About a week ago my girlfriend told me she was "aggressively" hit on by a guy that she works with on campus while we were having lunch . At first I played it off and acted as if I did not care that much . I said wow, that's funny. She then tells me how bold this guy was and that this guy said a multitude of things including " I want to fuck " you right here and "how if we fuck , your bf will never know" things along these lines while they are at work ( they work in a public setting ). I asked for the guys phone number and told him to back . He came back at me with texts about how he was going to kick my ass etc. At this point I was noticeably angry and told him I would meet him on her campus ( where me and her were having lunch . I walked to the area with her where he was and she pointed him out . He said he was just joking and that he doesn't think he had ever seen her before and thought it was a different girl etc. when I got in his face. His buddies came over and said they wanted to mediate and reinforced what he was saying . I finished by saying , don't let it happen again and I walked away . He texted me minutes later claiming that she threatened to fuck everyone if I ever messed up . She said he was lying . What I want to know fellow redpillers is did I mess up ? Should I have handled the situation different or what could I have done better ?
Edit update: She calls me after her midterm and says she has stuff to tell me about her friends. So I listen , she goes on to tell me that one of her friends cheated on her boyfriend while out in the city at a club and that when her friend told her boyfriend , he responded by saying it's ok you have a hall pass . I was very surprised at this so I said I don't understand why he didn't leave her . Had it been you who had hooked up with a guy I would be gone . She paused for a moment and said wow ouch , you would just leave me if I did that ? What about all the chances I've given you ( I have had one indiscretion in the past , nothing physical happened though ). I said this situation is different . If you hooked up with a guy don't expect me to stick around . She changes the topic to her second friend who is mad at her boyfriend because he will be participating in a date auction but he asked her to assist with his dress and so forth so he can get the bids higher. She says how fucked up is that ?! I said I see no problem with trying to raise more money for a good cause , he has no interest in these girls and is even asking his girlfriend for assistance. She gets frustrated says I have to go and hangs up . She then begins texting me about how much she can't believe I would just leave her without any chances if she cheated , I said why are you so surprised and she responds by mentioning the girl I talked to for about a week who sent me a picture of her . I said the situations are not comparable, if you fuck some guy I'm leaving . She goes off on me and says " your chances have run out now . And never again will I ever give u a single chance again bc I see how I stand with you and will never show you that kindness again. You fuck up, you lose me. " I'm seriously considering breaking this off, it may not even be worth mentioning the whole situation with the guy before hand who had hit on her . ( she said she told her boss about the situation, last time she had work when o black knighted her )
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notmyusualreddit 10y ago
I've explained to a few women that them getting fucked is no accomplishment, just like me taking a girl on dates or gf-ing her up isnt. If she wants to brag she can tell me how many guys are offering her expensive trips or wedding rings, then I'll be impressed, just like she would be impressed if random women were offering me no strings easy sex.
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This one. Powerful. On not just one layer.
Entershikari 10y ago
I approve of this answer
FortunateBum 10y ago
She's shit testing you big time.
He's fucking with you big time.
I also think that this is the thing a lot of women do when they want to break up. I know, it doesn't make sense, simply how the female mind works.
You should've just ignored it. Best you can do.
Another thing you can do is talk about how girls are coming on to you all the time and asking you for sex and you always say no.
[deleted] 10y ago
Yeah man, this whole situation is fishy.
I would've already fucked him up, firstly, secondly, something doesnt add up here.
Balalasaurus said she's already fucked him, but I'm not sure.
Either way, you should mentalize the worst scenario possible, so that if you find out you are already prepared and at the very least you won't give her what she wants which is your emotional investment and drama.
If you become a rock, like if she tell you shes fucked other guys and you dont react, you're gonna come out on top, any oher thing is just bad. Good luck.
-Luthe- 10y ago
What will you do, fight every guy that hits on her?
You need to find a better way to handle this.
GC0W30 10y ago
If you've got genuine attraction and are passing shit and comfort tests with this bitch then he isn't a threat.... unless she's a whore.
Don't LTR/marry whores. It will never work.
