In this modern era we live in I see a lot of newspeak. Even in this very forum I see people use terms incorrectly, presumably to make themselves feel better. However, reality should be your best friend and you should embrace the reality of all things to know where you stand and how to improve. Here is a short reminder to know where you stand with a bitch to complement the excellent bitch management guide on the sidebar:
You are giving her attention beyond the initial contact but you aren't fucking her: You are an ORBITER.
You are giving her little to no attention and you are fucking her and several other chicks: She is a PLATE.
You are giving her attention and both of you are fucking others: You are FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS.
You are giving her attention and fucking only her and she is also only fucking you: She is your GIRLFRIEND.
You are giving her attention and fucking only her, she is fucking others: You are a CUCK.
You are giving her attention but she is a long distance away from you: You are an ORBITER and a CUCK.
Bonus round:
You think she is special in some way and different from the other bitches: You have ONEITIS.
You post a long story about her in asktrp: You have ONEITIS.
Didn't read the sidebar because you don't think it covers your situation?: You have ONEITIS.
TrenGod37 5y ago
Oneitis is what you feel when you don’t think you can do any better
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Youngyoda89 5y ago
Oneitis can be simple as getting too caught up on one girl. It doesn’t have to be that you think you can’t do any better than other; simply too much thought into her can also be oneitis.
TrenGod37 5y ago
Too much thought usually means. You don’t think you can do better. Bc if you did. You wouldn’t be thinking too much about her. You’d be thinking about the better ones. And once there becomes more than one. You don’t think about any of them
Morphs_ 5y ago
I think this is a rather failed attempt to explain oneitis in a short sentence. Heck it doesn't even mention women.
SelfTaughtPiano 5y ago
Oh, this describes all my oneitis.
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enola_yay 5y ago
I have a genuine question, and I will mention that I currently have severe oneitis for my ex-gf. What if I actually cannot do any better?
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PM_ME_UR_NAKED_TITS 5y ago
Work on yourself until you can.
womans_algorithm 5y ago
You don't have romantic feelings for her and you enjoy each others company: You are her FRIEND.
nzjbruh 5y ago
Important to remember that if you're trying to sleep with every chick you come across, you're lowering your value until you're average. Not only that, it's very insecure and a form of validation seeking. Glad someone pointed out that in some cases, arguably most, a chick will just be your friend.
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
Are you suggesting men shouldn't be trying to sleep with every woman they meet and find attractive? Why do you say that?
nzjbruh 5y ago
To answer your question, yes.
I think it's a question of what you want to do vs. what you should do. It's nature to want to have sex with all women you're attracted to and given the way society is, it might not be your best bet.
Imagine it's a chick who has a BF and you ruin any chances of a relationship with him. Keeping in mind that hot chicks know their worth and aim for higher value men, surrounding yourself with him as opposed to sleeping with her might yield more benefit in the long run.
TRP is sexual strategy oriented but a large part is also self realization which often happens through your connections in life.
This is a topic that goes deeper but this is the jist of how I see it.
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
My male friends, and my female fuck buddies are two completely seperate aspects of my life.
You said it's nature of doing what you want vs should, and what I should be doing by natural demand is fucking, or trying to fuck all the hottest girls around me, and that's exactly what I wanna do.
IDK what you mean about society today, it's the perfect pleasure paradise. Sex is abundant and obtainable.
nzjbruh 5y ago
If I have a choice between a hot chick for a single lay or connecting with her BF who can help me advance in career/business/fitness/etc., then that's where I'd stop and think twice. My argument is more of a simple pleasure vs. delayed benefit. You have to play your cards wisely.
Also this is assuming the chick is hot. Originally I only mentioned trying to sleep with every chick you come across, not necessarily hot.
p3n1x 5y ago
WTF are you hamstering about?
You wont fuck a woman because HER BOYFREIND can show you how to do a better pushup or eat blended greens to detox your faggotry?
