with the scars to show for it, because if you've been reading one-too-many dodgy fan fiction erotica shitpieces from middle-school girls, they just plain adore it. It's the reason why so many girls are into the whole "daddy" thing.
I bet you that every young girl who's on an "adventure" to "find herself" has "fuck rugged, handsome older guys in their lavish bedrooms" on her bucket list.
But despite how bloody common older guys with younger girls are, it's still not okay in society's books. Both the guy and the girl will be shamed, even the girls who let their professor lick their asshole shame other girls for jumping into bed with the big, burly tradesman. They've got their reputations to protect, after all.
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It's perfectly fine in society's books, else it would be illegal.
It's just the annoying groans of those who don't have. Just like those who say rich people are "immoral". Or those who work harder than them are "unhealthy". Etc etc.
Don't do illegal shit and otherwise ignore what others say about your choice of lifestyle.
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Bear-With-Bit 6y ago
R / Seduction, right this way. Fkn' missing the point, bub.
SovereignSoul76 6y ago
I don't agree at all. I think the primary take-away here is that "you should date someone your own age" is a societal shaming tactic to prevent higher SMV men from going on a well-deserved fuck spree after sufferering through the difficulties of trying to get with women in their 20's, while those women are riding the CC, usually with older men.
It's a way of manipulating most of the herd from going after the best options. It's a nice little slight of hand trick. "You don't want a commitment-free romp with a nice tight young 19 year old pussy, you want to have to take a 39 year old out on 4 dates, and meet her cats, to earn that pussy. It will be more...real!".
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Completely agree with /u/SovereignSoul76's comment.
dizzyoak1 6y ago
It's not even the superiority, it's the down right idiocy this guy doesn't know he's being digged for gold by these young girls and it was only more obvious in his last post. Any below average wrinkle can claim these things online. A complete shit post indeed.
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Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
What do you care, if someone's giving you shit. If they're giving you shit, it's because they're envious, or don't have the balls to do what you are doing.
Capisce?
The_M0rning_Star 6y ago
Man you sure do use a lot of words to say "No seriously, guys. I'm super cool and totally alpha."
Look, it's not so much the age thing. I could give a shit that they are so much younger than you. I mean all I see is a chick with daddy issues (fuck yes) and a man capitalizing on it (go you). My point was the EASE. It's super fucking easy to nail broads like that. If it's easy...those women are not alpha women.
They're betas. AND ALPHAS DO NOT FUCK BETAS. Not on the regular. And definitely not with so much pride they make long winded posts defending it.
It blows my mind how many men will come on here and rant and rave about all these beta women they fucked. Ok, great. Like that is anyway hard?? Where's the fight? Where's the goddamned conquest? Where's the golden chalice after a worthy battle? WHERE'S THE STORY WORTH TELLING. You fucking dumped all the cereal out and grabbed the toy outta the box. That's. Not. Hard. At. All.
ShadowPeopleAreReal 6y ago
It doesn't really matter dude pussy is pussy. If you wanna marry a "strong" woman fine, but give me an easy girl who knows her body any day of the week.
The_M0rning_Star 6y ago
Pussy is pussy is like how a McDonald's hamburger is the same a perfectly cooked steak. Both of them come from a cow!! Totally the same, right?
Some pussy is better than other pussy. Some pussy is waaaay better than other pussy. If y'all are fine with a fucking parade McDonald's hamburgers...super cool. That's great. I'm happy for you?
I want the goddamn steak.
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JeSuisSuperman 6y ago
Hope you reply to this.. I'm probably younger than the girls you date, but just out of curiosity, in what type of social settings are you able to find an attractive young girl, without being out of place yourself, i.e I don't think you'd be roaming college campuses approaching chicks, or in clubs filled only with younger people. Maybe I'm wrong, but nonetheless still curious
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
You're right. I never go to clubs, discos, or bars, because you're right, I would be completely out of place. Also, those places are the worst places to meet women you want to see twice.
