There's a lot of guys in here who are banging the wrong kind of women and it makes them unhappy. Smashing disgusting thots is great for your initial confidence when you discover the red pill but it will slowly eat your soul if you don't adjust fire and start surrounding yourself with high quality, emotionally healthy, submissive females.
- It is not helpful to fuck girls who you can't stand being around. It's bad for your soul, these emotional vampires make you feel bad. The little bit of pleasure you get from conquering her body for like 5 minutes (you sad faggots can't fuck either but that's for another post) is not worth her disgusting aura. Take this a step farther and surround yourself with women who are smart, fun, and you could take home to momma. You'll be so much happier.
- The more loyal and submissive she is the less likely she is to fuck you on one or two dates. I see a lot of guys nexting on girls who won't fuck them after two encounters. I think this says more bad about you than the girl. Are you so feeble in your frame that you can't take a challenge? What is she some Machiavellian boogie monster out to eat your alpha-bits for breakfast just because you failed to bed her after one or two encounters? Maybe you're a weak ass faggot, or maybe when she falls she falls hard and will end up being more loyal and submissive and she knows it so she pumps the breaks hard. Maybe she has standards. Maybe she possess the healthy evolutionary trait of LMR. Some of the most worthwhile FWB and LTR's I've had have been the hardest to bed. Consequently the absolute worst have been the easiest to bed. Do the math fucko.
- Dating apps will destroy your soul. They've already destroyed the soul of any woman you're meeting through them. If you can't cold open a girl work on yourself until you can. You will have much more rewarding encounters with women if there's a mutual connection and you can stand each other's company. Dating apps are full of sad lonely orgasms. Find women who are happy, have status, and are full of life. Which brings me to #4.
- High status women are where it's at. Look at the social structures around you. Find the women who are at the top of those structures and bed them then come back here and thank me. High social status women, be it Ivanka Trump, or the head of the music ministry at your church, all have one thing in common. It's the same thing successful men have in common. Low neuroticism. Highly neurotic women create unstable hierarchies. It takes a woman with low neuroticism to stay at the top of a stable social structure food chain for any length of time. Mind you, she's still a woman so AWALT applies, we're just looking for the best ones here. Neurotic women will destroy your life and are 100x more likely to call the cops and say you raped them. Low neuroticism women don't want anywhere near that drama, they have far too much status to lose. Some of you idiots are going to confuse high status women with ruthless opportunistic thots who would love the added temporary status. You're looking for strong, long lasting, hierarchies.
- These women are hard to find. You will not find them on Tinder, in bars and clubs, etc... They wouldn't dare set foot. They tend to be associated with high status men. Don't worry if you aren't high status they just like powerful men and know the difference from an AMOG and a real alpha. If you have rock solid frame, and are calm and comfortable in your own skin, they will want.
- If low neurotic, high status women make you feel uncomfortable, if you couldn't feel totally relaxed in the presence of someone like Ivanka or Melania, then you need to work on your frame big time or you're going to keep slogging through an ocean of vile females. Enjoy the STD's and drama faggot. Maybe you can come here and write a book about how she AWALTed you but you didn't put up with it, while you over analyze her every action and completely ignore all of your blue pill mistakes.
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This post started off good before we got to the idea that Melania trump the mail order bride is a quality women.
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Quit reading shit written by fat purple haired lesbians
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The trump dick riding makes ya'll shit weak as fuck. I have no respect for anyone who is polarized to the right or the left.
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Ignorant_Cancer 5y ago
I don't know, I always see walls of text when I come here, but with all this knowledge and understanding, are you guys actually successful with women, in real life? (in your own definition of successful, of course)
Personally I think I manage to go for quantity and quality. I had 32 sex partners since 2018 and the lowest of them was a 6. Highest a 9. Average, 7.5, I would say. And I'm pretty happy. ^(Downvotes incoming.)