You won't bang the girl of a man you think is superior to you. If he can "advance" you , that means you put him on a pedestal. This is like some Proto Cuck thing. Would you let a superior man fuck your woman for 'advancement'??
nzjbruh 5y ago
Spare us the edgy teen hormones my man. Notice how the rest of the people in disagreement actually discuss it rather than pout like a chick.
You literally summarized the logic in your other comment, others can read between the lines and don't need it spelled out for them. If you think advancement is as simple as slaying pussy then that's your choice.
TRP is a framework/guideline to apply to yourself as you wish. No one here is giving you literal procedures. You do you and I'ma keep up with my "faggotry" as you put it.
p3n1x 5y ago
Boohoo I didn't speak to you with a tone of your approval. You didn't answer a single issue being questioned.
No sweetheart, you don't even need pussy for advancement. Pussy is the reward of intellect and hard work.
I think your advice sucks, that is all. I think it is a harmful frame of mind to suggest for those crawling out of the mud. Then to have the sadness to call it "an advanced form of thinking".
Cucks exists because some people like it. Not all cucks are accidents.
Some people are here because they absolutely need shit spelled out for them!
nzjbruh 5y ago
There's no reason for me to address your comment fully when all you did was pinpoint "fitness" and go down the rabbit hole. How many logical fallacies did you hit there?
Are you even reading the comment chain? No one wants your approval or cares if you have theirs. We're strangers that will never meet.
You think that pussy is a >reward< of intellect and hard work. In other words, you're invested in pussy rather than yourself which is missing the point entirely.
My advice could be garbage for you the same way yours is for me which is why this stuff has to be applied rather than mentally masturbated. It's not some universal constant.
Regardless, here's a tip: At the end of the day no one will remember you or pay you for how much pussy you got.
offbeast 5y ago
Tell that to the mongoloids who get pussy with ease. Pussy doesn't reward shit, its just pussy. You can get it, or you can hamster around about not being hardworking or intellectual enough.
NeedingAdvice86 5y ago
Dudes who think that way are the ones who rarely, if ever, see a pussy, so their entire mind is obsessed with that over everything else.
When you have experience and abundance of girls then you are more selective and can actually pass up a piece of pussy for any variety of reasons.
The more adamant that a particular poster is that they are going to fuck something\everything over every other consideration in the world or life is usually a pretty good sign that said poster doesn't have a chance at said pussy nor have much other options at pussy either.
nzjbruh 5y ago
Very well put. I'd go a step further and argue that men should have experience voluntarily ending relationships.
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LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
Interesting thought. We agree on that! I used to fuck "every" girl, terrible time. When I start going after girls I thought were hot things went way better.
NumerousImprovements 5y ago
If you don’t have any friends who are girls, for the sole reason that you only want to fuck them, you need to reassess where you’re at.
p3n1x 5y ago
Dial down the utopian best advantage BS. By time you figure out the value of a RANDOMS BF, you have wasted your time.
And use common sense with the rest of your reply. Don't fuck the the bosses wife, that is a no brainer. Don't fuck the SO's of people you are close to or hold "current" value, duh.
OR Fuck them all and be OK with the consequences.
A "Boyfriend" means jack shit in Western society. You fuck her and they don't get the Disney ending? GOOD, you just saved his ass.
wheelchairdom 5y ago
This seems very manipulative and just weasel like... maybe you should have better friends so you wouldn’t have to find hot girls with boyfriends, kinda weird imo. It’s like you’re trying to climb a ladder of dicks
nzjbruh 5y ago
I agree it's sociopathic in a sense. I'm not suggesting finding hot girls with BFs, but I am suggesting finding people (men and women) who have the things you want and associating with them.
