I just watched this video https://youtu.be/5Dc3NgcMtmw
About first dates. He recommends not flirting, not escalating, basically not showing any interest. Also says to not contact them for at least a week after the date. No eating girls out or kissing either.
A lot of this seems contradictory to what I've read in TRP. Thoughts?
helpfulguy22 3y ago
AMS was my first introduction to red pill, I still am new to trp but from him is where I learned the basics. I don’t care what anyone says, his shit helped me get so many dates and even laid, the thing I like about him is that he admits all of his teachings are from mistakes he made in the past, he learned from experience. Ams was the reason I even made it to this sub. And his strategy of not flirting on first date to get interest works, I tried it with many girls, all except one I got second dates and more dates with. I think this strategy is more for beginners, once you learn to close and become more experienced, I believe he also supports trying to fuck on the first date.
If you watch him more you will understand the eating out part and no kissing is basically if u are at the peak of self improvement. Where you have such an abundance mentality where you don’t give af if the girl keeps fucking you or not. At the end of the day if you like eating a girl out then go for it, he says just don’t do it only to please the girl.
hannulv 3y ago
Definitely don't eat out girls you are dating, unless you are doing it in a way that projects extreme dominance. If you're going to, ensure that she is extremely vulnerable, tied up... in a compromised position, etc. Eating someone out, face sitting, girl-on-top are all submissive acts. Girls crave being dominated way more than they crave orgasms. They need to get thrown down and fucked hard while you pull their hair and squeeze their neck, spank them and bite their back.
If you love eating pussy, then do it in a dominant way... 69 with you on top throat fucking her, or pinning her and doing it from behind. Once sex is in motion, you need to be the total aggressor, directing the entire encounter and she needs be your willing and compliant little fucktoy. The moment the encounter is geared on pleasing her, it's ruined.
chickengod 3y ago
I've met a lot of girls who say that most dates are boring. How is being an uninteresting, non-flirty person going to make her interested?
helpfulguy22 3y ago
You didn’t get the point of that video, he never said be boring, he said don’t make any moves. You are there to simply get to know the girl, you gotta make her think she has to win your approval as well. When you don’t make a move on her, it gets her wondering why u didn’t, and that gets her chasing you
RedPill115 3y ago
Reminds me of the difference between regular guy game vs tall guy game.
Someone would show up to the forum saying "You guys are way overthinking this, I realized you just show up and hang out with the girl, don't say much, and she'll want to fuck you". Someone would ask them to describe themselves and they'd be like "I'm nothing special, 6"2...
It's just a different game.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I'm a big fan of screening women if you're looking for an LTR and a wife/mother of your children. I could see this technique working for that. All I do anymore are prostitutes and ONS so it doesn't work for that.