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I do well. Some of the talks I’ve seen from men’s conferences are pretty cringe though. A lot of guys holding themselves up in this space I wouldn’t want to be like and I wouldn’t want the women they date. I’m more ... concerned... (downvotes incoming) about the young bucks coming in here. They get a lot wrong about this approach to life and it doesn’t serve them well.
UnbreakableButts 5y ago
Thanks, faggot version of Jordan Peterson. Since I started I used to be "happy" getting laid with any number of low-quality trash but then I somehow bedded the hottest little submissive girl who wasn't insane and had a life outside of talking about guys she's fucked or the next party to go to and I've never gone back. I feel much better in both knowing I have the capability to attract women of that caliber and not needing to go back to sleeping with women I never truly wanted to so I could feel a little less lonely and more "alpha".
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Yes this is basically where I was as well before I realized the empty stupidity of banging perfect 10’s physically whose personality disgusted me.
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
There's a difference between high SMV and high status women. This sub generally doesn't care or talk about high status women since they are exceptionally difficult plates (usually they have standards beyond being a sex toy OR for them to be a sex toy your SMV has to be fucking on point) and this sub hates LTRs
But do agree with the OP. There are quality women out there. No, not unicorns. Even the elite ivy great career girls I know still are AWALT, but they won't be sucking someone's dick at a bachelorette party like other trash you hear about
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If I had a dime for every guy on here who thought himself a TRP MASTER ALPHA for banging app-cruising BPD thots who happen to be solid HB 6’s (so hot, really)
Haki_User 5y ago
Sounds like a "How to develop a ONEitis feeling step by step" guide.
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Do be careful, these women are so manipulative and scary for us silly lads. Fool me once, shame on you...
Haki_User 5y ago
I had the crazy type once. Brought here home because I had a little too much drink and ignored red flags. She started throwing tantrums and screaming at my house. I live in the third story. I carried here and opened the window to the street with the other arm and said "I swear to god if you don't shut up I'll throw you from here. I have a psychatrist certificat so I wont even be liable legally". She became as calm as a hindu cow and started begging me to leave. She left. Problem was solved.
The trick is to always appear crazier if you ever accidentally stick it in crazy.
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I had a LTR pull a knife on me from the kitchen block. A big one. I laughed at her. Don’t do that. Then the next time she pulled out my shotgun. I laughed again. She didn’t know how to cock it. I wasn’t worried. So she threw it off the balcony in anger/frustration. The next time she flipped out on me I put a handgun to her head. No more freak outs. That was 20 years ago. Learned a lot since then.
Ananonguy88 5y ago
Wheeere to fucking find these damn. Clubs no, bars no, tinders no. Workplace is out of question. Maybe gym?
Most of these women are also best LTR mates so they are already taken. We should admit that most of girls that fail to find a man and keep riding CC are these neurotic types we keep on plating. Sometimes I feel that I'm too late to the party and only ones left for me are tinder ONS types or low value desperate toxic roasties.
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My best bud wants to get married (I know I know). He keeps ending up dating the kinds of girls you’re describing. I keep telling him, find a really young gal from a healthy family with a strong father and train her into the woman you need her to be. By the time they’re 26 these hoes are damaged goods. You need to be thinking 19-21.
Andgelyo 5y ago
Where do you find these girls though? I’m guilty of plating and ONSing these tinder hoes, but deep down I crave to find higher quality women. Seems like most of those higher quality women already have boyfriends or are married and have their guard up.
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Yes all of them are likely to be in an LTR. They are hard to find because they aren’t out trying to ride the cock carousel. Here are a few places worth looking. I can’t guarantee you’ll find them and you shouldn’t expect the women you meet in these places will be the level of quality you desire. In fact wherever there’s high quality women you’ll find some really competitive fucked up women trying to compete with them.
Frankly these are places you should be anyway if you’re trying to meet connected men who can make you money. The wealthiest and most powerful men I’ve become friends with I met this way. The favors I’ve called in man. How’d you like to have a problem with the law and have a guy conference call someone with the county, they exchange vague words about your issue, non commottal and then you’re like “so what do I do now” and he’s like “we’re you listening? its taken care of”. He then scolded me for getting into trouble and said “you can’t do anything like this ever again. You know us.” Meaning that was your get of jail free card. Fuck up again and we don’t know you. The business deals I’ve been given access too through men like these still exceed the the biggest miracle deals I’ve closed through normal sales and business channels.