If your game is weak, ANY worthwhile woman will cheat you or leave you.
Work on your LTR game, have good hobbies and become or stay fit. I think we have some LTR game reading on the sidebar, if I'm wrong MarriedRedPill will have some.
Mate guarding doesn't work. You don't have time to do it, and if you NEED to do it then you need a new chick.
flowithego 10y ago
She's gotta go.
yumyumgivemesome 10y ago
Had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend while we were still dating. She and her best friend had stories about this low-life drug dealer who sometimes partied in their outer circle. He would say almost the exact same things to her and her friend.
Finally, one day I was partying with them and the guy was there with his chubby girlfriend. When introduced to him at the loud bar, I pulled him closer and said, "So I hear you want to fuck my girlfriend." He backed away immediately and was completely quiet and avoided me for the rest of the night. Apparently it was his birthday too. Felt good ruining his night.
AZTRP 10y ago
/u/BlackHeart89 is on point with this.
I need to restate/reinforce: Women can turn men down without the help of other men. I'm willing to wager she brings a lot of drama to you.
How long have you been together? I'd say NEXT her for your sanity.
The_Procrasturbater 10y ago
Every employee has each other's number , saying he didn't know her was one of the many things he said to avoid fighting me in my opinion. I wasn't that angry until he started calling me out though over text . We have been together about 3 years
waynebradysworld 10y ago
SHE might have every employees number. I guarantee most of the fellas that work in a school cafeteria do not have every female employees number. It doesn't work like that.
Source: have had many jobs, including on campus jobs. She just told you everyone has each others number to excuse why she be texting another nigga, nigga
i2amahandmodel 10y ago
Yeah, she has no reason to have a coworkers number unless she is the full time manager. Her story sounds really fishy to me. I see no evidence but I feel like shes def been talking to this guy before. Maybe even cheated. Dump her OP. This isn't going to be long term, put her on the back burner just for pulling this shit with you.
omgimbackagain 10y ago
The confrontation went about aswell as you could have possibly asked for. Even if she was into him slightly before from his aggresive come ons, she will certainly dry up after you bitched him like that.
You dont want it to get that point in the future. Outcomes are jail, physical injury, he falls bad and hits his head and doesnt get up (or the other way round) or someone pussys out in front of everyone. You were lucky to pull the last card.
ilovemagicmush 10y ago
My rule is, it's 100% the girls responsibility to tell the guy to fuck off. If he doesn't, then it's my responsibility to make sure he doesn't bother her again.
mordanus 10y ago
This story leaves out way too many details and it's confusing as fuck. So the guy claims to not know who this girl was while you were there ready to beat his ass but immediately he texts you back saying she's going to fuck everyone? So does he actually know your gf or what? Also this is pretty weird behavior for someone to back down from a fight only to escalate it again. There's too much info missing here man.
The_Procrasturbater 10y ago
I assume he claimed he didn't know her because he pussied out as soon as I confronted him
mordanus 10y ago
Then why would he start a fight with you again with the next text. He also proved himself a liar by saying he knew her or lying about what she said. Why didn't you go back to confront him. Another thought... are you sure the person who you were texting and the guy you talked to are the same person? Maybe it was one of his buddies writing the texts. I dunno man this whole thing is weird
spoetnick 10y ago
There isn't a flowchart for this. It kind of depends on the social situation and culture.
If I were to place me in your situation I'd first question my GF's story. Is she really being harassed or does she just want me to validate her by getting up in some other guys face?
I probably wouldn't have texted that guy. It's her problem. She is a grown up, she can handle shit like this herself. Once the situation escalates from verbal towards physical would it be a cue for me to intervene. When it gets to this point I won't make it a 'come at me bro' sort of thing. I won't fight him, ill just fuck him up (just remember that I know noone owns a gun or even has a knife where I live. I'm also bigger than the average guy and a few years of systema have given me the confidence that I can fuck someone up without to much trouble. Still this would be a very, very, very, last resort).
When you started texting that dude and getting worked up, you got the entire 'two guys fighting over a chick' thing going. It could work to establish dominance but since nothing went down, I doubt she sees it this way.
