Money should provide access not provisioning

Provisioning is beta bux

The guy with the yacht is going to have a better time acquiring women but what about the guy renting a yatch? Would you spend 5k for such a rental for one lay? There becomes a point where the line between financial access to fun attractive assets and trips etc blur with the line of provisioning

If you're going to acquire pussy with money at all it should be assets that you have for you or access to societies that are mostly for the benefit of you

I really think your whole post is an overthink. A girl would rather be taken to a date in a Ferrari than a Ford but you are taking basic (and what should be obvious) distinctions and making it I to something jt shouldn't be

if you go down this route, you could just go to prostitutes. That might be cheaper than sugarbabes and all that stuff.

But never expect genuine desire with that.

After I hit my stride but before I got married, I had zero trouble getting laid while driving a beater and dressing like a slob.

Using money to attract women will only attract shallow gold-diggers.

Get muscles. Act with confidence and congruence. Improve your game and social skills.

Think outside the box, chicks in Latin America are desperate for a foreigner with money to provide the passport and the moving out of her shithole country/situation, they are naturally attracted to foreigners so there's not much game needed, they turn into sluts semi-automatically. In exchange,she will cook,clean,put out and suck your dick. If that is not your thing then use money to shower broke girls with frequent gifts or maybe pay her rent, you'll need a bit more game and frame to not let her suck your wallet dry instead of your dick, and it is likely she has some other guys paying for stuff too. All in all, basing your romantic lifestyle on money is not a good deal, unless you're thinking of frequenting prostitutes, in Wich case it's alright,just forget gaming them and go straight to the fucking, maybe once a week and devote your time to other aspects of life,like money,family,friendships,social life and reputation.

I'll say this as food for thought:

What you lead with is the thing women will take from you. If you lead with your money, women will stick around to drain your resources. If you lead with your sense of humor women will dial you when they need a pick me up.

Now if you lead with your sexuality, guess what women will want from you?

I know a lot of guys that get girls because a nice car and a fancy flat. Take away the car and the money and suddenly women aren't interested in "them".

In reality, women were never interested in them. The money is the draw.

It’s a fine line. Just feel her out and make sure she actually wants to fuck. If she does, I don’t mind paying for a few drinks to keep the party going.

Money will open the legs, but won't make the pussy wet.

If you lead with money, make sure to use the carrot on the stick method, then once you smash, eject. Many won't spread it just because you're loaded, so they'll try to juice you and withhold pussy. Don't be that guy.

Learning Game is essential, especially if you play with gold diggers or femme fatale.

You're spot on, and all the beta replies here are boring.

It would be more interesting to discuss which ways this works very well and which ways it doesn't.

It works well if you're just making things easier or more interesting for yourself. On the opposite end incongruently showboating doesn't work well.

I have always avoided this idea, both because it is pretending to be what you are not and because I am, as pretty much every woman I have ever been with has complained, a skinflint. Being a skinflint has not stopped me interacting with women.

However, I have also observed that women really do like "quality" experiences. My daughters still talk about the rare times I have taken them to a hotel or a restaurant. They appear to remember what they ate and what they wore. Since they have been raised with low expectations, if a boy buys them a pizza, its a great excitement. A good friend of mine who likes fine food will come and stay and we will be dragged out to waste money on fancy food. I will remark to my lady that surely it would be less hassle to stay in and I buy her something lasting that she likes and buy myself something I like with the money that is wasted on what will be flushed down a toilet next day but she seems to feel the ephemeral experience of dining out is preferable to having something lasting of value..

So spending money on women does, I fear, work. I think there is some attraction in being valued enough to have the money wasted on you as well as attraction to an experience they feel is classy and of course the attraction to money itself. I think even women who are not shallow enough to sleep with a man just for money can still be turned by the idea of class and of his valuing them that much.

With women its usually a case of relativity. The experience provided needs to be superior to what the girl is used to, so poorer girls will be more easily turned. You will of course have to live up to first impressions for the duration of your relationship with them, so this needs to be budgeted for as well.

You can use money as tool to put you in a situation or position to meet women.

You can also use money as a way to control the frame. (My car, my place etc.)

That being said, do not flaunt that money, do not rely on it. Use it as a startegic tool and then let your tingle inducing charm do the rest.

The women that sleep with you because of the money will not do it because of desire. You might as well just get a prostitute.

Flaunting money also attracts mostly gold diggers and poor girls in desperate need of a lifestyle upgrade.

Also girls will flake and be wishy washy regardless of your charm or your money.

She may even love you to death, but she'll still find a reason to sabotage something you have going on, just because...

Just don't count on them for anything... not even sex.. diversify

My take: IF you’ve got it like that; go for it.

That assumes you’re budgeting responsibly (saving and investing 50%+ of your income) and can afford to do shit like get tables/yachts/etc WITHOUT going into debt and still being able to pay your bills etc. works out better if you’ve got some boys and you all split the bill on things like this.

However if you’re spend on lifestyle prohibits you from saving/investing responsibly then no; you can’t afford it and you would be absolutely foolish to try and pretend to be something you’re not.

Added note: I see guys on tables all the time w zero bitches; or even worse ones that come, drink their booze, n leave to go fuck chad. Sad fucks dropped hella cash to not even get laid. Moral of story: do all the other work that makes women genuinely attracted to you (muscle, style, charisma, etc) and then the money becomes an added bonus.

You could be a rich fat fuck and you might get laid but they don’t have burning genuine desire for you. You can be a brokie but jacked and they’ll want you more. I’ve been fat as fuck w a rolex and tables n buying drinks and did not get laid much. I’ve also been 10% bf doing the same thing and got laid effortlessly being in shape.

Bonus sauce: only compliments I’ve ever got on my watches were from other men. Take that as you will

I second the passport bro route. An average American guy is like a top 1%'er in other countries. Modern women have no clue as to how high value we are on a global sexual marketplace. I'd go get a Fillippina nurse and bring her to the states. They can make buttloads of money, have no debt, have their college done, and have trad/con upbringing. Just prep them to ignore the feminist lies and brainwashing.

The best thing about being broke and still pulling girls, is that I know they weren't with me for my money, because I couldn't take them out anywhere. I pulled the most girls back then too

In the First World this is a bad idea because provisioning is taken for granted or outright exploited.

In other places it may be more workable, but you had better make sure you control the money yourself at all times with an iron fist.