A female co-worker that I’ve only worked with a few times “passed away” within the last month. A big deal was made about her passing around the workplace so I figured that she was in some unfortunate accident and everyone wanted to pay respects. Which is fine.
Another male co-worker I was working with this morning brought up the subject of her death on a whim and then proceeds to tell me that she was 49, suffered from depression, un-married with no children and living alone with cats. I immediately know where that was going and my suspicions were correct... He also proceeds to tell me that it was a suicide and that no one will admit it. Apparently he was at her service and everyone knew but no one wanted to tell…. you could cut the tension with a knife. She always put up this front at work (just like all these girls on facebook) of how happy go lucky she is and what a great life she has in and out of work. It’s all bullshit. Most of them probably cry themselves to sleep every night because they don’t have a man in their lives that values them as more than a fuckhole.
I don’t know how she took her life but she was in her apartment for 3 days before she was found by another co-worker who just happened to decide to check up on her.
Poor woman bought the bullshit that the sisterhood sold her about how you’ll be happier with your job than having a husband to take care of, raising children and taking care of a home. Her and millions of other women in the west who’ve bought into this shit. Feminism killed her. No one will admit it, but deep down they all know it. I just respond to my co-worker “that’s unfortunate” no way in hell could I go into any detail as he’s solid blue pill.
This is the first time that this has hit closest to me and it’s only going to get worse boys. You can’t tell these women any different becasue you'll be labeled a misogynist asshole. They can’t be saved. Women are going to start offing themselves in record numbers. I want to buy stock of whoever manufactures anti-depressants. You can’t tell these women different and you can’t save them so you might as well make some money off their asses…..
farendsofcontrast 6y ago
I’m bumping this thread so that the bitter feminists who stalk this sub to find something to complain about see it and attain some level of realisation.
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It's all part of the depopulation agenda. Smoking, cigarettes or weed doesnt matter, kills you faster, not having social life and sex kills you faster, working too hard and too much stress all kill you faster. Don't get depopulated folks. Don't walk into the trap.
Reformed65 6y ago
This is what women like Trigglypuff wants, for women to experience the pain to the point where they either kill themselves or isolate themselves. That way, Trigglies can fantasise about how there's less women between her and Chad.
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NibblyPig 6y ago
Can you explain what this has to do with feminism
rcsob 6y ago
Feminism tells women that they don't want or need to start a family for happiness, even though that's biologically unsubstantiated.
PhaedrusHunt 6y ago
My sister did it at 30. She was beautiful. Low n count (she was pretty open with me about stuff like that), really relationship oriented. But always looking for the chadder Chad. Kept branch swinging. It wasn't the only factor but a big part of her downfall. A fucking shame.
Been divorced twice. Both wives threatened suicide when I left, but I left anyway.
My ex has full custody of my kids. I'm worried like hell for my daughter. I don't know how the hell I'll be able to red pill that kid. Sluttiness is touted as a virtue these days.
It's a fucking shame, really.
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It's not even just the post wall feminist stuff (not denying that it probably played a huge role). There is just no sense of community left in this country anymore. Everyone is so isolated.
JeNeSaitQuoi 6y ago
I read in Time magazine a couple of years how white women in their 50s were dying. These days, 50s are very young to die without disease or cause. The article attributed the trend to a mix of addiction (alcohol, opiods, etc.) and depression. These sorts of deaths can look like suicide.
Socially speaking, I think we live in the best of times. Ethnic barriers are done so there are fewer "Romeo and Juliet" scenarios playing out. Both men and women are no longer pressured to procreate. And there are a lot of social channels to keep people busy and connected these days well into old age. ..... so you don't need children to keep yourself connected anymore.
Seems to me was in earlier times that more people died alone. That women rarely met an eligible man to marry outside of university and certainly not later than at the age of 25 and so on.
Nutman-maddog 6y ago
Good post, I’ve actually thought about investing in anti depressants. Not just for feminism, but there is a lot of garbage in the world that people over indulge in that makes them lazy and depressed. Porn, social media, gaming, alcohol, trash on Netflix etc.. I think the demand for anti depressants is only going to increase as the use of instant gratification increases.
ozaku7 6y ago
This is the part where I call bullshit. There are plenty of families out there where both parents work, make a good living and the kids being happy. Granted, doesn't count for every family, but we're not living in a utopia, are we?
Rather, she is one of those ladies that tries to find that PERFECT man while she is far from perfect herself, actually demanding more than she can offer. This is where the problem lies with many women. They are either overdemanding, or simply an unbearable person.
Anti-depressants, don't make me laugh. What these women will get is rather emotion-surpressors because that's what drives the female hamster.
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The parent's aren't. Or the divorce filing rate among that category wouldn't be 70+%. But yeah, they're happy.
I'll buy their stock too.
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Women are biologically built for one main purpose: to make children.
A woman who does not produce a child is worse than a beta Incel.
Studies show, by generation, that close to 90% of women end up reproducing, whilst only 20% of men are biologically fathers.
Imagine, what an utter failure a women must be to become an unmarried, post-wall cat lady with no children. You are a complete waste of resources in a game with the odds heavily in your favor.
It's a pity, really.
As for all the moralizing over this women's suicide. She was weak. That's all there is to it. The science is in: women who have children, and continue to have children, are significantly less likely to suffer from depression than women who don't.
Go figure, an organism that fulfilled its biological imperative is less depressed than one that didn't.