JeSuisSuperman 6y ago
Okay.. But I'd still like to know where you find women 25 years your junior?
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redpillbanana 6y ago
There was one time I was exclusively dating a woman much younger than me. I brought her to my friend's party and introduced her to many of my close friends who are mostly similar in age to me. I was expecting a bit of a backlash, especially when she mentioned she was a freshman in university, but they all were genuinely happy for me, even the women. I even heard one of the women whisper to another, "They are so cute together."
When I thought about it later, I realized that when something good happens to you, a true friend will be happy for you and those feelings of happiness will overcome other feelings of jealousy or discomfort that they might have.
It's similar to gaining sudden wealth or receiving a prestigious award; you'll soon find out who your true friends are. You'll find that you'll lose many "friends", some to envy, and some to covetousness as they start asking for handouts or favors.
RedBigMan 6y ago
My theory for the women (of the Alpha Males) in the scenario are self-preservation. They avoid bringing up the age gap because they're afraid highlighting that aspect will cause their own man to look elsewhere or trade up for a younger model.
Stythe 6y ago
Agreed. This who actually care or appreciate you aren't going to be upset that you're happy. I lot of topics I see here dip way into the cynical rely and while maybe that is useful to some,I think it creates a while whack of bad mental issues.
I'm over 30 and my main plate (currently only girl I'm with) is 19. None of my friends have outwardly shunned me, save for the wife of one friend who is disliked by almost everyone. And even she didn't shun me, she just tried to make it seem like I have issues because she has a ton and thats her framework for life.
max_peenor 6y ago
Or if they see you as a leader. That'll do it too. And then they won't just cheer you on, but they will actively enable it.
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stankovic32 6y ago
Freshman at university is hardly a woman bro. That's like a kid. Weird that you dated her instead of pumping and dumping... but ok I guess just having a girlfriend is badass right?
redpillbanana 6y ago
Borrowing this from /u/Auvergnat: "Love trumps hate".
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Absolutely right.
I suspect that at bottom, blue-pilled collectivists are at bottom burning with envy, and nothing more.
Satou4 6y ago
At the bottom, they might not even recognize what they're feeling is envy. They'll just think they hate you.
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grogbottle 6y ago
"I play by my made-up rules and I shout down people who don't, why don't people drop what I want into my lap?"
I'm not sure what proportions of envy, entitlement, and straight up delusion that is. I don't care whose fault it is either, it's just made it laughably easy to impress girls.
Friendship can trump blue-pilled-ness though. Friend of mine, dyed-blue-in-the-wool, girlfriend he's devoted to, became vegetarian, and so on. Bumps into me on the street getting out of an Uber with two girls, he smiles and goes "damn, man".
Empathetic happiness is a trait to look out for in people, keep at least a couple around you. This is much more important in your male friends, because women will take those cues and spin their hamsters in that direction.
LippyMinded 6y ago
That happiness is hiding daggers. Have you ever been in a position that tested your friendship?
grogbottle 6y ago
Fair warning, good point. Yes, hence I call him a friend.
NeoreactionSafe 6y ago
The beta male believes in Randomness Theory.
This is the idea that most everything in life is random and luck plays a huge part in the "Wheel of Fortune" of the world.
The beta male will resist Cause and Effect explanations for success and consider them much like a Conspiracy Theory... a choice to reject the dots that could be connected if you opened your eyes.
AndiWW 6y ago
I like your videos. Thank you!
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blackedoutfast 6y ago
yup. and it's sad to see so many ECs and well-respected older members falling for such obvious bullshit money-making attempt just because it supports the "older guys can still bang young hotties if they have enough game" idea.
there are older guys who are players, but this guy isn't one of them. if you can't pick up on it from his writing, watch one his videos and it's obvious
YeezyTaughtYe 6y ago
“I date younger women because I want to have children, and I don’t think a woman of your age is fertile any more.”
