The selfishness of women knows no bounds. What's more is that they utterly lack the self awareness to ever notice it themselves. The Red Pill knows this to be by design not by accident. In Prehistoric times this instinct helped women survive when their tribe was conquered. In ancient times, it helped Roman women reproduce as the Vandals burnt the empire. In WWII, it let Parisian women enjoy a rotation of American, French, and Nazi wiener meat after their husbands were dragged away. For a woman, her dead husband is an all expense paid ticket to the cock buffet.
When I was in college I trained a guy named Steven. Steven wanted to be the cool Asian from Need for Speed Tokyo Drift. He wanted round shoulders and a six pack, a hot girlfriend, and a fast a motorcycle. I wasn't going to give him a motorcycle but I could definitely get him a ticket to the gain train. I got him to deadlift properly and eat real food instead of MSG ramen. After a year of fixing his lifts and policing his diet, Steven was up 15 pounds of muscle. For some time, Steven was the buff dude on the flashy motorcycle with the hot girl. He was the guy drag racing at intersections with his girlfriend. Steven upgraded to a motorcycle so fast that he couldn't help but smash it into a tree and permanently undo all of my deadlift coaching.
I didn't know why Steven's mom was calling me from his cellphone until she told me that he was dead. There was a stark contrast between Steven's university friends and his Filipino family. Both groups knew two very different Stevens. Steven's family always knew the programmer Steven but they never met Steve the gym bro. At his funeral, Steven's friends comforted his parents with stories of his mad gains. His girlfriend did no such thing. She spent the whole funeral talking about herself. This was her chance to be a local celebrity. Steven's girlfriend spoke more than anyone at the funeral and she didn't talk about Steven.
But Steven's girlfriend didn't stop at the funeral. Steven's girlfriend kept attention whoring on his grave even while she was riding other dudes cocks and motorcycles—and she's not special. All women are like that, in fact I've seen this phenomenon play out countless times with different dudes and different corpse feeders. A dead boyfriend is the ultimate source of drama which can be redeemed indefinitely for attention and sympathy. The attention is instrumental in helping her find a replacement.
For women Corpse feeding is hard wired. They have been cannibalizing their husband's bodies since the day Cain slew Abel and nothing has changed for ten thousand years. The only difference is that her corpse feeding is now on Facebook just beside her cleavage shots and booty pics. Women use men for whatever men can be used for. Beta are used for bucks while Alpha are used for fucks and dead men are used for an endless stream of social media validation. Behind the push up bras and makeup, women are soulless baby machines who's only drive is reproduction. The only men that are important to women are those that can be used to achieve that end, regardless of whether they are dead or alive.
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RedPillDan 8y ago
I had a friend of mine pass away recently. He was a popular guy and the death was untimely. (He was 28) It took no time before the Facebook posts started. Some genuine, from his real friends and family. However, the vast majority were random chicks, many of which I'd never even heard of, all cashing in. Suddenly he had more female "best friends" than you can count. Crying about his death. "I cant believe your dead, me, me, me, I, I, I, me me me." Last night and today there was another round of posts. All these same random chics cashing in again for xmas.
It was disgusting.
The_Man_with_No_Hand 8y ago
I never thought about this much before, but it makes a lot of sense now that what I've felt has been put into words so nicely.
I've witnessed this behavior in a woman, myself. Years back, a friend of mine was killed by a drunk driver. For practically his whole life he had oneitis for a girl that he had known since middle school. We'll just call her Tammy for now. For years he and Tam were friends with various ups and downs in their relationship, and eventually he decided to make moves, since he wasn't satisfied with just a friendship. But despite him being upfront about his feelings, she always jumped from guy to guy and never gave him the time of day. It got to the point where she was essentially outright rejecting him, much to his chagrin. He went on to have small no-strings-attached relationships with some girls here and there, but never totally moved on from Tammy - Had she come back around and asked for his dick, he would have without a doubt obliged.
Funnily enough, after his passing, she was acting quite strange at his funeral. She was going around to everyone telling her sob story about how he loved her, and how she would have given him a chance - despite the fact that when he was alive she would outright reject his advances. She was most obviously making his death about her, simply for the attention.
This negative behavior compounded when I would see her from time to time in the following weeks and months after the funeral. More than once she would text me and my friends asking to hang out, and then when we would meet up with her, she would talk about how she just got back from his grave. The conversations with her would always get around to the topic of his death and his feelings for her. Now, I cared and still care deeply for my departed friend, but I don't feel the need to bring up his death consistently in conversations that don't call for it. This is what she was doing, and I'm sure that we were not the only ones to hear these stories from her about how much his death traumatized her.
Tammy would always talk about how bad she felt that she never gave him a chance, how she always visits the grave, etc. And most of the time she'd ask us to come with her to visit, as if she needed people to witness in person her personal drama and how sad she is over the death of a person who - when he was alive - she treated like dirt. My friends and I all came to the conclusion that she's using his death to generate sympathy and attention towards herself. Conversations with her about his death were never about his death, but rather more about how his death affected her. Despite all this, she had no problem getting a new boyfriend shortly after the funeral and dragging him along to the burial grounds with her from time to time. I'm sure she uses his story in order to pick up guys and make herself sound like she has an interesting life. I really wonder how my friend would have felt about all that.
This behavior always irked me. It's very easy for a woman to reject a man, and then after he's dead and can't speak for himself, she goes, "I regret not being with him, He really loved me, I would've given him a chance, I think about him everyday, etc." I'm glad to see that this isn't just a unique case of a sociopath's behavior, and rather more hard wired into women's minds to use the deaths of their men to their benefit - whether for attention, sympathy, or riding the cock carousel. It's an eye opener.
dabrah1 8y ago
I just had a similiar experience last week. One of my close friends committed suicide, it was horrible. Everyone was/Is devastated. Anyway, one of his friends, a girl named Anna, who only knew him for four fucking months took his death as an opportunity to get attention from everybody.
She constantly posted quotes and statuses on his facebook wall, kept snap chatting about how depressed she was, and even had the fucking gall to snap chat pictures of the memorial mass and funeral. All this while his closest friends, and me, have known him for 8+ years and were actually devastated by his loss.
Also, Anna threw a memorial party at her house. SHe set up a microphone system so everyone could tell stories about good times they had with the kid. When it was her turn, all she talked about was how she was going through a lot of things that he helped her with, and how hard of a time she was having with this. Hardly mentioned the kid, it was all about her. It took all I had to not stand up and say something- its horrible. I don't think i'll ever look at her the same way again. Oh, and while he was alive, she would talk shit on him all the time. Fuck.
[deleted] 8y ago
I could see how the guilt of not voicing your opinion at the time weigh on you. Id hope we all have the courage to say something if this happened to us.
[deleted] 8y ago
Great post.
The best way to see how truly heartless a woman can be is to see the reaction she has when her husband dies. I swear to god they give zero fucks. Women treat strange dick like an infant treats their thumb when they get scared. The recent Paris shootings probably got a lot of men seriously laid, because there is no fucking way in hell that you can have the entire world watching a tragedy and not have women whore the entire thing out.
Women cannot build, they cannot fight, they cannot negotiate or hold frame. They can't do a whole lot, which is why no amount of benefits can get them to study something more useful than sociology. They were not built as "doing objects" or as what feminists and blue pillers call "people". They were built as sex objects made to throw sex at every problem and solve every problem with sex. The reason men can't look at women nonsexually isn't because we're defective, so much as because we're perceptive. Her sex object status doesn't only exist with regards to her body. It 100% fills her mind and she is literally incapable of thinking of things in terms other than how she can acquire sex next.
Men think of sex when appropriate, because we've always been too busy constructing the world. Women think of it always, because it's their way of life. Believing that she can turn that off just because her husband got dragged off to a concentration camp is a fantasy in males that's never gonna come true. Men should NEVER rely on a woman's love. Her love is fickle and she can't help it, it's her nature. I seriously wonder what tweets would have come out of women during the Holocaust. They'd probably be red pill all over.
[deleted] 8y ago
Hahaha. There's no feminist in a warzone.
Eugenics2015 8y ago
You guys are brutal lol.. holy shit.
2comment 8y ago
Nitpick but that should be "other than what she can acquire with sex next". The average woman needs to know seduction like a cat needs to know how to pet someone.
[deleted] 8y ago
Nahh. The average woman has more trouble than a similarly situated man would. When they reach up, they can get less out of the man they reach to. It's a bit like just flexing their uterus depending on how hypergamous they are. The more they flex it, the more they run into the issue that literally every other woman can provide the same thing. Setting themselves apart is hard and most of em can't do it. It's a different kind of seduction for sure, but it's an active seductive role that takes skill.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Not only is it capricious, it doesn't even really exist. Beyond some needs and a tiny amount of care, female "love" comes with more obligations than benefits.
