I met this girl in Tinder, and decided to have a drink with her. She was not what I expected. Nice body, but her facial features... well, you know how it goes. Despite that, I was already there and she seemed nice so I stayed for an hour chatting about life.
I decided to explore a little bit about how she thought regarding some TRP themes, as I was not going to see her again and I didn´t mind what she thought about me. Anyway, I almost didn´t talk but decided to let her express her ideas and listen carefully. What she told me shocked me and was a textbook story for this subreddit.
When she was in high school (middle class, private school), one day a male classmate (14 years old) appeared running desperately and badly injured. Some people was beating him, apparently for no reason. He didn´t understand why a bunch of older people was hurting him for no reason. He found refuge inside the school. Later, he knew the reason: he was being accused of raping a 12 year old girl from the same school.
He never saw the girl, talked to her, or anything before. They were completely strangers. This was, of course, something most people didn´t believe: ohhh poor snowflake, this little innocent girl was abused by an older student. Yeah. 14 years old. I was playing pokemon at that age, literally. I was more focused on evolving my Charmeleon to Charizard than stopping being a virgin.
The guy was identified as the raper in school. So he had to change school, and deal with a trial for raping a minor, paying for a lawyer and dealing with an injured knee that required surgery due to the brutal beating of this girl parents and friends. To make story short, some years later he won the trial proving his innocence.
Long story short, the real facts of the story were that this girl, pretty slutty, got pregnant from a random dude. 12 years old, again, from a decent family. She was so scared of what their parents might think that she said she was raped in the bathroom of her school. Her parents rage, understandable, demanded that she should identify the rapist. They went to the school, where she randomly pointed a guy that passed by. Then the nightmare started.
This poor guy got injured and his life became a nightmare instantly just because some selfish, inmature and stupid girl randomly accused him of rape. I wanted more information, but she was not in touch with this guy anymore, all she knew was he won the trial and now he´s accusing her instead of what he did. Being a lawyer myself, unfortunately I don´t think he might win... Even in my country, were false rape allegations are not even close of what happens in America, this poor guy´s life was ruined by no reason.
EDIT: Pokemon quote; and false rape allegations instead of rape culture. EDIT2: After 3 stupid comments on my grammar... I´m not american, and english is not my native language. No need to make remarks on it thinking I´m a local american lawyer, I think you all can understand perfectly what I wrote. If you want, I can translate this into any of the other four languages I speak fluently.
Walkallroads 8y ago
Good lord EDIT2...you beautiful savage
Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth 8y ago
No need to make remarks on it thinking I´m a local american lawyer, I think you all can understand perfectly what I wrote. If you want, I can translate this into any of the other four languages I speak fluently.
Dude, go fuck yourself. I can smell the smugness from here.
WakandaDrama 8y ago
Lol, You write better English than most Americans. I can tell English isn't your native language because it doesn't read like a machine gun spewing words
StabbdNtheTumy 8y ago
Thought I'd say your English was fine. Ridiculous for people criticizing, it was easily understood with very little errors
StoicCrane 8y ago
There has to be some type of legality clause for instances of false rape accusations that men can rally behind. This shit is unreal.
DarkOmen597 8y ago
Look up the story of Brian Banks
TrumpRules2016 8y ago
That story absolutely infuriates me. The dude had a full ride scholarship to USC and had the talent level, to the point where he was most likely going to the NFL.
Instead, he ended up in jail for a number of years and had to register at the time as a sex offender. I think he eventually got off that list. I think he ended up getting a job at the NFL office, but still a story of "what could have been"
DarkOmen597 8y ago
He did get off the list and was offered several try outs. Never made it to the nfl. He played arena football too for a while but I don't think his career took off. Lost a lot of skill being locked up.
exit_sandman 8y ago
That's the problem if parents want to believe that their daughter is a precious little snowflake and not a girl going through puberty who wants to fuck around but has the moral integrity of an average 12 year old (i.e. none) and is willing to throw anyone and everyone under the bus to avoid upsetting her parents.
(what the article doesn't mention: the mother got wind of her daughter's shenanigans, was appalled, lil Miss Snowflake panicked and threw the boy under the bus by claiming he pressured her; and the stupid mother believed it because this was more comfortable than realizing that her daughters were sluttier than she had given them credit for)
Jaz_the_Nagai 8y ago
>moral integrity of an average 12 year old (i.e. none).
Hey! At 12 I had mad integrity. Probably because my father was a scary man who earned my respect, my brother beat me up when I cheated in any game ever, and my mother Polish guilt-tripped me.
Jaz_the_Nagai 8y ago
arguably more integrity than I have now... now that I found that the "golden rule" is bullshit.
arosebyanyother_user 8y ago
I wish I could say that I am shocked, but as I lived through something pretty similar; I am not.
Poor bastard. These people (sadly almost ALWAYS women) must be stopped.
becredible 8y ago
You can't evolve a Charizard.
CaptainGloom 8y ago
I think that's why he was so fixated on the idea. He was consumed by his false notion
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MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Men and women will go to the ends of the earths to protect a girl's virtue, even when there is none to protect.
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klingora 8y ago
Wait wait what? Are you saying that he actually got convicted?
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klingora 8y ago
Holy crap! I thought at least the court of law would help the guy . This is much worse. I hope that guy is doing okay.
Hard_Bodied_Man 8y ago
if he didn't do it, why wouldn't he just say "prove it or piss off"?
Spiral-knight 8y ago
Because it would do literally nothing. A pack of loosed white knights are not looking for justice or both sides, they want to punish and the notion that a woman, a girl would lie is so absurd to them that they can readily justify their actions
Hard_Bodied_Man 8y ago
might not do anything against the white knights, but you can literally walk out of the police station if you arent complacent.
Spiral-knight 8y ago
I'm not informed enough to comment there. My point is words won't stop mob justice. It is easier by far to keep feeding the rage then to step back and consider the possibility that your child/gf/whatever has lied to you.
In a way its BP behaviour
Merica911 8y ago
Was the tinder date the actual girl?
PeluzaHT 8y ago
No, she was classmate with this guy, so she was 2 years older.
Redjatis 8y ago
This post is a bout a hypothetical situation that may have, or may not have ever happened. I understand it fits TRP Narrative. But it's a ghost story, and a waste of our time. Circlejerk Ensue.
PeluzaHT 8y ago
OP here. Unfortunately, I don´t have any possiblity to check. But this woman had nothing to win telling me this story, and this poor guy was close to her. I´d say this is probably true, at least the main story, woudn´t know much about the details. But yeah, take this story cautiously.
