So I've just got the final proof that TRP is working.
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During high-school I had a huge oneitis on a girl from my class, let's call her A. For 4 years I was like a dog chasing her, helping her everytime she needed, being an emotional tampon, obsessing around her, letting her treat me like shit etc. A while after finishing high-school I've heard she knew I had a crush on her and she was mocking me around my back with my "friends" from back then. You know the drill.
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Fast forward, almost three years after finishing high-school and after two years into TRP I have a pretty good life. A good job, about to finish college in a couple of months, and started knowing how to talk with girls, how to flirt etc. (My success with girls prior to TRP was nonexistent).
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After finishing high school I've met with A at different occasions, but nothing unusual happened.
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But everything changed about a month ago. We still have a common friend from high-school (let's call her B) and she invited us at her birthday. And I noticed A kept talking with me. In high-school I was the one who struggled to get her attention for even a couple of minutes, but this time I could see how frustrated she was when I was ignoring her mid-sentence to look over some other girls phone or when simply I wasn't paying attention because she didn't had something actually interesting to say in the first place. Then I noticed she laughed at my jokes and touched me with every opportunity. Back in high-school that would have gave me a boner and dreams of us getting married, now it just gave me the final proof redpill was working, this chick was into me.
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Fast forward about two weeks, another girl from my high-school (let's call her C) invited me to her birthday. I was kind of surprised since we aren't such good friends, yeah, we have a good laugh now and then when we meet, but that's it. But you know who was a good friend of C? Yeah, you guessed it, the girl A, my old oneitis. So I accepted the invitation, bought her a nice present (should have seen the look on A's face when she saw it) and went to the party. This time A did the same drill, since she thought she didn't had competition like last time, but hey, it's C's birthday and there is another hot girl there, so I started talking with this new chick.
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The result? Now A started texting me. My response? Usually a laugh emoji or a "lol"( pretty much what she did to me in high-school).
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Probably the fact that I'm "taking my revenge" on her shows that I haven't fully incorporated TRP principles, but hey, we are humans and sometimes we do things that we shouldn't. But this is the final proof TRP works. A girl who never considered me a potential partner now wants me and I'm just ignoring her. Probably if I didn't understood TRP as I should, I would have jumped into her arms, but no, I don't want that, now I'm free and I have a great life ahead of me and she is just a reminder of my loser days.
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Also, I want to draw a parallel between the high-school me and the present me.
High-school me:
- Poor af.
- Lacked confidence.
- "In love"/beta faggot
- Poor style, since I didn't had the money to buy good clothes, but even those that I had weren't in the right size.
- Lazy, not showing any talent.
- Plain boring.
- Bad shape.
- No hairstyle.
- Full of acne.
- Had the idea that a girl shouldn't be upset and should be treated like a queen.
Me now:
- Good job, good salary.
- More confident than I should, lol.
- Everybody heard at least once from somebody else than me that now I'm a player (small advice: never say it yourself, let your actions speak and others will tell it, and this will make women more interested in you, if you can believe it).
- Learned how to dress (I know I promised a guide, but didn't had time for it, I will try and post it this week-end).
- Working hard and everybody knows that, this shows that you have plans and you are not a loser.
- Funny.
- Shape still average (not fat, not skinny, just lacking muscles I want, I'm just getting back to gym after a 6 months break).
- Good hairstyle
- Got rid of the acne.
- Learned how to treat women (TRP style).
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So two years of working on yourself can really change your life!
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In the end I want to say that TRP is true, it has worked on me in every aspect and it will work for you if you keep improving yourself. I was such a sad little boy in high-school with a life revolving around a chick that didn't even considered me a friend, just someone passing by through her life. Now the only thing in my mind is if I should let the same chick experience what I experienced or should I fuck her once and never call again, lol (also, what would you do in such a situation?).
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Final advice? Get a job or learn for a good job. Money will change your life and will be the fuel for your improvement!
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TL;DR: TRP works, long times oneitis that I beta orbited is now attracted to me, and I'm happy that I no longer have any feelings for her (except maybe some anger) and I can do whatever I want.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Next time you respond, make it "Lol, come over and cook for me. Dinner at 7!"
BobbyPeru 5y ago
If she wasn’t interested in you before, she’s viewing you as beta bux. I bet you could fuck her if you wanted to. The danger is your ONEitis could come back if your RP hase isn’t stong enough yet. If you do it, make it clear you’re not looking for a relationship first , or it could get sticky due to your history.
thewrecker8 5y ago
So why the anger? You had the hots for the one chick. She's into you, plate her. There's something satisfying about seeing your dick in a girls mouth after she thought it'd never be there.
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Yeah, I know it's absurd to still be angry about that, but sometimes you can't control some things, at least at first. I'm trying to be more stoic about it and to finally get over it.
0io- 5y ago
Unless you're convinced she's going to give you some deadly disease you should certainly hook up with a girl you're into when given the chance.
maha420 5y ago
The disease he's worried about is oneitis
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redpillschool Admin 5y ago
Dude... You brought it half way and you're celebrating?
Do you want to get your dick wet or sit in the basement proud of yourself for finally showing those mean girls how cool you are by not fucking them?
