I would just say "you need to stop this comparing bullshit. if he is so good, you should just go date him."

How long have you been dating this woman?

Most likely you've reached that point in the relationship where she's shit testing you because her "this guy is marriage material" has clicked and she's putting up last minute defenses against herself.

If it's only been a couple months then just agree and amplify:

"see is he's up for dating 2 women, i could use a breather"

That's not a boyfriend, he's a slave

I don't personally run rp theory in my life. It might burn me in the future. I'm young. We'll see. Anyways, from what I can tell, I think you have to be willing to move on to another girl at any moment to successfully be rp. That means that if she starts comparing you to other guys who do favors all the time and complaining about it, you tell her she can go find herself a guy who will kiss the ground she walks then.

Start comparing her to other women.

"Honey, do I look fat in this?"

"Well Jessie (she's just someone I work with) would look awesome in that since she has bigger boobs."

Start talking about how great this guy's girlfriend is to your girlfriend.. suggest swapping.. only if you don't have to wait 1.5 years for sex.

Reminds me of this thread from yesterday: http://redditlog.com/snapshot/25354/31745

You should have a look there. The situation in my opinion is very similar. I have a reply there that would apply to this situation as well, although you may have to modify it appropriately.

How old is this bish? 25 or something?

Never date a woman older than 20. They simply don't put out like younger women and older women are self-entitled into thinking their boyfriends' money is theirs.

Ignore it. Its full on shit testing.

She told they still didn't have sex yet (1.5 years passed!).

This is all you really need to know. It isn't a romantic relationship. It's a friendship.

You want to never take anything seriously. It is just a shit test. She knows goddamn why she isn't dating that guy, even if she cannot verbalize it. She is basically saying "OP, I like you but I also have these irrational, societally-implanted urges to only be happy if my BF buys me Prada. Please clear up the contradiction for me and demonstrate why I should be ecstatic to have you, as my brain cannot take the conflict of society versus reality".

Do you understand? Ignoring is not optimal because she wants to know if you can bitch-slap those thoughts from her mind.

"Cool."

or

"That's awesome, I need a friend like that. I wish you would call me taxis."

Playfully. If you get butthurt about it and say something like "Hey, quit comparing me to this jackass, he is probably horrible at sex!" then she KNOWS that you were perturbed by what she said and uncomfortable / defensive. Meaning you failed the shittest. If you logic with her "that guy is nice, but girls don't want a nice guy. See, I read on TRP that.." you faiiiiiled the shit test.

Hell, if you even merit her bitching with enough concern to respond in an articulate, thoughtful sentence, you probably failed the shit test.

Go overboard with this "not taking shit seriously". She is like "STAN PROPOSED TO SARAH, SHE IS SO LUCKY I WISH I WAS HER..."

"Sarah... Sarah... I know a loooot of Sarahs... which one?"

"MY BEST FRIEND SARAH THE ONE WHO ALWAYS GETS NICE THINGS"

"The tittish one or the leggish one?"

"OMG HER TITS AREN'T EVEN BETTER THAN MINE"

"oooook, Tittish Sarah. That's cool. Tell her congrats."

She gets flustered/mad/aroused, but inside her head is all cleared up. She is with you because there is no way she could EVER in a billion years turn you into her friend's BF.

"After 1.5 years they have not had sex, I will continue doing the exact opposite to him thank you very much. If you like him so much why don't you go fuck him."

"I don't give a fuck what a 27 year old virgin does."

She told they still didn't have sex yet (1.5 years passed!).

If this is serious, then ask who the girl is having sex with - because let's be honest here, she's having sex with someone.

Ask your girlfriend why a guy should treat a girl like that when she's fucking someone else. I'd love to hear her response.

If there is any aspect of your relationship that is not perfect, your gf will find a way to complain about it regardless of how amazing everything else is.

About women and demonstrating love by spending money:

A former gf frequently mentioned that she loved how her ex would buy these incredibly thoughtful presents for her, obviously insinuating that I hadn't done so. She eventually repaid his demonstration of affection and devotion by dumping him.