The best they can do is a temporary feeling of attachment in order to secure even more resources, commitment and attention from the man - just enough to make him believe she's sincere and monogamous and sexual (with only him). Once that's locked down (to her benefit), this so-called love will evaporate again. There will be no point in her life where she ever gives more than she gets.
Nah... I don't believe in it, and I'm so gullible I think Santa is real.
whyalwaysm3 8y ago
In every relationship I've been in so far, without even concisously trying (at least to my knowledge) I've always had the girl give more than I gave. Probably why I've also had a lot of luck with females, I care about myself first and many times a girl will be like "what?! Are you serious?" when I tell her that my feelings and myself come first. You would think they would leave me and move on but instead they try even harder with me lol.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
My experience was the exact opposite... I always gave more, and I always got less. When I noticed and started cutting back on what I did, the girl then did even less.
Eventually got sick of the lack of gratitude and effort for doing things their way (ie long term relationship) and started doing things my way (short term, multiple women, no commitment) and noticed that they put in far more effort for much less of mine.
When it gets stacked up like this.... I get more for less for doing what I want... rather than less for more for doing what they want... the life choices become obvious.
I'm more subtle about me coming first than you are, haha. I make that happen, but I'm subtle about it. I don't directly say it, but I do act it. "Can't see you Thursday, I'm doing X thing". There is nothing to argue, it's just that the my-thing is first.
verify_account 8y ago
While this is true, it's not the woman's fault. She evolved to be that way because it's the best reproductive strategy. It's still to get upset and evolution.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
This is the "this is just female nature" argument, and taken to its logical conclusion arrives at "nothing is anyone's fault".
Notice that noone is exonerating men for anything we do. We are held accountable, women are not. We hold ourselves accountable. Women do not.
While that's true that this is their biology, there is a lot of value in pointing out the true nature of that biology.
There are more revelations to come about female nature. We still don't know it all yet. And I doubt the future revelations look like "turns out they are all unicorns after all".
makethemsayayy 8y ago
Your revelation on the orgasms above could be the next one..might be the big one.
MelodyMyst 8y ago
So after reading this a question comes to mind. How does the phenominon of the old Italian lady dressed in black who has mourned her husband for the last 30+ years, never remarried nor dated, play out in this?
is it still an attention grab? Possibly the most extreme example of one ever? Is it due to culture? Religion? A mixture?
When I was a young boy I always thought it was sweet that the woman would never marry and mourn the rest of her life (when I was really, really young) now after a few decades on the planet, and after having met some of those types in real life I only see batshit crazy.
Would love to hear your thoughts.
2comment 8y ago
http://guardianlv.com/2014/01/senior-citizens-spreading-stds-like-wildfire/
ventuspilot 8y ago
I'm only guessing here. 30 years could mean that her husband died when she was 50+ and had grown children. So she would not be that attractive, had company (assuming that her children lived nearby) and probably not too much needs. So the goal could be to guilt her children into providing for her.
My grandma was similar without the black clothes. Had a house, two daughters, one of them lived in her house with her husband, and she was seeing my mum once a week. Also had a small state pension. You could say she needed a man like a fish needs a bicycle.
[deleted] 8y ago
I've quite literally never seen one of those outside the movies.
MelodyMyst 8y ago
Hmmm.... I wouldn't be exaggerating by saying I have personally met and interacted with more than 10, less than 20, over the course of my life. Seen but not interacted with several more. They were all Catholic or Jewish. I grew up around Italians and polish in Detroit and have travelled the US extensively. While thinking back on it, I haven't seen it outside of Chicago Detroit NYC Windsor.
Maybe other people have seen it and can offer thoughts.
Great post
[deleted] 8y ago
You've somehow gotten yourself close enough to 20 widows to monitor their sex lives?
[deleted] 8y ago
Don't knock another man's game ;-)
MelodyMyst 8y ago
We have large tight-knit families. Considering mine, and the extended networks of friends families I grew up with and shared lives and neighborhoods with, yes.
Maybe I asked the wrong person. I thought you might have something insightful to say.
[deleted] 8y ago
Well there you go. Women were kept in line for centuries by the threat of the shame she'd bring to her family. Your culture preserved that.
quietinquandary 8y ago
A little late to this party-
But i see some girls post on my dead friends Facebook wall every so often talking about how much they miss him and some memory they had and all that shit. What a simple and sick way to get attention.
He's clearly dead. He's not on Facebook reading your posts. If you really feel sorrow, talk to his family and friends who can still use your support.
Eugenics2015 8y ago
This is so brutal... FUCK
They should call this shit "beyond the red pill." Warn a nigga next time, I wasn't ready to swallow this one
ChairBorneMGTOW 8y ago
We often caveat our "don't date single moms" policy by saying that widows are excluded.
Having dated a widow (no kids), I can offer first-hand experience here. Her deceased hubby was core to her identity. She would explain away shitty behaviour by citing the tragedy of her loss. It was a get out of jail free card, as well as a pity generator.
Not saying that I wouldn't ever date a widow again, but you are absolutely right, fire some women widowhood is an emotional tool in their social toolkit.
ColdEiric 8y ago
So basically, that shtick is 'Look at me, me, me! Look at how loyally loyal I am! Look at me, me, me!'
And how it is higher than any other talk of how doubleplusbad some other persons think of her.
botornotscott 8y ago
If anyone needs a recent very public example, there's these 2 Aussie surfers who recently went missing in Mexico and their van turned up torched in the middle of nowhere with charred human remains inside.
Go online and see how surfer bro getting shot in the face point blank, surviving and then getting torched alive with his friend has affected his gf (not wife, not fiancée). Sure she's in shock but dammit if my blood doesn't boil to see every picture of the lad with her taking up most of the frame, and every facebook post of hers somehow turning a man's nightmarish death into a sympathy-gain for herself. Disgusting, I feel for the boy's family, having to deal with her selfishness...
billythebeta 8y ago
This goes into the realm of fucking disgusting behavior.
HumanSockPuppet 8y ago
There's nothing special about widowhood. All women are like that. All women will dodge responsibility using whatever excuse they have at hand.
In a typical conversation, the sudden mention of a lost loved one conjures up an awkward social situation that most people deal with by remaining silent and willfully loosening their grip on the frame of the conversation. Trying to maintain control of the frame is seen as rude - it is seen as invalidating the feelings of the person experiencing the unpleasant memory. More often than not though, it's an attempt by the person telling the story to seize the frame of the conversation. I call it "dead baiting", and women are the most frequent offenders.
The solution is to simply not let a woman dead bait. If the bitch is obviously using the story as a manipulation tactic, call her out on it, and consider shaming her for using the death of a loved one for personal gain (this works especially well if you also knew the dead person).
However, if you didn't know the dead person, and you don't want to appear callous, then you can dismiss the bitch out of concern for her feelings. Tell her that she's obviously still grieving and should probably take some time away from the group to sort out her feelings on the matter. This strategy has the benefit of both intercepting her frame control attempt AND proactively preventing future uses of the dead bait - because subsequent attempts are already cast in the light of a troubled and irrational women who can be politely dismissed on account of her distress. It trivializes and marginalizes her without being inconsiderate.
Widowhood isn't a special status. It's just a handy excuse some women have found for rationalizing their need for attention. Never forget: women will use whatever excuse is available to accomplish some personal agenda.
coolwords 8y ago
Really good move you came up with there. Thanks for sharing.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
Say like "Don't use him dying as an excuse for what you did" ?
Scurvemuch 8y ago
" I don't think dear old Mr. DeadGuy would have liked it if he could see it now"
"You didn't talk like that to him did you?"
"He always said you were the type of girl who ( insert behavior you want reinforced)" -- this works well in social situations
animal_one 8y ago
I knew a girl in high school whose boyfriend died from driving while drunk. They weren't really that close, and right before he died, her best friend told me she was going to break up with him. After his death, he became (like you said) a core part of her identity. She would do memorials every year for like 10 years, she got really involved with his family, involved in DUI classes and prevention, and even got a full back tattoo in remembrance of him. I'm remember years later sitting around in her living room while I was home on leave, and she said something like 'he'll always be the love of my life, no man, not even my husband, will come before him'.
DBTeacup 8y ago
I knew a girl who broke up with an old friend, he killed himself because of her, and she pulled the same shit.
At least I got out.
Johnny_Monsanto 8y ago
You should have called her out.
momomotorboat 8y ago
One of several tactics they employ. Girl I know has lupus. Used that as her explanation/reason/excuse for EVERYTHING.
