Let's add too much fappin too. Side effects there of. Porn ain't healthy

I'm a female- and I basically stopped having sex since my last boyfriend broke up with me via text message. I feel like the cause (for me at least) is technology. A few years ago, by a 3rd date, we had been talking on the phone for a few minutes every night; and had trust and rapport established, and they usually didn't have the time to be calling multiple girls. Now, since tinder and texting, everyone I know is dating multiple people, a lot of people are rejecting people for ridiculous reasons; and all of these rejections are treated through the silent treatment(ghosting). I don't want to get my feelings hurt right now- I just graduated and started working - and I don't want to sleep around or hook up with a guy that sleeps around. All my boyfriends in college, we would have sex by the 3rd or 4th date and then start dating and have more frequent communication. I love sex, but I don't feel comfortable having it outside of relationships; and the phone phone was MUCH more conducive for relationships than texting.

I fully intend on taking advantage of the situation. If younger women aren't getting hit on by the candy asses, or are getting stood up by Chad, I'll happily give them an alternative for the night.

Maybe its because most women and men are fat now and no one wants to fuck fatties, not even other fatties

I can say this... millennial girls are having sex... with Gen-X men.

youth and agility vs. age and treachery.

On one hand women never gave me 5 minutes of their time for decades. On the other hand though I failed as a "man". No social skills, no muscle, no confidence.

On one hand people tell me sex is great and I should have it. On the other hand people tell me it will bring STDs, pregnancies, and drama. People tell me American women have tons of promiscuous sex with alphas and eventually find a beta. I shouldn't care how many partners a woman has had but I do. I definitely don't want to be the last guy in a long line. I don't really want to be in the line at all.

On one hand I'm successful. Good friends, good job, good health. On the other hand I'm the most miserable I've ever been.

This is quite an interesting analysis and differs a lot from another one I have read in the Manosphere.

The other theory was that in general women are attracted only to the top 20% of men. This means that in a free society in which they are not forced to marry, they won't even consider the rest.

I must say your analysis makes more sense, because this one I heard of kind of takes the concept of hypergamy so much to the extreme that it is hard to take it seriously if you just have a look around and see all those couples walking by. More than 20% of men actually has a life.

Yet what kind of life perhaps is more of an issue. In the UK, I often see spectacularly handsome guys with very fat girls. I'm sure there are other men who would rather play video games than date someone similar.

So yes, a combination of factors.

I doubt it's feminism... I'm certainly not one but it's clear to see the men that don't go out and have sex are the ones that are too insecure, don't wanna be shot down, pussies, who are content mastrubating and complaining how lonely they are.

Although it's a bit of an excuse the living at home part makes sense. I just graduated college and with my student loan debt and lack of job I've moved in with me parents for a few months, which has a significant effect on taking girls home, or my sex life in general.

The 5% of Chads just can't keep up... I mean, they need to sleep some time.

I thought it's just my still uncured beta trait that I prefer to get a hooker instead of dealing with women in my free time. Now I'm not that sure about it. Hmm.

Great write-up, do you think this is the natural course of societal evolution given how social media basically exists to get women laid whenever they have the whim?

No disrespect to people on the RP, but maybe another one of the many reasons for this is because a lot of guys seem to view women as if they're a different species. Kinda like scientist observing dolphins and at first thinking they're the cutest, most friendliest things on earth, then slowly noticing hold up these dolphins occasionally do shitty things, hold up sometimes these dolphins are cruel and malicious , until finally all they see is only negativity from the dolphins and all they report ( from tinted lenses) are negative things that confirm their view that yes the dolphins are a bunch of cunts, and not the sweet Flipper they were led to believe.

I say this not based on RP itself, or older posts, but mostly the posts I've noticed over the past 8 months and the comments. People have lost the point, the point is women are psychologically different to men, so adapt how you deal with women and what you expect from women. The point is also women are not the princess' made out on TV and all that fairer sex shit is BS, women play just as dirty as men and often dirtier then average men. But ultimately most average (intelligence) women have a limited and predictable tool set of games and tricks that they can play.

What constantly going about 80/20, posting shit about girls cheating will achieve I have no clue. You can't get pussy if you resent or hate , you can get pussy or at the very least not get played by women if you know and understand how they work.

But why is the same trend present in Japan, a country where feminism has gained little ground?

Lol this sub is the biggest you i've ever Seen ????

Oh no. Our generation has stopped fucking like rabbits. We need our top men on this problem immediately.

/deadpan

No surprise there. I mean no one keeps their virginity these days. And with all the STDs out there, who'd want that? According to an article I read awhile, 1 out of 4 women have an STDs. I'm probably one of the few men who is still a virgin.

I blame Feminism & the Sexual Revolution. It's all an attack on the nuclear family

The Internet/Amazon allows us to easily ignore the 99 shitty widgets, & find the great, 5 star, one with 99% approval.

Virtually all healthy women have the resources to acquire the 5 star services for a night or two. I assume this technology will continue to weed out the sub 5 star companions.

Unless women come to realize they would like to keep their companions, rather than just co-use them for a week or so, this trend should continue. It definitely will continue on Tinder, as the point of the thing is to "hook up".

The very attractive men who had a hand in cultivating all this are absolutely genius.. assuming they don't ever care about anything more than having sex with all the attractive women out there.

millennial men are having less sex

FTFY

I'm thinking it's more because most young people don't have relationships. The ones that do aren't in them very long. I'd be willing to bet the number of partners one has is higher than ever, but overall sex count is down because people aren't together for significant periods of time.

Really good post. I had already read the Sexodus post 1, I did it again and enjoyed it, Milo is a genius.