CaptainGloom 8y ago
There should be a harsher penalty for lying to the court through your teeth like that, such as 5 years imprisonment
RedPharaohRising 8y ago
Liar. Charizard doesn't evolve. Mega doesn't count.
ToSeeAndToHear 8y ago
Evolving to Charizard, clearly. Mega is too recent unless OP is a lawyer at 17.
Thatonefuckboi 8y ago
Agreed. Mega is so recent that you must be 17.
alritealritealrite 8y ago
Is it illegal to falsely accuse someone of a crime?
orilyrily 8y ago
In reality the false accuser would face little to no consequence and the accused will lose everything just by being accused.
Technically the accuser could get charged with perjury or making a false report but these crimes are relatively minor / hard to convict and even if convicted the punishment may be negligible.
You can see how this can easily be used as a tool by malicious people.
HappyScribe 8y ago
How about suing the parents and those who attacked him?
In a broader context, could you sue anyone or organisation who discriminated against you before you went to trial?
orilyrily 8y ago
Well I don't think it would fall under discrimination but rather defamation. You wouldn't sue anyone before the criminal trial because that outcome can effect the civil case. If you get convicted then people saying your a offender or whatnot is not a false statement.
Either way the hope of getting anything seems bleak and a waste of your time and money... They probably couldn't even pay. There is no justice and the system is not helping.
Lets add fuel to the US justice system hate - look up "Civil Forfeiture".
mr_nate_ 8y ago
The accuser should be required to pay all damages — whether they be monetary, social, career oriented, etc. She ruined his social reputation, which likely induced some degree of mental scarring, caused him actual physical injury, and sucked money out of him due to her surgery and thousands in court/lawyer fees.
How can they get off with nothing.
orilyrily 8y ago
Oh, what I mentioned isn't even the half of it. If the accuser is in the USA and in college - their kangaroo courts can kick the accused right out with no ability to defend themselves and be labeled an offender.
Further, USA prosecutors have a shitload of power and even if the accuser decided to stop this facade... the prosecutor may still pursue the matter themselves.
So the accused get hosed either way and criminally the accuser could get a slap on the wrist.
Now to the topic on hand - damages. You decide to go after your accuser in civil court. Even if you could get damages after years of legal battles and you get a favorable outcome and you get significant damages... the accuser probably doesn't even have the money.
So you are out more money and more time. At least the lawyers love you.
DubbleFUPAwitCheez 8y ago
Prosecutors are some of the biggest sons of bitches there are. I got a case thrown out and the fucker came back at me, with lesser charges but still, he couldn't stand the idea of me walking away scott free. Self-righteous fuckers think they're the arbiters of justice.
HerrBrain 8y ago
I've long been of the belief that in these types of cases of a false allegation, the accuser should be sentenced to whatever the accused would have received had they been convicted.
5t3fan0 8y ago
same here, but it will never happen because lawyers and their business would go bankrupt.
sueing brave and honest journalists without fears is a big thing for politicians here in italy
HerrBrain 8y ago
It is really too bad, because without consequences, there is no reason not to make a false allegation.
But once again, no consequences for actions for our special snowflakes.
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drummmmmergeorge 8y ago
Girls who date online are the a no no. I got a hot blond for a 2nd date, and I met her on campus, she is 3 years older than me, but a man is judged by his achievement and accomplishments, my attitude is strong and I am well sound. She is just a pretty girl. Honestly, I didn't plan this far, since I was on a reject streak, but it doesn't matter how many times you fail, no one will remember it, they will only remember you invited the light bulb and forget about the lonely and sad days.
icecow 8y ago
False Rape Allegation Culture
Worthlessplanet 8y ago
What became of the storyteller?
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VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
So she's a "Butter Face"...everything looks great, but her face.
dapowa 8y ago
Butterfaces are the original 50ft faker.
silver_nuke13 8y ago
BUT-HER-FACE OH NOW I GET IT
Similar to a catfish, which is thin from one angle but fat from another
bonekeeper 8y ago
In Brazil we say she's a shrimp... ignore the head, eat the rest!
5t3fan0 8y ago
omg i need to write this for the future, tnks sensei
tgeda 8y ago
Reading that literally makes me feel nauseous. You ruined my evening man
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damn. i would murder a group of adults for lynching my kid like that.
CaptainGloom 8y ago
I mean, that's kinda hypocritical but I feel you
iBeNiko 8y ago
Not really, with his kid he has proof that a crime occurred.
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tgeda 8y ago
Its interesting. Women in many situations are able to divert the fury that would have been inflected on them to a male.
Instantly becoming the victim when they were previously the "bad guy." That sort of power is terrifying.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
What's more terrifying is that women know this, and use this. They try not to be exposed for it.... but they do it. A lot. An awful lot.
Women socialise violence - getting men to battle each other rather than fighting them directly. Hence their willingness to call the police, file accusations, complain and whine on social media, etc.
Feminism has made men unwilling to call women on it. Thousands of years of being skeptical about everything women say has been nullified by betas shouting "sexist!" as soon as a woman or women are criticised.
chocobaby 8y ago
"All hail the vagina" is the BP mantra. "Society" has swallowed it whole. SOme f'ed up sh&t there.
Berend09 8y ago
The first rule of fight club: don't do what OP did
PeluzaHT 8y ago
I know I know. We don´t discuss these topics openly.
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Remember, false accusations hurt real rape victims!
The language here is so important, you will notice it always becomes about how a move that hurt a man also hurts women.
LeonZan 8y ago
Someone accuses my kids of rape and then touches them without any evidence whatsoever is going to get a knife through their ballsack.
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ironblacksmith 8y ago
She is all of those things, but don't think she's different for it. AWALT.
Rommel0502 8y ago
I have long stated - if you falsely accuse someone of a crime, you should then get the same exact punishment they would have received if proven guilty.
No idea why this is not the case.
twatbutter 8y ago
You really think that fat manginas and high n-count Hamsterinas would ever support this level of equality? It would mean that you can't cry rape for free anymore. Such is the way of our "justice system" right now. Fucking joke.
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PeluzaHT 8y ago
This is what he´s supposed to be trying according to what this woman told me. Anyway, who gives this kids life back? Changing school, injuries, social stigma, lost of confidence, walking through hell not knowing if you´re going to go to prison soon, lawyer costs, etc. This is hell. Even if she gets punished.
tgeda 8y ago
He has to kill her, that is the only possible satisfaction for such bullshit.
