I've posted this before but it was deleted because the mod of the sub this was posted in complained about it. I was told to re submit it with a screenshot.
Screenshot: http://i.imgur.com/8JMjN8y.jpg
Can you imagine the outrage if a husband had a 'list of chores' before he had sex with his wife or got her something? Of course she claims her husband is 'okay' with it but if he's not getting any at all, I'm sure at this point he's desperate.
This woman is literally prostituting herself. A blow job is an intimate sexual act you do selflessly to please your husband and she's using it as a bargaining tool so he does the dishes more often. I wonder what hubby has to do in order to get sex.
And the fact that she actually discussed this with her husband's sister speaks volumes. It's so disrespectful and disgusting, 'Hey SIL how many times should your brother do the dishes before I blow him?'
BlackHeart89 8y ago
I'm not tripping over this. But the whole system seems very child-like to me. "Here you go honey! You get a star for being a good boy and cleaning up your toys!" Damn that...
The thing is, what sort of relationship do these two have to even need this? Is he a lazy fuck? Does she not actually want sex (give blowjobs) with him at all?
Either way. Once shit like this is needed, the two people need to evaluate their situation. If he's a lazy fuck, then this would encourage a better relationship. But if she just isn't interested in him sexually, then this shit is over.
edit: At the end of the day, the husband is most likely broke as fuck and/or a beta. The fact that she is awarding him stars like he's in pre-k is enough to support this. And she is considering giving him money for a tattoo? Where the fuck is HIS money? She gives this dude an allowance????
hourglass_deLarge 8y ago
This is so incredibly saddening.
Solitary_Wolf 8y ago
below is something my friend sent me that i have saved in my notes for a few months. anyone in a LTR or marriage should read it.
Why your wife or girlfriend should suck your dick. This is long, there are no cliffs, and it is worth the read.
Why your wife/girlfriend needs to suck your dick...
This might be hard to believe; I know a lot of you have spent your life being told that men and women are equal. You've probably 'dated' a girl, casually, while still living in separate places and all that jazz. You might still believe in this equality bullshit. But let me tell you how things are going to go.
You are going to meet a girl and you are going to like her. You'll want to spend time with her, you'll want to bang her. At some point, while you are spending time with her and banging her (or possibly before) either she'll ask you 'Where this is going' or you'll ask her out because you want to 'stake your claim'. Either way, you'll be 'dating'.
After a while, but most often when your life's situation changes...after college for most, when you two are ready to settle down, but could be earlier; it'll just 'make sense' to move in together. Hell you might even jump straight to marriage.
When you are casually dating, you might not notice the inequalities...they are tiny. Sure, you pay for more than your fair share of stuff and you do more than your fair of stuff for her. She tends to have more problems than you and she never can really help with your problems anyway. When there are favors, more often than not, she'll be the one requesting them and you'll just happen to be the one better suited to do them.
But you aren't together all that often, you hardly notice/hardly mind.
But just wait. Once you are together...you'll see. For the vast majority of guys (STATISTICAL FACT - SCREW OFF FEMINAZIs) are going to make more money than their girl, they are going to spend more time at work than their girl, they are going to DO MORE for their girl, they are going to spend more on their girl.
In this day and age, you'll be lucky if your girl cooks dinner. Most girls seem to think equality means sharing the 'girl chores' and letting you do all the guy chores. When it's time to move into a new place, you'll see who is carrying all the shit (YOU ARE). When it comes to money, you'll see who is getting screwed (YOU ARE). Etc, etc, etc....
Women are attracted to a lot in a man, and a lot of that is long term relationship crap like how good of a Father you will be, how you are able to 'provide' for your family and that jazz.
Men, want a girl who is hot and will suck on our dicks. That's about it.
As you age, your girl won't be hot. If you get married at 25 and die at 75; for HALF of your marriage your girl is going to be a nasty ass 50+ year old lady.
You....you on the other hand will continue to make more money, spend more money, put in more time and effort than your single male equivalents to provide a better life for you wife and your children. Married men put in more hours than women or single men. You'll be expected to keep busting your ass from marriage until retirement to buy her shit.
My point is, guys bring a hell of a lot more to the table than women in a typical relationship. If your girl won't suck your dick now, when she's young, fit, and hot....you've really got to ask yourself what kind of long term investment she is? If she's not a long term thing; why not be having flings with slutty chicks who are freaks in bed? Dump her. If she is a long term thing....why? Why would you stay with a chick who is unwilling to let you enjoy one of the best things a guy can enjoy? She won't let you do it with any other chicks...right? But she won't do it to you? A BJ make take 30 minutes. 30 little minutes of mild unpleasantness (assuming she doesn't like it)....30 minutes of a slightly sore jaw....and that is too much for her to give you?
It says a whole lot about how she really feels.
And if she feels that way now, believe me, it won't change. But she, and all of society, is going to expect you to keep raising that bar. Go ask a married guy over 30 or a divorced guy over 30 just how much having a woman costs these days. Seriously. Every guy I've ever talked to will agree - they'd have a butt load more money and do a butt load less bullshit if not for their wives. Why give up all that for a chick who can't be bothered enough to suck your dick?
I've seen it happen, I've even had it happen. It's not that girls are evil, it's that they believe what society told them. Watch a chick flick...sit down and watch ANY CHICK FLICK and keep a pad of a paper and write down everything stupid the girl does and everything stupid the guy does. And then, notice how, at the end of the movie the guy runs back to the girl - almost always he gives up something he loves, to do so. Even though the girl did far more bullshit stuff. That's what girls 'think' is 'right'. They really think you should owe them, just for them letting you fuck them whenever they are in the mood.
Here's what you do. $30 dollars an hour is the equivalent of $60k a year. 60k a year for an unskilled job with no qualifications is UNHEARD OF. That is the ABSOLUTE MOST you should ever consider paying for a blow job. If it typically takes you 30 minutes to bust a load...that is $15 dollars a blow job. That's the FUCKING MAXIMUM....but get this, because I'm the nicest fucking guy on the planet (and you will be too) - double it. You are going to pay your girl an AMAZING 120k salary for dick sucking. That works out to $30 dollars for a 30 minutes blow job.
So get a notebook, or better yet; get Excel. And you write down EVERYTHING you spend on your chick and you write down EVERYTHING she spends on you. Even with modern chicks who 'pay' you'll find that you are paying 70% of the time, or more. My girl pays me $400 dollars a month in rent; but 'half' of the rent/utilities here would mean she should be paying me $700 dollars. That means, each month - not even looking at anything else, she owes me $300 dollars. That's 10 fucking blow jobs.
On top of that, each week we go out to dinner and movie; or maybe just rent some flicks and stay in. I pay 3/4ths of the time...and that shit adds up fast. Minimum of another $200 dollars a month.
On top of that, big item purchases always come from me - and it's not just me - it'll be you too, in a few years. New kitchen - 3k, hell I paid 14k when I bought the house. That's a shit-ton of blow jobs.