Climbing a ladder of dicks is common in the corporate (public and private) world.
wheelchairdom 5y ago
As long as you’re not hurting too much ppl along the way, I can see what you mean. Maybe I just don’t understand the red pill as much. I can see your point
Lib3rtarianSocialist 5y ago
Have you read the sidebar?
wheelchairdom 5y ago
Sorry I’m on mobile, I’m an idiot
Operator216 5y ago
Morals aren't something we discuss here.
wheelchairdom 5y ago
Sorry I’m on mobile, I’m so ignorant
RedsideoftheMoon 5y ago
Yeah, and honestly if you're trying to fuck every girl you meet, EVEN if you're succeeding, I'd consider it an unhealthy relationship with sex. It's not organic and it can even be an obsession. I mean I had that one year post-breakup where I fucked about 20 girls. That was not fun in retrospect cause every interaction with a girl I found remotely attractive was "OK HOW DO I ESCALATE THIS CONVERSATION TO A NUMBER CLOSE AND INVITE HER FOR A DRINK HURR DURR DURR"
Nowadays, I put my focus on my work projects and my fitness. And if I find a girl attractive I have a conversation with her and I make sure to tell her I think she's attractive and I'm free on fucking Tuesday night, come join me at this place at this time and if that doesn't work, sorry kind of have shit to do.
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Alfred5150EVH 5y ago
It seems like a new tendency in this sub. Trying to subtly promote WASP morality as a sort of revealed truth. Similar to using TRP to get this or that unicorn to have the traditional life one didn't experience at home and feels entitled to. Kinda misses the point of "TRP is amoral".
hufreema 5y ago
Amoral? Sure. Objective? Nah. This sub does well in some regards, but is willing to ignore large parts of the human experience for sake of a low resolution, actionable philosophy and lens.
hufreema 5y ago
Sex comes with risks. It is also a distraction. Chasing sex can come between you and your own goals and self actualization. It's not the goal; it's an indication you're doing well.
Also, many people enjoy monogamy. Companionate love is a thing. Having a partner in crime is appealing.
ChaseThisPanic 5y ago
But he didn't say anything about whether or not you find them attractive.
LiveAFTSOV 5y ago
Don't sleep with every girl you meet. Sleep with ever hot girl you meet
gbdoragnic 5y ago
trying and wanting are too different things.
> it's very insecure and a form of validation seeking.
My dick is insecure than? WTF man I can feel and do whatever the fuck I want, that is what red pill is, the fact that women want to fuck just as much as men, they just have more options, if you have a lack of options conducting yourself with tact is fine
nzjbruh 5y ago
Water seeks its own level. If you fuck a fat ugly chick just cause, then you're insecure about your own value.
CaptainBW 5y ago
This is honestly the most blue pill comment I’ve ever come across on this forum. Being honest with one’s desires shouldn’t be pursued out of fear of damaging one’s perceived status? That completely bends to the Feminist Imperative. Women guard their status like that. If you’re worried about appearing as a thirsty beta, you need stronger Frame. Why this has the upvotes it does....what is going on with this place
nzjbruh 5y ago
If passing on easy lays with fat/ugly/low status women makes me a blue pill feminist beta then so be it. This isn't even about frame at this point, you don't have to fuck every woman that gives you the slightest bit of attention. Value yourself.
Edit: Ask yourself, would you say this to someone who has a master's degree in STEM and doesn't apply to minimum wage jobs?
CarnelianCore 5y ago
It's not about perceived status, it's about personal standards. If you always settle for less than you can get, you're lowering your standards. If you pass on the low value women, and go for higher value, you're increasing your standards. Over time, 7/10s will become the new standard and you won't even consider low value women as an option anymore.
cappadocianhawk 5y ago
Why would I enjoy her company if I'm not fucking her?
TrenGod37 5y ago
That’s up to you. It’s okay to keep females around that you aren’t fucking. Sometimes it’s actually very beneficial. I wrote a post on it.
The problem comes when YOU want sex and she wants friendship
mxrtenxx 5y ago
what to do in that case?
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cappadocianhawk 5y ago
I have friends to do friend stuff with. If I wanted friends with drama, maybe. I get your point.
TrenGod37 5y ago
My female friends don’t cause me any drama. They bring hot women around me. Easy pussy. You’re missing out
cappadocianhawk 5y ago
I'll defer to your experience on that. I haven't had the same results.