Older women in these families are always on the look out for high quality mates for the younger women of the family. Be careful though, you can also find older women who are trying to find good men for their less desirable family members. “She’s a nice girl but she just can’t seem to keep a man” is a major red flag.
If, by chance you meet a high quality girl and are introduced by a matriarch within the family, brother you are set. You can get away with murder if the older ladies think you’re handsome and a sweetie.
MisterDSTP 5y ago
I was with you OP. Im currently transitioning out of fucking these easy wack thots. It's hard for some of my boys who still just wanna fuck around to relate.
But THIS right here.. youre basically saying be tall, white and rich. Lol
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ex_addict_bro 5y ago
I confirm no 2. Some of long term plates were not a field report material for ridiculous long time.
GulpAndCry 5y ago
if youre careful, you can much more elegantly make a point which insults without using swear words. best of both!
jazztaprazzta 5y ago
OK so you want to fuck girls that are marriage material? Alpha widow them and make them unable to love a normal man?
You want to ruin the slightest chance of normal family life within the Western World.
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I mean, when you put it that way...
EvanPetersDouble 5y ago
Love this post. Big wake up punch in the face for a lot of us, honestly it's what I needed since I found such a woman but I'm struggling to convince my self she's a selfish slut, instead of having fun and enjoying the quality. Thanks bro.
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Discernment comes with age. She might be a rabid slut. As you do this longer you’ll be kind to understand what kinds of women get a certain amount of leash. Then again women are humans and they will disappoint you. The key is to be in a position where it doesn’t affect you. Many new guys next women out of anger at their own lack of game and discernment rather than a kind of dispassionate “meh, silly girl” and then poof she’s gone.
SemiLoquacious 5y ago
Liked the article. Great read op! Really disappointed at the comments, it's the same mentality of blue pilled men that reject this place.
I've been here a while. I've seen a lot of posts along the lines of, "never settle down, never commit, never betray your principals, never go on a 2nd date with her if she didn't fuck you on the first date."
I can't help but notice that the people saying these things here have a habit of aiming for neurotic, low-class, high-drama, chronic partying type thots. I might add that these kinds of girls are the ones RP principles work best on, because the only way men can deal with them is by manipulating their emotions and self-worth to the nth degree. It's great to go after these childish brats for a quick sexual fix, but for one to limit his pursuits only to these very neurotic hoes is a short-sighted way to apply the RP.
I'm glad you posted what you posted op! It's about time someone called out the faggots of TRP that refuse to test all their options on the dating market then bitch about how there's no good women out there.
When you were kids, what did you call the kid that wouldn't leave the shallow end of the pool? A faggot! As men in the dating pool, what does it make you if you stay in the shallow end of the dating pool with shallow women?
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I couldn’t have said it better myself. Thanks. You should consider posting more.
SemiLoquacious 5y ago
I learned how to articulate from Rush Limbaugh and 4chan.
Andgelyo 5y ago
Lmao at all the people calling each other faggots here, I’m loving it ????????????
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U-94 5y ago
Eh, still like quantity. There's a different number for all people. Most people are unhappy because they got saddled with religious beliefs about monogamy and/or got married too young.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Dude, you're still so deep into the anger phase. Why are you calling your audience faggots and assuming everyone reading this is an incel? It's not motivating, it pisses people off. You just made me quit reading your post after the 2nd or 3rd insult. I glanced at the rest and found more anger. Get your shit in check bro.
ChrisKimchee 5y ago
I thought it was funny u fag. But considering what your user name is maybe youre being ironic. Whatever.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
If you cant get past the "hateful tone" then my conclusion is you are as an irrational as a woman. Moreover, it shows your intellectual weakness because you cannot set aside your emotions and judge an argument based on its merits. It is good practice you fucking dumbass faggot.