A CONSERVATIVE estimate is that my girl is averaging a net gain of about $800 dollars a month. And in the other non-monetary ways you can measure this shit, I still do more than her. When we moved, my ass carried the heavy shit; because I'm the guy. When we go shopping, I carry all her shit, again, because I'm the guy. When she's got a problem, I listen to her, because I'm the guy. When I have a problem, I deal with my own shit. I can't remember the last thing I asked her to do for me, but I can tell you 5 things she's asked me (that I've been more than happy to do) JUST since the 1st of the month.
When it comes to sex, she likes it just as much as I do. That's a wash. It's a tie. I don't get anything more than she does. What the hell can she possibly do to make up the imbalance?
SUCK SOME DICK
When you look at it logically, it's a complete and utter joke that this is even an issue for any guy in any typical guy/girl relationship. So, seriously, don't sit back and be like 'Oh, whatever, I can live the rest of my life without a blow job'. Go tell your girl straight up, how it is, and how it is going to be. My girl gets ALL THAT; at least $800 dollars a month in cash she shouldn't have, and all the other shit I do above and beyond the shit she does for me....and all I want in return is some dick sucking. That's it. In let's face it, in 10 years she'll be a middle aged soccer mom. In 20 years there is no way in hell she'll still be hot. I'm giving her the fucking deal of a lifetime here, and all she has to do is give me a weekly blow job and I'm happy.
Jesus fucking christ - that is an amazing deal for her. 30 minutes of sucking the dick of the man you supposedly love and want to marry; and in exchange you get all that? I'm sorry, but, I just don't care how small her mouth is or how bad it tastes. 2 hours a month for $800 dollars (+)...that is $400 dollars an hour. That works out to a salary of 800k a year. That is more money than she can make anywhere else. When you look at it like this, logically, with actual values....if your girl isn't sucking your dick and if half of what I said applies to you; you should be OUTRAGED.
Explain it to her, hell print this out and give it to her. I was in your shoes 6 months ago or so and I finally just said, 'No more of this shit. If you love me, if you love what I give you and what I do for you, if you really want to be with me for the rest of our lives....you can fucking deal with a sore mouth for 30 minutes every week. And if you get good at it, it'd only take 20'. My girl got pissed as fuck.
And then she sucked my dick.
Ovadox 8y ago
Let the list collect dust. Find a younger, tighter girl to give you the blowjob for nothing other than tingles and keep her as a side piece while you figure out how to divorce with minimal financial pain.
daveofmars 8y ago
I don't get this pansy-ass Skinnerbox thinking. Those guys are adults, not kids. They don't need goodies and gold starts for doing what normal people do.
I have sex because I want to have sex. I do chores because they need to get done. These two independent activities should not be brought together.
theultmatecad 8y ago
Thank God for outcome independence and dread game. Without these two tools id still be that same poor bastard.
login_for_no_atheism 8y ago
What's outcome independence
GunsGermsAndSteel 8y ago
If I might put in my two cents:
My most recent experience with outcome independence was a few months ago with a marriage that was ending.
I decided- I am going to achieve these goals I have set. I will open a business, I will join this particular club, I will have more regular sex with a woman who emphatically accepts my leadership. I also had goals about spending more quality time with my kids.
All those things happened. And more. I had to allow a divorce to happen as well.
I don't know or care if she has set or met any goals for herself. I care about the fact that my goals have been met- with or without her.
She chose to leave. I achieved my goals. Had she chosen to stay, I would still have achieved my goals.
MyRedAccount 8y ago
It's not giving a fuck about what happens when a person responds to you. To be fully outcome independent you have to be a bit crazy, but in small doses it's useful with women because you don't seem thirsty.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
It seems useful in large doses. I don't give a fuck what you do, I don't need you. And combined with mysterious and aloofness, psh game over
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Dude already fucked up by getting married. He's already lost at that point.
vinr001122 8y ago
If it comes to a point in a relationship where that happens, that relationship isn't worth keeping.
Also OP, on a side note, blocking the user names doesn't make them anonymous since the title of the thread is still there and you can search for it.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
Women can get away with this abuse because the exit costs of a marriage always benefit her.
RationalistFaith1 8y ago
If there's one thing I'm starting to realize is "blind love" is holding our species back.
SwissPablo 8y ago
A woman should want to give their man a BJ, not make him crawl for it.
Diabolical_Nuke 8y ago
Am I the only one who read this and thinks it might be a gay dude? "My SO", "Talked about blowing him with my sister-in-law" (chicks love talking about sex with gay dudes, even if it's about their brother). I could be wrong, I just got the gay guy vibe from how he/she answered questions in the comments.
Azothlike 8y ago
Lol, no.
Try that with a gay guy and see how fast he gets on Grindr. Withholding sex does not work in 99% of gay male relationships. And it doesn't need to. Because guys like sex pretty universally, gay guys included.
Diabolical_Nuke 8y ago
Hahaha, that is true.
I think I just assumed it was a gay guy because the post was written in a fashion that reminded me of how gay guys I know talk.
RemyPrice 8y ago
Wives: making men into children since time immemorial.
SwissPablo 8y ago
And the moment her husband becomes that child she's off for a night out "with my sister" ie the chap from the gym.
brain_candy 8y ago
Wives: dragging men down to their level of childishness in order to feel superior.
Fucking gold stars? I haven't seen or heard of that since 4th grade.
RemyPrice 8y ago
Fourth grade would have been more interesting if we got blowjobs...
The_Actual_Devil 8y ago
Something something tendies..
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evilkenevil 8y ago
And they wonder why there are strip clubs, prostitutes, and ocassions when we have to work late.
Chinkibus 8y ago
I would do the chores and then refuse the blowjob, I'm not a fucking vending machine where you put in sex for kindness.
SaiHottari 8y ago
Your method means free favors from you. Declining the blowjob saves her work. If you want to take the vending machine approach, talk her into giving the blowjob first, then decline working under your above excuse. /s
I don't actually recommend that unless you want a lawsuit. But don't just give her what she wants and decline payment.
Chinkibus 8y ago
No one free favor, only do it once so they know that trying to directly pay with sex makes them a whore
ubercoolhipsterguy 8y ago
Whatever happened to just saying no to not doing things you don't want to do? It's a free country.
Keep the blowjob I'd rather go whack it then be pussywhipped and manipulated.
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I've been in relationships where this shit occurred - "do this for me and I'll give you a blowjob" after I had stopped freely offering assistance with her tasks, and made it clear I was unhappy about lack of sex. Also requested blow job IOU cards for my birthday in various beta deadbedroom LTRs. The women never actually came through, since they were totally not interested in my dick at that point.
arrayay 8y ago
It's like a gaslighting RPG for these women. Let's make a contractual agreement! Your AFC buys into it. It is tailored to a man's understanding of honor and an established trade. But for the women, this in entirely an illusory manipulation tactic. The fact that some men believe that there's a remote chance of ever cashing in on any of these 'rewards' proves how well the illusion is propagated.
