I see very few posts and many negative comments on the topic of hookers on this sub so, as a guy with lots of experience in the area, I thought I’d share some insights into why I prefer pros to plates.

To start off with, I’ve never had any problems when it comes to getting laid. I’ve spun as many as 5 plates at once in the past and I’ve never fucked a girl below a 7 unless I’ve been blind drunk. I’ve had women cold approach me and ask if I’d be interested in a threesome and the extent of my “game” is approaching girls who I’ve noticed are checking me out and just asking them if they want to come home with me. I used to model when I was younger and still get approached by people from modelling agencies on the street from time to time; chicks often tell me I have good “bone structure”. I’m not saying this shit to brag – I’m saying it for the guys that usually have the “But I don’t need to pay for sex” attitude. I don’t need to pay for sex either, but I’ve done it at least a couple of hundred times anyway.

So why pay for something you can get for free? It’s for more or less the same reasons we pay for most luxuries in life – quality and convenience. The analogy I often use is that of bottled water – it’s in abundance and we literally have it on tap for free, yet it’s still one of the most popular bottled drinks.

Quality

While it’s true that you may not find many pros who are HB10’s outside of Eastern Europe (or their popular export destinations like London and Dubai), quality is more than just skin deep - the quality of the experience is what counts with sex. As we all know, becoming an expert in anything takes a lot of practice, and sex is no different; no regular girl will provide the same level of quality as an experienced whore as she is comparatively inexperienced and unskilled. I won’t go into detail about why good girls who have only had monogamous LTRs are relatively useless in bed – that should be obvious – but what may be less obvious is why hookers are better in bed than even the most promiscuous CC riding sluts.

For those completely unaware of how the transaction works; the specific services the girl offers are usually advertised (or at least implied in areas where prostitution is not completely legal) and this is then confirmed before any money changes hands. If she does anal, deepthroat, rimming (i.e licking your butthole), massages or lets you cum on her face, you will usually know beforehand and can confirm that she will provide these services if and when you ring to book her. It’s no different to hiring a cleaning service and asking if oven or outdoor cleaning is included (FYI – it’s usually extra)

Like any good businessperson selling a service, they do what they advertise and they want to do it well to get repeat business. Many are also natural people-pleasers and go the extra mile because they genuinely enjoy making their customers happy. The underlying factor is that the benefit the girl receives is money – she is not expecting to have any other needs met and is only there to meet yours. She doesn’t care if you make her cum, she doesn’t care if you eat her out, she doesn’t care if you fuck in her favourite position. She only cares that you pay her (and take care of your hygiene and appearance – even hookers won’t lick your balls if they look like unpeeled Rambutans and smell like ass)

Now compare this to a slut; a girl who does not receive remuneration for services she provides. What’s in it for her? It obviously depends on the individual, but if it’s not money, there will be another selfish reason - unlike a hooker, a slut’s motivation is not to satisfy you, it’s to satisfy herself. She may be horny and want to cum, she may want to lock down a provider, she may want to “experiment”, she may want to feel wanted – no matter what it is, she expects something in return. It’s up to you whether or not you give it to them, but if you don’t, the length of time you can spin a deepthroat-receiving, massage-giving, rimjob-enjoying plate is extremely limited. That’s if you can even find one in the first place - learning to do things like supressing one’s gag reflex to allow proper deepthroat face-fucking takes a hell of a lot of practice.

If you do happen to find one, can you continue to spin them by applying all of the advice in the sidebar and the rest of this sub? You bet your ass you can. But that brings me to my next point:

Convenience

You’ve probably heard the mantra “I don’t pay them for sex, I pay them to leave” and truer words have perhaps never been said, but convenience goes beyond sleeping comfortably after the deed is done. Convenience begins before your cock is even unleashed from your pants. Convenience is managing your time efficiently in order to spend it where it benefits you the most.

Now, perhaps my game isn’t as good as others in this sub, but I find it difficult to organise a plate to come over for ass to mouth with an hour’s notice. On the rare occasion I’ve had plates that actually enjoy everything I want to do, I’ve still had to spend time organising a time to meet up which is convenient for both of us and do it over a series of texts or messages which last for far too long. This is not efficient and does not help me if I feel like fucking her ass right now instead of tomorrow.

As many of you will know, this merely scratches the surface of the time commitment required to spin plates. It may not seem like much at first, but it often adds up and can get to the point where you feel the need to waste time posting on AskTRP for advice on how to waste more time on your plate(s). Time is money, and you can spend money on whores who will fuck you better than a plate.

The Epiphany

As you can probably guess, this is not a recent trend in my life; I’ve been fucking hookers regularly for nearly a decade now. I fucked my first hooker on an overseas trip and was instantly sold. I fucked at least one per day for the remainder of the trip and came back home to a few plates that just did not compare. It was like coming home to a garage of 6 cylinder road cars after racing turbo V10’s around a track for two weeks. I now fuck hookers as often as once or twice per week, but my long term average would not be anywhere near as frequent due to LTRs and periods where my disposable income is low (I should probably also point out that I live in Europe and half an hour with 21yo HB8 can be had for around US$80 if you shop around online).

Prior to that, I was one of the aforementioned “I don’t need to pay for sex” guys. I spent far too much of my free time navigating through a storm of shit tests from plates and far too little time fucking girls when it was actually convenient for me. I’ve put up with clingy bitches who thought we were in a relationship, crazy ones whose behaviour bordered on stalking, and girls who played hard to get so much that I stopped even bothering to contact them. Some could fuck almost as well as a hooker, but all of them wanted something in return. I still fuck regular girls, but I don’t actively seek them out anymore.

Now, I’m not suggesting that everyone should drop all their plates and start fucking pros. As with a lot of posts on this sub, this is just an insight into the knowledge I’ve gained through my own experiences. Where it’s likely to be most applicable for the average RPer is in breaking through plateaus in your abundance mentality – if you know you can have a hot little HB8 tossing your salad within an hour, you’re going to give less of a shit that the HB7 at the bar might reject you.

Obligatory pre-emptive response to STD comments: I’ve had Gonorrhoea twice; once from a FWB and once from a ONS. I’ve never caught anything from a hooker. Condoms work – the only reason I got infected twice is because I didn’t use one. I’ve never fucked a hooker without a condom, hence why I’ve never had any issues from them. It doesn’t matter who you’re fucking – wrap it up and you’ll be fine. You’re more likely to get injured riding a bicycle than catch something from fucking a hooker.