Then she met some foreign guy whose dad was loaded, so homeboy floated through life living large and being the benefactor to women he saw as his muse. She used the lupus ticket on him too. She barely spoke to him, was repulsed by him and never mentioned him when he disappeared for months at a time. But shockingly accepted his gifts and vacations.
Then he dies. And wouldn't you know it, the lupus story has been replaced by the death of her BB. (funny, her name for him was 'BB' irl). His death is the defining moment of her life.
These bitches, man. Sheesh.
PANTSONMIXTAPE 8y ago
To be fair, lupus aint nothin to fuck with.
2comment 8y ago
What a strange mirror to a major male pedastool.
I know a guy, very omega, who has the same exact attitude toward a girl who he was crushing on hard in High School, who died their senior year from some car accident. It's been 20 years for him but he gets insufferable around her birthday and death day. I swear he probably lights candles to her various anniversaries and sends cards to her family and shit, and just mopes in between in general from time to time.
Mind you, they were "friends" but I suspect its in the way of inconseqential and short interactions typical among school acquaintences. Like if you asked her his name, she'd shrug before remembering vaguely "Oh, that guy?"
It's like he's been female alpha widowed for 2 decades. And nope, no one can help him. Dug his own emotional grave and he refuses to climb out.
Eugenics2015 8y ago
This is actually super understandable.
You have to acknowledged the psychology of crushes and how irrational they are.
Her death froze him in a state of irrational attraction, only now she can never age and only exits idealized in his mind.
Ill_mumble_that 8y ago
I've gotta say I've had 2 or three girls I crushed on pretty hard back in HS. They were the hottest girls I'd ever known. I've always thought about them time to time and compared them to women in my life now. But it was always the perky 17 year old version of them.
But I've since been cured of this. In combination with TRP, but mostly it was just looking them on Facebook and seeing that time has been much kinder to me than is has to them. I'm in my late 20's and through diet and exercise I look like I'm 19-20 still. They are a little younger than me yet they look like they are approaching 30-35.
I can see how if the crush died you'd never be able to make that person real and make your mind realize the irrational perfection you've associated with that girl. That sucks.
redadactyl 8y ago
Hello Anger Phase, my old Friend.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
best reference to the anger phase ive ever seen haha
Call_me_Loretta 8y ago
I've come to break with you again
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PlanB_pedofile 8y ago
Seems to me like an easy ticket to alpha widow.
Such behavior and nostalgia seems not far distant from women who have been alpha widowed.
Snivellious 8y ago
She is an alpha widow, in a strange sense. He's dead in a tragic way, so he brings her social validation but never argues or gets in the way of what she wants to do. Whatever he was like in life, he's the perfect benefits-only man in death.
morsX 8y ago
Over time I imagine the way she described the deceased was increasingly virtuous. After some years the deceased stopped being an average guy and became someone befitting a legend. All this to instill sympathy from anyone she could as the 'love of her life' was ripped so harshly from this plane of existence.
I feel like I am making this shit up -- clearly this occurs more than rarely in practice.
Snivellious 8y ago
This is very much a thing, and not just with partners. It's a common pattern to see people get super invested in charity and memorials for people they never really liked.
I think it's partly absolution - if you treat them well in death then you can whitewash every wrong and conflict you gave out in life. Beyond that, it creates a "cause" and a sense of tragedy that's far more interesting than your average middle-class life. I don't think it's an accident that you never see this from people with truly interesting lives (or lives that have already had an excess of loss).
RP-Doctor 8y ago
And what's amazing is that she had to compare him to her future husband, and she feels no remorse about apparently keeping a theoretical guy as #2. There's nothing like a good untimely death to make a woman forget all of the bad things about a person and fill her head with an alpha sillouette.
Anyway, just in case you needed more incentive not to date chicks with full back tattoos...
GC0W30 8y ago
Can you imagine fucking a chick with a full-back tattoo to an ex, dead or not?
It doesn't matter if the guy was my best friend, a mortal enemy or somewhere inbetween, my dick would be softer than loofah.
So much fucking crazy!
Fuck_shadow_bans 8y ago
Well, the silver lining would be you get to cum on his face when you are done.
That is, officially, the gayest thing I have ever said.
GC0W30 8y ago
So, not only is she blowing up her spot with men going forward, she's also disrespected her dead man's memory by putting my hairy gut against his face while I'm pounding his widow's asshole.
I hadn't realized exactly how heinous that made this bitch. I feel like we should probably burn her before the contagion spreads....
Fuck_shadow_bans 8y ago
Contagion? You mean biological nature of women. AWALT.
CQC3 8y ago
I was thinking the same thing. Some guy out there is probably fucking a chick with a back tattoo of her ex.
That's probably the gayest not gay thing I've heard recently.
GC0W30 8y ago
Right?
I had a thought after I posted:
If she was one of those chicks that wore black and purple all the time and listens to Morrissey a whole lot....
maybe she only plans on fucking bisexual men?
That was the ONLY way this made sense.
Thing is, it just doesn't make any sense.
[deleted] 8y ago
Noooooooooo!
They're excluded from moral culpability, provided she didn't drive him to suicide. I would NEVER date a single mother EVER.
menial_optimist 8y ago
Read this and weep: My beta friend hooked up with a 30 year old single mom ex-meth/speed head with 3 young (all under 7) children from the same father, while my friend was 21.
He's been with her for 4-5 years now, they live together in a townhouse.
In the beginning I warned him that eventually he'd be paying for her children one way or the other. He laughed at the idea and even ridiculed me infront of his girl about it.
Fast forward to present day and he does pay for her children via food, roof over their heads etc. His girlfriend hasn't worked in years and collects child tax credits and child support. She was working a full time warehousing job when she met my friend.
Convenient now she doesn't have to, so she doesn't.
RP-Doctor 8y ago
Too much risk of literal alpha widow. No matter what you do, you'll always be compared to him. Honestly I think the women in those cases do really deserve a husband, but count me out. I'm not trying to be a hero in my romantic life.
Saiserit 8y ago
See, this is where progressives have a point. But they get it all confused. In no other species on the planet do we talk about the importance of a father figure. Father figures aren't particularly important. Except in our species father figures are desperately needed to protect children from mothers who stand to gain by lying and consuming their own children.
BaconEggsAndSleaze 8y ago
Just yesterday I saw a post made by some chick (maybe 29-30) who wrote a long thought out memorial (on fucking Instagram), about her dead boyfriend.
It's been a year since his passing apparently.
How'd he die? Suicide of course.
Men have no real outlet to talk about their feelings.
I'm sure he tried, and it probably pushed her away and made him feel worse.
It isn't so much about the deceased person, it's them saying "don't forget about meeeeeee today!"
Shes a confirmed CC Rider, I actually met her because she approached me, disheveled, missing and mourning the love of her life.
Cocks make great pacifiers.
DoubleTappp 8y ago
"Cocks make great pacifiers."
....lol
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Turkerthelurker 8y ago
Somebody has been watching Anthony Jeselnik. For anyone that hasn't seen it, his stand up is fantastic - especially the last 20 minutes when he breaks character. The relevant bit here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FLGEr1zJYo
TacoNinjaSkills 8y ago
This is brilliant. You just gotta love truth from the mouths of comedians.
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vengefully_yours 8y ago
I fuck them, but I don't date them. Easy lay, but I'll never get attached in any way. She gets crazy or clingy she is gone. I have well developed methods to get crazy bitches to leave on their own without damage to my life, so I fuck anyone really.
Never date or marry a single mom though. Fuck that shit.
cleftscout 8y ago
Getting rid of crazy bitches is no problem. All it takes is to consistently break frame around them, they lose attraction and they let you leave. I've done it a few times myself, once as a literal get out of jail free card when I was 18 and my crazy ho I'd been dating for a few years at the time was not.
Her step dad was a cop and she said a few things that aligned her with the feminist agenda and I needed to ditch FAST. I broke frame, talked about "muh reelz feelz" and within a month, I was able to slip away off into the distance, leaving behind a burning trail of her family hating on her for letting me slip away.
Her mom still hits me up sometimes to ask how I'm doing and lets me know when her daughter gets dumped and is single. Its been over two years. I shit you not.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Let me guess... crazy bitch is approaching the wall fast and her mom probably thinks of you as beta bucks and hopes you'll be her baby's Plan B.
cleftscout 8y ago
Crazy bitch is 17 (I'm a couple years older than her) and her mom likes that I fulfilled the role of male role model for her sons because their dad is a beta Billy and neglects his kids and gets child support from mom.