It took a lot of restraint to not point out the obvious by saying "What did all those presents get him?"

If your gf is incredibly materialistic or selfish, or you merely have different priorities, you should re-evaluate your relationship. Never cede frame to your gf. Otherwise, she'll dictate the terms of the relationship and simultaneously resent you for putting her in that position. If you begin to compromise heavily on the type of relationship you want, it will only get worse with time.

If you've ever read roissy, you'd know that at different stages in a relationship come with different shit tests. Pretty sure this is actually an example on the list.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/

GIRL: “Sometimes you can be such an asshole. My ex knew how to treat a lady.”

YOU: “I bet he did. You should beg him to take you back. I could use the peace and quiet.”

Basically the same message. As it is with almost all shit tests, agree and amplify.

(he even carries her bag always!)

I'll do that anyway because women are physically weak although if she expects it or seems entitled I'll shit test her, make her qualify "say the magic word" and all that crap, otherwise she can carry her own fucking bags. The only persons bags I carry without questions are the matriarchs in my family. Why? Because I know they love and respect me and aren't just using me as some disposable fucking peon.

She told they still didn't have sex yet (1.5 years passed!)

LMFAO. She has the perfect beta provider... a 27 year old man who gets no sex from his long term girlfriend... birthdays have been, christmases have passed, new years parties have happened and she's still not put out? WOW. I'm fucking speechless. Especially when you consider the current mating paradigm and there are literally guys left, right and centre all around just going out, grabbing random girls, making out and fucking them within minutes-hours of meeting them.

If they broke up tomorrow it's not his non-existent sexual technique she'll be missing, it'll be his fucking credit card. I'm kinda fucking pissed a guy can be that fucking retarded, she is mercilessly exploiting him for economic benefit and giving nothing in return.. the only thing worse than being involuntary celibate is being in a fucking long term relationship with a woman and being involuntary celibate. Just because he hasn't had sex in a year and a half doesn't mean his girlfriend hasn't, she's probably got some alpha fucking her on the side fulfilling that alpha fucks beta bucks sexual plurality they're inclined to operate. Fucking sickening.

I'm thinking about what if she starts complaining like 'he buys that and you don't, he does that and you don't'. How to handle this behavior right?

Tell her you don't give a fuck about her friends boyfriend and if she wants a human credit card that she should feel free to fuckoff.

Don't be scared to stand up to her or you're being pimped by the pussy. This shit will only escalate into more attempted behaviour modification on her part if you don't stamp out the fire before it turns into flames.

Oh by the way, if your chick is late 20's (27+) be wary of her bass bashing biological clock wanting a baby and doing whatever it mercilessly takes to get it (from you, or someone else.) You generally want a quarantine zone around your dick with these chicks aka wrap up or get snipped.

Fuck that shit. Seriously do not buy women expensive gifts and trips. You don't have to and they wont appreciate it.

If you start to go down that road she'll start to expect it. How many times have you heard women talk about what they're accustomed to/deserve because they allow their men to breathe the air around them.

Dude has signed himself up to be the beta provider. The second he can't provide she'll leave him for someone that can.

Serious question: What kind of man has a significant other for 1.5 years without having sex?

He's setting himself up for this I'm used to this... I used to that ..I'm accustomed to this ... I want ...Give me some money... and ultimately alimony

This isn't red pill advice, just my general advice that I tell depressed people sometimes.

Don't look at other people's lives, the only time to look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure they have enough food in it.

Otherwise you will always look at other people's shit and think you deserve better, when in reality everyone has their own struggles and if they are better off in one department I can almost guarantee they'll be worse off in another.

Anything within the spirit of ''always be ready to lose her'' seems appropriate. (one of the 16 commandments of poon)

Don't step on your dick to make a woman click. You may think you have to, but ultimately you don't.

He spends tons of money on her and helps with everything

I spend a ton of money, but my girlfriend also does. I also help her with a lot of stuff and she helps me with a lot of stuff.

I fail to see how this is a problem. Also, if he makes more money than her but she puts forth an honest effort to contribute I don't see how that's an issue.

Why are you trying to judge another guy for how he lives his life?