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redditmoose 8y ago
Some men go through alot before they realize. Some never do.
NorthMike 8y ago
Weak spineless men deserve to be obedient blue pills. Just because every man wants to get laid does not mean every man has a solid spine.
Baylien2 8y ago
I hope he gets extra cookie points when he breaks his back fucking her once she gets fat.
The_Juggernauts_Dad 8y ago
reading that made me fucking sick to my stomach
protoss--OP 8y ago
why? its hilarious
imagine a betabitch loser so pathetic that their wife makes a chart with stars for you like you're in kindergarten... this is a level of hopeless beta that even shows like 'everybody loves raymond' couldn't get to
the simple truth is it's not her fault. a beta can't be respected. even if he were to get with someone else, she would end up not respecting him at all and treating him like a child.
people think "oh well she took the lead and thats because of feminism, fuck her."
no, thats mad beta logic. he still has the lead, and he lead her into the state of beta loser & annoying "SO". she is just playing the role he put her in
YonosoyAZUL 8y ago
The most disgusting part of all of this is that most husbands will play along and do all the chores for a lazy blow job. During my anger phase shit like this pissed me off. Now I just feel pity for the men that think this is normal cause "Happy wife, happy life."
Also, look at how excited they all are about this little "game." Literally like children.
Sir_Shitlord_focker 8y ago
imagine if you found an exploit to the game... like pretending a pipe is broken and repairing it for 100 points... Free blowjobs. I'm devious enough to play that game :D
Chuckit_ 8y ago
How about this: "I will refrain from turfing you in favour of someone else for 1000 points. A week."
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Modified_Hackware 8y ago
That's "psychological abuse" and will get you arrested in the UK.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
I know that country has a millennium-old history, but it's time for it all to return to what it once was.
These attempts at civilization are failures. A lot of the stuff is good, but you can't give the least responsible people more leeway and expect them not to run with it. For God's sake.
ElonMuskOfficiaI 8y ago
It's like Monopoly. Once you know the optimal strategy (always buy properties; 3 houses per property to monopolize houses) then you always win.
Sir_Shitlord_focker 8y ago
You could find a piece to take out of the dryer that you can easily put back... then fix it for 100 points, then its blow job time again.
darkrood 8y ago
Too bad you can't pay her to smile....ooo wait
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
When I was a kid the teacher made us pick up two pieces of trash before we could go out for recess. I'd simply find a piece of paper and tear it in half
scamper_22 8y ago
lol, it's kind of perverted how many women are groomed to think of sex as a reward they give men.
My first run in with this was with a girl I was dating who one day got into a fit because I wouldn't pick her up, drive back to my place, have sex with her, drive her back home, then back to my place. I said, you have a car, it just makes sense for you to drive yourself. I didn't know much about TRP at that point, but it just made no sense for me to do this. I'm having sex. You're having sex. We both enjoying ourselves. Apparently she felt it was too bootycallish, and she would feel better if I picked her up. Well I didn't, but it resonated with me.
The girls sister comments a few months later. She's pretty religious and comments that women shouldn't have sex before marriage, or guys will just get sex elsewhere and they'll do whatever they want.
It blew my mind just how conscious women are of what they give, how much they take, how to control a guy...
Anyways, I became an expert jerker when I was younger. Sex is not something a women can bribe me with. This will all well before TRP and it is simply great to have that mindset. I'll just jerk if I have to. At best, sex is something we both enjoy or something I do to rock your world.
yaardi 8y ago
Bill Burr said something about that - it's like a woman locking up the fridge when you always have a sandwich in your pocket.
robo23 8y ago
Yep. I absolutely will not deal with women that think they're doing you a favor by sleeping with you. There are enough women out there that enjoy and want sex. I'm not wasting my time with a girl that thinks it's a personal favor to let me fuck her.
fhghg 8y ago
Abundance bro. It's why you got two hands.
ChadThundercockII 8y ago
Prostitutes are the cheat code for abundance mentality. Wife doesn't give sex .... call a pro. Girlfriend doesn't give blowjobs... call a pro. Single and not wanting to game club sluts... call a pro. Civilization gave us a way out, might as well profit and enjoy.
Falc0n7 8y ago
Yep that is pretty much prostitution
apackofwankers 8y ago
I met this chick in a bar in Montreal, who wanted $500 to go home with me.
I asked what I would get for my $500, and she said "the best blowjob ever".
I said, well, I spent 7 years doing yoga so I could give myself blowjobs, and no-one gives me a better blowjob than I do.
mickeymouseoutfit 8y ago
That's like next level MGTOW.
NSA_CSS_Admin 8y ago
This is the best thing I've read all day
Edit: apparently some people disagreed
colucci 8y ago
In Montreal you get the whole thing for about 120$.
Blowjob for 500$, better have golden saliva.
apackofwankers 8y ago
Yeah, it struck me as an outrageous sum of money, and I had no intention of paying.
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ChadThundercockII 8y ago
500 dollars ? like WHAT THE FUCK ?! You could get a million blowjob in Brazil or Thailand for 500.
apackofwankers 8y ago
She wasn't a professional hooker, I think she was just a random chick who was short on rent or something and pulled a number out of her ass.
ChadThundercockII 8y ago
An ass full of numbers in not a good ass. Gross.
watersign 8y ago
white knights man. fucking white knights
badp4nd4 8y ago
Sex should never be a bargaining chip, because now he can play into her game. If Sex is 4 stars, a man will rack up 20 stars with a vengeance. Now, by contract, she is in debt to him and must do what he wants, reneging on the deal should be met with divorce. Bitch won't honor her own deal.. next.
Now he controls her. Men can be beasts, and if you give us a focus we will generally excel, especially with pussy on the line.
All he has to do to get laid whenever he wants is some shitty chores, no problem. Cheaper and easier than wining and dining a woman who obviously is lazy as fuck.
moose_war 8y ago
Yikes. Sounds like she is really fun in bed.
Calanen 8y ago
This is one of the new pet projects of feminists. I remember seeing an article online about 'choreplay'' in that sex would be the reward for the man doing his chores. This seems to have appeared a couple of years ago and continues re-appearing. Choreplay? Are you kidding me? It's like an SNL skit.
http://mobile.nytimes.com/2015/03/08/opinion/sunday/sheryl-sandberg-adam-grant-how-men-can-succeed-in-the-boardroom-and-the-bedroom.html?referrer=
Soriq 8y ago
Just more proof that sex is a woman's primary means of power. Of course they will try to milk as much as they can for it if you let them
"What would you do to keep your man, ladies, other than put the pussy on attack mode?" - Patrice O'Neal
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SkorchZang 8y ago
Every woman: "Oh darlin, that's what YOU think... Hee hee.."