I would stick up for crazy and teach her younger brothers about what masculinity is and was a good, rather RP influence on them. I know how to give off the persona of being the kind of guy parents want their daughters to marry. I've had a few female friends parents try to get me to date their daughters when they saw us kissing/groping/closing the bedroom door for an hour.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
That's how I do it, and ask for sex. Works great.
CQC3 8y ago
Isn't it sort of dangerous to suddenly 180 and go insanely beta on a girl? I mean, wouldn't you run the small risk of a girl being so repulsed that you must have sexually abused her?
vengefully_yours 8y ago
Not if you do it gradually. Also her perception takes time for the hamster to work. Remember girls are not logical creatures, they're emotional first.
cleftscout 8y ago
I've only initiated sex a handful of times. There were plenty of days that we'd go at it 3 out more times. I have mad LTR game, and learned how to make girls want more and more always (foreplay,) but sub par writing skills, which is why I haven't submitted my already written posts.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
I've gone 8 years twice with two different girls. Never again. I'm too old to start from zero again after this one. I'm two years past my last divorce and finally have somewhere I can call home that is warm and dry.
I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than give another bitch everything I worked to earn simply because she doesn't want to fuck only me anymore. Every girl I fuck now knows that in advance, and they know they aren't a priority in my life. They keep coming back for more vengeful cock despite knowing I will never commit to them.
Sometimes I need to get rid of them, and going beta does it easily without much drama.
cleftscout 8y ago
A big lesson I've learned from TRP is not to get married. In my age range, there are very many girls claiming they don't want to sign papers. I don't think I'd enjoy life alone, even with plates.
What type of drama have you been involved in that lead you to put up a beta front to dump women?
vengefully_yours 8y ago
Everything from being clingy to shooting meth. I will not put up with bullshit from girls. They start one fight over nothing, and I'm done with them. They do something that will cost me more than I'm willing to give, or for no positive gain, they're gone.
I live alone on purpose. I am relaxing with my dogs today, nobody else around. Having some veggies for lunch, no big meal, no presents, no bullshit. I might go to the gym, might put up some more fence for my dogs. Being alone isn't a problem when you're not lonely.
cleftscout 8y ago
Well I sure can understand shooting meth, but being clingy to me is just a sign that they're probably not going to cheat and give me anythin . Then again, we probably have different definitions of clingy. I regret having trouble leaving in the past when they cost me more time than they're worth.
At this point in my life, I question how I would manage if left alone. I have to surround myself with positive people in order to ward off depression, and have found that to be the only effective way of doing so without taking medication that alter my mind and make it behave like normal people as opposed to my autistic mind I've gotten used to. I spent my entire childhood alone not feeling lonely and eventually I figured out that having primarily imaginary friends at age 12 will make me socially retarded in the future and have felt a nagging sense of loneliness since.
Some days I look forward to moving out of my parents house when I get a little further into college, but some of he time, I don't know how I'll deal with coming home alone to an unfamiliar place. I'd miss too much of the bullshit that other people have to offer, but I'm sure at some point, when I no longer need anyone else to support me, running a solo online business(es) like I intend to and eventually will, I'll remain pretty secluded and finally feelfeel comfortable keeping to myself again.
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cleftscout 8y ago
That's a HORRIBLE way to break up with a crazy, underaged chick who's living with a cop. Thank you for your input.
The whole process took about a week. And I fucked around on the side. Dating≠mattering for shit.
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coolwords 8y ago
Care to share these well developed methods?
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bluedrygrass 8y ago
I suppose they all gravitate around giving off beta vibes
cleftscout 8y ago
That's a great way to get rid of many crazy bitches. Especially if done in private, but alpha personality is still displayed around everyone else. If one is ballsy or stupid enough, they may use that as an attempt to hook up.with all.of her friends.
Narcatja 8y ago
I assume you would have to play the beta game until she loses the attractions she has towards you. Then she will eventually find another cock to ride (another source of validation) and forget all about your existence.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
I have, and u/cleftscout reiterated some of them. Ask for pussy, tell her about your feelings, go full on beta bitch and within two weeks she will leave and think it was her idea.
cleftscout 8y ago
I've decided to try out writing some posts on the topic of crazies, I feel like there are a lot of misconceptions on the difference between bad crazy who stab men and the crazy that is very pliable in an LTR.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
Mild crazy isn't a big thing. Hell every girl has that a week every month. The violent and combative crazy is something I don't need. Live with a rapid cycling bipolar chick for a while, you'll know violent crazy for no fucking reason in a couple months.
cleftscout 8y ago
I've found that mild crazy is the best way to keep a woman tame, its easier to play to their fantasies of the perfect man that they'd break their back bending over backward to please.
The violent and combative crazy are the type that will lock down the beta bux and later get them arrested when beta Billy gets stabbed in the neck and calls officer beta Bob and Bob slaps on the cuffs and takes him away. After all, she could have done nothing wrong, women can't hurt men, there too weak and fragile unless they're too strong and independent with a little help from the ex husband and big daddy government.
vengefully_yours 8y ago
The stab you in the neck girls often hide it very well until they know you're trapped. First wife did that. Holy fuck she is still violent, and damn had she gone downhill since I was with her. She over 300lbs now, and with me she never got over 145 even when she was pregnant.
cleftscout 8y ago
The first girl I dated hid her entire personality for a year and started going downhill. She was drawn in by my zero fucks given attitude and played the part of whatever I wanted her to be, then as she realized I gave a fuck, she would manipulate me.
Its been 1.5 years since I dumped her and she just sent me a message today after 6 months of no contact about how in love she is with my favorite show at the time I was dating her It may be because her younger brother just got a bench in their basement so he could start working out because he was inspired by my going from 125lb small shit to 160lb beast in about a year. I've stayed in contact with other members of her family who I grew close to, so she probably got he feels over it,crying over the "what could have been."
In he past year, she turned into a bit of a party slut, and went and found a bit of an AF who cheated on her with 5 different girls, then dumped her like I told her he would when she asked. She cut off 22" of her hair and dyed it from blonde to black, which gave the illusion of a 20 lb weight gain in her face, but she's more than likely still 5'4" 100lbs like when I left her.
GunsGermsAndSteel 8y ago
I love this phrase. Corpse Feeders. I happen to know a girl just like this... she was sending me nudes and flirting around, doing that whole "I'm not gonna fuck you wait yes I am" dance that takes about three days usually... I'd met her boyfriend, but he was weak... so anyway one night they get in a fight and he hangs himself, made himself braindead, they put him in the ICU on a bunch of machines and stuff. Anyway, she was all over Facebook talking about herself and how this effected her... pretty soon it was "who wants to smoke a bowl with me and kick it"... then back to being sad... back and forth. It was ridiculous to watch her doing the Facebook prayer thing, writing him little soliloquies and posting them on his wall, yet still getting on every dick in town. I finally blocked her because I couldn't take it anymore. I should re-add her just to see if the dude died or what.
rockumsockumrobots 8y ago
Obligatory...also, fucking trigger warning if you're getting out of the anger phase. https://archive.is/34dzV
tl;dr
TheReformist94 8y ago
Women truly are despicable cunts.I don't care if its their nature.theres no positive way to spin this with the male hamster.don't give me women are water filling the container shit
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Goooood, goooood. Let the anger flow thru you.
scamper_22 8y ago
At the core of all this is cognitive dissonance and our ability to believe in stories. Men and women have it. Many say we wouldn't have society without it.
Women just need this ability to a far greater level than men. Just as we all have muscle, but men have a greater need for it. As a result we naturally have more of it.
Historically, it would be hard for a women who was loyal and factual to survive to reproduce. But a women who could forget her loyalties and invent a story would live and reproduce.
Ghenghis Khan comes and conquers your village. He naturally kills or enslaves the men. He kills husbands, fathers, sons...
Women who are loyal might try and fight or not submit to his rule... Killed or at best have a low position.
A women who can forget her loyalties, forget how he slaughtered her son or husband.. come up with a story to claim khan is a good man and she should be with him lives reproduces and maybe gets a high position.
TheWindyCity 8y ago
"The warbride Dynamic" as Rollo calls it is fundamental to a woman's reproductive success as you mention. It also explains why women are much quicker to get over relationships and move on despite being madly in love/soooo distraught
TheMGhandi 8y ago
Once she receives the high position, and is trusted, she'll poison him. Her son will do her bidding and perhaps her people will be freed.
Gimprome 8y ago
What people? Their village just got fucked, and no one is left.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Other than some moralising fiction, this has never ever happened.
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MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
From that article: "Boudica then either killed herself, so she would not be captured, or fell ill and died."
No mentioning of poisoning anyone other than possibly herself.