An organism that didn't fulfill it's imperative is literally a waste of resources for the tribe. The urge to off yourself is derived from the social organism that you unconsciously participate in- it's attempting to cast off the dead weight.
Basically, if you don't contribute value, you're a waste of space and your urge to kill yourself is simply a feature of the system to insure that the incels do not continue to be a drain on the system.
Working as intended. Too bad, so sad.
Arabian_Wolf 6y ago
Women need men and progeny.
Men need to produce legacy, not necessarily progeny, but it could be a craft, a book etc.
JP116 6y ago
I have suffered from depression and an anxiety disorder. It has everything to do with brain chemistry and nothing to do with one's political viewpoints or concepts of gender identity. I'm a conservitive republican and successful professional. Hearing about anyone losing their battle with mental illness saddens me.
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But you left out the major fact that you're not a woman who's ruled by her emotions. DNA have a lot to do with it. To deny it is blue pill.
JP116 6y ago
Rate of female suicide is much lower than men's in the US. The facts dont support your argument.
Hyper_Sonik 6y ago
That's harsh man. The question is:will they learn and reform themselves. I Doubt it, as women cannot take responsibility for their actions.
Scientist_1 6y ago
But was she single from Feminism or just ugly / socially inept / mentally unstable?
marinprofesorpreda 6y ago
Sure, but men have been doing that for a while now and who do you think is to blame? Being cheated on and then divorce raped. Paying alimony to your ex-wife who's now fucking some dude.
What I don't understand is how those dudes suicide without taking their exes out first. If a bitch destroys your life and you're about to kill yourself might as well take her with you.
WesternStoic 6y ago
Feminism is basically eugenics on steroids
jcadsexfree 6y ago
There are many reasons for suicide and you're equating feminism and its belief system to Greater suicidal ideation maybe true. But perhaps you should put a socio-economic spin on this story. Because feminism has much greater impact on the well-educated young women. I am curious, where did this unfortunate lady go to school and was she college-educated. What type of job did she have?
oldrunnerguy 6y ago
Firstly, I want to be clear that I find it a tragedy when any person takes their life, whether it is a man or a woman.
From what I see, given the current economic issues presenting themselves in today's day and age, both men and women are at risk. Today both men and women in their 40's and 50's, that end up alone, have a situation that has been exacerbated by the uncertainty in the current labor market. Both men and women have to deal with these issues. It is just that in men's case they are told to man up, suck it up, and move forward (to consider it an opportunity for change).
You also have a generation of women the same age that wonder why they can't get any dates and find themselves alone. Most men, of the same age, unfortunately have learned the hard way that relationships are not worth it. So, really, what is a man's incentive to pursue a relationship when they can live better on their own, have their freedom, and for many, they have been turned off (from relationships) because their relational experience has been where they have sacrificed but have not had their needs reciprocated accordingly.
I don't want to make light of this woman's suicide. But it does happen to men more frequently. I think that as women pursue the individuality that men are increasingly pursuing, that we may see more of these incidents occur in women. Do we ever tell women to suck it up, move on, and consider it an opportunity?
I am a man who lives alone. I am in my mid-50's and have just dealt with a divorce within the last year. I have been dealing with depression and there have been days when I don't feel like getting up and facing life. However, I do it every day and face my demons. I go to a job with an uncertain future every day. I try to be proactive and have been looking for new opportunities. I have made an effort (sometimes forcing myself) to experience life (as much as I can afford). I realize that even though I face life alone, I do have the freedom to do some of the things I want to if I am willing to put forth the effort. So in closing, are we wrong not to expect women to do the same thing?
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So am I, but I spend 4 hours a day in the gym, eat cleaner than anyone, and don't drink, smoke or do any drugs, drink only BCAAs in distilled water, and sleep deeply eight hours a night(ZMA). It's now getting to the point where women are following me and secretly snapping my picture. Dead serious.
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oldrunnerguy 6y ago
Isn't it funny how women will check you out when you're probably fine on your own. Unfortunately that is not happening to me. But, I am probably not in a high enough tax bracket to expect that to happen, and I'm actually at peace with that. It is good that I can put my focus on improving myself for me.
My ex-wife had a number of health issues during our marriage which have kept me financially challenged. I do what I can with what I have. Yesterday I went hiking in the mountains along the Potomac. The beautiful views and the peace and serenity are so much more validating than relational dynamics. While everyone else is staring at their cell phone, I prefer to unplug.
Falconsbeardedchess 6y ago
My beta upbringing led me to my ex wife, which led me to get cucked, the cucking led to divorce, the divorce led to anger. Lots of it. The anger led to a decision...swallow the blue pill and swing from a rope. Or swallow the red pill and plow pussy fields until sunrise. I chose the red pill.
osirise 6y ago
Dude. You really think that women would be happier taking care of a home rather than working on a career?
Humans aren’t made to sit at home and take care of a house. It’ll slowly eat your mind up. We need interaction and to be psychologically stimulated.
This is such an oversimplification of some complicated problems. You literally claim to know next to nothing about this woman yet you’re happy to blame her suicide on feminism?
Quit your bullshit.
It’s easy to spot the autistic assholes in here who don’t get laid regularly or spend enough time with women. They have all this pent up rage against women and grasp at any straw they can find to fit their narrative.
To all the new people reading these posts. Read the sidebar. Workout. Be dominant. Be assertive. Be decisive. Make and achieve goals.