I know this sounds terrible, but thats what i would do. Like-wise its what i would expect done to me if I intentionally ruined someones life to such a degree.
Juffo-WupDeepChild 8y ago
Death would be too merciful a punishment. A decade in a torture basement is the only way to go.
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BradPill 8y ago
We have come to a self-proclaimed 'tolerant' society where only a rape-claim is enough to be sentenced - if not by a court, then certainly publicly. As the fraudsters and deceivers are not punished, it is their go-to accusation to cover their own misdeeds. In that sense real criminals have more rights and are better protected by the law than innocent victims. So much so for social justice. And, ironically and diabolically, real rape victims now have a harder time being believed. Vocal women and weak men: this is the result and in the end everybody suffers.
GooRanger3 8y ago
The same shit as in the old times. I bet she choose an unpopular omega looking guy, not the popular muscular tall alpha.
BradPill 8y ago
True. The false-claimers should be prosecuted and compensate their victims - I only read about guys' lives being destroyed but never if the bitch is convicted (no wonder the public doesn't believe in the justice-system any longer...).
gonorealover 8y ago
you mean all 6 of them ?
Do you honestly believe women are getting raped that much in our society ?
BradPill 8y ago
Unfortunately there are many more than we know of - simply because they do not report it (and yes, I know a few of them).
But, I have really no idea why you feel the need to quantify anything I said - any rape is one too many, so whether you label it many or few is not relevant.
twatbutter 8y ago
You know a few of them but how do you know they were raped? Did you witness the rape yourself?
twatbutter 8y ago
You know a few of them but how do you know they were raped? Did you witness the rape yourself?
BradPill 8y ago
They are (good) friends that I do trust - but no, I did not witness it. So it's my gullibility vs your skepticism.
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twatbutter 8y ago
Good friends or not, remember that most women lie to save face. Even if this is "I'll take a bullet for you anytime" level of trust, a woman can lie to save face from peers and the public, and uphold that lie to you. Don't forget to factor in hamstering into all of this
BradPill 8y ago
I know. These were women raped decades before I got to know them. They called it rape, I didn't ask for detailed specifics. They had no reason to lie to me: it was no sob-story or some sympathy-play, as the friendship was established already. Yes, they could have embellished it - good for them, if that would have made them feel better.
twatbutter 8y ago
There's always a reason for women to lie about their sexual promiscuity. It takes some hardcore manipulation to get a woman's true n-count out, including the ones she has hamstered as rape when experiencing slutty buyer's remorse.
BradPill 8y ago
True. I didn't hard-core manipulate them. Might do so next time - or not.
KnowBrainer 8y ago
I had to go through similar crap before. It was never rape until her dad found out... then suddenly it was. For a long time I felt like I owed the world a rape, and that's not a healthy feeling.
michael_wilkins 8y ago
They should make horror movies about this shit
CD_Johanna 8y ago
"It Follows" is as close as it gets.
fatalbinoninja 8y ago
Check out Gone Girl. Sure it's fake but it vividly shows just how far she can go to ruin a guys life.
Stythe 8y ago
I saw this before I found out about TRP. I thought it was a brilliant movie but didn't understand it. After learning a lot of these concepts I remembered watching it and it was very disturbing. Fantastic movie though. I've been meaning to watch it again now that I know what I know.
throwaway320_ 8y ago
What was there not to understand before TRP?
Stythe 8y ago
Motivations, I believe. But maybe it was explained and I just couldn't wrap my head around the plot due to not u derstansing male/female mindsets.
alucidexit 8y ago
Have you seen The Hunt? It essentially is a horror film.
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NecroticFury 8y ago
gone girl?
only half the women left that movie thinking she went psycho. the other half left in glee.
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babybopp 8y ago
It is on Netflix by the way for anyone that has not watched it
DrScientist812 8y ago
They got off easy by making the accuser a child who didn't know any better though. They would never dare to make a film about a woman in complete control of her faculties knowingly making false accusations without twisting it to be about her feelings.
alucidexit 8y ago
Gone Girl?
Although it would be interesting to have a film like Gone Girl where they didn't try to also portray the man as a cheating asshole, but a wrongly accused innocent in the self interest of the woman.
If only Hitchcock were still around. His staple was wrongly accused men and I think he'd be all over such a film.
debashis22 8y ago
I can only imagine Jimmy Stewart playing Nick Dunn in Gone Girl ... sounds like a nightmare. Cary Grant though
mEatBucket 8y ago
Made me think of Gone girl. That shit is fucking realistic.
MorbidLeoBees 8y ago
Whenever asked what the scariest horror movie is, that's what I list.
towmule 8y ago
I saw that in theaters with my SO, and on the way out, some other guy that was also there with his SO and I shared a look, and knew exactly what he was thinking.
"What the fuck did I just watch?"
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StarDestinyGuy 8y ago
I'm almost afraid to watch that based on how furious it will likely make me.
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babybopp 8y ago
I have recommended that movie to a lot of guys. Mads mikkelson performance was really good. It is a good portrayal even though reality is far worse
StarDestinyGuy 8y ago
Reality is far worse than what the movie portrays?
From what I've heard, what the movie portrays is already absolutely horrible.
babybopp 8y ago
It is mostly set in a rural setting. That is why I say the reality in an urban setting would be far worse
StarDestinyGuy 8y ago
Ah, I see.
I should go watch it.
SrMandril 8y ago
That movie and today's society is why I support recording classes and teacher's offices.
marty2k 8y ago
Pssh, that won't change anything. With the feminist narrative of "always believe the accuser" plus white knights, your life will be ruined before you get to show it in court.
RXRob 8y ago
Scout leaders over here in the UK have a strict rule about never being alone with a scout under any circumstances. I agree with your position on CCTV in schools.
GetBenttt 8y ago
So our kids can get spied on by Big Brother? No thanks
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MorbidLeoBees 8y ago
Continuing to go off topic but let's not also forget a large portion of kids now are the ones whose parents have had camera phones since day one. I noticed while hanging out with a friend with a child that whenever I lifted my phone to check my notifications, the kid would automatically smile. The mom is one of those "let's take fifty pictures for Facebook every hour!" types.
And soon I'll have to be the crotchety old man trying to explain to these whipper snappers why 24/7 surveillance is a bad thing when it's literally all they've known.
GetBenttt 8y ago
Maybe you should pick up some better parenting skills if that's what's going on, speak for your own self.