FLFTW16 8y ago
The rules are rather similar for men. Women are our soulless sex robots. We regard the young fertile feminine submissive ones as useful to our goal for lust, pleasure, and progeny. The old haggard droopy masculine ones are invisible at best, annoying at worst. I point this out for guys in the anger phase. Yes, women seek to use you. But we use them, too. Those are the rules of the game so don't get butt hurt over it.
Where we diverge is the "dead or alive" part. In life threatening situations it is common for men to sacrifice themselves to save the lives of women (and children). Think of the slow sinking ship with women given the limited spots on lifeboats. In recent memory during the Aurora, Colorado theater massacre a guy on a FIRST DATE with a girl threw his body over hers. He died from being shot three or four times. She survived uninjured.
Male sacrifice is so ingrained that men who save themselves are to be mocked and shamed. There is a racial/tribal reason for this. Men sacrificed themselves for the good of their tribe so that the wombs could be saved so that the tribal population could be maintained rather than go into decline. For the vast majority of humanity's 200,000+ year existence we only had small groups that competed against each other and every womb counted in the battles that were 15 or 20 years down the line. In other words, tribes where men did not sacrifice themselves to save women were most likely conquered and destroyed by tribes made up of men that were willing to save their women. They were willing to do this probably because their wife, if they had one, would just get passed to his brother in the case of his death. As such it would be just as if he got use of the womb. Wombs were regarded as collective property. The property of the family, and to a larger extent the property of the tribe or race.
Fast forward to today where tribe and race is an afterthought yet still very much in play. It's been so effectively stamped out and disregarded. All tribes live in each others' midst and women are constantly sleeping with the enemy tribe--so no need to sacrifice for them since the tribe's property has already been defiled by its genetic adversaries. Rather than self-sacrifice for the benefit of the group, modern man must wake up to the fact that today's conditions dictate selfishness and self-enrichment. His works must not be used for the common good but only for his own good.
Multiculturalism leads not to peace, love, and trust but unending conflict and competition. C'est la vie.
bluedrygrass 8y ago
Blatantly untrue. Most men still treat a woman, old or not, ugly or not, unfit or not, better than they'd ever treat a similar man.
Women always receive special attentions, and get away with more, always, since they're like 3 years old (and out of the sexual market) till the day they die (while out of the sexual market).
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Since multiculturalism doesnt lead to peace and love but unending conflict, lets instead promote competition and unending conflict!
Competition doesnt exist in any vacuum without cooperation in nature. Both are necessary.
Your saying half the cure doesnt work, so lets only use the other half of the cure and it'll fix everything.
Why not both?
[deleted] 8y ago
You know, in a lot of ways George Costanza really had life figured out.
fortheloveofpercy 8y ago
menial_optimist 8y ago
The RP truths you outline suggest that nearly all human actions are motivated solely or at least have an element of self interest in the initiation of them. This coincides with my own study on the general nature of man.
On a different note this is why any left wing philosophy will never work, because Marx and others like him say human nature is selfless, caring, sharing & cooperating with others. This is not observable throughout history at all and in fact contradicts our nature.
Anyone who puts the society or group ahead of their own survival or immediate needs is destined to misery.
IVIaskerade 8y ago
Marx had something right - it is possible for most humans to be selfless and caring.
What they neglect is that the selfless ones never end up at the top where the real decisions are made.
menial_optimist 8y ago
Its possible, but I wouldn't say its the natural state or nature of mankind. If it were, we wouldn't have survived. People cooperated to built civilizations and villages primarily out of a self-interested need for their own survival. In helping others to survive they were ensuring a better chance of their own survival, which the latter I believe was their primary motivation.
TheWindyCity 8y ago
TLDR: women/men are not irrational, we just follow behavioral patterns that have evolved to facilitate reproductive success
Overkillengine 8y ago
Well, those behaviors can be considered maladaptive when considering current conditions- and as such, irrational.
Male self sacrifice is one of those.
Female hypergamy is another.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Well I'm willing to bet self-sacrifice is less done these days. We just hear about the dudes who self-sacrificed because they get the airtime because it makes for good news. For every dude that threw himself infront of a hail of bullets for a chick he was on a first date with there are probably 9 dudes who duck and covered and saved their own ass.
We have enough women on the planet we don't need to go saving individual wombs with our lives. It's not even like child birth is a risky and dangerous endeavor these days with prenatal care and doctors being able to deliver babies in hospitals sometimes by C-Section if need be.
NeverQuit69ing 8y ago
What books have formed your opinion on this? In particular the idea that multiculturalism leads to violence
FLFTW16 8y ago
Robert Putnam is great.
Link
NeverQuit69ing 8y ago
Wow, this is fascinating. Thanks for the reply.
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Diversity is necessary for survival. This is seen no where else more importantly than in the need for genetic diversity to weed out weak genes.
Also diversity is important to farming. Look what happened to the irish during the potato famine.
Or in economy.
What your stating based on some social study defies all laws of survival. Its a red herring to see some one argue against diversity, because it calls into question all the other valid and important things happening in spaces like the red pill.
Also, go sleep with your sister and you'll never have to worry about any diversity!
IVIaskerade 8y ago
Your response does not in any way invalidate Putnam's theories, nor does it have any particular merit with regards to the discussion.
You are wrongly conflating two ideas that work on different scales, you are being a biological determinist with your comment about "laws of survival", and you are concern trolling.
Don't.
Lord_NShYH 8y ago
lol, modern day Germany/Scandinavia/etc.
redpilltaste 8y ago
I have seen this with many veteran friends who have checked out. One of my mates left (suicide) two kids behind to a women who had previously left him. I tried to organise a retroactive pension and get his kids the war orphans pension which is possible here in Australia. She sabotaged the fuck out of it. She preferred the story that he left them all, she has a little money from an inheritance. I have seen so much of that warped nature that it does not surprise me at all anymore.
Whisper 8y ago
Oh, come on now. I can't agree with that. That's outrageous. How could you write that?
It should be:
"Women are soulless baby machines whose only drive is reproduction."
PoliCock 8y ago
heh.
The most amazing thing about TRP is the process of going from "it's bad"
to "some of it is true but a lot of those guys are nuts and I am keeping a distance"
to "most of it is true"
to "it's even worse than what they say there"
And that learning process really just comes with experience in the field. Mistakes. Errors. I didn't learn that these statements were accurate, as in factual-rational, until living for years and experiencing the reality. Deviating from such realities can only bring disaster.
And that sort of disaster is what makes you just keep realizing the need to solidify various thoughts and ideas as objective reality within your mind.
I am not saying the above is objective per se - but this process of making such "truths" as real to your mind and influential on your thinking and behavior as, say, the truth that a dog might bite you and its influence on your actions and thinking, is essential.
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Reproduction or validation?
RedBigMan 8y ago
Women only get validation from society when they reproduce in the form of mommy perks so that should be AND
Saiserit 8y ago
The Urgent Need for Leech - Shaming http://religionconfidencetrick.blogspot.com/2013/09/the-urgent-need-for-leech-shaming.html
Eugenics2015 8y ago
The comments here have been the most hardcore I have ever seen on the TRP.
I hate to say it but you guys have taken things 25% too far. We need to tone it down a little. Yes AWALT, but to varying degrees. Saying it is "impossible" for a woman to actually love a male is simply not true.
There are women who are wired different than the average, Florence nightingale is a good example.
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Eugenics2015 8y ago
I hate when people randomly say "calm down"... ill be alright bro?
menial_optimist 8y ago
Yours and Napoleon Bonaparte's opinion on women is one and the same.
RPanonymoose 8y ago
Ah, the third item of the woman's holy trifecta of Attention-Whoreism
1) "being raped"
2) "being abused"
3) dead husband/bf
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MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Being a mother.... it's the hardest job of all you know.
coffeecult 8y ago
It's just amazing how brainwashed you can find yourself being. This idea, right here, NEVER occurred to me as a fallacy until this moment. Without all the puzzle pieces in front of me I would have continued thinking of motherhood as a "difficult job" without ever once putting my own past job history into context.
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MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Dude... seriously, don't underestimate it. You also have to spend 3 hours a day on facebook saying how hard your job is, engaging in mindless cow-clicking for two more hours, updating your instragram, going on Tinder (with your pre-baby body) "just for a laugh" and reading reddit to give your hamster fuel to keep on spinning its little wheel.
And that's before you use your child support to pay for a babysitter while billy beta takes you out on an expensive date.
Working on an oilrig for 16 hours a day pales into insignificance compared to all this.
[deleted] 8y ago
So hard that I did it as a teenage boy, on top of school work.