Don’t walk around being smug because a woman killed herself and it fits your narrative.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
Evolutionarily women were meant to stay at home and take care of kids and the hearth while the man hunts....where are we getting all these cucks on here?
osirise 6y ago
A cuck? That’s cute. Go read a book sometime homeboy.
You’re right in a way that they are meant to stay behind and take care of the children. But that’s not what happens in modern society nor is that what OP is saying. Staying locked in a house “taking care of it” is vastly different then the community and societal structures they shared back then.
My argument is that it’s better psychologically for a woman to have a career rather then to stay locked in a house by herself and the kids. Since suicide is what the topic at hand is.
OP comes off as a teenager trying to spout some bullshit wisdom he has no business talking about. And you come off as someone who didn’t read the posts entirely because you couldn’t wait to blow your load and call someone a cuck.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
I've probably read more than you in my life. What was the last book you read? Harry Potter?
Housewives were never 'locked in the house taking care of it' in their history, EVER. The women would be tightly entwined in the social scene of their community. I dunno where this trope comes from, it must be a delusional feminist invention.
Is it? That's why women have nervous break downs at school/work frequently?
And who said they'll be locked in their house?
JamesSkepp 6y ago
Evolutionary we weren't supposed to have homes. Your thinking about what YOU want women to do, not about what evolution made women into.
It's like you would say that "evolutionary women were meant to be wives".
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
It depends on how you define 'home'. Does a nomad have a home if its confined to his tent that he repacks everytime they move to a new area? Or a cave that he lives in temporarily? If that's the case, then yes.
Agent008t 6y ago
Yeah, this sub gets a lot of bad rep because of posts like this, diluting the actual message.
red_matrix 6y ago
Male suicide is still higher. And I think it's about to get worse as our generation ages and moves deeper into nihilism thanks to modernity.
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OldBirdWing 6y ago
Depression isn’t something you can get from an idea. It’s a mental illness, which led to suicide when it wasn’t treated. Blaming it on feminism is wrong.
Theguygotgame777 6y ago
We need a 10th crusade, to force them to all be Catholic. Only way to save civilization at this point.
ubisoft-vs-ea 6y ago
Uhhhh no
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grewapair 6y ago
No, Feminism doesn't kill. The female suicide rate is half what it was before Feminism took hold. Before feminism, women essentially had no choice but to marry, and fast, and then were trapped in bad marriages for which there was literally no way out.
You need to put a stop to your fantasies that it's going away. It isn't. Trust me, I'm no fan of it, but expecting it to disappear because it doesn't magically solve every female problem is not your path to happiness.
Incel9876 6y ago
Today I learned: Feminism took hold in 1981.
Why doesn't the chart go much farther back in history, because the data wouldn't support your hypothesis? Garbage in, garbage out.
grewapair 6y ago
It only got started in the late 70s, and that graph was as far back as I could find. If you have something further back, by all means, but I doubt it shows anything different.
tobyponz 6y ago
Male suicide rate seems to also decrease in years (Fig. 1 ch. 4 of your reference material), how do you know it's not due to other factors? Had you got a longer data span, from say the 1800s or something, showing a constant trend and then a sharp decline in suicide rates did actually start in the 1970s, that would make more of your point. Like this it could be anything other than feminism, likely just a constantly downwards trend.
Also, as another user is pointing out, depression rates are going up, and a lot
grewapair 6y ago
Suicide is when you're trapped and no way out.
Depression can increase (beyond serious chemical reasons) when you have an expectation that isn't met. No surprise that feminism has wildly increased expectations, causing an increase in depression, but that's not to say that any woman would want to go backwards, nor that it would be eliminated if you did.
When liberals change a system, they always assume that things will remain static, so that the changes will only serve to benefit the group intended. Things never stay static, people readjust. So women had this idea they could jump on their cc and then find someone to settle down with. That worked for awhile, until men caught on, and now won't come near them after age 30.
NorthEasternNomad 6y ago
This is incredibly accurate. I mean, tbis is the party that thinks you can just increasr minimum wage by $5/hr ovwr night and the rest of the economy will just...stay the same...
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
You need to be looking at female depression rates rather than suicide rates. Female suicide attempts are female attention whoring. Female depression rates are higher than ever.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/women-and-depression
grewapair 6y ago
Your link doesn't mention increasing depression rates at all.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
If you weren't a lazy fuck you could've googled it itself:
https://amp.theguardian.com/society/2017/sep/23/stress-anxiety-fuel-mental-health-crisis-girls-young-women
https://globalnews.ca/news/3065827/major-depression-is-on-the-rise-in-youth-especially-teenage-girls-study/amp/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4478054/
https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2016/04/22/health/suicide-rates-rise/index.html
red-adherent 6y ago
Your mistake is you are feeding a troll, over time you will learn to distinguish the two.
grewapair 6y ago
First link: only goes back ten years, which means many things other than feminism could have affected it. Second link: same problem and only deals with adolescents who aren't really affected by feminism very much anyway. Third Link: best over all, seems to start in earnest from 2002, shows a 20% increase. Last link: only compares two years: 1999 and 2014, which were both well after the rise in feminism and are probably more related to economic factors, as 1999 we an economic boom, and 2014 was just after an economic bust.
BobLordOfTheCows 6y ago
Maybe a balance between traditional and feminist values should be struck then? If so, how?
rebuildingMyself 6y ago
Fair divorce laws would be a good start. Feel free to destroy your family to fuck thugs, sweetheart, but you aren't getting rewarded for it with cash and prizes anymore.