RUSTY_LEMONADE 8y ago
Chores rhymes with whores. Sex in exchange for services rendered. Does he get a receipt for tax purposes?
nuclear_coffee 8y ago
Woman here. I HATE THESE KIND OF RELATIONSHIPS SO MUCH OH MY GOD. This shit gets me so fired up. How did this mentality that sex should ONLY be a reward/punishment tool even derive?!?! Sex should NEVER be used as such a tool! A blowjob if you get this many stars? That is such bullshit. If my boyfriend and I are in the mood for sex, I'm going to ride him to the end of time, whether the dishes are done or not.
darkrood 8y ago
Well... on the other hand, some guys did all that and more but got a "I have a terrible headache"
keepitgoing89 8y ago
It's because she's not sexually attracted to him anymore (if she ever really was in the first place). If she'll only give sex at a cost, it can only be because she doesn't enjoy it. She could very well have a boyfriend on the side; someone she actually likes fucking.
turbinfullofc4 8y ago
Yes. This chick is emotionally clueless and basically turning her marriage into prostitution and the guy's a fucking bitch.
d6x1 8y ago
It's not selfless if she enjoys it
dr_warlock 8y ago
Man's commitment > woman's sex. Most men don't realize this.
nemaxofredpill 8y ago
This. I have two examples of this.
I dropped a plate a week ago because she stated that I "didn't treat her right". Meaning, I wouldn't marry her or give her her way. She even tried to use the whole "You are fucking up and not getting any for a month" to try and put me in my place. I just laughed and asked her why she is still here (she was at my place). Well, that lasted a whole 4 days of me not calling her or texting her. Now, she keeps asking me out for coffee. I have all of a sudden become busy developing my Spanish guitar skills and will get to her when I feel like it.
Movonnow 8y ago
Can you explain your use of the symbol ">" here please?
Antipusillanimity 8y ago
Most likely, "has greater power" or "has a bigger/more influence" indicating a man's commitment is worth more than women's ability to have sex, or woman's sexuality.
Dr_Morsu 8y ago
It is a proven FACT (ie peer reviewed published studies) that in a relationship the woman's happiness is not related to her husbands happiness whereas the husbands is. THIS was my watershed moment that led me on the path to happiness (no relationships)
blacwidonsfw 8y ago
Hit the nail on the head. I can not be happy when I am a servant to anyone else's happiness. This is why I never LTR either. I'll keep a plate till the very edge then drop it for a while and let everything reset. Once you go over the peak it's pretty much downhill. That is why you have to cycle and extend the hookup just seeing if we like each other stage because it is actually the best part of the relationship (the beginning).
My realization was that realationships are only less fun and more work in the long term with little rewards and probable consequences.
mks10 8y ago
I completely agree. I'm so much more happier being single and pursuing my own interests.
TomSachs 8y ago
I agree with you but assuming everything peer reviewed is a fact is insanely stupid
despoticVeracity 8y ago
Could you please give the study?
Bry6n 8y ago
It's not as black and white as OP claims, and more that the relation is that a woman gets happiness when she senses a partner is empathetic, whereas the man is happier when he senses a partner is happy. There are various psychological reasons for this, that has been peer-reviewed and put into this study here.
RedCrayonWizard 8y ago
Seconding this. Source please?
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theultmatecad 8y ago
Or just deciding her unhappiness means shit
Dr_Morsu 8y ago
Exactly. She's mad? Oh well you go about your day with a smile on your face....why not....she does it to you.
zyk0s 8y ago
It's difficult if you care about the person. Ultimately, you have to distinguish between her being mad because she didn't get what she wanted, and her being truly unhappy about something. Like with a child, you can't just give them what they want because they start to cry. There's a reason treating your woman like a 7 yo is very good advice.
Overkillengine 8y ago
One of the harsh realizations men need to have for their own good is that women are given the rights of an adult but rarely are the responsibilities enforced.
lebanesegamer 8y ago
Sir I love your post could please go one :D
zyk0s 8y ago
What would you like me to go on about?
redpillliger 8y ago
I usually go with about 14, but it's the same basic thing. There's a reason women are called "the
most responsibleoldest teenager in the house"Chuckit_ 8y ago
I prefer "tallest" or "oldest" teenager. "Most responsible" implies taking responsibility.
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Shiningknight12 8y ago
Its tough. Largely because women will try to make you unhappy when they are unhappy. Your only recourse then is really to leave.
screamingATtrees 8y ago
That's always been my reply to
"I'm just not happy"
Is
"then leave.. I'm happy and have been before I met you..and will be after"
theultmatecad 8y ago
not really. maintain your happy frame and watch them adopt yours.
this only works AFTER you raised SMV and learned to be a man
destraht 8y ago
I think that men and women alike both resent having to consistently build their partner up.
cariboo_j 8y ago
"learned to be a man"
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so being a man = making a woman happy?
Sounds like you are still plugged in my friend. Building your identity around pleasing women is also known as pussy begging.
theultmatecad 8y ago
being a man DOES make her happy but thats not why you grow up and become a man. That clearer?
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
But divorce-rape ensures the power goes back to her
RojoEscarlata 8y ago
That's why any RP man should know better by now, and a piece of paper doesn't make you more committed to a person, and doesn't have any other use than cut your balls after separation, is just not a smart decision to get married.
Literally no benefit anymore, and just risk.
ufd 8y ago
Check local laws with regards to Common-Law relationships.
Some places have laws on the books where six months of co-habitation gives all the same rights as marriage.
Don't even let her keep a toothbrush at your place!
RojoEscarlata 8y ago
Commitment as in personal. Signing a piece of paper won't make it either party more/less of anything really.
But yeah, you are right in that regard too, just check out France's bat shit crazy laws regarding paternity.
mordanus 8y ago
The only reward I can think of is that society benefits from the traditional marriage with both parents to raise the children. Without that society goes to shit like what we are seeing. That's the macro sense of it. On a smaller personal sense though there is almost no reward in marriage for men anymore
RojoEscarlata 8y ago
You can have family with out getting married, but then again there are countries where they "force" upon you the married status because some arbitrary reasons, and you are fucked either way.
Did you know that in France father can't ask for paternity test on a child? is literally illegal, and even if you did one (illegally) it would be dismissed.
Is literally illegal in France not to get cuckolded, lol.
Brave_Horatius 8y ago
You can it just has to go through the courts. The logic being that if you think the child isn't yours you don't have the corollary right to infringe it's right to bodily integrity. Still bullshit since a cotton swab isn't exactly assault.
mordanus 8y ago
Yeah. That bit made me think we in the states might not have it as bad as other places.
Yeah I know. A lot of places will call that marriage though. I'm not really defending marriage but rather saying that I've looked it over and the only good thing about it is that. You could possibly benefit society in a positive way with it and in the mean time you take massive risks for yourself with almost no personal gain. I personally would rather watch the world burn than try to fix it.