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Thanks for advice and sorry for late reply. Pretty busy days on work lately. And yes, I took your advice. We actually set up a date in a couple of days and she initiated it.
Shykiwi312 5y ago
This is vital. When I was improving from a beta to trp and I began getting results I was flattered with compliments from girls and envy from my friends that I thought I had "made it" it makes you not find a need to try no more. It can be dangerous watch out and keep improving. Don't get fooled, There isn't a finish line.
RayPiest 5y ago
Best mod ever? Probably.
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monsieurhire2 5y ago
On the one hand, the comments about the "revenge" are on point, on the other hand, plating some bitch that snubbed you when you were low value shows a lack of abundance.
It would be far better to simply focus on other women who didn't know you when you were low value. Then make them your prospects for whatever. Then the women that snubbed you will see you with them and want you more, but you won't care anyway because you someone better.
Also, even if you did get with them, they would always remember when you were low value, and they would shit test you over it. Or by pursuing them, you would reactivate their "he's low-value" instinct. It's one thing if they want to leap onto your dick with no effort on your part, but their attempt to get you to make plans could have been just nothing more than validation fishing.
ex_addict_bro 5y ago
Found TRP in 2014, divorced year later, CEO here, almost-CEO there, swimming in pussy, just came back from ski resort w/sons, working on my side-project.
You've found success. Cool. Congratulations.
This is only the beginning.
It's not a race, it's a marathon.
You don't become the king chasing the queen. You become the king chasing the crown. Or better yet, you provide as much of a value, that people realise they better make you the leader, because they'll be better off with you taking the lead than left behind.
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Couldn't say it any better. And thanks for the kind words! Good luck to you too!
ElCidCampeon93 5y ago
Great story, b! I'm glad that you went from zero to hero like that, it'll help a lot of young and desperate guys who think they aren't good enough to know that they don't need pussy as validation.
For me, I was always "purple pilled". I knew about female nature, but I assumed that most girls were only catty, nosy, and emotional at worst and that being affectionate, romantic, and chivalric were what they liked in guys. It wasn't until many unsuccessful on and off attempts at courting biddies that I eventually found TRP and MGTOW...and it just made sense, because I started realising that every time I've even got a girl interested in me, it was solely because I was funny and charming, yet, VERY aloof. It was me NOT putting pussy on pedestal and treating them no better than everyone else what was keeping them attracted.
Enough about me, keep working your grind, m'dude! Thanks for the story!
MarcosDomingues 5y ago
Yet you just made an entire thread dedicated to her lol
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DangerStrudel 5y ago
Proof TRP works? What are you specifically proving? You got a life, started working out, and are more confident, and then she’s into you. No shit.
c4toyourdoornobeef 5y ago
the guy isn't even working out. Who has a break for 6 months wtf?
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she knows he's got money, that's why she's interested.
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Iamthebest98 5y ago
Glad to hear that TRP has helped you. Are there any posts that made an impact on you besides the sidebar?
flapjacksrbetter 5y ago
Inspiring story. Im been one year into my self development journey. I still struggle with approach anxiety. Got any tips on that? Like I see a cute girl in college but I dont approach. If they walking I dont want to stop them type shit.
Got any advice on time management? Your routines? U make a schedule when u wake up or something?
jelmar35 5y ago
I struggled with AA for 8 months, until I got a job in sales on the street. Now I can basically talk to anyone. If you have time, certainly do it. You still have to push yourself to make it man-to-woman though
Zech4riah 5y ago
I've seen 7-8 of these happen to most of the guys without knowing about TRP (myself mostly included) but I guess you can credit them to TRP as well. The only thing that really differentiates TRP from BP men is how they treat women and react to them.
FatmanO 5y ago
Im suprised she actually messaged you even tho you said your body is average (aka skinnyfat)
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
If you think girls will only be interested in jacked and ripped dudes you’re playing it wrong. Don’t forget money, status and game.
Though you should always aim to improve your looks too, doesn’t mean you can’t have fun if you are not your best self yet.
FatmanO 5y ago
OP is probably 18 where that deosent matter as much as looks.
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
You would be surprized what money can do. I know she isn't into my looks(although my looks have improved a lot) as much as she is into my money/succes. Also, a cocky atitude is also the key.
FatmanO 5y ago
I see, not sure who downvoted me. Id figure, I woudnt date her tho, not at all
reversec 5y ago
Fuck her and continue to treat her the way you are treating her
EdmondDaunts 5y ago
Great job. So just for the sake of it I’ll add something I’ve realised over the last couple of years.
This is not about you (but don’t worry). You appear to be more popular so she is desiring the higher status that you bring. As I said on a previous thread she has realised her view of her situation is wrong so she is closing to change that. Keep it up.