TrenGod37 5y ago
I tried linking the post here but it wouldn’t work. Look in my post history. I wrote about it “friendzoning women”
p3n1x 5y ago
They aren't "friends", they are pussy in a bottle. You know you can fuck them if you want to. This could boil down to the subjectiveness of the term "friend".
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TrenGod37 5y ago
Lmao you don’t get out much do you
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TrenGod37 5y ago
If you went out you’d notice not all hot women hang around hot women. Actually most not so hot women hang with hot women so the hot women can feel better about themselves. This is 101 knowledge bro. I have female friends who aren’t my type who hang around hotter women who are. I don’t get what the big mystery here is
nzjbruh 5y ago
To be honest with you this reeks of inexperience, dissatisfaction, and frustration. One of the best ways to get kills is having female friends that introduce you to their friends.
cappadocianhawk 5y ago
Which is altogether different than "enjoying their company".
nzjbruh 5y ago
You're friends with people whose company you enjoy on a recurring basis.
cappadocianhawk 5y ago
That is correct. However I feel having female friends is advanced since many newbies will think they are friends with girls they want to have sex with and that is not okay ( neither is that friendship). I always end up having sex with my female friends at some point and it goes downhill from there. I just stopped thinking about it your way.
edit: I still talk to chicks whom I don't want to fuck, but I wouldn't call them friends since I won't spend any moment with them if it doesn't advance my personal goals.
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Men and women can't be friends. From my experience, one of us always ended up liking the other one sexually. If it's platonic from her side, you get the fuck out.
womans_algorithm 5y ago
Because despite AWALT, she is still a human with whom you can have fun time with. I read your other comments here and I understand that your experience is different, but that doesn't invalidate my experience.
I'd advise you to think where you meet your women. Different caliber of women tend to socialize at different places.
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Lib3rtarianSocialist 5y ago
That statement can actually be completely rational, depending on the circunstances the man is living in.
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Lib3rtarianSocialist 5y ago
I have been thinking about this idea quite a bit before about women being incapable of friendship similar to their incapacity to love. At least those terms are defined differently for women compared to men. So, I see girls writing very long birthday wishes on social media for their "besties" which include many proclamations of loving them. I get the feeling that the reason behind them typing huge "love letters" really is not a legitimate feeling of friendship but it has a customary ritualistic base. One is 'supposed' to write a very large birthday message for their besties. I have a question unanswered. Why do women have "friends"? What's the psychology behind it? Maybe it is purely conditional.
banthrow 5y ago
I've had girls writing me long love letters just to leave me a couple days later. I suspect the love letters were ritualistic too, they had zero feelings but she was "supposed" to write the letter. Damn confusing bitches.
Lib3rtarianSocialist 5y ago
I was referring to girls writing to girls. In your case I think she actually was feeling attraction when she wrote the love letter, and the attraction was later lost.
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AlQWEffos239 5y ago
It’s crazy that u mentioned this, I work at a high end bar . Most of the chicks that attend this bar by themselves seem bothered by the fact that there lonely compared to guys who have no problem being alone and forming friends at the bar.
dr_warlock 5y ago
Hot women have one hobby: attracting male attention from a safe distacne i.e. instagram or in the form of a stare in public. They buddy up with other hot women because they can increase this hobby by orders of magnitude together as opposed to alone. Great for taking pictures together, great for fake online image.
Coroshi 5y ago
Big fan of your posts, but I believe here's where you're wrong. I have a friend who happens to be a girl, known her for 14 years now, never felt the urge to fuck her, talked to her about all the other girls I fucked, and she sure as fuck helped me get through some of the heavy artillery bullshit life sent my way. I won't say I would never fuck her cause that'd be a lie, but she's as friend as "friend" gets. I'm open for an elaboration as to whether I'm missing something here?
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
She's orbiting you.
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RolandTheDickslinger 5y ago
Orbiter by definition.