RojoEscarlata 8y ago
One hopes that the pendulum swing to the other way in the next years, is either that or total social collapse.
mordanus 8y ago
Yep. Some parts of society aren't worth saving though. It might actually take a collapse to fix some of it. A rebuild from the ashes kind of thing
lebanesegamer 8y ago
Omg this subreddit is like a dream come true ####
popthatpill 8y ago
1) She calls her husband her "SO" (significant other). She can't even bring herself to use the word "husband". (We know they're married, because she refers to her "sister-in-law".)
2) Money toward a tattoo? Oh gag. (Furthermore, a spouse can't "give" the other spouse money: moving money from one spousal pocket to another doesn't change the consolidated position of the couple. It just struck me as odd.)
3) "Myself and my sister-in-law". Why can't people use pronouns properly? Needs to brush up on her pronoun usage.
4)
I lol'd, funny because it's true. Totally gross.
So this is what we have to look forward to if we get married and/or have kids? Erm, pass the Vasalgel and hold the wedding cake por favor.
darkrood 8y ago
eh....I can kind of understand #2: The wife handles all the finances and husband's credit card is linked to her phone or the guy just get allowance (Really typical in Asia, probably not in US).
RedBigMan 8y ago
I've had people who aren't married refer to their BF/GF's relatives as 'in laws'... it's just easier shorthand when the relationship is already very marriage-like.
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RP_Vergil 8y ago
No.1 is especially Cringe worthy. It's like some women I knew from work in the past who kept their ring before start of shift when working as a waiter.
They'll get more validation from male customer with the absence of the wedding band.
Shiningknight12 8y ago
Eh, flirting with customers gets you higher tips. If I was a woman I would do it too.
RP_Vergil 8y ago
Not when it ends up with dinner dates and who knows what. It's a privilege in the past as a beta to hear them telling stories their husband won't want to listen about.
ElonMuskOfficiaI 8y ago
I wonder how many stars he gets for working all day and paying all the bills and buying all the food.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Zero because you know that's part of the marriage contract that she's fucking over by not providing sex for her man while he busts his ass to keep a roof over her ever increasing mass.
mrgregorio 8y ago
I was thinking this the whole time. She seems to have plenty of time craft up reward charts and complain to reddit that her husband doesn't do enough chores.
laere 8y ago
She probably makes sure those things dont count.
peoplearejustpeople9 8y ago
I don't know, what was all that bullshit about "giving him money for a tattoo?"
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Manmore 8y ago
I bet she gives him a weekly allowance or something
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ilphae 8y ago
Honestly, by the way her post reads, this guy is probably a loser. They both probably work, as most couples do these days. When he comes home, he probably crashes and plays video games. She gets pissed doing her share and his share of the chores. If he had any kind of discipline, his woman wouldn't dream of pulling that kind of shit. In fact, she should feel she is the one that needs to step it up to be worthy of him. Millions of betas out there, women are also adapting to survive it.
200mgtestc 8y ago
One thing that RP has really opened my eyes to is that behind every shitty "stars for blowjobs" post that tees off a huge TRP comment section, is a dude who's probably a loser.
EVERY woman will be crazy if you let her. It's within all of them. It's up to you how they treat you.
fhigurethisout 8y ago
Yeah, but if he is a loser, she still chose him---and chooses to stay. Therefore she's enabling this behaviour.
She has literally chosen to treat him like a little kid and discipline him for not doing his part, rather than seeing him as a full-grown man and treating him as one.
ilphae 8y ago
Chicken and an egg agrument. It is always the man's responsibility to be more of an adult and lead the relationship. Otherwise, this is what you get. Zero sympathy.
When someone treats you as a child, you must take action immediately.
ilphae 8y ago
Chicken and an egg agrument. It is always the man's responsibility to be more of an adult and lead the relationship. Otherwise, this is what you get. Zero sympathy.
When someone treats you as a child, you must take action immediately.
fhghg 8y ago
I've been there. It's the woman's house. She's the one who decides what shit hangs on the bathroom wall and how many racks of shit need to be stacked on top the toilet tank. She has shit everywhere. It's her house. Women do this much more instinctually than men. Ever seen a woman's long stay hotel room after a week? Shit in every fucking place. Some of them keep it clean. Some are very very good at it. But you cant. It's too much shit. You have to throw it away. That's how men clean. Disciplined men throw shit away. And you can't have that. Women need their shit and a red pill man understands that. The only way you can have a clean house is if the woman cleans. If you clean then a) you're a bitch b) you did it wrong anyway according to her 3) you accidentally threw away trash you needed because it was lost in all her shit. I'm a clean guy. I live alone now. When I was married I took nagging over not cleaning trash up. But you know what? She had so much shit that I'd set some trash between some shit and I'd never see it again. Then two weeks later she's bitching about trash she found in shit. Fuck. On my own I don't lose trash because there isn't shit everywhere. Organized shit or not, shit everywhere is shit everywhere.
WillWorkForLTC 8y ago
This is like the holy grail of relationship chore related rants!
AudioJack15 8y ago
That was bloody hilarious to read!
Baylien2 8y ago
A few years back my uncle and I were cleaning out his garage. It was filled with useless shit from decades ago so naturally we threw it away. Shortly thereafter his wife berated him for it so we ended up taking all the shit out of the garbage and putting it all back in the garage. God he's such a beta.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
That's why you do that the evening before trash pickup day
Shiningknight12 8y ago
On the flip side, I have found that the amount of chores that need to get done far more than doubles when I am living with a woman. They tend to fill the house with shit and have a much higher standard for messiness.
SDSAM21 8y ago
Amen, I tell me boys " all a man needs is an AM radio, a pistol, and a bed roll. Everything else is gravy/noise."
newls 8y ago
Women aren't good at prioritising tasks. They'll create lots of silly busy work that doesn't really need to be done but act like the whole world'll fall apart if it isn't done. They just love being martyrs.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Way more than doubles. Clean my clothes, tidy up, iron... it takes less than an hour a week. But living with a woman and before you know it it's an hour a day with TWO of you.
I used to say "you want it as sterile as an operating theatre, you do it, I don't care". She used to leave out lists of tasks for me. That's one thing I was happy to tidy into the bin for her.
rebuildingMyself 8y ago
They also buy shit that requires maintenance far more often (plants, water fresheners that require you to refill, candles that leave a mess to clean up, using far more dishes than is required to cook, etc)
highclassprostitute 8y ago
Yes, the far more dishes than necessary is so annoying. Like when someone takes out a scoop of garlic and puts it in a little dish, then measures out how much she needs for the recipe from that dish. Like wtf you're just wasting dishes. Or using multiples utensils because the broccoli spoon can't touch the rice spoon.
RojoEscarlata 8y ago
Back in my early 20's I lived for a few months with a couple of bimbos, it was to say the least a pretty big eye opening experience.