I don't have kids thank God, but in general, the more privacy we have as individuals the better.
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WhistlingDead 8y ago
It's up to the parents whether kids have a phone and whether it has an internet plan.
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Davidkpa 8y ago
Without a rape kit, I'm in the corner of, won't believe a rape happened. Too many false allegations of rape for me to just believe a rape occurred. I've met lots of vindictive angry women who are ok destroying men's lives with false allegations of rape.
Torridzone92 8y ago
Truer words were never spoken.
Protip: during a celebrity rape accusation, if endless amounts of women start all coming at once accusing the guy of rape with no evidence, the entire accusation is probably total bullshit. (Kobe, Tiger, etc)
WhistlingDead 8y ago
Many men would also lose their minds if their 12-y-o daughter came home and accused a schoolmate of rape.
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tgeda 8y ago
The main issue is that women have a reduced empathy reaction for males, well all humans do.
Just look at your average action movie, imagine if it was little girls or puppies getting shot all over the place. Humans are unfortunately designed to see males as utilities.
fingerthemoon 8y ago
Eggs are more valuable than sperm. Just how it is, across all species (except when the male has more parental investment. In some birds the male sits on the eggs, therefore the females have more opportunity to drop eggs with many males than the male has to fertilize many eggs. In these species the females are larger and fight over access to the males.)
Philhelm 8y ago
I saw "rape kit" and wondered where I could purchase one, but then I realized...
Davidkpa 8y ago
In all seriousness, rape kits are critical to stopping serial rapists who go free for years possibly putting innocent men in danger of being wrongfully committed.
NakedAndBehindYou 8y ago
Yep. It's gotten to the point where my first response to any claim of rape, especially on the internet, is "this probably didn't happen."
Unless a woman posts pictures of her face beat up like Rihanna, I'll save my judgment for after the proof comes out in court.
menial_optimist 8y ago
I've only had 3 LTR's in my life and 2 of the 3 women told me at some point they were raped. I don't believe shit either. Guess i'm a victim blamer /s
redolas 8y ago
I just realized ... same here. Two of my exes were both "raped". I used to feel so bad for them. But it always felt weird how they didn't feel the need to get away. One is still working with the "rapist" some 10 years later, and the other didn't care to change jobs to get away from her "rapist". She changed eventually, but not because of him.
bluedrygrass 8y ago
Rihanna, the woman that tried to get together again with the man that beat her up
kragshot 8y ago
Yeah...about that. You have to remember that Rihanna comes from
TrinidadBarbados and the women over there believe that you're not a real man if you don't smack your woman around to keep her in check. Add to that, the fact that she had been seen more than once, slapping and punching him in public.Why don't you listen to what comedian Paul Mooney says about the whole Rihanna/Chris Brown thing and see if it doesn't make sense.
ILoveSunflowers 8y ago
Rihanna is from from Barbados, not Trinidad.
fingerthemoon 8y ago
It bothers me when beautiful women shave the side of their head like Rihanna did. I really hope this stops being a thing.
Just started dating a chick with dreadlocks who has one side shaved. She's not a feminist and actually more traditional and feminine. It's just a style that people see and emulate.
cariboo_j 8y ago
Erin Pizzey and Karen Straughan are always banging on about how domestic violence is usually reciprocal.
The male and the female partner usually hit each other. And they most often come from abusive families/have substance abuse problems.
It's more about both parties having poor life skills ...and probably being trailer trash... than patriarchal oppression.
fingerthemoon 8y ago
The Truth About Domestic Violence - You'll Never Believe... video by Stefan Molyneux
Questionablechoice 8y ago
The statistics support it as well it's not just a random baseless conclusion.
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Sdom1 8y ago
Investigators can often determine whether rape was more likely than sex from the damage done to the vaginal walls. Often rape causes much more tearing. They can also collect other physical evidence, including DNA samples from wherever the rapist touched her. This in and of itself does not prove rape, of course, but is important evidence that prosecutors will need to build their case.
Swissies 8y ago
Exactly. I'm not sure why the moron above was bashing rape kits. They are good because they put actual rapists and criminals away.
NakedAndBehindYou 8y ago
It can prove that the woman at least believed that the sex was rape at the time the sex occurred, soon enough after to actually get the rape kit done.
As opposed to the bullshit stories that come out regularly where a girl fucks a guy, then a month later decides it was rape. Similar to mattress girl from that university. She fucked the dude then waited like 6 months before accusing him of rape. If she had gone to the police immediately and gotten a rape kit the next day, at least she'd have a shred of credibility.
killcat 8y ago
If she was pregnant an amniocentesis could clear him of being the father.
menial_optimist 8y ago
It still wouldn't be enough for a lot of people. I was recently arrested for failing to provide a breathalyzer sample on a sunday afternoon as I was driving to meet my mother for lunch. I tried explaining to them I have a medical condition that doesn't allow me to exhale consistently long enough for a reading on the device, but that didn't matter. As soon as I got home I got a lift to the hospital where as soon as I could I got a blood test done which of course came back completely negative for alcohol.
Despite that evidence a lot of people out there commenting on the news story on facebook believed I was drunk, I was a scumbag & I should be thrown in jail.
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Hanz_Wunderbarwang 8y ago
Determination of paternity can be done during early pregnancy with a simple blood test. It's called a "non-invasive prenatal paternity test". Costs around $1k and can be done after the 14th week of gestation.
They take a regular blood sample from the mother and a dna sample (can be blood, hair, mouth swab) from the potential father(s). Couple weeks later you get the results.
There's a larger margin of error (I think 1%) that narrows significantly if samples are given from all potential fathers (can be tricky with dishonest bitches), so it's not bulletproof. If it says you're the dad I would get a regular paternity test when the kid pops out to be sure.
I'd get the first one asap to save 6 months of hell. Get the second one BEFORE signing the birth certificate to save a potential lifetime of hell.
IM_PRETTY_RACIST 8y ago
Yup. They're expensive but it seems liek a cut-and-dry way to prove this guy, assuming she says that's the "only" time she's been raped.
It's just as likely she'd say it happened again and blame some other poor sod while the emotion-filled parents run amok.
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newgrounds 8y ago
Or she did have sex with the person but changed her mind on the desire after.
IM_PRETTY_RACIST 8y ago
In the liberal mind it wouldn't mean that the rape didn't happen, only that the rapist wasn't the father.
thecowninja 8y ago
Which is not necessarily a bad thing considering the wager in a falsified case.