IcebergHermit 6y ago
Where is that data gathered from? Any idiot can draw a chart.
grewapair 6y ago
Office of National Statistics, Great Britain. Scroll down about 1/5 of the page.
It's no surprise to those of us who were around before feminism. It trapped women. They had to make a fairly snap decision to get married right after high school and then couldn't realistically leave. The men knew they were trapped and treated them accordingly.
When OP tried to make the point that feminism killed this woman, just because one woman is harmed by it doesn't make it bad for women. I tried to find stats from when it started in the late 70s to now, and no surprise, they are down for women.
So I conclude it's not going away. Yes, it means a man can no longer "out earn your ugliness." While some women will still have sex with a rich, ugly guy, they generally don't treat those rich guys all that well because they only reluctantly participate.
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If anything, the point of this post is to enjoy the decline, hence trying to make money. Nowhere did I say that I want the "good 'ol days" to come back.
Neckbeard armchair shrinks putting words in my mouth & don't want to face the truth of our society. You're all reacting like women & that says something.
colzod 6y ago
You didn't source your stats properly - not at all actually - but I like how you tried to bring facts into the discussion. upvote
grewapair 6y ago
Office of National statistics.
It's in Great Britain, not the US, but I doubt there's much difference in the trend.
vaektor 6y ago
Might be a little worse here: American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
raceAround126 6y ago
I have to chime in here. I've noticed a lot of my male friends have opened up about their own depressions, including being medicated and all the rest. While I don't disparage against that, people have their problems, I don't think what they're doing and how they are handling it is correct. Their openness is possibly encouraging in others suffering from depression being more OK with it, but the way they're now viewed by their peers just seems to be a standpoint of pity. This in my opinion is just making them circle constantly and of course the projections from women in the peer group is most certainly one of ultra pity. Women like drama and the way they speak to these guys now is how you would speak to an upset child to put it mildly.
I'm not saying it's not OK to talk about depression, just noticing that this snowball effect just seems to be across both the sexes and for the same reason. Women don't need no man, yay feminism, let's treat men like shit. Most men then don't get the attention they would like from these women, that depresses them and women don't respect them viewing them as lacking strength and being weak. And round the cycle goes.
It's a strange world for sure.
BurnDownTheMission68 6y ago
Men kill themselves a hell of a lot more often than women
I don’t foresee a new trend of these cat lady tropes killing thmselves
Sumsar01 6y ago
Women love mysogonistic assholes. You'll only get in trouble with the beta males by being one.
ilfj 6y ago
Man or woman kill them self only when they see no way out of their situation. They think they have tried all the ways but unfortunately they are blinded by self pity. It important to save a life from suicide even if she is a feminism.
As always "feminism is cancer." Any woman bitten by feminism will decent it strongly as the way of life until she regrets at the end.
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vaguehead 6y ago
Do you have actual evidence to back this up? Like increase in female suicide rates over the last 50 years in your location?
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Edit: I was wrong. Less dopamine will be produced due to the less and less attention/validation women will be getting from men
It's only going to get worse. Much worse. There's a theory a few on here have, myself included, where when younger girls now grow up there will be a mass number of depressed people and suicides due to women not getting the attention they used to
All those dopamine hits and Instagram likes will be obvious as the contrast increases day by day (the more dopamine you access the less you have later on if you use it too much, hence depression and anxiety starts to set in)
Our dumbfuck society is focused on greed and false ideals bathed in hypocrisy and you can expect how well that's going to turn out
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420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
So are you going to leave it at that or will you actually discuss how it really works
GeeMunz11 6y ago
It's not the responsibility of internet strangers to explain things to you. If everyone is telling you're wrong, do your own research and educate yourself instead of asking them to do all the work for you. They already understand the subject matter, why would they research it for you?
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
I am well aware it's not although if someone prolongs the conversation with remarks rather than giving the actual solution in the same amount of words or less then it's a daft thing to do. That's why
GeeMunz11 6y ago
The proverb I would use here is that "he who chops the tree, warms himself twice". The research is just as important as the answer.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Fair enough, I don't know why expected my point to actually reach through to them. Ah well you learn something new every day, yet I learned two
See, you're actually enjoyable and a pleasure to chat with
TunedtoPerfection 6y ago
Because that would require work and admitting he was wrong. It's much easier to "demand sources" and make non witty remarks.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
I reckon you didn't check my original comment
When you prolong the responses with remarks rather than state how it is and get it over with is a daft thing to do
TunedtoPerfection 6y ago
Dopamine doesn't "run out" dude, please don't make up bullshit on a topic you clearly have no understanding of.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
I didn't say it runs out, "the more dopamine you access the less you have later on if you use it too much"
Where did I ever say it runs out? It's conditional if you use it too much you have less access to it, not that it completely runs out
TunedtoPerfection 6y ago
just stop you clearly have no idea how the dopamine system works in your brain.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Thanks for the offer but nah, I'm good
I'd love to see you source it out so you can "enlighten me" yet you don't so this conversation won't go anywhere
TunedtoPerfection 6y ago
I have no desire to "enlighten you." If you want to continue being an idiot by spouting off half truth pseudoscience by all means continue.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Again, I asked you to show me how it really is and yet you resort to childish insults. I have learned so much from you
TunedtoPerfection 6y ago
No you didn't you tried to be a super cool guy that agree and amplify'd me via an internet forum. Then you spouted off some half insult, half bullshit to give yourself a shred of plausible deniability.
