Definition:
This is all the definition of the aloof alpha attitude you need: The attitude dictates that you don’t care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin’. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude. AKA outcome independence. Aloof doesn’t mean silence. It means unconcern for women’s reactions. Nonchalance. Which is not the same as avoiding any romantically-charged, sexually-escalating interaction with women.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/the-aloof-alpha-attitude-explained/
Skittles Man
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
Nah Man
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/10/16/women-love-aloof-and-indifferent-men-more-proof/
Bring the Movies Man
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/07/29/chicks-dig-jerks-game-is-its-own-status/
“Put your phone number in my phone” Man
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/02/22/lazy-cad-game/
Disappeared Again Man
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/11/01/how-to-get-a-girl-to-send-nudes-of-herself/
Conclusion:
Do not chase girls. Make girls chase you. It’s the only way to be sure you’ll get the lay. One tried and true method to make a girl chase you is to speak (and text) in mysterious monosyllabic code, to avoid early emotional entanglement, and to act like there are another twenty women lined up outside the door to service your autocratic cunt carver. In other words, to do the exact opposite of everything feminists, women in general, and your mom tell you to do.
Bonus science:
Playing hard to get magnified the desire and interest that was already present—but it was not able to create it from nothing.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201403/when-should-you-play-hard-get
redpillbanana 10y ago
"Skittles Man" should be required RP reading - in my mind, there's no better explanation of AFBB.
It's a great contrast:
trpRX 10y ago
Friend of mine's destination wedding was north of 100k, yet they are struggling to make house payments.
I just don't understand it.
lepies_pegao 10y ago
I was going to say something similar. to me that's one of the best examples, and definitely something to live by.
chakravanti93 10y ago
For 15,000 I could buy an acre to ten of unfarmable land, shelve it and grow all those damn flowers for the amount of pussy it'd get me.
Fucking flowering gardens are way more awesome anyway.
Makes them skittles all that much more hilarious when all she wants is one goddamn flower now.
redpillbanana 10y ago
There's no one more ignorant of the value of money than a bride-to-be.
Should I get some really nice flowers for our wedding or...a brand new car? Or groceries for 6-12 months? Maybe a down payment on a house? 100 bottles of vintage wine? Tough choice.
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invictusrp 10y ago
Why would they be banned for that? Sounds almost identical to everything Tyler/Owen says in every single video
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Not really, Tyler will be more Try hard till it works
Thing is, what Tyler will show is something anyone can do, being the life of the party does not work for everyone, especially introverts, and that doesn't fit what they are selling
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invictusrp 10y ago
Gotcha, didn't really get what you were saying in the first post.
sproondeermaan 10y ago
My favourite is Corey the alpha Buddah from the rational male. He truly captures the Zen IDGAF attitude naturally, it's almost surreal: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/
There was a movie on his party as well.
cooltrip 10y ago
Once you have male physical fitness, which can't lack, the behavioral/role points are:
1º) Abundance mentality
2º) Alpha does not refuse to approach girls, and he doesn't use the refusal to approach or aloofness as a "method"; it's only that girls approach Alpha so frequently and constantly, that he simply has no chance of approaching girls. So, there is an important difference between you not wanting to approach girls and going aloof, and you not approaching girls because girls already approach you all the time.
My recommendation is: if girls don't approach you, then play the pretended and fake role of aloofness and of not approaching girls because there are already many girls approaching you. That is: if you don't honestly have actual reasons for having an abundance mentality, then play pretendedly the role that you have an abundance mentality.
In short: If you are not an Alpha and you don't have an actual basis for having an Alpha behavior of abundance and aloofness, then pretend it, even if women know you are faking it.
This is the simple "science" behind this recommendation: if women see you stay "non-approaching" and "abundance mentality" even in spite of the fact that your physical looks reveals you are faking it, then you are somehow proving as well that you have a sufficient personal capability of not submitting or giving in to women, because you actually need this authentic capability of independence from women in order to fake the abundance mentality and the aloof, non-approaching behavior.
So, it doesn't matter if you are pretending, because, in order to pretend a particular conduct, you need an actual, genuine capability to run that particular conduct.
When you pretend you don't need to crawl to women, then you are also proving you have the actual, genuine self-sufficiency for not needing to crawl to women and for pretending that.
Glenbert 10y ago
When alpha, is defined in this way it's next to useless. You spend 24/7 with any of these characters and you will eventually see opposite traits emerge.
I don't think I'm the only one here who has been both pined over by one woman and treated like shit by another. I'm the same fucking guy. What do I do with this information?
ibuprofiend 10y ago
From "Bring the Movies Man":
I know several suburban white girls who prefer any non-white guy over white ones. One girl I know tweeted something like "I refuse to have white babies." It seems like girls are increasingly likely to discriminate against white males, especially in college.
johnnight 10y ago
Here is your answer on exotic allure:
http://www.rooshv.com/danish-roommate-in-brazil
ibuprofiend 10y ago
I feel like being a white guy in Brazil would give you social status though. The country is generally a shithole once you look past Carnival.
md619 10y ago
I love all these posts because this is the exact game I run. Any newbie who ever has a question on "but what do I say to her????" should just be directed here. Learn the general attitude and the specifics will come
Xbitz 10y ago
Heartiste is the shit, he is the Redpill Christ!
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Put-your-number-in-my-phone man is Vitalyzdtv on Youtube. I think most people here would enjoy his videos.
Gold Digger Prank
Do You Even Lift Prank
Extreme Fart Prank
He doesn't have the best game because he's dorky and ukranian but you've got to respect his confidence.