If you cant get past a guy calling you a fag (a shit test/subtle amog), how the fuck are you gonna resist shit tests from women. Treat it as practice dicksucking numbskull
blacklightsleaze 5y ago
Because he is 20 yo who still thinks insulting is cool.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
So do a lot of the commenters here apparently. The anger phase is tough to get through, and cringeworthy to witness.
Camjd10 5y ago
I've never read a good post on this sub that unironically called its readers faggots. Funny how that works.
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Yeah, but guys like u/gaylubeoil have a way of making it funny and not insulting. OP is just calling people faggots without making it funny. It comes off as condescending and it puts me off. This guy has no charisma and it takes away from his credibility as a poster.
I havent even read most of his post so I cant agree or disagree with him. I just dont read anger phased people's shit because it's a waste of time.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
Bro, lets go to victoria secret and get you measured for a bra, cuz only women are "put off" by something and find it condescneding
Do you like pink or white cotton panties? Ill buy you some
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Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
Sigh. You're taking it too literally. I'm saying that no one is going to read his message and that he needs to communicate more effectively.
Sirkisskindofman 5y ago
I immediately tattoo'd the whole post on my chest backwards so I read it again every time I look in the mirror. Best impulse decision I ever made, hands down
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[deleted] 5y ago
Nope. Way beyond anger. Been at this a long time. You should be offended by my language. Use that offense to motivate yourself.
I never cried when the drill sergeants called us faggots. Why y’all so soft?
Da_RectumWrecker 5y ago
I'm not soft. I was in the military too. You're just being an ass. I know that you're just trying to motivate people, but I'm saying that you suck at it.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
USMC checking in. Can confirm OP sucks.
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Here's a box of crayons, try not to eat them.
Imperator_Red 5y ago
Here’s a box of dildos. Try not to fuck them all today. Space it out a bit.
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DeGENZerate 5y ago
This is the best dating strategy for any Western environment that I have read here:
"Neurotic women will destroy your life and are 100x more likely to call the cops and say you raped them."
This college campus sexual assault reform will not change the course of our civilization any more than Trump himself. The above quote is accurate and le ràpe will be ever more dangerous. The excerpt is the best solution I have seen to date on the problem that is ràpe in the west, if you live here and also happen to have a dick.
KeffirLime 5y ago
This is just idealistic. You don't need mother Theresa every time you wanna engage with a women, as long as there's characteristics about her that YOU enjoy(fuck what your mom thinks) then plate her and enjoy her.
Yes, keep working, she must be a unicorn. I'm curious, is this how to find a good wife/LTR or your advice with every women you encounter?
After two encounters you should know full well if she's worth continuing with.
It means you're prioritizing her pussy, you think she's special. She's probably got you doing the dancing monkey too.
If you know what you're doing and you're genuinely enjoying the challenge, sure, but this is shit advice for newbies who'll just get drawn in and fucked over.
Are you a women? Been watching too many romcoms. Stop fucking around with maybes. If you're chasing she's in control. If she's chasing you're in control.
You can only recognize quality traits, but to go in hoping that a women may just turn out to be a unicorn, and there for you should just be patient and keep waiting is a monumental waste of time.
Why? Not a pre-requisite if you just want to plate/enjoy women, and if it's to date, then "finding" such women is a waste of time, you can only recognize it when you encounter it.
What? The high status women that men are attracted to are mostly women with a large insta following, models etc. Men don't need access to resources. Career women are unnecesary, and generally a pain, they have strong masculine charecteristics, not submissive at all. Which is why.
Men want women, not women who act like men.
Women don't compete for mates like men do. Men have more of a vertical heirarchy, females more horizontal.
Their challenge is being better than the other females around them. Genetics/Looks will generally take care of that battle.
Men need to be strong and powerful, to protect and look after the female, especially in vulnerable times(pregnancy, post natal care).
Females choose for these charecteristics, men don't(shouldn't) need protection, resources etc, so we choose for good genetics(looks).
Yeah better start looking for my high status unicorn.