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Just asked a friend who knows more about the subject. Told me how it really is, edited original comment. Maybe try to be more civil and actually at least point people in the right direction, champ. Being able to interact with people properly is an important skill to have
420KUSHBUSH 6y ago
Wow great link you shared, very insightful. Thanks for keeping it civil, I'd buy you drinks if we ever met
heroing 6y ago
R-TwoXchromosomes is an extremist feminist sub that needs to be shut down they’re literally worse than isis not even trying to be funny it’s just out of control.
_TheRP 6y ago
Could be she was depressed that she didn't have a man and kids, but women with those things kill themselves all the time.
Give a man a hammer and everything looks like a nail. Give OP some Red Pill and everything looks like Blue Pill bullshit.
I think this is a reach. Don't try to shoehorn the world into the little bit you know about it.
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_TheRP 6y ago
Sure, but this is a correlation/causation issue.
patriargate 6y ago
Good post. Indeed woman need a man to take care of her. Feminism is cancer. But without feminism, how would it be possible to pick up women so easily?
GeeMunz11 6y ago
Seems like a stretch.. She may have had a million other reasons to commit suicide. She may not have bought into the feminist ideology and have still been single. Not sure how or where you are connecting dots.
This is a classic case of looking for results in data that you want to find as opposed to finding objective truths in there.
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Come on man... 49 years old and no social or sex life and no kids... obviously these are huge reasons
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
Usually women who are single at that age have bought into feminist ideology hook, line and sinker. Otherwise she would not be single and would either have a husband or children to take care of her.
Nalirot 6y ago
Amen, the problem with "the red pill" these days, so much biased shit everywhere. Everyone "knows" with their own self made theory. Just as big of a problem as feminism, based upon the same falsehoods
Poochysnooch 6y ago
Lack of family. Lack of children. Lack of strong social bonds.
It's an open and ahut case of social alienation and loneliness. Next
markdumte 6y ago
Could be. The issue is female suicide rates are increasing. Female unhappiness has been increasing constantly since the raise of feminism. And I have read of a couple other examples of old single women killing themselves.
All psychological studies show that, in humans, males cope with loneliness better than females. Loneliness is bad for everybody, but males endure it better. Look at nature. In animals, females tend to find a pack soon and stay with it, sharing a male if necessary. Males are either leading a pack, helping the leader or roaming alone or in small packs trying to find territory, females or just survive.
The results of feminism are starting to show and its not looking pretty.
GeeMunz11 6y ago
What evidence do you have regarding causation between the two events? I've also noticed an increased usage of mobile phones in the same period - it doesn't mean I can link that to suicides.
Secondly, comparing humans to other animals is ridiculous. Different animals have different patterns of behavior. Some animals are completely monogamous, whereas other animals seek different partners through different mating cycles. That provides no insight toward human mating patterns.
Some people of this sub really like to draw conclusions from what they want the world to be. Or they seek examples that fulfill their hypothesis while ignoring all contradictory data. It's ridiculous.
markdumte 6y ago
Evidence are the ones I presented. What you meant to ask is for proof. And I don't have proof, this is a reddit comment, not a scientific paper.
As I said in my comment, all psychological studies in humans have shown males cope better with loneliness than females.
You seem very hell bent in not discussing the relation between the rise of feminism and the increase in unhappiness in women.
GeeMunz11 6y ago
Yet you give me shit for misusing proof and evidence? lol okay
I was referencing this comment - you're the one who brought animals into it. Also, both males and females suffer from loneliness. I don't think the theory that males handle it better than females means anything in this example.
My real beef is that you have linked the rise of feminism with an increase in unhappiness in women, when there are a TON of other factors that also contribute to this. Its correlation vs. causation.
Falconsbeardedchess 6y ago
Divorced men are 4 times more likely to be swinging from a rope than divorced women. So, I guess in a way you are right.
red-adherent 6y ago
He didn’t even read the post. Complete fucking idiot or troll, there are tons on here now.
Act accordingly.
Prophet6 6y ago
We're politicising suicide victims now. The lack of empathy here is astounding.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
Empathy? Victims? You sound like a little bitch
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hodltaco 6y ago
“I want to buy stock of whoever manufactures anti-depressants”
Definitely a good idea. I don’t know a female other than my mom that isn’t on anti-depressants or anti-anxiety meds.
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Let them reap what they sow.
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thegabescat 6y ago
While I tend to agree with most things on this site, your post was not a good one. You just made generalizations and assumptions based on the stereotypes. You have no idea about this woman and her cats.
spacedogg 6y ago
I'll bet the cats ate her eyeballs
[deleted] 6y ago
Man, I think I should've opted for Psychiatry in medical school.
Brickles09 6y ago
Anti-depressants manufacturers, certainly, buy their stocks. And also anything related to pet shops!
kez88 6y ago
People are still human. You seem very angry. A woman still took her own life, I wouldn't be pointing fingers at why, when you have no idea about anything else in her life.
Also, men have killed themselves at a higher rate than women since forever. Is that a fault of the patriarchy?
Get off reddit and TRP for today, you've had enough
[deleted] 6y ago
Don't put words in my mouth. I could care less if she offed herself. If I'm mad at anything, it's that your blue pill bullshit ruined our women and destroyed our chance at having families.
Hottosmart 6y ago
Then go to Eastern Europe and find yourself a young wife and stfu about feminism in America.
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ntc1995 6y ago
So then how can post like this improve our lives and happiness ? Sorry I dont understand what he was trying to say in the post.
thefreedude 6y ago
He is ranting and venting, obviously in anger phase, so this post helps him get over it at least for a bit. It does nothing for the rest of us except standing as reminder that most of us also went/going through the same shitfiesta.