Dad was divorced, incompetent and lazy. I looked after a household comprised of one adult man, several teenagers and a little girl. In the morning, I got everyone ready for school. After school, I did homework and grocery shopping. At night, I cooked and did laundry. We didn't have a car, so we took the bus everywhere. Dad didn't work, so we didn't have that sweet cappuccino and cute-little-car money provided to most women. I did the household finances - I budgeted welfare money to house, feed, clothe and transport all the above people.
Being a single mother is so hard a teenage boy can do it on top of school work, and not even be aware that it was "hard".
masnera 8y ago
you're the Man..... not your dad.
[deleted] 8y ago
Thanks, man. 20 years later, he's still the same and I'm still managing his shit, but he's still my Dad. Incompetent, lazy, and under the thumb of a complete snake of a woman, but still my Dad.
[deleted] 8y ago
So you're as competent as a woman.
[deleted] 8y ago
No, I did the "hardest job in the world" while I was a school boy, without knowing it was "the hardest job in the world".
RedBigMan 8y ago
Naw he's far more competent than a woman.
He pulled it off with a welfare check what some women with thousands of dollars a month in vaginamony weren't capable of doing without going back and putting their hand in their ex's pocket everytime they hear the dude got a raise or promotion or something.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
That's awesome that you did so much.... you shouldn't have had to though.
[deleted] 8y ago
Thanks, man. Yeah, but life's circumstances change for us all. Perhaps I shouldn't have had to do it, but I got dealt that hand, handled it, and now value the experience. It turns out that the hard shit is often the most valuable in life, and the good times are just the nice rewards once the results of hard work has accumulated.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Hey even with your dad being incompetent and lazy he still managed to teach you how to be a responsible and competent man.
Probably because you learned a lesson that some women never EVER learn... The true value of a dollar. Pulling all that off with a welfare check is pretty hard to achieve.
Vasallo7G 8y ago
Maybe there were women who gave a shit about losing their husbands in the pre-historic era.
And were faithful til the end, and never procreate with other males... So without a male hunter and protector, they and their children died and that gene disappeared.
Only the ones capable of switching dicks survived.
jaimewarlock 8y ago
I think about shit like that, which is why I can just accept them as they are.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
Nature was counterproductive towards creating loyal women unfortunately. Prehistoric men needed to just kill the women they conquered along with the men. They would have left a better world for us today.
Fuck you Genghis you bastard
HelloImRIGHT 8y ago
I've been with my girlfriend for over two years. She's had two "friends" die both of whom I had never met nor had she ever talked about. HOWEVER, after they died she insisted each one was her best friend. Literally, any time she talks about one of them or the other she says, "my best friend so and so died earlier this year".
I'm not saying she isn't upset, and I'm not saying they weren't friends. I'm saying throwing the "best friend" in there is attention seeking. I can't stand it.
RedBigMan 8y ago
Meh don't take it personally. This generation of females considers everyone they meet and doesn't tell them to fuck off immediately a 'best friend'... basically if they have your contact info in their iPhone you're going to be considered their 'best friend' if you go take a swan dive off a bridge or some .22 calibre asprin.
u-r-silly 8y ago
But then, when you tell them about your deceased younger brother they tend to shut up. Until they resume rubbing their dead best friend in your face so you give them attetion and emotional support.
TheWindyCity 8y ago
What's interesting to me is that this seems to be a uniquely female phenomenon. Most guys in the same situation seem to have a more "yea that's unfortunate, but I didn't really know him" when an acquaintance dies
BaconEggsAndSleaze 8y ago
Take for example all the shitty posts you see on social media when a Famous person dies.
It's attention grabbing and making sure that the world doesn't forget about them for the day.
Women can make anything about them - i.e. feminism.
fflando 8y ago
dude it's all about the attention grab. my ex had two dead parents (roughly 25 years between parental deaths) and she pulled the attention game SIX times a year, both parent's birthdays, their death dates, plus mother's & father's day for good measure. it really wants to make you puke when you think about how far these women will go to get attention.
politicize-me 8y ago
Do men not do the same thing? How many guys have you seen post some thing about Paul walker? What about a guy pouring out his drink "for his dead hommies"? It's a social badge of pain everyone tries to wear every chance they get (we as a nation do it consistently with memorial day, veterans day, 9/1q, etc.)
I think this is making something up to describe women when in reality it describes everyone. It is a product of today's atenttion seeking society in general, not specific to women.
BaconEggsAndSleaze 8y ago
Really??
Only the beta faggots.
Usually not done in social media to grab attention. You know people who film themselves pouring out beer?
Theres a difference between participating in holidays and making every holiday about you. On veterans day I don't post a selife saying god bless america.
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whiskey__wizard 8y ago
Yes, insecure men absolutely do this. On the anniversary of the death of one of our friends, a friend said he was pouring out some expensive cream double stout. The guy is also a beer snob. Somehow he managed to use the opportunity to display his vast knowledge of beer.
And he barely even knew the guy who died.
douglas_p 8y ago
You might want to re-evaluate the people you associate with.
politicize-me 8y ago
You may want to stop believing everything people post here and start thinking for yourself.
douglas_p 8y ago
What does that even mean? So you don't actually know anyone who posted online tributes to Paul Walker?
politicize-me 8y ago
It means you should think for yourself and use logic instead of perpetuating an ignorantly false statement. If you don't know a male who tries to live through the glory or tradgedy of someone who is dead, you don't know many people. It is a very common phenomenon from all spectrums of humans.
douglas_p 8y ago
Jesus, calm down and get the sand out of your vagina. I can confidently say that I don't know any guys who would be dumb enough to make social media posts about an actor's death.
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Old women also use their dead husbands for sympathy. Maybe not to get another cock but to use men to fill in the void where her former husband was. My grandmother used my grandfathers death as a way to guilt people into doing everything for her. I don't put up with that shit so I made sure my family saw her bull shit. She's a much nicer person now than in all the years I've known her.
If some bitch is manipulating the people around you. Honestly, sometimes it's a good thing for the people around you to have a healthy fear of what you may do. If the people are worried that you may get too aggressive to fix the bitch whose testing they make sure things are fixed in a peaceful manner. It also puts the person in a place of understanding who is in charge. If they don't tow the line they know everyone else will make sure to check that persons entitlement.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
Well said, this whole thread has been great.
But this is a good point. People are so scared of confrontation and want to white knight to protect the feelings of a woman, they will be forced to settle the problem.
MyLittleAtomBomb 8y ago
I witnessed this first-hand when my brother self-terminated a few years back.
His widow still occasionally "speaks to him" when she wants attention at family gatherings. She'll look upwards and act like he's floating above her.
Meanwhile in the months preceding his suicide, she had separated from him and had taken the kids to another state.
The other women in his life pulled similar stunts. My cousin who had met him once had to take two weeks off from college to contend with the grief while posting tributes on facebook. Most of my immediate family went back to work and school within a week.
He was pretty alpha in his day so he had a bunch of his former conquests show up and that was pretty amusing to me. I could tell which girls had fucked him by the amount of tears staining their face.
RedPillDad 8y ago
Sounds like she expedited his demise then circled back to squeeze profit from it.
Fucking drama. If they're not grandstanding as a victim themselves, they're aligning with a victim to score social points. Corpse feeding to a tee.
Milo mentioned something the other day about "virtue signalling" that caught my attention. Women do this opportunistic shit - socially positioning and projecting themselves as a good person - so pervasively that it seems their empathy is real. And other women, even when they see through this ploy, will jump on the fake empathy bandwagon to demonstrate their social virtue. The whole thing becomes a shitshow of holding up "bring back our girls" signs to gain maximum social profit for minimal effort.
Edit: I tried to look up a recent video of Hillary hugging a young girl as she shared her victim story. I could only find this one with a sentimental soundtrack added to it. Pure virtue signalling, and the Democratic media are exploiting it.
The Democrats will keep fueling public victim mentality and Hillary will play the rescuer to Trump's bully.
Obio1 8y ago
"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." - Hillary Clinton
It really is that unbelievable.
Your_Small_dick 8y ago
I think this is a mix of several key tenants of emotional thinking.
I witnessed something similar in a few instances in my lifetime, and have some theories:
If they are not directly impacted by the loss of this man then they FEEL like they should be so they will make themselves publicly upset.
They are over correcting for NOT feeling upset so by outwardly appearing upset they are doing the lip service.
hke12 8y ago
I would say NAVALT on this one, there are people (men and women) whose grief is bad enough that they cannot recover and get another partner.
But you need to lose a loved one for that.
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Eugenics2015 8y ago
WHAT THE FUCK?
you are not normal bro. This is sociopath 101
MooseKingCloud 8y ago
The things I've learned here......