So you've got a posse of pregnant 20 somethings or what?
ozaku7 6y ago
Ofcourse they don't say anything about the young women you are dating. They are completely healthy to date a daddy.
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This is the quintessence of beta: NOT PUTTING IN THE WORK. Betas want the best and the hottest for themselves but refuse to improve themselves in any form or fashion. The snowflake mentality is HARMS! Excellent and insightful post.
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I get that too.
But I like it when she calls me Daddy.
And I'm actually old enough to be her father.
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Kalidane 6y ago
It's curious. I've also found 25 to be the final good year, and 26 the last chance for a ONS.
It's like they literally hit a wall.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
lol. Yes, it does seem like that, doesn't it?
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Every man has a choice. Become a glorious conquistador or stay in fucking boring ass Iberia and live a terribly insignificant life as a peasant.
You miss every shot you don't take. And when those peasants see you living the good life, they get fucking pissssseeeddd...
Their is a reason we have so much socialism these days. Socialism = Peasants
revenge??jealousy.kaane 6y ago
I enjoy reading your posts. To be honest, I was not 100% sure that you actually achieved all those things, but once I've seen you videos now everything seems about right.
The way you talk and present yourself radiates a great deal of confidence. While I don't agree with everything you say, you sure speak from experience, and I respect your views.
Now I see what all those 20 something girls are attracted to. It is not the clothes, it is not looking way younger than your age. It is that confidence which obviously comes from real achievements.
Please keep on these quality posts.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
What can I say, I'm a really good actor. Fake it 'til you make it! /amuzed.
Thanks for the kind words. Best, CRP
Satou4 6y ago
Do red pill concepts still apply in your case? I only ask because it's a rare opportunity. What I mean to ask is, do blue pill advantages (wealth, height, looks) make any more difference in your results? Do you think if you lacked any of these, you would still succeed at the 49 on 20 dynamic? Do you foresee any problems with succeeding at 60?
Thanks for the original post. It's nice to hear from someone who is still living rp concepts. I hope to be doing the same when I'm your age.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Of course they do. But it gets subtler, far less blatant. A little goes a lot farther, as it were.
beerbaron105 6y ago
Sorry if I missed it, but, what is avenue for picking up this age category? Dating apps or strictly in person, and if it's in person, bars and clubs, shopping malls, gym? Enlighten us!
SilverGryphon 6y ago
Good for you, if you manage to get women half your age you must be a very successful man. Feminists and bluepillers are just jealous of you. I'm 30 years old but I would never tell an older guy:
It seems that feminists have no issues with older women hitting on younger men and would scold the younger men for refusing to date worn out women (it has happened to me). However, the very second a mature man decides to hit on a younger female, a nuclear war breaks out. So much for gender equality.
Reading your post only made me more determined to stick up my two middle fingers in the face of our modern day feminist society.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Good!! Keep those middle-fingers up and aimed right at their angry faces, while you keep a big fat smirk on yours.
Best, and I'm glad this is keeping your spirits up, CRP
AwesomeTheKid 6y ago
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MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
As women age they replace their diminishing value with entitlement.
This is a great observation. I think it's the difference between people who are living a (blue pill) fantasy/lie... and people who accept reality.
Auvergnat 6y ago
I don't see entitlement or rationalisation in that comment, rather a transparent attempt at manipulating (shaming) someone into adopting a behaviour that is more consistent with their sexual strategy.
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
The implication is that she's entitled to his commitment, and therefore should be shamed for his non-compliance.
ACE-JHN 6y ago
By improving your luck. Would you mind expanding on that ? Is it just the basics such as, lift, make money, hold frame, read etc, be social ?
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
It's not lifting 2,000 lbs., it's not making $100 billion—it's all about self-respect, and confidence, a confidence that can only be achieved by way of real accomplishments.
You get that real, hard-earned confidence—the confidence that is a product of real success, such as (for instance) building a small business from nothing into a 20-person company—and the girls come your way if you want. They can smell that hard-earned confidence.