[deleted] 6y ago
Stop with the psycho babble & I'm not falling for your "trying to turn this on me" bullshit. You're reading way too much into this. Crazy cat lady offs herself because feminism. That's it. Your daughter/wife who holds your balls in her purse may be next.
nofaprecommender 6y ago
OP: “Even though I don’t know if she actually committed suicide or how, feminism caused my colleague to commit suicide.”
Also OP: “Stop with the psycho babble, you’re reading way too much into this.”
FeelTheBernieSanderz 6y ago
Beating around the bush.
Come on... cat lady, single at 49.
Call a spade a spade.
NBKFactor 6y ago
Thats not the point thats being made. I see where the poster is coming from. Its kinda annoying that the expectation of someone killing themselves I have to feel bad. I mean its not speaking against my humanity. Death makes me sad. But suicide is one of the most selfish things person can do. Literally to kill yourself you have to really not care about how others are affected. Like if someone really doesn’t care about life enough to kill themselves why put all that energy into it. Someone made the decision to take their life. Respect it but ya know thats on them. It wasnt some kind of accident or like “it wasn’t their time” or “she had so many hopes and dreams” like hey chose to end their life. Not that its valued any less, she just didnt really bother to seek help from what ive heard on this story. Not that I can confirm, but as someone who’s had close family commit suicide, I can tell you there is no lack of people willing to help. Even the hotline has saved so many lives simply by being someone to talk to. So all in all, if youre gonna deny you need help. Ignore the signs, and just selfishly take your life away its unrealistic to expect that everyone will put things on pause to mourn. I mean ofcourse a reasonable amount of mourning but like cmon, theres no honor in suicide. Its the easy way out. Living is whats hard. And yeah maybe she had it rough maybe she didnt. We don’t know. People do all kinds of crazy things these days especially those who dont have a good support system, and you make it sound like she only had cats to confide in. Theres no lesson to be learned here. Just a story of someone who took their life. What else can we do.
mnsmon 6y ago
Just because you kill yourself, doesn't mean you don't care about others at all. I think it would be like this: You kill yourself, because your pain feels worse than hurting others. You care about others, but for now YOU are more important. Just a theory.
UncleChido 6y ago
Honour? It’s meaningless to the dead.
Suicide is a right. One can live or choose not to.
TheReformist94 6y ago
You know what I've noticed. Shaming people for suicide is society's method of coercing and shaming people to stay alive.
Those fucks still don't get it. The victim wants to kill themselves; but they still have to make it about other person,and not said person contemplating Suicide
Lordracula 6y ago
It's always a pleasant surprise to see some humanity on here.
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I've been getting a lot of "come save me eyes" lately, and that coming from younger and younger women. It's very disturbing. My reaction is usually a cold knowing glare and then noping the f*ck outta there fast. This picture is the closest I could find:
https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/b/beautiful-woman-sad-eyes-2357135.jpg
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iamanenemy 6y ago
What situations are you in to be getting those eyes on the regular?
[deleted] 6y ago
Here's my latest day out with the camera glasses https://youtu.be/O83r8QjVICo
iamanenemy 6y ago
I saw a few looks here and there. Mostly from Asians. But I have to ask: What is it they want you to 'save' them from?
[deleted] 6y ago
Nah, that video was all young girls smiling at me. The only "save me" eyes were from an older woman here: https://youtu.be/O83r8QjVICo?t=3m23s
Save them from the colossal f*ck up that is their lives.
[deleted] 6y ago
Just being masculine and having a DGF attitude.
iamanenemy 6y ago
You did say you were in the Pacific NW so...believable. I thought things were too feminist for that to happen though. Isn't every chick there a blue-haired tumblrina? I thought that feminism was cool so...what is there for them to be saved from?
MrH0rseman 6y ago
I know that look man. I’ve been fooled so many times bcs of that and no wonder I cried like a bitch after the breakup but some things I learned in a hard way.
I’m 29 & I haven’t asked anyone out for dinner or date when it comes to spontaneous or face 2 face but all good on tinder etc.
While I’m typing this, i got one more glare from some unknown lady but I’ve learnt to start giving a cold shoulder.
[deleted] 6y ago
There is a girl at work who literally gives me this exact expression every time we work together. She drinks a lot and just got a tattoo... She's 18
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RUN AWAY!
mishasam89 6y ago
where does this usually happen?
[deleted] 6y ago
This last time it was at the nearby quickstop market. Young-hot-damaged chick pulled in right next to me while I was chillin' to my tune, even though every other space was empty. Looked over staring and gave me those eyes. Then followed me in the store and accidentally "ran" into me giving me the eyes again. Then left exactly when I did and seemed like she tried to lead me to her place. Maybe, maybe not. Just got the hell outta there. Maybe it's because I exude danger and anger, dunno.
Boss tune to rock out to BTW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=av31RU1ORCo
mishasam89 6y ago
good song; heard it before.
i don't know man, I live in LA and this hasn't happened to me outside of college.
What city you're in? or country.. lol
[deleted] 6y ago
I'm in the Pacific NW metro area, a blue haired, hambeast capital. The number of damaged women here is simply off the charts. Extremely masculine men here are as rare as dodo birds. Young asian girls giving me the eye is a daily occurrence.