I've spent my life fumbling around, wondering why the fuck these women are doing these dumbfuck things. I swear to god the last six months have been some of the most eye opening of my whole life.
azrise 8y ago
Your evolutionary reasoning is flawed. In prehistoric times, the surviving women of the tribes that were invaded, were raped by the invaders and forced to breed. To say that those women who were more selfish had better chances of survival is foolish. There was no choice, so it made no difference.
favours_of_the_moon 8y ago
I've seen this happen, and many times the girl really didn't even care about the dude that much and kind of drove him to it. lol
My mom was like this to some degree when my dad died, although she was more terrified of being "alone."
Johnny10toes 8y ago
My mil has recently had an ex yes ex husband die. They probably have known each other for 2.5 years total. Married after a few months and divorced a few months later. She's walking around like the widowed bride. They're both old like 70's and 80's. She told her daughter "No one has ever loved me the way he did." She told her to shut the fuck up and that her dad was married to her for over 30 years. Truth is that the old dude was a sob and hated everyone.
dps89 8y ago
I had an ex who used her stillborn baby as an excuse for every terrible thing she did. Including cheating on me. Two and a half years it went on and it never added up to me, something wasn't right.
When it all came crashing down around her it turned out she had never had a baby at all, it was her aunt and uncle at the other end of the country. She'd taken their story to passive aggressively rule us all with her victimhood. After I left she got with the guy she had been cheating on me with, I didn't blame him because he was a young idiot who thought he loved her. I told him the baby wasn't real and sat back to watch the fireworks.
TheWindyCity 8y ago
I've seen this play out more times then I can count and it goes a little something like:
Acquaintance who girl barely knew/talked to dies
Acquaintance magically becomes "best friend" who she was "soooo close with"
Makes the dead persons tragedy her own
Whores her feelz all over social media
Reaps In endless amounts of attention, all while not giving two shits about the dead persons family or others who were actually effected
Uses the death of the person as an excuse for every ounce of shitty behavior
Str8_Pillin 8y ago
This is exactly what Scott Weiland's ex wife just did. She divorced him, kept him from seeing the kids, took 2 houses, demanded $60,000 a month for child support (yes, a fucking MONTH), and then she wrote a letter to Rolling Stone not even 2 days after his death telling fans not to grieve because of how shitty he was and that he didn't want to see the kids.
What she didn't realize is that not everyone is on her side, and one of his tour managers wrote that a few days before his death he started tearing up while talking about the inability to have contact with his own kids.
http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/scott-weiland-s-family-dont-glorify-this-tragedy-20151207
wadebarlow 8y ago
Reminded me of this bit from Anthony Jeselnik's stand up. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FLGEr1zJYo
moodyprism 8y ago
Recently a female friend had a baby. Having babies is prime attention whoring time, and she was enjoying the attention. Another friend commented on her facebook wall saying "Two years ago I lost someone very important to me (some isignificant distance relative) today I've gained someone even more important (her friend's baby)".
This bitch couldn't have just said congratulations. She had to twist it into something that could possible be about her. The fucking narcissism gymnastics.
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Cyralea 8y ago
Ever wonder how so many raped women report experiencing intense orgasms during the assault? Part of our dark history is the selective pressure rape put on female sexuality. Rape was a very real part of our ancestral past. Women who were receptive to it, and could bond with their aggressors and bear his children simply passed on their DNA better than those who resisted and got stabbed after being passed around like a joint.
Combine that with the inherent validation seeking behaviour in women and this kind of thing isn't surprising, despite how shocking it appears at face value.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
I don't doubt this is true... but I've never heard it. Can you provide some links or references or more info?
It's somewhat sick that a woman will be alpha widowed by a rapist.
Cyralea 8y ago
Certainly. There was an IAMA by a child therapist here on reddit a while back. She states that the number of women who reach orgasm is anywhere from 10% to 50%. Potentially half of women who are raped orgasm. When you consider that it's commonly accepted that only 25% of women are able to orgasm from penetrative sex alone, something clearly doesn't add up.
When you think about that, it's mindblowing. The obvious answer is that an underlying evolutionary mechanism exists.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Thanks... fascinating.
The more I know about women, the more I find out how poorly they are adapted to relationships and how well they are adapted to being outright conquered / taken / dominated / used... even to the point of experiencing orgasm during an otherwise extremely stressful event such as this.
Especially given (as you say) the percentage of rape victims experiencing orgasm may be higher than the percentage of women who experience orgasm during normal sex. Something not adding up? I think it adds up perfectly - women are still lying to us about their nature and it's even worse than TRP currently believes.
Yeah, and the remaining half are totally honest about this. Uh huh.
Good info, thanks again.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
That would be the logical conclusion.
We see how dedicated and inherently they all collectively, but unspokenly, KNOW to hide their true nature from men.
That's the real reason they HATE TRP. We're uncovering their nature, and they know deep down there is some BAD SHIT underlying. They don't want us to keep digging, and that's why the irrational reaction to it.
If it were just simple neckbeards, why bother? No there is something bigger to the violent reaction.
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ChickenBalotelli 8y ago
Flashback to another RP post about women in groups competing to be the one with the biggest sob story..........the mother hen that the other chikadees crowd around. (and ultimately, give attention to, which is their drug....along with the other neurochemical drug.....babbling)
aa223 8y ago
Not only girlfriends or widows but when my friend's mom died a few months ago his older brother's girlfriend also put out the same behavior. She made the funeral about her and wanted the older bro to introduce her to people. She even told my friend in a condescending way about how she knows how he felt and the like.
Honestly, I don't know why the older bro was out with her I mean she fat and looks like a bridge troll. But in any case, it isn't just widows but any woman who is associated to the deceased in some way that will make it about her.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
I think I'd smack a bitch or at the very least say the most fucked up shit on earth to a woman who tried to make my mother's death about her..
getbackdownhere 8y ago
Do you work at a hospice or something?
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MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Bodybuilders!?? GayLubeOil you promised me the gym gains would make me immortal, not kill me! Now where did I put those 'roids...
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whyalwaysm3 8y ago
Why were they big on painkillers before workouts? Very curious.
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BaconEggsAndSleaze 8y ago
That and oxy makes the user feel euphoria... Killer moods, hyped to lift.
masnera 8y ago
so "No pain, No gain" is a misnomer ....right?
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aguy01 8y ago
Collagen powder is the way to go. It contains the amino acids used in the synthesis of new bones, tendons, skin, scars, and even helps your liver's processing. Collagen has historically been a part of human diets, as it is found in the bones and skin of animals. Everybody should be getting collagen, either through bone broth or powder supplements.
Glucosamine and Chondroitin are also often recommended, but they act more like lubricants for joints. It's pretty cheap though and doesn't hurt.
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ChuckBronsoncomedy 8y ago
not sure if this comment has been made but, this completely explains why women are so attracted to men who do dangerous shit. Fire-fighters, Cops, Drug dealers, Motorcycle riders...and so on. In West Virginia, Coal mining is the most dangerous job. In WV coal miners are sexy. FUCKING COAL MINERS! nothing against coal miners but nothing about that work is sexy. They are attracted to the fact that these dudes might die soon.
darkvinc 8y ago
not even husbands .... some guy in my town died and some girls just post ridiculous pics of them like : them eating his favorite meal and whoring out over his death..... Its pathetic
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This picture's on the front page right now. Now I couldn't find a story behind it, but it looks to me like whore's don't even take their own death/suicide seriously. This is equality!
BaconEggsAndSleaze 8y ago
I bet she woke up next to a beta.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
My friend Tyler just died and now all the girls are doing the same fucking thing. He became a dopehead and I'm pretty sure none of them had talked to him in years. But any chance to whore out, right?
TheMGhandi 8y ago
She did take it seriously.
We all know the tingles generated by a man who saves
youa woman. She was...merely showing her savior what was his for the night.Edit: format
SteveChiefy 8y ago
Pretty sure she's escaping a fire in a rush. This would make more sense then stripping naked for attention to attract people to save her...
As I type this I actually don't really know what would make more sense. Like I think that trying to get attention that way is ridiculous and she's definitely GOTTA be trying to get away from the fire.. then I'm thinking... hmm.. I really just don't know.
AmlanceJockey 8y ago
Would a woman do this in a fire or would she scream and hope a man came to her rescue?
rpd3zen 8y ago
There's no smoke there, so there is no reason to be outside the window if it was a fire situation.
Borsao66 8y ago
My last LTR was a corpse feeder.