Just my 2¢.
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This should be in the post. That is real lesson.
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Auvergnat 6y ago
OP just bounces off his detractors ' expression.
To a blue pill guy, there is nothing you can effectively do to attract more or better quality gals. It's just "be yourself and the right one will come along one day". So they sit there and wait. And wait some more. And some more. And when they realise that it doesn't happen, they naturally conclude that the right one doesn't show up easily and so one has to be lucky for the right one to show up.
Of course what they don't realise is that it has nothing to do with luck, because it was never about "just be yourself and the right one will come along". It was instead about "become a man that girls find attractive", which requires work to change yourself.
To tell this to the blue pill guy who believes that it's about "luck", you can translate is as: "improve your luck".
But you're a redpill guy, so no need for translation. Just "become a man that girls find attractive".
aga080 6y ago
never thought about how ass-backwards the term "get lucky" is
Atticus_Crowley 6y ago
Man, to think i was having second thoughts on bangin an 18 year old a couple weeks ago, and I'm only 27. Cheers.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
OK, you are the one who needs to go see a shrink! Fuck that, if you're passing on trim, we gotta stick you in the funny farm right away!!!!
Cheers, CRP
Atticus_Crowley 6y ago
Lol don't worry, still banged her. Just felt weird about it at first. There's a whole thread about it on asktrp haha.
BobLordOfTheCows 6y ago
This is interesting. How do you even meet someone with such a different age gap? At bars, online dating sites, or just approach?
kaane 6y ago
Let me answer this question.
They are everywhere my brother. Ask yourself these questions:
And now, here is the last question: How many times did you approach a stranger and said hi ?
You do the math
VasiliyZaitzev 6y ago
Day Game like a motherfucker. There are young women who prefer older men, but they don't have little thought balloons over their heads announcing it so you have to go and find them. See my top-level post Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work for more detail.
max_peenor 6y ago
Ding ding ding. Correct answer.
Be that guy. Talk to everyone. Take interest in what they do. You will not only get some high quality quim on your bench, you'll meet all kinds of awesome people and excellent business connections.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Everywhere. Always be willing to approach any woman, any time, any where.
And don't always approach hotties. Sometimes I talk to decidedly older ladies (in their 60's or 70's), just to pass the time. Talking to strangers keeps you sharp.
Also, I'm very, self-consciously zen, detached from any outcome. That helps a lot.
BobLordOfTheCows 6y ago
I see. I'll keep this in mind 20 years from now ;) thanks
Bear-With-Bit 6y ago
Gotta start now. Game isn't a switch you can just turn on.
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el0jel0 6y ago
I'm actually going to vomit
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Not on my shoes, please, they're blue suede.
el0jel0 6y ago
this is one 19-year old you won't be getting, sorry
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
I have a 19 y.o. in my rotation. So why would I want another one? Especially as you don't sound particularly unusual or interesting.
Or is there something about you that I'm missing.
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Not knocking you but i (being 37) dont even understand the desire or even know how to approach a 19 year old.
I was at Chipotle a while ago and some cupcake next to me had to have her burrito rewrapped and i said "jesus christ, you're gonna eat that whole thing." i dont know if she was 19 but she responded "like uh yeah, sir I am" and gave me that valley girl cold shoulder. Wasn't trying spit game i was seriously like wtf to the giant big dick burrito and wtf to the attitude.
iliotibialtract 6y ago
Nice and honest post! I look foreward to my life as a future cardio surgeon, just need to get my ass up to cali.
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A nice dodge on this, if you need to save face (those situations should be rare), is "You know, I really want nothing to do with children, so it's not so much that I can't handle, or even don't like, "strong independent women," but rather that I am useless to them based on their stated goals." or something like that. Again, you shouldn't need to use this dodge, but I have used it to good effect.
That said, I once had a couple of cows take me to task for wanting nothing to do with children, flatly stating that although I have none of my own, since I'm a man of obvious emotional and financial resources I should invest in some single mother's child (of course they did not state it this directly).