MuhTriggersGuise 8y ago
It proves she had sex. It doesn't prove whether she was raped, or decided to destroy the man's life near the time that sex occurred.
Boozt 8y ago
The point he is going for if there is a kit done/she comes forward ASAP gives them some credibility that it happened instead of being able to say it happened months after.
MuhTriggersGuise 8y ago
That's fine, but he called it "proof" of rape. I'm saying it isn't.
Troll_Name 8y ago
Rape kits can identify signs of rape like vaginal bleeding. Also, as already said, it requires claiming rape on the spot rather than months or even years after the fact. This alone could prevent a lot of To Kill a Mockingbird cases.
MuhTriggersGuise 8y ago
Rough consensual sex can lead to vaginal bleeding as well. It doesn't prove rape. I agree that an immediate claim is more credible, I'm just saying it isn't proof.
manslutalt 8y ago
A girl's word isn't proof either, but that's apparently irrelevant
Moldy_Gecko 8y ago
But, better than nothing. I'm sure it identifies more factors. I'll Google tomorrow.
Questionablechoice 8y ago
A 12 year old is likely going to bleed one way or another. Typically from a first sexual encounter.
Hell I have witnessed vaginal bleeding from prolonged but not rough sex.
Vaginal bleeding is a really poor indicator of rape. It's only marginally more believable than a random bruise.
FevaForDaFlava 8y ago
I still make my gf bleed at times when we have rough sex since she is 5'0" and petite.
twatbutter 8y ago
RAPE!!! Guys his gf's twat was bleeding after he fucked her hard. Orbiting witnesses, who may or may not be friendzoned by his gf, reported loud moans and lots of sharp movements afterwards
FevaForDaFlava 8y ago
Hahaha, funniest shit I've read today.
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CrazyHorseInvincible 8y ago
What the fuck is this shit?
Why the hell would you be stupid enough to have a pissing contest on my floor?
Both of you shut up.
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CrazyHorseInvincible 8y ago
What the fuck is this shit?
Why the hell would you be stupid enough to have a pissing contest on my floor?
Both of you shut up.
balajig8 8y ago
What about the guy agreeing to a lie detection test to prove his innocence?
Davidkpa 8y ago
I wish those were admissible in court but last I checked, you can't present them as evidence, at least I've never heard of it.
OwlsExterminator 8y ago
Categorically inadmissible in California criminal cases unless both parties stipulate. As for civil and noncriminal juvenile they're potentially admissible. You need to file for a foundational hearing whether its admissible under the legal standard for expert opinion testimony.
Gawernator 8y ago
Polygraphs aren't lie detectors and are barely better than chance at detecting deception and are not admissible in court.
balajig8 8y ago
What about then the guy has an alibi during the time of rape. Say his friends witnessing him.
rollcyclones 8y ago
Unless you have constant survalence who has an alibi 100% of the time? I've been falsely accused of a crime that happened at 2 am.... where we're you at 2 am some random night? Who the fuck knows.... sleeping? I was a bartender and I luckily got everyone to vouch I was at work but there was no clock in or out system. I was lucky they didn't push harder for a conviction.
For the curious it was for trespassing and criminal mischief. The kid had my stolen license and threw gave it to security before running.
Straydog1018 8y ago
The "Rape Accusation" is literally the modern day equivalent of declaring women witches and burning them at the stake. I mean you can be accused of it by anyone, for any reason, with people just accepting it as true no matter what if a woman says it, for a reason as fucking stupid as the fact that they got pregnant at 12 and didn't wanna get in trouble themselves. I mean, I honestly can't think of anything that makes my blood boil more then a fucking 12 year old getting pregnant, getting called out by her parents, and deciding to save herself by pointing to a fucking RANDOM guy and saying "yeah... that guy? He raped me. Because I'm already a slut at 12 and am pregnant but can't fucking man up and admit it, he raped me." I mean if it wasn't such a morbid subject, that would be like something you would see in a sitcom! Holy hell its so amazing how easy it is for women to currently get men busted for rape, even if its not supported in reality whatsoever, the guy usually still has his life ruined.
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Women Are Wonderful .... welcome to TRP.
Scott_WWS 8y ago
The 24/7 body cam, worn every day, everywhere, to the shitter, to the bedroom...
doesn't sound so silly now does it?
Forerunner0 8y ago
"were rape culture is not even close of what happens in America" there is no rape culture in america.
TheRealMouseRat 8y ago
I think he means "false rape accusation culture"
Mildly_Sociopathic 8y ago
Meanwhile in Europe
tumbleweed passes by
mr_nate_ 8y ago
I can't find the quote, so I'll paraphrase, but feminists have said before:
It's better to send 10 falsely accused men to jail than have 1 actual rapist have freedom.
Oh, how logic has crumbled.
haxurmind 8y ago
A paraphrase of Sir William Blackstone.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blackstone's_formulation
I link and quote the above for convenience.
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gebrial 8y ago
The original quote, as uttered by some judge I think, was something along the lines of, "It is better than 1000 guilty men be free than 1 innocent man be punished."
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Feminism is aiming to reverse this with guilty-until-proven innocent.
But only for crimes committed by men against women. Crimes committed by women against men (eg paternity fraud) should of course be defined as "non-crime" by society and the law.
You couldn't make this shit up.
CaptainGloom 8y ago
I think it was just ten, not 1000. After a 1000 people start to lean more towards totalitarianism.
Hoodwink 8y ago
Wasn't there a quote (or maybe it was a small essay) by someone significant which had the opposite thought somewhere in history?
PANTSONMIXTAPE 8y ago
Pretty sure this was a big theme in The Crucible.
Yknow, the book about literal witch hunts started by a bunch of manipulative attention whores. But i guess we dont need to learn from history do we
Hoodwink 8y ago
Yeah. I read that in high school. I think this is exactly what I was remembering.
PANTSONMIXTAPE 8y ago
It was written as an allegory for mccarthyism and the red scare but it still applies
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aherne18 8y ago
Jesus Fucking Christ. To remain pregnant at age 12 almost certainly means having sex from age 11. Most (White) girls at that age don't even have a menstrual cycle...
Scott_WWS 8y ago
Jesus Fucking Christ. To remain pregnant at age 12 almost certainly means having sex from age 11. Most (White) girls at that age didn't even have a menstrual cycle...
fixed it for ya...
Fast forward to Burger King diets laden with hormones and GMOs, young women are becoming fertile at younger and younger ages each decade.
dr_warlock 8y ago
If two guys come after you, run. If 3+ guys come after you, run and pull out a knife. You're going to lose anyway, bring one with you.