She and her twin sister were abandoned by their father at 2 or 3. SERIOUS daddy & abandonment issues. I met her in May of 2012 about a year after my divorce and it turns out that her husband (who was 25yrs older, this is where I first learned of her daddy issues) had died about 2.5 months before, but I didn't learn about this until later and was the first in a LONG string of lies. AWALT
Anyhow I was a mix of red and blue pill traits at the time and after about a year of horrible frame breaks on my part mostly centered around her lack of honesty (she could push my buttons at will) I finally broke it off. The whole time we were together I would constantly be reminded of what a great man her dead ass exe was. My only regret is that her 16yo daughter had come to see me as a positive male role model.
What I didn't realize is that although she was literally a widow, I'd left her an alpha-widow in the bedroom. I did wreck her in the sack (/humblebrag) After being gone for about a year and a half, and her dating another guy seriously, she started contacting me for "help" with her new house (ceiling fans and the like) and since I was still close to the daughter I agreed (bad move). Turns out her new beta boyfriend was fucking useless with home shit and a potato in the bedroom.
Sure enough it led to me banging the shit out of her for a few months and another breakup initiated by me when I realized again what a lying whore she STILL was, and to boot, a total starfish. After her BB found out about the affair, she trickle truthed him and cried her crocodile tears and got him to forgive her. Betas gonna beta, sloots gonna sloot.
But hey, AWALT.
Anyhow the point to this story is that during the time we were together she actively sabotaged any efforts that I made towards self-improvement. Building my business up (oh, money isn't everything), losing weight (hey, don't get skinny, I like a bigger guy) were all to lower my SMV to keep me under her thumb. In retrospect, she probably contributed to her husband's death by keeping him fat which lead in part to his poor health and getting the big C.
No single moms guys, including widows.
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fingerthemoon 8y ago
I don't think that statement was literal but just another AWALT.
Sir_Distic 8y ago
You have to remember that everything on TRP is made by guys with different thoughts and opinions. Take everything with a grain of salt and decide what works for you and what doesn't.
That's what I do. When people talk about the hate for women, or things like the above quote, I simply mentally shrug indifferently and move on with my thought.
makethemsayayy 8y ago
Men would die in a lot of situations for their wives. Women talk a big game but I never see shit. War brides is a well established concept for a reason. Honor doesn't exist for them.
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A measured response, good god. Voices like yours are very much needed here to help balance things out. Keep things in perspective.
Eugenics2015 8y ago
seriously... this whole thread is way too fucking hardcore. I consider myself a radical but the shit these guys are writing is scaring ME.
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Thats why comments like yours help put things back in perspective. Break the mob mentality.
aazav 8y ago
Pretty much. It's an "I deserve" mentality.
stonepimpletilists 8y ago
Meh, I'll be dead for this one, she can do what she wants.
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BaconEggsAndSleaze 8y ago
A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on. Alpha - War times.
A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on. Beta approach during peace
stonepimpletilists 8y ago
True, I'm sharing your equal indifference to this.
Remember one of my ONS back in the day kept telling me how great her boyfriend was (while I was inside her) I try not to take them at face value anymore.
Never thought about the corpse feeder though until you brought it up. Did she at least wait until the body was cold?
PantsonFire1234 8y ago
And this.. is why you ignore all their tears and do whatever you want.
mrmeyhemn 8y ago
little over a year ago a cousin was killed in a car wreck. his widow has been riding the cc ever since and using his corpse as a sympathy ticket since the day he died. she is a disgusting attention whore that knew him for 2 years total, yet milks his death like she was his mother to this day.
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KermitTheeFrog777 8y ago
Much Anger phase, I sense in you...
apreotea 8y ago
Yup.
Peace is a lie, there is only passion.
As a man, you can never stop improving yourself, you can't improve yourself if you don't have a passion for it.
Through passion, I gain strength.
LIFT, BITCH, LIFT!
Through strength, I gain power.
Through power, I gain victory.
Through improving yourself, you are victorious over yourself.
Through victory, my chains are broken.
Once you own your shit, own your mind, and your body is good, all your limitations are gone. You can do whatever you want.
The Force shall free me.The only part that I disagree with. We really are islands unto ourselves, and can only control ourselves.
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GC0W30 8y ago
I'm calling bullshit on your anger phase defeatism.
You don't have to engage with women who give you substantial drama or non-positive interaction that can't be managed with RP skills.
Don't fuck them. First drama that you can't contain in 5 minutes of our technique, next them.
If they're family, avoid them, shush them, meet the good parts of family, whatever.
If you work with them, change jobs or start your own business.
Interacting politically is a must, but realistically we can still get ahead even with bullshit taxes supporting BP government programs.
If you really think we can't win, read the entire sidebar, practice what you learn.
If you're still losing, re-read it, practice more and within a couple of years you'll be winning.
The community chooses to let anger-phasers libel women, and that makes sense.
When you're telling your brothers shit like this that will make them not try, you are being unhelpful.
apreotea 8y ago
Nah, but have some black-knight fun with it and mention to a woman who's Facebook-stalking a prospective Chad that "he looks just so NICE and wholesome" (of course, say it and sound like you mean it, zero sarcasm!) and watch her hamster eat him alive in front of your eyes.
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apreotea 8y ago
They exist because they didn't ask to be born. Nobody does. We're all here on this rock, somewhere, doing what's best for ourselves in our own heads.
It is hard to keep in mind just how much they depend on feelz and that the solipsism is really that strong within them, yes.
Crying as a means of winning an argument? With you 100%, one of the most disgusting behaviours I can think of... as to punishment for it?
Just get better, be the best version of yourself that you can be, etc. The best revenge truly is living well.
drummmmergeorge 8y ago
Can we instead focus on my brand instead? My brand is more Chad's type of appeal than OP's and woman will like you*
Anyways, think of the audience who participates. The people who post are 20% clueless and want attention and validation 40% gloat and just want others to laugh with them, and then you got 35% who try to sell their shit on here and then you got me the 3.69% those that study people for fun and laughing at the comments, while enjoying the conversation in a light matter. I just wish we can stop focusing on trash women, and make it solely japanese girls. They're what Hitler wanted.
*not really, but you want to believe so.
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Red_Pill_Raskol 8y ago
This is misogynistric tripe. If this is what Red Pill amounts to I'm out.... just kidding. Amazing writing and a great piece of RP theory regarding corpse eaters. Love it. Never seen this particular distinction made and it's another great handle on understanding female nature.
This is why I read TRP.
EDIT: I'm reminded of IM's war brides theory. They are Corpse Brides.
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I think you're the first to name it.
There was a thread a month or two ago about the girl who pressured her boyfriend into suicide then commenced a pity party. I'll try to find a link.
This is actually standard affair in all but severe alpha widows. (imho)
No link, edit, her name is Michelle Carter, charged with involuntary manslaughter.
RedBigMan 8y ago
So what ever happened to the dude who was a nurse and counselled some chick to kill herself in New York? didn't he get charged for murder or something?
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I think so, not certain. Even for me, men being hurt fades to the background so I didn't follow up on that. (another condition I need to modify).
Shit. Do as I say, not as I do https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6YJEPGSOZ8lckNCTmh2TmYyTWM
donmagicjohn 8y ago
Funny this is the first mention of this I've read after ~6 months on TRP but it rings true, and close to home. My buddy "little debbie" passed away at 23, freak accident. We always hated his controlling SO who actually, at one point, made him sign a contract that he would not hang out with my roommate and I more than once a week. At his funeral she gave a eulogy that was the most disusting self-centered "tribute" I've ever heard. Her high and mighty attention craving mother then proceeded to babble about how she just hoped her little girl would be OK without our buddy. In a time where this poor kids mother was spilling tears and his father was visibly shaken, all Mrs. bitch could do was worry about her little princess. Fuck. That.
TL;DR - AWALT AWALT AWALT
ItsCold_ItsCold 8y ago
Looks like the downvote brigade came through.
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The butt hurt train, stamp your ticket?
AOF_Semiramis 8y ago
Noticed a lack of blue links from GLO's thread.
Anyway great read.
Easy way to say this is that: Basically,yes there were unicorn-like women who were loyal. They just got killed off. Its the hypergamous "unloyal" women who lived and passed on their genes.
Basically more reasons(as if you didn't have enough) to not get married.
Eugenics2015 8y ago
"good" women were killed off in the same sense that alphas were killed off.
They are very rare, but still exist. Probably around 1%
wtg2989 8y ago
Your T-shirt plug at the end kinda ruined the article for me.
sprouu 8y ago
I hope you don't ever watch network TV.
All content is created for advertising for you to buy shit.
Write your own article instead...
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wtg2989 8y ago
Oh, does doggy want a bone?