And I'm not even talking just about cleanness and messiness, It unbelievable how this kind of women act behind closed doors.
tuxedoburrito 8y ago
I've had several girl roommates and I've never seen anything crazy except for one of them back in 2011. But I moved out asap.
Like I would have weekly band practice in the living room at 11am on two days a week, every week. And one day was her day off and she flipped the breaker because we were practicing! We kept playing and just turned the breaker on. I don't care if your day of the week rotates, we have set aside time for this and we aren't compromising because it's inconvenient for you this one fucking time
Azothlike 8y ago
If that's pre-arranged and agreed upon and all that, sure.
But if I joined up as a roommate with someone, and then a month later they decided they were going to invite a bunch of people over to play loud musical instruments in the middle of the house in the AM twice a week I'd tell them to fuck right off with it too.
That's the kind of thing you'd need to put in the Roommate Wanted classified. $500, Util. Included, Band practice in the living room.
Darkwoodz 8y ago
"Once he's used to it the treats will be taken away ;)"
Priceless
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koji8123 8y ago
And once they're taken away the marriage will inevitably sizzle out an divorce ensues.
redditmoose 8y ago
Yes, but for many women this is just part of the process because divorce is where the big payout is.
brain_candy 8y ago
It's almost like a big game. Pretend to be someone else to nab a BB into marriage > Unleash all manner of psychological warfare and see what it takes to drive the man bonkers > Build up enough of that shit to FEEL justified in divorcing him > PROFIT
redditmoose 8y ago
I think the whole process is more subliminal than that in most women. They often see what they're doing now, but not the whole several-year multi-step process.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Weirdly my last SO did exactly this... even without the marriage part it played out EXACTLY like this. Even though she had nothing to gain, she still followed this exact script.
rockymountainoysters 8y ago
happily accepts chore list
reprints chore list on letterhead labeled "[Wifename]'s BUNNY RANCH - PRICE CHART"
laminates price chart and hangs it on the wall
ECoast_Man 8y ago
If love to make one for her.
Standing around dough nothing all day is worth a hundred in her books I bet.
Glennus626 8y ago
Reminds me of that Winston Churchill joke, where he asks a woman if she'd have sex with him for 5 million pounds, to which she replies that they'd need to discuss terms, but it sounded like she would. He then asks if she'd have sex for 5 pounds, to which she responds "Sir, what kind of woman do you take me for?!?!?!"
His comeback is: "Madam, we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price”
scarletspider3 8y ago
This is why we can't get married anymore. Even if you find a decent girl some feminist somewhere is gonna find her and try to ruin her with crazy ideas like this. Just go for a LTR when the time comes. If she ever tries dumb shit like this you just tell her to pack all the shit that she brought with her and GTFO.
truthuncensored 8y ago
Hear hear! Feminism casts a wide net so it's very difficult to keep your average woman out of it.
Women that understand and accept their own preference for dominant men can more easily steer clear of it. It's tough on women - all the bullshit they get inundated with.
scarletspider3 8y ago
The mirror neurons in her brain will predispose her to become a femicunt if she spends too much time around them.
Whisper 8y ago
Women will take whatever they can get from you, but will value only what you withhold from them and make scarce.
This is why women will drive betaish men like pack mules, but still be angry at them for not doing enough. They measure value by scarcity, not utility.
FerrusMan 8y ago
In addition, they are angry at them because they are beta. A woman wants an alpha around, and will take it out on the beta, just for being beta.
ChairBorneMGTOW 8y ago
/u/Whisper, that is about as succinct and accurate a statement I've ever seen written on the subject. Kudos.
_fappycamper 8y ago
This. Exactly what happened to me trying to "chore-play" with my ex.
newls 8y ago
If I could give you one of those Mars symbols, I would for this sentence. Well put.
theultmatecad 8y ago
wow--- thought provoking. thanks for posting this
women will drive betaish men like pack mules, but still be angry at them for not doing enough. They measure value by scarcity, not utility.
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destraht 8y ago
I a sort-of freelance programmer and I'm working in a cafe now. I make my own hours 100% and its not dependent upon being in a particular city or country even and while this is fantastic for myself it signals major flight risk and it can also can make me too available. So say that I haven't socialized for two days and something comes up it makes the most sense for me to go have fun and to be able to take advantage of things that are happening. I see it as freedom but its such an alien concept to live life like this and many people are accustomed to bosses whipping them, occupying a chair or manning a register or bar that it makes me not very scarce. I try to change up my places just be less predictable.
whoops_fap 8y ago
This is what I do too, except I hire devs to do the actual coding and monetize the software myself. Much less work this way. I can relate to what you mean though, also makes finding people to hang with a lot harder since everyone has a 9-5 and a boss.
peeweekid 8y ago
This is a really cool lifestyle, I applaud you. If being a musician doesn't work out for me, programming is my backup plan.
destraht 8y ago
Its cool and thanks. I'll say though that it is rather difficult to walk that tightrope of being wild and crazy enough and also substantial enough. I'm in Ukraine now and it seems to me that often I'm either too much of a flight risk for a real girlfriend or not wild enough to offer a pump and dump because I also make more money than average for sure. Also for a serious and committed professional there is a large risk in simply working too much and so I generally jump all over any distraction that presents itself and this seems to lower my SMV.
At the moment I'm bouncing around in a newer city and the last two hostels were run by women and they were fucking exhausting me by waking me up randomly if they were passing through and wanting to do business. Now I'm staying at a place run by a man and its fucking great because for example yesterday he just left a note by my bed whereas 100% the women would have woken me up and relished in my confused state. Its exhausting. Women usually just suck.
MachiavellianRed 8y ago
Why do you think that is?
destraht 8y ago
Its a power trip and its simply easier for them to wake me up than to not. Most often in these smaller hostels there is not a permanent worker in residence and so they are coming by twice a day or every few days. When they show up they are doing so for business purposes and they just don't give a fuck about the state of another person. Its related to that idea that there are many things where you would punch a guy out for but with a woman you are forced to only roll your eyes.
isthatyoujonwayne 8y ago
I guess I don't understand this part. Whose business? What business?
destraht 8y ago
They want money or to talk about your plans and how long you are staying, etc.
Myrpl 8y ago
Dude, you're living my dream. Not joking. Being a freelance developer, able to work from everywhere, or remotely with a specific company, will give me the freedom I desire, given there is also sufficient payment to support me.
Are you willing to share a hint or two on how to get there? Can I pm you?
destraht 8y ago
If you are willing to make less than $1000 then its easy. Don't at all think that you need anywhere close to $2000 for a large number of places out there. Try not to think in terms of earnings and expenses but in terms of lifestyle and savings. Also less savings can get you by for longer so take a cut on that as well.
Frequent a variety of bars to get work teaching English on the side (for social and fun money plus it uses different parts of the brain) or a second local programming gig. I was working a local gig and my normal gig for about two months and I saved a lot for the area. For a moment I was overworked but thats fine as hell for say a few months and knowing 100% just what kind of (wink wink) that will get you when you have a break. In Ukraine $10/hour is kind of an extreme lot in every city but Kiev.