I'd like to think western culture will prevail somehow, but if feminist trends aren't reversed, muslims will come to replace your low fertility rates. They are hard alphas. Violent, sexists and misoginistic. Eventually feminists will go to their arms if native men don't care about it, and I'm sure they have reasons to not care. But I don't want to imagine a muslim Europe for 2 reasons. First, western culture is good. We have limited but enjoyable freedoms, separation from church and state, democracy, freedom of speech and thought, etc. Those are good things that humanity shouldn't lose. The other reason is military power. If fertility rates remain, we will see a lot of new ethnicities flourish, mostly muslims, and I wonder what the fuck is going to happen when a democratic muslim majority choose the leader that controls your huge military.

Modern feminism is but a boil on the ass of modern western society.

It has to go .

Whereas I can't disagree that women do have the upper hand in choosing sex, I can tell you, coming from a guy who used to hate women, it's better to just not care about if they have the upper hand or not, they're people, just like you and me, they do get to pick who they want to fuck, but aside from that who cares, you as the man will always have the upper hand, if it came down to simply surviving, the man lives the woman dies, embrace that, and act like a fucking man, and stop letting pussy run your life, as soon as you put them in their place they tend to want your dick a little bit more. Also, stop being afraid to make a move, all girls love to fuck nowadays, if you pass their minimum attractiveness requirements you're good to go, put on some muscle, lose weight, what the fuck ever you got to do to get them, just do it, I've been the butt hurt guy over women, I no longer care, they aren't important to me

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Stastics. are saying sex happens less with with people from 2Ks

How old is the range? ??-??

Sorry to make things worse, but there is one thing everyone is forgetting in all of this; that feminism has made more females embrace their masculine energy, which is making alphas/chads almost impossible for women to settle down with. Women are losing touch of what it is to be feminine, and that is because of feminism born in the 1960s and hasn't gone away.

Woman have actually been conditioned to believe that betas are the ideal man. When they actually bump into a real alpha male, they don't know how to be submissive and it ends up being a disaster.

In solidarity with their unfuckable foremothers, they cut their hair short, get fat, and become equally unfuckable

Very similar to balding men in the middle ages makong younger men shave their head into a Tonsure

It's the economy, stupid.

As someone who makes $55K a year which would be consider a higher level salary for my age, $55K a year ain't shit.

Money is severely limiting the younger generations.

So basically everyone here is the problem. Angry unfuckable guys with no game and no charm who hate women and sit around jerking it to porn and so.who's blaming feminists.

Feminists like to fuck too they just prefer to fuck men who are nice to them and make an effort to impress them and make them feel comfortable.

Like a 90% or higher majority.... I've been banging mostly millennials lately, they're awfully predictable and annoying.

Millennials are clueless anyway

They blame various factors: they say we're too busy, they say it's because we're living at home, they say we're more aware of the dangers of STDs, and they even suggest that women are afraid of "slut shaming."

And none of 'em want to suggest that maybe, just maybe, baby-boomers fucked too much.

While I agree completely with you, I think the rapid decline in testosterone plays a huge factor. Biologically, younger people just don't have the sex drives they used to

What a strange game; it seems the only way to win is not to play.

The number of sexual encounters are higher than ever. It's just concentrated among loose women and alpha males. Betas rarely get laid anymore. They used to be able to get at least some pity pussy or a drunk fuck from a fat chick every now and then. Now, they can't get even that.

Feminism as an ideology will always be in motion. There is no doubt that western women are ruined in their hamster-wheel of "having it all" which is not realistic from a mathematical perspective. You cannot work 50 - 60 hours a week or more away from the home, in addition to being the perfect mom, and the perfect wife.

There mere fact that so many women have fallen for it, is a testament to the tendency of women to fall in love with what sounds emotionally right rather than empirically possible.

The fact is that feminism has broken both women and men. They have broken women in that in their quest to eradicate the masculine the women have themselves become masculine in their own way. Consistently conflating being a bitch with being bossy, stubborn with being strong and dependent on the state for being independent.

Feminism has broken men in that most boys are raised to hate masculine behavior, which is reinforced both in school and media narratives. The risk for males due to false rape charges, rigged justice systems and public shaming even when acquitted push them into their passive little beta corner where they wait for the women to finally finish riding Chad, so he can have the girl who has had 500 miles of Mr. Right.

Men are looking at the product of this cultural virus and saying "yeah, these people aren't worth fucking," and sticking to their porn and video games.

For me, the very idea they've been fucked by so many other men is like buying a car with a million miles for an outrageous price... The very qualities I like in women (such as shyness) have become as rare as liquid water on Mars.

Something these figures don't take into account is...

Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks

The number of millennials having sex reportedly decreased by 9% as a whole, but that doesn't mean women aren't having the same amount of sex as before. I strongly suspect now they're just having it with a smaller concentration of Chads, which has been the trend from hookup culture's very beginning.

I bet if you look at the figures of who's reporting what by gender that guys are disproportionately reporting they're having less sex. The fact they haven't done so just supports my suspicions. I think we can all agree that IF it was the reverse and women were disproportionately having less sex, that they'd be putting that statistic front and center and framing it as a "woman's issue" with all kinds of calls for research to explain why, to build up women's confidence, blah blah blah sex positivity, blah blah blah it's the patriarchy's fault.

The only article I saw about this that touches on gender was this one, but it didn't do an apples to apples comparison for both genders, and was looking at a drop in sexual activity by girls in the 1960s to those of today.

On top of all this the obesity epidemic is playing havoc with the sexual market for both genders, and then there's the fact porn is giving a lot of men an outlet where they end up taking themselves out of the hunt.

Men are looking at the product of this cultural virus and saying "yeah, these people aren't worth fucking," and sticking to their porn and video games.

As a MGTOW, you nailed it right there.

I wonder how much the decline of T levels has to do with this

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