Coroshi 5y ago
So investing your time in people who actively went out of their way to help you numerous times throughout your life ... is orbiting? Well sure, then I'm an orbiter.
If you believe that the only thing on the other side of a transaction process with a woman is sex, then you'll have very miserable relationships with women in your life.
elpeterodelagente 5y ago
Being "friends" with a woman it's not the same as being "friends" with a man. You are mixing the two, just because it's the same word. But it differs in meaning depending on the context.
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DerpyPun 5y ago
I can be friends with a dog, a hamster or even a gold fish. Of course I can be friends with a woman.
womans_algorithm 5y ago
Not the same thing for me. I have friends to have good time with, not to wallow and dump emotional diarrhea on them - be it male or female.
I'm not her orbiter because I'm not trying to fuck her. But put whatever label you want on it. I see her as a friend, she sees me as a friend, I don't need to complicate things.
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Spot on. I will say that you can have female acquaintances though. If you aren’t giving her any validation, extra attention, or resources, and you sometimes hang out together as part of a larger group, I don’t think that makes you an orbiter. You are just acquaintances.
You really can’t have female friends though.
Demiurge_Decline 5y ago
As long as you dont "settle" to be here friend...
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beachbbqlover 5y ago
Just so you know, all of these words themselves are a newspeak. Most of these definitions didn't exist even 25 years ago, and are TRP defining the narrative, using the same tools as everyone else trying to do so.
cappadocianhawk 5y ago
Some of them, maybe. However within the bounds of this forum, words have certain meanings as it is with every social circle. What meaning they might have outside this space has no bearing on my post.
ThatDudeEric90 5y ago
Both of you are fucking and she also fucks girls but most importantly brings them into a 3 way with you: You have a AWESOME FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS ????
ThatDudeEric90 5y ago
Both of you are fucking and she also fucks girls but most importantly brings them into a 3 way with you: You have a AWESOME FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS ????
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voxiqs 5y ago
Get over yourself, it’s a word
Calling people fags is not acceptable today. Being overly aggressive in society will hurt you, not help you. I am happy people aren’t using the word fag anymore. The word cuck is actually a great description of what most men are turning into today and I’m fine with it replacing slurs or prejudice remarks
If anything, we are getting better descriptive and more accurate at insulting each other
TemplesOfSyrinx 5y ago
I agree with you. I just think the word is being used by some (mostly younger) people as a "catch all" insult for anyone and anything. It bugs me that people casually use the term without understanding that it's a derivative of "cuckold" - it has a specific meaning.
cappadocianhawk 5y ago
It's literally what the word means.
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ExaltedR3V3NG3 5y ago
Then don't complain about it. Just because some autists on the 'net spit it 4 out of 3 times doesn't mean the word has lost its meaning.
truct0r 5y ago
Cuc means shit in vietnamese
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max_peenor 5y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_obeR1OIm8
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Funniest are the ones on asktrp who start with "this plate I am seeing" and end with "plz help how I can get this one girl fuck me"
redhawkes 2 5y ago
“Don’t tell me bullshit like oneitis”, writes the second part of War And Peace in OP.
AsmellyFinger 5y ago
"She's different."
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
"I do realise that AWALT and such but this one girl"
missingkey2 5y ago
Shit I have done that stupid shit in the past
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incelinthirty 5y ago
I laughed my stomach out, my stomach is sore now.
max_peenor 5y ago
But she is different.
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cappadocianhawk 5y ago
Thought about it but it's easy for someone to hamster their oneitis into friendship and slip into a "nice guy" orbiter status and think that is okay. I like my clear cut way of looking at things, another guy already defined friendship in the comments.
not-trp-questions 5y ago
When Harry Met Sally comes to mind. Her letting you give her attention might seem like mutual attention because she's receptive to the attention. Is that not an orbiter? If it's not mamihlapinatapai. Why would a guy (who isn't too bp/nice guy syndrome) just want to "hang out and be friends" with some chick?
Duderino should focus mission or escalate.