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What idiots, set out to kill someone without a thorough investigation and questioning her. What a bunch of whiteknight faggots.
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dr_warlock 8y ago
That's because most people brandish small folding knives and go for non-essential site like the stomach and arms region. Use a 4-5 inch fixed blade to the heart, lungs, diaphragm, aorta, cortid artery, windpipe, or face, and they'll leave you alone.
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If 3+ people come get you, pick one guy to focus on, then whoop out the knife at the last second, grab his clothes, then unleash your fury. He's fucked.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=37XiSn81oFw
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LRukPq1qTfI
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Sdom1 8y ago
The kid's balls were just starting to drop, he was smart to run.
katmf05 8y ago
And bite like a motherfucker monkey, it is your fucking life!
Jaz_the_Nagai 8y ago
Who knew I'd find woman empowerment on theRedPill...
dr_warlock 8y ago
Bite the jugular and eye gouge.
Questionablechoice 8y ago
fuck biting if I'm going to the emergency room or the grave I'm bring someone elses testicles with me.
CaptainGloom 8y ago
This is what you get when the masses take justice into their own hands. They fuck it up and beat innocent people, because the masses are idiots.
jm51 8y ago
Was an incident in England a few years ago where a mob stormed the house of a new occupant. They'd heard that the new owner was a paedo...trician. A female one at that.
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tsudonimh 8y ago
I recall that her house was vandalized, not invaded. But what made it worse was that it happened repeatedly, despite people being told the truth.
jm51 8y ago
A lot of this is down to Rebecca Brooks when she was editor of The Sun. She ran a paedo phobia campaign with the only intent of increasing circulation.
A year or two later, a white van man in a rural area sees a boy of about 4 alone on the road. Guy didn't stop because he was worried about being accused of kidnapping.
The boy was later found drowned in a ditch.
Gawernator 8y ago
Or pull out your Glock 19 Gen 4
EDIT: Downvoted for using personal defence? Lol ok
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Gawernator 8y ago
A 14 year old can certainly fire a handgun accurately. This motherf**ker enlisted at 12 and got a Bronze Star: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Calvin_Graham
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Clem
Youngest NCO in United States history. I don't know what type of bitches for children you're raising, mine won't be weak.
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Jaz_the_Nagai 8y ago
I think you got downvoted because what you said sounded like a mix of something Samsung is releasing next month and Star Wars.
Gawernator 8y ago
Hah. https://us.glock.com/products/model/g19gen4
Not my best gun but one of my favorites. P226 MK25 is too large for daily carry and smaller guns I reserve for summertime
Jaz_the_Nagai 8y ago
Wow. You sure enjoy bearing those arms... Just make sure the guns stay safe.
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CZ-75 8y ago
The CZ-75 is a much better firearm.
Gawernator 8y ago
The CZ-75 is excellent. My personal favorites for top tier guns are Sig Sauer followed by H&K. Glock wins for duty use due to supreme reliability, simplicity, lots of cheap spare mags and parts, accurate, lightweight, etc. No brainer. And if you lose it during a court case following a shooting you won't cry as much over a $400 glock vs $700-1,200 handgun
fingerthemoon 8y ago
Sounds like you know a thing or two about guns. What would you suggest for the first and only hand gun I'll probably own? I'd like something reliable and easy to get ammo for. All around utility. I'm 6'1" and have big hands if that matters. Planning on getting my conceal and carry permit and there's a big local gun show this May where I'll probably make a purchase.
Gawernator 8y ago
Definitely a Glock 19, gen 3 or 4 (I prefer the newer 4th generation). It's affordable around $400-500, very popular which means lots of available spare parts and inexpensive magazines, easy to shoot, inexpensive 9mm round, extremely reliable. It's also easy to conceal and an all around utilitarian gun. If I had to only take one handgun out with me into combat I would take my Glock 19. I would also install some Trijicon or similar nightsights on it after you buy it. It is also extremely easy to disassemble and maintain. I suggest Remora brand IWB holsters, they are on sale right now, handmade in the USA and inexpensive.
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Gawernator 8y ago
There's a reason all US special forces use the G19 now. Cool story about rifle rounds but that's irrelevant since you can't conceal carry a rifle on your body every day and your chance of getting into a firefight against a rifle is worse than your chances of winning the Powerball. lmfao
but thank you captain obvious. And you better watch out if you bring a rifle to tank combat. Those 120mm rounds with a 5,700 FPS muzzle velocity wounds aren't pretty.
fingerthemoon 8y ago
Thanks for your advice. I will seriously consider it.
Gawernator 8y ago
Good luck! Every man needs at least a solid handgun. For home defense I'd suggest a Mossberg 500 or similar shotgun, $200-$300 12 gauge 00 buck
fingerthemoon 8y ago
I plan to take up deer hunting as well, next fall, so I'll be shopping for a rifle. Two guns is probably good for now but maybe a shotgun someday.
I was raised by far left hippie progressives and was never taught how to handle guns. In fact, when I was 11 my dad found a plastic squirt gun and pelt gun I had hidden in my room. He took me out into the driveway and smashed them with a rock, telling me he wouldn't allow guns in his house, not even toy guns. lol. He's a good man and I love him but I'm smarter and wiser.
Gawernator 8y ago
lol. Wow. Sorry for that but at least he's a good man otherwise. I did about 70% of my growing up in the south and my dad did 5 years as a Marine Scout Sniper. I'm sure there are very welcoming and helpful gun groups in your community, and as a bonus a lot of "alpha" or traditional men hang out there, and lots of elders with wisdom to be gleaned. Shooting guns is amazing 'merica fuck yeah
also I have a Remington 783 in .308 as a "hunting" rifle.. not a bad choice. For $300-400 you can get a very solid bolt action rifle. I recommend .308/7.62x51 as a relatively inexpensive (maybe 0.50 a round ish) and easy to find round. Also I prefer to buy almost exclusively online unless Walmart has a good sale, most gun store ammo prices are terrible. Go to slickguns.com and you'll be happy you did.
1Maverick1 8y ago
Dude, you are a lawyer? Don't you have to learn proper grammar and all that shit to be a lawyer?
PeluzaHT 8y ago
You probably do, if you live in an english speaking country. My spanish is flawless, and I can fluently talk italian, portuguese, french and (kind of) english. Sorry to bother you with my bad grammar, I understand you might be some poliglote that speaks a lot of languages fluently too to make those claims, right?