Secondly, and it’s a bit of an ego hit, sex is a means to an end for women. Yeah they love it but often it is only to confer status in the long run. You have the chance to bust a nut more than you think. Just don’t fold once you do.
anti-hypergamist 5y ago
I have to agree with the guys saying she is just trying to pull you back into her orbit. She wants validation that she made the right choice, that you are still just a chump and she was right to reject you. That's a girl's way of telling herself that she is never wrong, you know, women's intuition and all that. That certainly does not mean that you can't still get into her pants. You should definitely try, just keep using your RP knowledge and get rid of her afterwards because she is definitely not relationship material.
phibetared 5y ago
The one thing I know for certain in my life is that if a woman is touching me she wants me to fuck her. (Or she's a stripper that wants money, but I'm past those days).
I'm too old to "Netflix and chill", but isn't that the obvious next step? If you bang, great. If not (and she wants an orbiter again), who cares? Go to girl C or D. Girl A doesn't matter, but she's very likely ready to have sex. If you set it up and it does not happen, you haven't lost anything. If you DON'T try then you have lost the opportunity. (And when you get older like me you will think back and wish you had sex with her!!)
I'd ask her if she knows how to make (special food name here). If she says yes, great she can come over and make it for you for dinner. If she says no, you shake your head and say "what kind of a girl can't even make a simple... (whatever)?" (And of course after dinner you have her for dessert)
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RickSanchezD99 5y ago
Great work on changing yourself for the better, but a word of warning, she probably just wants her orbiter back. As soon as you show any sign of interest in her she will know that she still has you so don't fall into her trap. Besides, sometimes it's good to have 'the one that got away' to remember where you came from. Good luck brother.
bombastro 5y ago
This. Fuck one of her friends first before fucking her.
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Thanks brother. That's pretty much why I don't want to show any interest, so she doesn't live with the idea that as soon as she wanted me I run back to her.
Herdsengineers 5y ago
Just wanted to chime in - good on you for not pedestalizing sex in general. Just because we can plate a girl doesn't mean we should. If you think of yourself as the prize in strong enough terms, you also start to have the thought "does she deserve me?" A chick with the history you describe definitely doesn't.
Note - this isn't about exacting revenge. It's strictly about being the prize and not giving yourself away too easy to those that don't deserve it. There are plenty of women more deserving out there than one that already sh*t on you once. Have abundance, know that many will want you as you continue to better yourself, just know that most of them don't bring any value besides what's between their legs and that's pretty worthless as it's so available. Think supply and demand - abundant supply equals cheap. Most of them will want to siphon off you and not add anything else of value to your life. Personally, I think it's better to not even plate girls like that because if nothing else, they bring drama later when they're entitlement goes unmet despite putting out for you. They aren't worth the trouble they can bring.
I'm not saying be a monk, but be discerning, and protect the investment you're making in yourself. Don't let women into your life that will leech off that investment and not bring their own value to add in. That's all.
McVaghunter 5y ago
This is the advice to follow, don't listen to the other guy who told you you're angry. You're not.
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RedEmbrace 5y ago
TRP works because it literally tells you "be better than the rest and you'll slay". Wow, it works! Pure magic!
Drummerboy860 5y ago
Meh, the girl sucks. She had a guy who wanted her for a quality long-term relationship, and she wasn’t interested. Now that you’re unavailable, she’s all over you.
Run.
This chic is all about “the challenge” and obviously won’t go for men who will actually give her marriage, a family, and commitment.
She sucks.
thrownaway2thewind 5y ago
So as much as TRP can be eye opening an all you didn't exactly need it in this situation. All you needed really was to take care of yourself, which is natural as you grow older. This is great though keep it up
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Thanks you! And yeah, if I hadn't fount TRP I wouldn't have started taking care of myself.
jonpe87 5y ago
I would just forget the girl
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1.000.000 girls are turning 18 everyday, a lot of places to go, a lot of people to know.. bury your past
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Thanks for the advice!
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Synthetic_Citizen 5y ago
You do whatever the fuck you want, if you want to continue ignoring her then then go ahead. If i were you i would never involve myself with her, she knows you as a beta and will always subconsciously act to put you back into your place below her in the hierarchy. Blood in the water, she will always wonder and will constantly test you because of it.
Move on to other women and keep this one as a reminder of the valuable lessons you have learned.
reversec 5y ago
She's just waiting for that moment where you'll show your old ass self to get the validation she's searching for or she thought she lost
TheLegionnaire00 5y ago
Thanks for the advice! Wise words!
krym33 5y ago
TRP really change people. Good shit.
Do yourself a favor, fuck her.
ratpoison987 5y ago
Yeah. You’ll prolly find out she’s a bowl of wet spaghetti in bed. And you’ll have squashed once and for all that lingering demon.
strikethrough123 5y ago
She’s trying to get you in orbit again.
“Why is this beta that I had wrapped around my finger trying so hard? Ugh”
Or she might actually be into you. You’ll never know until you escalate and actually attempt to fuck her.
Bear-With-Bit 5y ago
Young dudes conflate trp with mgtow, with self congratulatory posts like this: "Bruh, I told her GTFO. Awalt, amiriiiiite?"
This is bluepill living while wearing redpill merch. Not fucking is not fucking, whether you're chasing pussy or walking away from it. Saying "trp works" without fucking is like saying "I'm getting ripped!" just by walking away from a cheeseburger. Good on you for recognizing your shitty meal choices, that's one of the first baby steps, but know your place here. You got a lot to learn, son.