52andjacked 5y ago
Did that. She hooked me up with her slutty friends. She was my official pimp.
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MarcosDomingues 5y ago
Then you are her ltr
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ex_addict_bro 5y ago
You are giving her attention and fucking only her, she is fucking others, you smile when you think about it: You are a smiling CUCK.
nebder 5y ago
r-hotwife
wiffofass 5y ago
I gotta be honest OP and posts like yours force me to see that perspective. I am not denying it. Cucks can hamster and rationalise in strange ways.
max_peenor 5y ago
Does he hold the drywall sheet in place while you screw it down?
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p3n1x 5y ago
"If SHE loves you, and you LIKE her, that is the best time" - The Great P.O.
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JimReddzz 5y ago
Just learning.... thanks for the reminder and simplification. 50 yo. Recently unplugged. My eyes still hurt
sikwidit05 5y ago
damn dude.... better late than never I guess
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JimReddzz 5y ago
Yes. Sharing my discovery with as many young Dudes as I can. Never to late to learn. On a pickup front recognizing/ using hypergamy to my advantage. Thin but fit. So it's not as easy for the AF when the pool is looking for BB.
Killing__Time_ 5y ago
She fucked your father 9 months before you were born: she is your MOM.
morebeansplease 5y ago
If only we knew which guy that was.
OfficerWade 5y ago
I think I saw him at Stop n Go Bumming a cig,
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
... minus 1, that's 3, quick maths
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aldoonestrutts 5y ago
This is the shit I live for god speed bro
I_love_you_broskis 5y ago
Well. Some plates are really different and special compared to other hoes. Just sayin
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ValarMorghulis90 5y ago
This is just restating shit that's on the side bar. Don't hold these men's hands. If they don't want to read it (sidebar) then they need to learn the hard way anyway. Every dude does.
VillagersUnite 5y ago
Huh? Unless I'm incorrect I swear they have a nice list of terms in the SIDEBAR. I guess people don't feel like reading on their own.
smaffit 5y ago
While this is mostly correct, you left out one (albeit rare) group. Chicks who are super cool, and have your back, that may or may not want to fuck you, but you have no interest in fucking. These are FRIENDS
pm_me_tangibles 5y ago
This is a breath of fresh air.
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elephantricity 5y ago
So does this mean a guy can't be friends with a girl?
underground_gamblr 5y ago
From a social perspective yes, from a psychological/biological.. arguable.
A_solo_tripper 5y ago
You are fucking her and her friends: You are the man The Man
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If you also fuck her sisters: You are The Champ.
ToiletPaperPringles 5y ago
As someone who started reading trp, this helps massively. Thank you
iamango 5y ago
Shit I'm an orbiter. I just exist in the background of women's lives without ever making any progress with them. Creeping on women is hard work. I stare at their pretty parts purposefully. I pay them hollow compliments like 'You look nice. Wow you read books! Nice.'
I turn a blind eye to rejection. I pointlessly and creepily hang around in their lives much after they have made it clear that I don't have a chance. I have been an orbiter my whole life.
How much creepy is too creepy? If I like a girl, I'll find out her birthday, wait for the right moment and then send her a carefully worded greeting that's flirtatious, but - get this - only slightly.
I'll read her whatsapp stories with dedication that's more suited to assigned homework. I'll come up with a reason to message her every 'once in a while' (that's different for every girl I stalk) and then engage in painful small talk. Hey! You read a John Green book! Guess what it's your lucky day cause I am a bibliophile. Wow you went trekking one time! We've got so much in common! etcetera.
I'll like her photos on facebook and instagram, but only a select few. You've got to show appreciation for photos that look like they took a lot of effort, or if they are candid. Stay away from appreciating photos where she looks too hot, because a lot of people are going to like those photos and you'll end being a part of the crowd. I may be a stalker, but I'm a stalker with standards. I make it known to my love interests that I am observing them from afar.