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Swanksterino 8y ago
The American rape culture is pretty rich and diverse.
Snivellious 8y ago
Interesting use of "rape culture" in that last sentence. We very much do have a culture fixated on rape, even if it's not in the way that the term was originally coined.
MaseWindew 8y ago
Wow actually kinda hard to believe this happened. Just goes to show its always shoot first ask questions later with society.
P.s. Charizard can't evolve, at least not when you were 14.
TheRealMouseRat 8y ago
what country exactly was this in?
PeluzaHT 8y ago
Argentina. This is, of course, not common, specially in middle class or upper classes. I´ve been in more than 50 countries, including North America, and lived and worked in California for a while. No, I don´t live in a country were law doesn´t work at all, despite what some people might think if they´ve never visited Buenos Aires.
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jace81 8y ago
As someone who has been on both sides of this, I don't even believe rape happens at all.
redestofthereds 8y ago
Yay! Happy ending!?!
NPK5667 8y ago
For a lawyer you have the grammar of an 11 year old in a ghetto public school
PeluzaHT 8y ago
Appreciate it. I´m not only a lawyer, but I do have a PhD and some other studies as well, which would make things much worse. Specially considering english is not my native language, and I speak other 4 languages fluently (spanish, portuguese, italian, french and, kind of, english). I don´t even live in an english speaking country. I asume you have a much better cultural background than me to tell me this, so I´m really sorry to bother your eyes reading my lack of grammar.
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chocobaby 8y ago
lol, I see what you did there.
Porcodiolurido 8y ago
Onestamente, mi sa di minchiata.
bonekeeper 8y ago
In other words...
vizakenjack 8y ago
Not, not because of that, but because of the system that we, men, are silently approving of (if we're not fighting it, then we're approving it, passively), that is biased against the male in these situations. If the girl had a perception that a thorough examination would follow and her case would be treated as yet another legal one, and that her lie will be quickly established, she wouldn't go for it. She went for it, because she (the girl) knew it'd be an easy lay off for her.
osborn18 8y ago
Wait how the fuck cant this guy sue the girls parent?.
Like where are you from op.
Am curious where can the law not protect a legally innocent child from getting beat up
PeluzaHT 8y ago
He did sue the parents and the girl, according to who told me this. Of course law protects him... but the fact he experienced a nightmare, is what this whole thing is about: he did nothing, and all the social stigma still hit him hard anyway, even proving his innocence.
neocelt 8y ago
I hope the comment about "RAPE CULTURE" was a fecituious joke.
SgtBrutalisk 8y ago
Facetious? If you can't spell a word, use a synonym.
samrandomshii 8y ago
Trp stories makes me wanna record every interaction i have:/
chocobaby 8y ago
Not the worst idea these days. Turn on the recorder in your phone and GET THAT CONSENT. "You want to have sex?, me inside you sex? You sure?" Then get busy. After you finish, send that clip to your email. Done.
yGTWgtNrco 8y ago
Email can easily be forged. Indeed, a large percentage of email is.
I've set up a website where you can upload files up to 2gb and have them stored securely forever.
But, of course, you should use equipment under your control for this. To do so, you merely need a computer, tor, and a webserver. If anyone would like help to set this up, let me know and I'll be glad to help you out.
occupythekitchen 8y ago
This is so true I had my first orgasm at 15 sex was far from my mind at 14
DarthExero 8y ago
Everyone who injured him need to be brought up on assault and battery charges as they fucked up a 14 year old child. Any adults who participated in any capacity needs to be charged with endangering a minor on top.
If you group up and fuck up a 14 year old your group belongs in prison.
This kid was wronged by many people and all of them are guilty of something rather serious.
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i've had this happen at school where a girl blamed me for hitting her for no reason. I never even knew the girl and I was in first grade. I guess that is life. But damn that sucks so much more.
MakeEmSayAyy 8y ago
He should sue that stupid bitch's family so bad that he's driving by in a ferrari in high school honking to the family saying "thanks!!"
mr_nate_ 8y ago
And what the fuck kind of punishment did that cunt of girl get for ruining this innocent boy's life?
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tsudonimh 8y ago
If she was an adult, I'd agree with you. But she was 12, and came from a family that clearly indulged in violence on flimsy rationalizations. I could certainly see her being scared for her safety. The punishment should fall squarely on those who chose to take matters into their own hands and physically assault someone on the say so of a scared little girl.
randarrow 8y ago
Yes, sue the parents, pity the girl.
Frankly_George 8y ago
Bwhahahaha...you expected her to get punished? To be held accountable?
Orig_analUse_rname 8y ago
Well she was a child herself. I hate to defend her but the adults who were gullible and easily manipulated by a fucking pre-teen are more to blame than anyone here.
Think about it. If women are basically big children then a female child must be even lower on the accountability scale.
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Badboythrowawayacct 8y ago
Maybe the girl telling this story is delusional or retarded. It sounds like bullshit. I'm an attorney too, and it just rings false to me.
So there's a mob chasing a 14 year old, he sustained severe injuries, and there's no police to protect him or investigate the assault and battery he's suffered? Just because he was accused of something? Where did this purported mob attack occur?
Frankly, I've fucked hundreds of chicks, all somewhere on the continuum of crazy, and I haven't ever remotely been accused of rape or sexual assault.
Once, I fucked some dudes wife and after he found out HE tried to convince her that she would never do that unless I forced her. HE actually wanted her to file a false report with the police. Obviously, she and I had a good laugh over it while I continued to fuck her in his bed. But to my point, it was his idea, not hers.
I don't visit this sub often, so maybe I'm missing something. Can someone can explain to me how consent ever becomes an ambiguous issue that leads to rape accusations? Are people suggesting that all women do this or is there a subset of women who do this?
mugatucrazypills 8y ago
it's the beta-boy groveling for scraps that' more likely to face a false rape accusation
having already been with hundreds of girls is like the implicit opening statement in your defense,
even a SJW warrior at some unconscious level will ask, then why did he have to rape a hambeast ? and even the SJW will probably retain some fantasy that AlphaBoy would like to help her Expore her magic unicorn sexuality.
after weakness is shown, then women will accuse.
DubbleFUPAwitCheez 8y ago
False rape accusations are like the boogeyman of the manosphere. I've never run across this. However, I am in middle America and our women are often as sane as they are insane so maybe on the coasts it's a bigger problem.