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Jonmad17 6y ago
The saddest part is how pop-feminism exploits female alienation for its own political agenda. The same way the alt-right exploits atomized and lonely men for its agenda. There are a lot of lonely, broken people out there right now.
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Feminism is the idea that women are being exploited via unpaid labor at home and should rather be exploited by the work place. But really the woman laboring in her house gets to capture all the value she creates. She is unalienated from her labor.
BornShook 6y ago
Patriarchy is a really much more efficient system than we have right now. If the wife stays home some hours of the day to do housework and shit, it will allow for the husband to be more productive at work. The man can be the worker that carries the work load of the family, and the wife can be the helper who takes care of all the small shit that the husband cannot be bothered with (Because he is focused on his work and productive af). A busy man has no time to cook dinner. Fuck this sharing the load bullshit that feminism is pushing. Specialization=Efficiency. (eg. you (my bitch) specialize in making dinner and doing laundry, I specialize in mechanical engineering) Whats so wrong with that? This really perplexes me
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redbossman123 6y ago
It's all about breaking up the family. Look up Brave New World Revisited. Aldous Huxley explained this well, and his brother was literally the first ever head of UNESCO, which is really just eventual eugenics.
BornShook 6y ago
Heres why I dont need to check out that book: I know what I want. I want to fuck women, and not have to worry about stupid shit like doing housework. To fulfil those wants, I either have to get a better job, work my way up and make loads of cash and pay someone else to do it, or get good at "manipulating" women (dont like the connotation of the word) into doing these things for me.
Im just not into this negative worldview thought process. Rather than being angry at society for creating the norms, I simply reject them and live as if the rest of society doesnt exsist.
Ill check it out though, thanks.
EnragedParrot 6y ago
"Manipulating"? Nope. They get something out of doing that work for you:theybget the reward of being a woman for a man.
BornShook 6y ago
Thats why i dont like the word manipulate.
EnragedParrot 6y ago
Think of it more as leading. A good leader helps people get where they need to be. Most people prefer working for a good leader rather than be on their own. In relationship-land, women really shine when being lead by a competent,confident man.
Women who desire men want to be lead.
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Wow. And I mean wow.
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TrumptraintoDC 6y ago
Liberals support all forms of diversity to DIVIDE US and gain more voters
systemshock869 6y ago
They have all sorts of racist solutions to race problems!
stankmo 6y ago
"if you are unhappy, its the patriarchys fault"
cuggwy 6y ago
Well said
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ex_addict_bro 6y ago
Feminism kills at a way higher scale. All my work female colleagues, with their maximum efficiency of about 20% of a drunken man, most of them are childless, unattractive, possibly psychologically unstable cunts. As mothers, they would be probably no less shitty, but at least I'd have a chance to work with more men. Empty wombs, no new kids, the end of my civilisation.
smokecheck1976 6y ago
Without knowing more, it's hard to say. Most suicide victims don't want to die. We know that from talking to people that attempted suicide and survived. There are a few that really went down that road and meant it. I've never been sure why men just tend to use more sure means, like a gunshot to the head, than women tend to use. I think you are right in that it will become more common, though.
Cutting your wrists hurts, a lot, and it's going to take you a little time to bleed out. Swallowing a whole bottle of Motrin might not kill you today. No, it'll just kill your liver today, you'll die tomorrow and in a lot of pain.
The reason I think we are seeing more suicides, overall, even if you discount the elderly that are essentially making end of life decisions is that we have become such a lonely society. One of the biggest problems I run into is trying to get people to look away from their cell phones and engage for a bit. I think about those people, the ones I manage to get to talk to don't have riveting social lives. Often, most of their "human contact" comes in the form of that cell phone. It's honestly a sad, lonely, and disconnected way to live. That happens to be a recipe for depression and suicide.
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Take television away from the victim and their suicide attempts will drop 100% . It's been proven
subthrowaway321 6y ago
You hit the nail in the head, you just didn't connect the dots. Ever hear the phrase, don't listen to what a woman says, watch what she does?
Anyways, when a woman eats a few pills and goes to the ER saying she tried to kill herself. It's a cry for help, not a suicide attempt. Sure, they are depressed, just not legit suicidal. They want attention, and get it doing things like eating a few more Tylenol than the bottle says is OK.
This is in stark contrast to men and suicide. Lots of time when a man attempts suicide, it is a legit suicide attempt. They cut their wrists or shoot themselves, it doesn't kill them, and someone finds them unconscious in a pool of blood. That is a suicide attempt, not a cry for help.
Why does this happen and why don't men do the same cries for help? Easy. We have been conditioned and live in a world where when a man cries for help, no one listens or cares. When a woman does, tons of agencies and people will come to her rescue. She will get state sponsored psychiatric care, free medications to help, social workers and social welfare, and on and on. What's a guy get? He gets told to man up. That's about it. So, when a guy attempts suicide, he is well beyond crying for help because he knows no one will listen. Women cry for help because they know people will listen and society will help them out if they cry for help loud enough.
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Men solve problems. Women bitch about them with their friends and seek attention about it any way they can get it.
[deleted] 6y ago
I say this with complete seriousness - men are more successful at killing themselves because, well, we are generally more competent at everything. I think it's that simple honestly.
Dmva100 6y ago
Feminism is responsible for all shootings.
Shootings are good for America because it gets fat ass lazy people to march in protest where they would otherwise watch TV all day.
TheRedPike 6y ago
I have a conundrum. I got a report on this post, though clearly this is a joke about fat 'merca waddlers, the report is hilarious. I invite the reporter to post it as a comment (not a trap!) so we can all enjoy it.