I'm pretty sanguine about it all. If I really wanted to "lock down" a woman, it would be pretty trivial...."I always wanted kids" I could drive a hard bargain, find a pretty young widow.....fuck that, I'm enjoying my life.
All of that said, the OP is right about the reactions. The feminists shoot eye daggers and shut up, because the cute thing on our arms is there of her own free will so there's nothing to say.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
That's a howler! As if the money you've spent decades earning ought to be casually given away to some random child who's not yours!
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I was baffled, looking at them like Martians.....make that Venusians.....
I have a coworker with 2 kids who married a guy who's taking good care of them. His call, his life......and I do find it admirable, although I know what he's getting for it....a steady supply of pussy he couldn't pull in the market, public validation, etc.
Just because its admirable, it doesn't mean the opposite is despised, but rather neutral.
The tax man isn't exempting me because I don't have kids. I create value, so yeah....I'm helping support.
SiulaGrande 6y ago
damn this is a good fucking post, keep it up coach
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Ptoss 6y ago
As a 25 yo it just shows the level of self respect women have for them selves when they can touch a scraggly wrinkly old ball sack for money.
I mean I'd do it if you gave me a million but nothing less.
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But aren't all ball sacks scraggly and wrinkly? lol
Sir_Distic 6y ago
I want to understand this comment. Does it apply to OP? Are you suggesting that some early 20-something girl sleeping with a late 40-something guy is a whore? Or in some way has less morals than the average early 20-something girl?
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omega_dawg93 6y ago
so, to you, if the price is right, you'd become an instant whore?
Ptoss 6y ago
A dolla might just fuck yo main bitch that's just how I feel.
Windforce 6y ago
Nice video channel CRP.
One question though, it was always bugging me. I am 32 years old atm, with a gf and another play girl who I enjoy spending time with once every 2 weeks or so.
Everything is great, but the getting married and having kids dilemma has always bugged me. You said you were married in your video, so if you don't mind me asking. What's the relationship is like with your wife, does she know about your other girls. Did you discuss your terms with her pre marriage?
What about financial terms, like prenup and whatnot. I mean if we look at the question from evolutionary point of view, for a man to have his DNA continued in his offsprings, that's the ultimate goal of survival. But here on RP, majority advise against getting married.
In today's world how feasible is it to have kids with no marriage? Is financially better than having a wife?
Sorry if this felt like rambling, really enjoyed your video and I hope you continue to make them with other themes related to younger girlfriend relationship. All the best to you.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Thanks for the comment.
I discuss almost all the points you raised in this video, “The Days Are Long, But The Decades Are Short” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMnmJlFxxZQ
Hope it helps. CRP
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Windforce 6y ago
Oh my bad, I will def. watch that video today after work.
Casd12 6y ago
God damn. The heat from this roast almost burned my house down
NebrasskaShitstorm 6y ago
And it's not like they can make a comeback without sounding like a complete bat. What can they say? "Oh, you should just stick to dating infertile moms and accept that you won't ever have your own biological kids?"
No halfway reasonable or tactful woman is gonna say something like that.
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Unlucky_Leader 6y ago
The woman who are my peers (20) are courting attention not only from myself but from every man including those who are 49. Great post and keep on keeping on.
smirk_addict 6y ago
I appreciate you putting yourself out there. You're a better man than me. This good content by also, you give guys hope. I mean this with only respect. You're not some 6'4 muscle bound chad. I watched a few of your videos. You present yourself as a man with a lot of charm, charisma, and intelligence. No limiting beliefs.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Thank you. That's very kind of you to say, and it's greatly appreciated.
My goal—sincerely—is to help younger guys figure shit out. Because this shit is easy to figure out, so long as you look at it right.
Best, CRP
RedditDogX 6y ago
Great post. Nothing to add. Rock on brother!
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One upped u and don't date past 25. Feel bad about 24 too. Good post.