This entire post is a blue pill scarcity mentality unicorn hunting shitpost, faggot.
vast_rightwing 5y ago
His point is, fuck yes, or no. Don't waste your time with boring/average chicks just to put a notch in your belt
Truedemocracy4 5y ago
It's amazing how AWALT is so true and how women respond to the alpha of the situation even if it's temporary.
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Yah so maybe it’s just that I’m older and very experienced. There’s a lot of nuance to women. Once you’re a master (at anything) you can break all the rules. It’s true many of the young guys who are new to TRP (less than 5 years) should probably just stick to the hard and fast rules, should take everything in the sidebar literally. Should not “invest” in women at all. There was another commenter here that compared what I was saying to investing in a woman over 6 months with no ass. Ok a guy has that little discretion I can’t help.
Perhaps I should do a longer post or a blog post and explain what it’s like to be a master with women. When you’re a master you’re always in control even when other people think they are. She has LMR or hasn’t alluded to her apartment after coffee and some other meetup? Ok that’s cute, if she’s high value and wants to pretend like she’s different I’ll play along. For another date or so. You see, I’m in control. I can choose the time and place. Why rush if she doesn’t want to? Many guys are in a hurry and they spoil the fun.
The problem I was trying to address is two fold, 1. smashing low status women just to smash is a dead end after a while. It’s gets boring and you get sick of their shit. 2. Is for the guys with great SMV, I’m saying aim higher, look for a challenge.
Many guys on here post and whine and do all sorts of things but if you check their comment history they’re lazy shit bags. They’re new to TRP still in the anger phase or whatever and they don’t get it. They’re in every woman’s frame by default. They’re struggling to find frame. For them my advice is terrible. They’ll surely get used.
Shu Ha Ri.
I’m Ri. Maybe I should do a post about that too.
JohnnyMuscle75 5y ago
Excellent post, I completely agree. OP sounds like he desperately needs to read The Rational Male.
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herrazki 5y ago
downvote for calling people ''fagt'' do you think this people want to not get laid ? why they are here in the first place ? by the way you writed this post I think you got looks that works for you I am not saying it's all about looks but somegirls won't really fu you if they find you untattractive but hi send me a picture of you so I can laugh my as** off And you're a jerk sincerly
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JackNapier368 5y ago
The more loyal and submissive she is the less likely she is to fuck you on one or two dates*.*
Now, you may probably have more experience than I and the exception is not the norm. This takes me to the woman who shows genuine desire for a man, moves mountains for him and changes her religion for him. There are so many men who had FNL with the woman they end up with in an honest compansionship.
This does not mean you don't have a point, you do! There are certain circumstances thet have to be taken into account.
Care to elaborate?
P.s. English grammar is not my main writing language, apologies
TheOneWhoDidntCum 5y ago
There's always exceptions so true, there might be an amazing girl who's a good fit and she is genuinenely interested in you, don't dismiss the exception be openminded always.
caneyfan 5y ago
There are some good things in here if you can get past the hateful delivery and tone. Is there a reason you’re directing anger at your reading audience? We’re on the same side here. Lost opportunity for what could have been a constructive conversation on this topic.
Chaddeus_Rex 5y ago
If you cant get past the "hateful tone" then my conclusion is you are as an irrational as a woman. Moreover, it shows your intellectual weakness because you cannot set aside your emotions and judge an argument based on its merits. It is good practice you fucking dumbass faggot
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I’m not angry. This is how we separate the easily offended from the dispassionate observers who want to improve. Call a guy a faggot and you learn a lot about him. If he laughs at you and makes fun of you back, vs gets all bent out of shape.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
You might also want to consider who you are most trying to reach. Its the marginal guys who need the most help, and I find that engagement almost always works. When it doesn't, and you look at the guys posting history, it's all one-liner cheap shots in whatever forums he's active in. That's the guy you bin.