I'll exist indefinitely in the background of a woman's life. I won't enjoy it at first, but soon I'll get used to it. I'll live for that fateful day when she gets horny, is out of boys and finally realizes my true worth. Then she'll know where to find me.
Fuck! I'm an orbiter. What do I do? this is the only way I know how to be around women! Fuck!
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
What do you want to do?
_Ulan_ 5y ago
Sounds like you need a long monk-mode period. Go stalk yourself and buy yourself a nice treat for you bday. Give yourself a compliment once in while, and forget what "girl" even means. When you'll be cured your life will be much better.
chances_are_ur_a_fag 5y ago
not sure if trolling but i laughed
deathsatan666 5y ago
Quit masturbating and read NMMNG to face any sexual hangups you may have.
nadolny7 5y ago
We need more posts like this. It looks simple to identify what is truly happening ONCE you have it laid it open like you did.
tchower 5y ago
My God, I have two friends, or should I say had two friends, only one of them I still talk to for this reason, who are in the Orbiter-Cuck stage with their girls. Even after warning them, one of them is still blue pilled and the other was hostile when I tried to point it out to him. I must say, I don’t have much sympathy for either of them, one of them really actually thinks he is doing the right thing by being a beta orbiter cuck, so I befriended that guy friend. One of them is even getting his Ph.D and is smart as hell, so I do not know what the hell happened to his use of reason.
We_Are_Legion 5y ago
Factual knowledge does not equal emotional wisdom.
tchower 5y ago
I mean, I’ve been there with this one girl who was cheating on her boyfriend and I almost fell into cuck with her because I started to actually take her seriously, because she was giving it up and going full blown affair with texting and hangouts, and started catching feelings instead of going out and meeting other bitches, but finally I got out of that trap after my brother pointed out the situation, and this was obviously before red pill. However, what you described as orbiter cuck is the exact situation my two buddies are in and the smartest one is actually being the dummest about it, paying money and flying all the way out of the country to see his girl and trying to do the rest of it from long distance.
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
There's a rule I invented for askTRP posts: "wall of text equals NEXT"
JamzeNeu 5y ago
What if the things you're saying is the actual newspeak? Food for thought.
chances_are_ur_a_fag 5y ago
some slut tried to wife my ass up by saying "we can just be friends with benefits and be exclusive".. in what fucking universe are friends with benefits exclusive? dumb ho got nexted hard
Charlie__Kane 5y ago
Legitimate question: What do you call it when a girl is only seeing you (somewhat believably) and you give each other attention, but you’re seeing other women? What if you’re giving her more attention than other plates?
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deathsatan666 5y ago
Sounds like you might be interested in BlackDragonBlog's more in-depth hierarchy of sexual relationships. See The 14 Types of Nonmonogamy for an article listing his terms.
Luckyluke23 5y ago
it's good to have threads about this every once in awhile so we can all have a good laugh
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If you fuck her and her mom, you are GRADUATE.
alexjhargreaves 5y ago
Honestly this is some pretty insecure beta shit. This is the heart of what’s wrong with TRP. There’s some great content here, but this isn’t it. You can have female friends, if you can’t have the self restraint to have any sort of platonic relationship with the other gender I’d hardly call that alpha. You can develop feelings for a particular woman, and pursue her, just don’t put her on a fucking pedestal. Yes don’t cuck and orbit etc, good advice, but don’t rearrange the English language because you’ve taken to many steroids to keep in touch with reality.
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BurnoutRS 5y ago
but my male hamster still has to figure out how to shit test women back
redisthetruth 5y ago
I find the more my smv rises, the more girls I automatically friend zone for one reason or another. It’s awesome to have female orbiters who do favors for you.
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Geleemann 5y ago
"You are giving her attention and fucking only her and she is also only fucking you"
but you'll never know for sure if she is
Shyness11 5y ago
Hahha! Long distance=cuck?!?
I always thought the girl had a mean pussy to keep a man faithful thousands of miles away
Icarus663 5y ago
In this case you are a DELUDED CUCK ;)