ManowarVin 6y ago
That's because the failed attempts are actually cries for help. You are correct, they don't want to die, which is why they didn't. They aren't true attempts which are skewing your data.
Now a failed attempt with a very lethal means is a different story.
Jonmad17 6y ago
Atomization is the issue of our time, and I think the internet's to blame. Social media doesn't just keep people from socializing in real life, it gives them an impression of other people's lives that's inaccurately positive. It also turned everyone into an obnoxious political dogmatist who views all of life through the prism of their pet ideology, whether it be feminism, white nationalism, critical race theory, etc. On top of that the meat market of online dating alienates both women (who can't find LTRs through it) the 80% of men who don't get dates. And to top everything off, "geniuses" like Steve Jobs made sure that we could never escape this hellhole by putting powerful computers in our pockets.
Don't want to sound like a luddite, but society has to rethink its relationship to the internet.
[deleted] 6y ago
Have you noticed Facebook ads popping up on TV of late? I've noticed like five in the last couple weeks and I've never seen a single Facebook ad in my life before. Hopefully people are getting wise to what a pernicious thing social media is.
[deleted] 6y ago
Saw someone who said, "We're watching everyone else's highlight reels".
dr_warlock 6y ago
The ideology creates this ego where you can never back down on the tenets of the ideology. Feminism: try to be dominate in inter-gender interaction, never have a man take care of you in any blatant manner, always play mind games with men even though you find them attractive, insisting they do everything in a manner that validates you to the fullest, and unrealistic expectations.
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If they bypass the ego, then there's the addiction in all its forms, never satisfied with one source for very long, if at all, pulled in all directions. The validation source is the cellphone. You can't replicate that in real-life even though outside human contact is necessary for your mental health. A woman's brain has not had enough time to evolve with the new technology. It's a superstimuli. There will be increased suicide, but most people just go on living in a depressive state, always feeling a void they aren't aware how to fill. It's like saying someone's marriage is good just because they didn't divorce. This unsatisfied state is the new 'normal' but far from healthy.
VisionsofGandhi1 6y ago
Unfortunately it's only getting worse with the advent of kinda realistic virtual reality. What do you think will happen when a machine can led you to a perfect more fulfilling dreamlike virtual world? Where fucked
[deleted] 6y ago
Yeah idk about that shit honestly I can't tell if I'm going to hook myself up to a stasis machine and live in the matrix or just live real life... shits fucked bro.
Jonmad17 6y ago
Sort-of realistic VR is gonna fuck us up, but if VR ever gets to the point where it's sensorially indistinguishable from real life, then it's probably going to just end up replacing real life. That could be utopia, I don't know. Or it could be the actual apocalypse.
[deleted] 6y ago
It's real-life "The Matrix"
casual_chaos_ 6y ago
Like Jordan Peterson says: humans weren’t ever built for a utopia. There must be a healthy amount of chaos
[deleted] 6y ago
Did you know that the first Matrix was designed to be a perfect human world? Where none suffered, where everyone would be happy. It was a disaster. No one would accept the program. Entire crops were lost. Some believed we lacked the programming language to describe your perfect world. But I believe that, as a species, human beings define their reality through suffering and misery. The perfect world was a dream that your primitive cerebrum kept trying to wake up from.
casual_chaos_ 6y ago
Look up what happened to the rat utopia experiment in the 70s
[deleted] 6y ago
Yea that shit is nuts.
BornShook 6y ago
Nah, it would just be the matrix irl
Brexit-the-thread 6y ago
The future is VRchat. fucked doesn't even begin to describe what awaits humanity.
jimbad05 6y ago
A bunch of gay memers going to anime prom?
Brexit-the-thread 6y ago
yes, though that is perhaps a more polite way of putting it than I was thinking.
the words "screaming, incoherent babble of pre-pubescent megautism" may have been on my mind.
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HiBigFatFuknStupid 6y ago
wow crazy people close to the deceased not wanting to talk about how they killed themselves...definitely a feminism thing
smokecheck1976 6y ago
No, it's really just the way polite company is. I knew a guy that had committed suicide by running a water hose down his throat and turning the water on full blast. The official cause was "drowning", unofficially, while he did drown, the irrecoverable damage occurred when his stomach burst. This isn't something that was talked about at the funeral or with family in the aftermath.
HiBigFatFuknStupid 6y ago
this sub is all about being able to successfully socialize and essentially convince women youre worthy of having sex. If youre going to do all that you need to understand whats acceptable and not acceptable socially. This is one of those things thats kind of basic socializing rules. If someone in my family killed themselves im not gonna run around telling everyone.
[deleted] 6y ago
If you think that TRP is about becoming "worthy" in a woman's eyes, you haven't been reading very closely.
HiBigFatFuknStupid 6y ago
well shit red pill me then lil nigga
WolfofAnarchy 6y ago
> convince women youre worthy of having sex.
That's not what this sub is about, at least not anymore, thank god.
smokecheck1976 6y ago
And you aren't going to be talking about it with anyone. It's better that "they were tired", and "they went home to (your god here)", even if everyone know better.
kareemgoat69giggity 6y ago
Didnt a post here earlier a few months back show how feminism destroyed the roman empire? Or at least feminism qualities and ideals bece widespread?
Karmelion 6y ago
That posts name? Every history book ever.
Edit: They even created a word for it, decadence: moral or cultural decline as characterized by excessive indulgence in pleasure or luxury.