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_clay_davis 6y ago
An 18 year old is basically a child. You do you, but I have no idea how you could find a child remotely interesting.
Fedor_Gavnyukov 6y ago
you're right, most of them are very immature, however I only plate them, nothing more. i fuck their brains out and they love it.
_clay_davis 6y ago
Quick question: where do you find these 18 year olds? I feel like I just don't know where to look. They won't be at bars for example.
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UnreasoningLogician 6y ago
I like how they throw this word out, like everyone's bought into their system and should do what they want.
So they assume that women are these magic little prizes that some fairy comes and sprinkles on certain chosen men? That's the most objectifying, agency-denying thing I've ever heard!
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Yeah, isn't it? Talk about putting women down!
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To not comment in particular on any one part of your post I would nevertheless say it's perfectly expected these days that anyone on the political Left - Beta's, feminists, otherwise stupid women, otherwise stupid or lazy men - would decry anything the least bit out of the ordinary as somehow "wrong" because they despise people whom have individual agency and despise even more so those that actually utilise it.
Because of course, these people have no imagination whatsoever and like to pick on people that appear happy - or at least happier than them. And I would say that what you've experienced re the attitude of others, at least if you're not telling us a big fib, certainly falls within the realm of Gender Politics.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Agreed. The collectivists on the Left—far from being tolerant—an intolerant of anything and anyone who deviates from their norm.
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Oh Christ, Collectivist Left-Wingers! The bitter paradox of a system that claims it gives people dignity, compassion and an equal share in society's wealth yet simultaneously despises the rights of the individual. A certifiable mental illness in my view.
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Indeed - and I'm sure you and your friends are very reasonable peope. Exceptions that test a rule don't mean a rule does not exist though.
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As has been pointed out before by untold people - the Centre has moved to the Right and the Right has moved to the Far-Right.
Classical Liberals like my dear YouTuber Carl Benjamin get called Nazi's for saying things like "Hilary doesn't seem fit to run the largest country in the world."
EDIT: *Economy
showerdudes99 6y ago
Question to you, were you ever a beta/bluepill? Ever had oneitis?
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Of course I've had oneitis—and anyone who claims otherwise is a liar. The last time it happened to me was in 2000. However, even then, even as far back as 1986, when I fell hard for a girl, I always knew that I had to live by the motto Dignity Before All.
That motto has served me well.
red-sfpplus 6y ago
I enjoy reading your posts. Thanks for taking the time to write them.
I would like to hear some of your AM when you are talking to the 30 year old that says your "to weak" to date women her age. But before you drop the "your not fertile" nuclear bomb which was awesome BTW.
Keep it up man!
Arhamzubair 6y ago
Fantastic post brother, YouTube channel looks great!
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Thanks! Much appreciated, hope you enjoy the content.
Goodava 6y ago
And that is the difference between Alpha and a Jerk my friends.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Please expand and elaborate. Thank you.
Goodava 6y ago
Self explanatory. There's Alpha there's Beta and there's the Jerk.
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
So in your opinion, who corresponds to which of your categories.
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absolutely amazing and I'm happy for you. My problem is : younger women don't want to date me because they think I'm old ( I'm 28 ).
Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Then you're doing something wrong. Whatever it is, fix it.
bcool47 6y ago
Never had this experience and I'm a year older than you. Dating as low as 20 and as high as 33 at present. In fact, the youngins seem even more willing now that I'm on the cusp of 30.
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Coach-Red-Pill 6y ago
Who needs looks or money, if they got game.
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Sir_Distic 6y ago
Why do you think that is? Is it because he's a sloppy, fat 50 year old? Not a fit (or at least getting there) 50 year old guy who dresses nice, acts confident and shows himself to have his shit together?
steppenwolfofwallst 6y ago
I know very few sloppy and fat fifty year olds who even know what game is. If you're sloppy and fat, then stop being sloppy and fat. Most sloppy and fat 23 year old guys can't get 23 year old girls.
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