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Fair point. Thanks for the feedback
caneyfan 5y ago
Fair enough...solid post on vetting for quality. Some ppl enjoy playing “the game” and some ppl enjoy being intellectually stimulated by the opposite sex. Both can be and are valid pursuits at various points of one’s life. Thought you provided some good insight on the dynamics of the quality side of the spectrum.
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askmrcia 5y ago
I thought the tone of your post was fine and funny. Then again I'm the type of person that loves crude jokes and not easily offended because I knew you didn't mean the word in a literal sense.
With that said. I agree with a lot of your post.
I do just want to add one thing. Girls you meet in the real world, that don't hang out in bars and use dating apps you will have to drastically change your approach.
You may even have to play the long game as well especially if you meet them in some class or meetup group.
Going balls to the wall and trying to hookup within the first few times you meet them may not work. And I completely understand if guys don't want to wait.
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Yah if you want a quick smash sure, next them. The smart man invests his time wisely in a network of females with high status who will then introduce him to more women and before you know it he doesn’t have to game anymore and is swimming in ass.
Example: My best friend dated the head of a sorority (many moons ago) and built her trust and proceeded to bang every girl she introduced him to on the down low. He plowed the whole organization.
Example: I gamed the head of a professional organization, got her to publicly display IOI’s but intentionally never fucked her. Subsequently had my pick any time I went to their conferences.
captainsadness1010 5y ago
by no means done my journey, feeling pretty derailed as of late, but 1 is especially accurate. surrounded by accidental-alphas who don't know how to get pussy unless it falls into their lap encouraging me to fuck a girl I'm not into because they are her friend. nice to know im not wrong.
GoldVariety 5y ago
On the flip side, if your frame is rock solid, the type of girl you date should have zero impact on your happiness. Case in point, I've had great experiences dating girls that one might initially peg as "low quality" and "high neurotic". Sure, it takes a bit more effort up front, but eventually, even the most neurotic woman will submit to a powerful frame. A man who is abundantly rich in value can afford to be charitable in this way from time to time.
556x44 5y ago
Just lol at thinking boring ass, clingy, psycho women can compete with a nice caring talkative loving one
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Aren't you off by a millimeter?
556x44 5y ago
Its not supposed to be correct
[deleted] 5y ago
Is that like an inside joke? I feel like I need to know the story now.
556x44 5y ago
Ehhh something like that literally just mixed 556 with 44 sw
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TheScarletScholar 5y ago
Lol nah, to each his own buddy, thanks for being so concerned about my soul getting eaten though. Would've missed that part if you hadn't mentioned it about 5 times.
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Your mother and I are worried about you.
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I liked your style and its hilarious how people get triggered easily because of "faggot." We use fag as a way to show sincerity with our mates.
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You speak my love language
Imperator_Red 5y ago
It was just a bad post you fag.
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_be_happy_ 5y ago
I have bedded a Tinder date on first meet. She was young, slim, face ok. My friends were like "she is really nice" but I could not stand her and nexted her.
On the other hand a girl I had to spend 3 dates to bed, was one of the few I really enjoy spending time with.
Great post, nicely summed up!
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PrimeExamplezz 5y ago
"you sad faggots can't fuck either" just take your downvote and go talk to someone
[deleted] 5y ago
When did you first know? Was it when she just laid there?
These girls talk mad shit about how everyone else fucks. Statistically speaking most you guys can’t fuck. The ones who can get told they can. So if you’re not sure...
PrimeExamplezz 5y ago
It has nothing to do with what I think, it's the fact you assume everyone on the sub is lesser and wouldn't know how to fuck. YOU are the reason I browse this sub less and less....ffs so many low quality posts nowadays
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Why don’t you make this sub better by posting a field report instead of smoking pot and playing video games.
PrimeExamplezz 5y ago
I've contributed more to this sub in my replies to this thread than you did in your entire wall of toxic text. Just lol
556x44 5y ago
So toxic bro... Like, just smoke a bowl man.....
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Probably my toxic masculinity
Amiksthrowaway 5y ago
You fagg! your contribution is enormous you good shit brotha. Some people aren’t conditioned to tough love, Great post