Juffo-WupDeepChild 8y ago
I think you've inadvertently come to a similar conclusion as I have regarding the red pill. I live in a relatively small city in central Ohio, and while I do see many of the concepts espoused on this sub play out in my observed behaviors of others, it is rarely to the same degree that others describe in their posts. I truly believe that the destabilization of the sexual marketplace is directly correlated to population density. Men and women are both more likely to settle when they have fewer options available to them. All I ever really see in my city are watered-down versions of RP truths and psuedo-feminists, never the full blown insanity I read about online.
bonekeeper 8y ago
Well, an ex of mine forced her way into my apartment and saw I was with another girl there (she had only her panties). The ex started attacking the girl and I held her to break her away and in doing so I left my handprints on her arms (she bruises easily I guess), you could almost count the fingers on her arm.
She then threatened me saying she would go to the police and show the bruises and say I assaulted her. In the end she chilled and nothing came of it, but I'm pretty sure if she had gone to the police I would be in jail immediately.
pluvoaz 8y ago
A couple of months after I kicked my ex-wife out she told me she was pregnant. I reminded her she was the one who drove me to & from my vasectomy and suggested she talk to the other guys she'd been fucking.
Surprise, there was no pregnancy. The hamster has no limits.
ImHereAtLast 8y ago
What's your precise notch count? How are you able to pull so many women?
Badboythrowawayacct 8y ago
Honestly, I stopped counting a long time ago. When I was in my early to mid-20s I lost count and realized that it was futile and ridiculous to try to keep count.
Physically, I'm tall and good-looking. I think mostly it's my personality. I'm charismatic. I'm supremely confident to the point of arrogance. Unsurprisingly, I idolized Trump as a little kid. Look at him. He's going to be the Republican nominee predominately on the basis of charisma and confidence.
I'm super comfortable with women. Never nervous or awkward. I have virtually zero expectations when getting together or going out with them. The only thing I expect is that we'll have a good time. I'm usually in a good mood and entertaining. Ive got a good sense of humor. I'm interesting. I've got good listening skills. I'm easy going and not aggressively trying to invade her space or trying to fuck. I think part of it is that I've always got a rotation of women ready to sleep with me, so if a new one isn't interested, it doesn't bother me at all...But frankly, I think any woman who wouldn't want to fuck me is clinically crazy or a confused lesbian with awful taste.
Also I'm in my late 30s. Tinder is fucking amazing. All you 20 year olds need to appreciate this gift from the gods. When I was your age, our options were limited to physical presence or lame dating sites with extensive profile bullshit.
Tinder is like shooting fish in a barrel. How everyone isn't getting super-laid with that shit is beyond me. I have 300 matches over the last month or so, and they're all really fucking hot. I let this girl I was seeing from Tinder see my account and she was instantly intimidated by the number and quality. And she was hot.
RetiredTimeHo 8y ago
that sweet cognitive dissonance
online dating is about looks not charisma.
ugly guys with 100x your 'charisma' are not gettin laid from tinder
ImHereAtLast 8y ago
Thanks. And yeah, I've had a tremendous amount of good fortune from tinder. I'm only up to nine so far, but six of them were from tinder in the past four months.
Nilas_T 8y ago
To be fair, I'm not sure if it's the girl herself that should be sued, but rather the authorities who took the words of a young teenager without further investigation.
CaptainGloom 8y ago
Nope, sue her. Imprison her. It will be a learning experience.
nuc22 8y ago
Same thing happens a lot where I came from. Except the guy isnt random but the same guy with whom she had consensual sex a night before.
The_Reddit_Wanderer 8y ago
Jesus Christ that's terrifying.
It feels like women are weaponizing their sexuality now to literally ruin men's lives. At this point I feel that girls in college could probably threaten male profs with rape accusations to get what they want instead of actually sleeping with them.
I don't know how common the prof-student scenario is, but I still feel like rape accusations seem more and more like a "weapon".
MattyAnon Admin 8y ago
Why do you think this is a possibility rather than a complete certainty? This shit happens all the time - in colleges and in companies. Girl flirts a bit, guy does something he perhaps shouldn't (or maybe he doesn't even do anything), girl cries and demands pay raise / grade raise / etc. Guy doesn't want the investigation or his name dragged through the mud, so agrees.
And that's before the female advantage of guys doing their homework (and real work) for them because they're attracted.
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Hence why the somewhat well known rule for male professors to keep their doors open during individual meetings.
denart4 8y ago
Meanwhile feminists still brush off false rape accusations.
abdada 8y ago
Discussing rape on a Tinder date: so Alpha
Sir_Distic 8y ago
He states he doesn't care because he's never going to see this girl he's not attracted to.
Then this story comes out. Who cares?
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PeluzaHT 8y ago
That´s why I explained I was just looking to chat with her since I realized she wasn´t hot as in the photos I saw, but as she was nice and had travelled more than an hour to the place we met (and I was a few blocks from home) wasn´t really cool to leave in 5 minutes. We had a nice chat, so no regrets, won´t see her again anyway.
tddaygame 8y ago
I agree that there's no point in being jerk just to be a jerk. That said - you really had nothing else to do that evening? She's the one who lied in the photos, that's her problem...
silver_nuke13 8y ago
Wrong, again. You must be thinking of a douche, a jerk doesn't really need reasons to be a jerk. The douche does it to emulate the jerk and get girls.
tddaygame 8y ago
English isn't my first language. I don't get fine nuances between jerk and douche.
Still - if a girl doesn't look anything like her photo I just call her on that and wish her good day. Also one of the reasons why I don't use Tinder anymore.
silver_nuke13 8y ago
Well that's your right and your decision. But there are many ways to deal with that. It's up to each one's character/mood.
But in the end we all kinda strive for better pictures than we actually look like...
Davidkpa 8y ago
Sometimes you get on to weird topics. I'd be curious too.
abdada 8y ago
The last thing I would ever do on a date of any kind is talk heavy. Women chase me because I'm light and funny and random, not because I can discuss rape at length.
I've exited many dates by saying "this is too depressing for me, take care" and bailing.
Davidkpa 8y ago
Well I don't really date anymore and never really did. Most women I met were cold pickups or fetish site pickups. Talk tended to be either about professional success or naughty sex.
michael_wilkins 8y ago
So what you actually meant in your first post was:
"Someone doing something different to me: so Alpha"
abdada 8y ago
Different is good.
Conversing in her frame is bad.
Jaz_the_Nagai 8y ago
What does that second clause even mean?
/u/abdada