If you get things lined up while your still in top economy then you can outsource yourself. I think that its difficult to get respect and recognition working in a top economy if you are charging $10-15/hour but you could try and sell it that you want some flexibility and that they are getting a 2nd to 3rd world price but with a local guy.
Also as far as hardware you will want to get as much stuff at home before you head out. As far as notebooks go I think that its best to go with a Thinkpad or Apple if you want something great and otherwise go with whatever local ABS plastic shit is sold in the area. Thinkpad T or X series is great because its so easy to work on components yourself but its so much more difficult to get parts as its more of a corporate type machine. I just went with a two year old Thinkpad T430s because its the year before they went thin and light and its a tank. Apple is great because there are repair stores and accessory stores everywhere.
Also have at least two ways to use Skype at any moment with a notebook and another portable device because shit absolutely will go sideways on you.
Get a double sized passport [x] (no extra charge) on the form.
For bank cards I like to have a Visa and a Mastercard debit. With my awesome credit union I get a flat 1% taken out and no extra charges. I have one savings with two attached checking accounts with a card each and I juggle funds around and if I have to partake in a shady transaction then I can drain out funds to the other checking for some time to see how that goes. Then I have a separate savings that does not have any attached checkings and I move funds into that when I want to take them off of the table. Having two cards is great because I'd say that about every two years I'll be hungover and leave a card in the machine and then its fucking great to have the other card. Then I have a backup account at another bank but I don't prefer that one.
Get a bag that is very large and can be comfortably worn and also isn't a top loader but a more normal style side loader. You want to be able to unzip the side of the bag and so this means basically no camping style bags and forget having a heavy frame because the Euro programmer lifestyle is much more about how your bag fits on the hotel floor than how it goes up the mountain. I use a Osprey Wayland 85 and its perfect. Also I think that "packing cubes" specially the Eagle Creek Spectre series are an absolute must have. They allow you to simply keep your shit together so that clothes are not floating around everywhere as massive a clusterfuck that repeats every two days. Plus it makes security checks a breeze as you pulling out three large items instead of masses of shit.
Also if you just save some $thousands as backup then you can easily keep afloat teaching English until you find more programming work. Probably teaching English is the best way to get a perfect ten girlfriend but I have serious programming skills and it seems like a major waste to let that slip at all.
[edit] Also I always have an infinite work load and so I stay in hostels and I rent apartments but if I ever ran into serious money issues then I would use couchsurfing.com to get by. Basic food is extremely cheap and buckwheat is commonly eaten over here and its extremely cheap and is basically a super food and better than what I eat when I have lots of money. So not having a several thousand dollar axe hanging over my head every month is a huge peace of mind benefit and I know that I could go low power mode on about $300 with high nutrition.
[edit] For the last 1.5 years I carry a jar a Trader Joes Coconut Oil. I apply it to the top parts of my face every morning and this small quantity will probably last a year. Its also great for massages and sex stuff and sometimes if I have a bad hangover and zero food then I will eat about a tablespoon of it and it slows down the detox and will get me back on my feet to go buy some food. Also it can be used to cook some eggs. It has amazing utility.
Myrpl 8y ago
Wow, saved this in a txt just in case. That's a whole lot of detail covered and I'm still new to this, and I cannot thank you enough! Lucky me I'm European so the passport part will be required if I decide to travel outside the zone.
Before TRP I was a blue-pilled IT guy who went NEET for a good while, feeling sad about myself. The one last question I have to ask is: do you have any programming language/technologies to suggest? I heard JavaScript (Node/Express) is hot nowadays.
Thank you very much!
whoops_fap 8y ago
You don't need to learn programming. I'm not OP but I do the same thing, except I hire freelance devs and make the software make the $, since that's where the passive income is (i.e. work once, get paid for years). Freelance stuff is basically just a 9-5, no offense to anyone who does it, I used to also. But the end goal shouldn't be a job at all like freelancing, the end goal should be generating passive income so you don't have to work. If all you want to do is freelance go to upwork.com and do anything you think you might be good at. You could quit your desk job in a week if you know what you're doing.
destraht 8y ago
I agree that just working isn't the best way to make money but in my case I own 25% of the large project and I'm never hassled about work. In my case its an alternative to getting Silicon Valley investment.
Myrpl 8y ago
You mean that you hire freelance devs to make the software and then you sell the software to someone who asked for it?
I'll check out upwork.
whoops_fap 8y ago
Partially. I sell some, the others are free and make money from ads. My most profitable apps are free apps.
Myrpl 8y ago
I checked upwork. I'm gonna start applying to jobs as soon as I learn enough to code anything entry-level, assuming my profile will be accepted.
whoops_fap 8y ago
Cool. There are also tons of other freelance sites, so you can try others if you have trouble getting approved.
ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST 8y ago
Do the chores and when she takes her clothes off, laugh in her face and tell her to put her clothes back on.
Spaggotti 8y ago
I think this may have been blown out of proportion. Though a stupid idea, she never said that she would hold out if the chores weren't complete. This chart may be supplement to a healthy sex life for all we know. I didn't take this shit seriously at all and everyone is getting bent out of shape over it. Posts like these are what makes people think this sub is sexist. We have to accept women for what they are, not hate them because of it.
Aiadon 8y ago
She's trying to control his life with sex. If by some great mistake I would end up marrying someone that tries that on me, she would get just one warning before I'd leave her.
snarkymofo 8y ago
This is sick. Couldn't even read it all. And all the hamsters patting this woman on the back for this idea
Chuckit_ 8y ago
It's Sunday morning whereI am. What's the bet this chick's poor, dumb, Dad-bodded beta provider is currently scrubbing the toilet so he can get a half-arsed blowjob before he heads into work for another week on Monday morning to pay for the house and SUV she demanded?
mickeymouseoutfit 8y ago
If she got a list of things for me to do, then I got a list of things for her to do. A blowjob isn't going to cut it. We're talking threesome at a minimum.
sealteamaus 8y ago
thats like a kid giving her parents a shopping list before she cleans her room
Aspiring_Hobo 8y ago
This is why I always ask the question: why should we make them better? They boil themselves down to nothing more than being a vagina.
Niikasd 8y ago
He can stop doing chores! All he loses is blowjobs...
VinylGuy420 8y ago
Which he probably wasn't getting anyway
wanderer779 8y ago
Also the girl mentions that she will taper off the treat part of the agreement. If you want to get blowjobs by doing chores, I guarantee you you'll get better results starting a house cleaning business and using the money to buy hookers.
Even better just get on tinder and find some slut that will do it for free.
neoj8888 8y ago
And there's only a slim chance that he's getting them from someone who's good at it, on top of that.
TenGHz 8y ago
"Honey, if I trade in 200 stars can you act like you enjoy it?"
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Zachar1a 8y ago
This is just a shit test. Let her write everything down that you are supposed to do to get a blowjob, and then rip it up in her face.
Chuckit_ 8y ago
Nah. Get a price from her, then shop around.
TheGillos 8y ago
Shopbot, but for chores and sex. I smell a website idea.
Trail_of_Jeers 8y ago
I love this,!
The neighbor's wife Sally would let me tie her up and fuck her mouth for half this list.
Azothlike 8y ago
This, sir. This is the answer.
This is why you don't get married, and why kids come with serious flaws(that are for you to consider and evaluate). This ability is based on the foundation of being able to walk away.
Once you can't walk away, you can't tell Susan that you can get it better at Sally's if she doesn't shape up.
Vigilo_Infinite 8y ago
Yeah, was going to say this too.
I think it's important to acknowledge the real reason she's doing this passive aggressive bullshit because the real reason is likely to be something like "he doesn't help enough".
wimmyjales 8y ago
The nagging is an attempt to take his balls. A never ending test of his resolve. It has nothing to do with housework at all. If they had a maid, she would complain about anything else. He works too much/doesn't go out enough, doesn't fuck her often enough/wants sex too often, needs to get in shape/hits the gym too much. See my point?
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
It all started when he agreed to stop chasing other girls. Commitment is the beginning of the end.
wimmyjales 8y ago
I would agree that the countdown begins when commitment is confirmed. However, I think the speed at which the relationship turns sour is entirely dependent on how much of her respect is continually earned. If you're a bitch who put up a good front, it wont take long for her to realize you're not credible and will move on after destroying you enough that she has an emotional justification to leave you in the dust. But if you are the real deal, a "complete package" so to speak, and can deflect her attempts to make you supplicate, the relationship can go decades before she resorts to more drastic measures to gain power over you. Either way, these scenarios both exist for a finite period but that doesn't mean there is nothing to gain from having commitment to one woman. The lesson to be learned from all this is to never sign a permanent legal contract for a temporary situation, especially when the stakes will ruin your life.
windowstapedshut 8y ago
"He wants to do it in his own time (not when I say)...I end up doing it because I can't stand the mess"
Read: I am the architect of my own victimhood.
BlatantTRPThrowaway 8y ago
I sense a huge double standard within myself when I cringe at the above, yet laugh and applaud when I read a woman posting this comment. Oh well:
Fat chicks get rewarded with good sex if they work out; fit chicks keep getting rewarded. Hmmm...
Yeah, I'm a hypocrite.
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Hitleronormative 8y ago
This again? Either I'm seeing double, or this has been reposted four times.
GhostOfAladdin 8y ago
This woman is describing a beta male. no arousal = chores
TRPrincecharming 8y ago
By the looks of it, he's a dog buying a whore.
EurasianAesthetics 8y ago
He's the beta faggit that let her have this power in the first place.
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ufd 8y ago
As the major breadwinner, this would be met with a 'Star' rating for money for her for everything, even if it meant I had to take over the grocery shopping.
Azothlike 8y ago
Fuck that. As soon as she goes on a star-rating allowance to realize how fucked she is, communal grocery shopping is over. I'm eating on the road every day and she's wondering where she managed to fuck up so bad.
NakedAndBehindYou 8y ago
She's literally treating him like a dog. And worse, he's probably going to allow her to do it.
g00bins 8y ago
And she doesn't realize that she's turned her pussy into nothing more than a dog treat.
SuperSpicyBasil 8y ago
Man is thinking of making his wife a 'list of doors' she can promptly exit through for withholding sex.
ChadThundercockII 8y ago
Alert: " Your statement cannot be computed." The term 'wife' is blocking proper computing.
Thaweed 8y ago
I think the idea is great, it's about the way you make it work.
If they have a normal sex live and a score board with Stars on it for extra services i'm totally cool.
the_red_scimitar 8y ago
Ah, a barter-whore. Got it.
trpadawan 8y ago
You seem pretty worked up about this. The worse news is that this isn't a new thing, "choreplay" has been around for a few years now. Just another way for BP men to be little bitches in front of their wives and girlfriends. Nothing new; move along.
NotQuiteRedPill 8y ago
RP ignored for a moment, a woman who makes a blowjob the "reward" for doing stuff is not a woman who WANTS to give one. Thus, the blowjob will be half-asses, probably a shitty handjob with a mouth covering the head, and she'll dodge the cum in a slow motion dodge like Neo dodging bullets. Where do I sign up? LOL.
What a shithole woman and what a foolish dude for staying with her.
fluxburn 8y ago
Well you can get a bj for like $20 from a young woman in most cities. Who gives a shit.
redpillliger 8y ago
In that entire thread, there were exactly 2 women that said "that's a horrible idea". Of course, both were buried under the weight of all the hamsters.
Remember OI and Dread Game are your weapons against a woman who tries to weaponize sex. Internalize those concepts so you don't end up like this beta chump
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QraQen 8y ago
A sister and wife collaborating to make this poor guy's life hell. Real sad.
g00bins 8y ago
They learned it from their mom. 100%.
TheRealMewt 8y ago
One can only wonder how good those blowjobs must really be if they have to be earned through chores.
The best blowjobs are the ones where the woman actually wants to give one.
NidStyles 8y ago
IME the best ones are the ones you just throw the cock in her face and tell her to get it done. The one where she's dreading not finishing and getting caught in the act. Had a GF at one time whom I was able to get off within seconds with it feeling like she literally sucked the sperm out of my nuts using my dick like a straw. To this day, almost 17 years later, I have never once came so hard since. It was so hard and fast everytime...
I miss those blowjobs....
makethemsayayy 8y ago
Nah nah the best ones are dry, like a desert in her mouth.
It's gonna be sooo dry.
PerniciousOne 8y ago
Lol does she have to be the one providing the blowjob?
Azothlike 8y ago
+1, like this approach.
I'd ask if it could come in coupon vouchers. And then I'd take my voucher down to the bar because whores are gross.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
That's a good comeback for when she says it.
That's great, so can the neighbor's wife do it? Oh and also exaggerated umpire tossing coach out of the game motion YERRR OUTTA HERE BITCH!
malariasucks 8y ago
wow that's really really sad.
needmorefat 8y ago
Back when I had exam and didn't want to study, my ex used to wrap her naked self in blankets and then say if I studied for 3 hours I could fuck her. That was fine. I think it depends on how the rest of the sex life is, whether or not this is allowed.
Azothlike 8y ago
Studying for your exam benefits you. Your girl is trying to incentivize you to do things that are unquestionably good for you. This is a good quality.
Doing chores that you don't think need to be done, or that you don't think need to be done as often, or that other people have created the need for, doesn't benefit you. The wife is trying to incentivize someone else to work for her. This is a bad quality.
ucfgavin 8y ago
that also sounds like a game you play when you're kids for fun. you were going to get up in them guts regardless :o
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