By the way, the guy is a huge douche for being a pussy face to face but all macho over text. Don't validate him anymore, you basically are saying you see him as a threat. A&A might work better. Stop spending your precious time on him. Get your lady to fix her how problems. They work together, let her file a formal sexual harassment complaint. If he really doesn't stop, make your lady go to the cops with a sob story where she's afraid she's going to get raped. It sucks that she can do stuff like that, but since the system works like that, you might as well use it. There are tons of stories of guys getting fucked over by women here on TRP, use that information to your advantage.
Good luck man!
bicepsblastingstud 10y ago
This is a very good answer.
Most of the time, confrontation is the wrong choice. And if you're going to confront somebody, just do it -- none of this "texting the guy to tell him to back off."
Bronze_Bound 10y ago
Yeah If this dude is sane, he will back the fuck off if she mentions anything about filling for sexual harassment.
edwardhwhite 10y ago
It sounds like she did not like the attention. If so, your job is to protect. So its ok. Note that her complaint was with the manner he hit on her. It says he went too far for her and she was not flattered.
Always a plus when he backs down like a loser.
MMABouncer 10y ago
Imo, he looked like an insecure hot head, who is not in control of himself.
The_Procrasturbater 10y ago
After the situation ended and we went back to her place . I questioned her about his comment over text about her threatening to fuck other guys , if I ever fucked up and she responded by saying "do you seriously believe him after he said he didn't know who I was ?" She claims he is lying. I was suspicious but I chose to let it go at the time . I'm considering questioning her about it again but I do not want to seem invested in the situation if she really is getting off on the fact I'm so interested
spoetnick 10y ago
Thanks for the update man!
It does sound weird that you ask her about threatening to bang other guys and she dodges the question. This would be a red flag for me. If it comes up again, make sure she genuinely answers the question at hand. I'd say this is another failed test.
If I were you i'd read up on what /u/prodigyx has been writhing. The Blackknight path seems like a good way to proceed if you want to continue with this.
The_Procrasturbater 10y ago
I'm going to try this and she how she responds .
bustanutmeow 10y ago
Make sure you report back, I wanna hear how this plays out.
The_Procrasturbater 10y ago
More of it is going on as we speak
Red-Zen 10y ago
Dont mate guard. She should be shutting this down on her own.
Beautiful_Idealism 10y ago
Read the update. You have two options.
Leave.
I don't know what your relationship is like but she 95% didn't mean what she said and was just angry. Maybe she leaves you if you cheat but she probably would have done that before this conversation. She might bring this up again but you have to hold frame and not compromise.
bertmaklinFBI 10y ago
The main point of this story is you chose a suspect woman to have a relationship with.
Any woman who is completely satisfied by her man and worthy of a relationship is not causing drama, will shut down advancements from the opposite sex, and will not go on lunch dates with men who have expressed an interest in her.
balalasaurus 10y ago
Your girlfriend's already fucked him. And probably a bunch of other guys. Get out now.
spoetnick 10y ago
Would you care to elaborate on why you think this?
BadCopWithDonut 10y ago
You have no clear reasons to think that at this point
hrm0894 10y ago
I don't know if you wrote your comment before OP's update but she said she was surprised he said he would leave her if she ever cheated on him.
Like who the fuck says that? Lol. She probably fucked 10 guys behind OP's back.
BadCopWithDonut 10y ago
Now that I read the update I have a different view on this. Even if she didn't cheat this is such a fucking huge red flag. Abort ship asap!!
Bronze_Bound 10y ago
well I mean.... AWALT.
BadCopWithDonut 10y ago
sure, all women are capable of doing something like this. And hypergamy is real. But still this doesn´t mean she cheated on him here. Doesn´t sound to me like the other guy is that alpha. But without knowing her in RL it´s not possible to stay.
Complecs 10y ago
This is what I'm betting on, or is at least really thinking about it. sounds like trickle truth to me
prodigyx 10y ago
Ah good someone else is experienced enough to see what is going on here. Watch as she trickle-truths him. Hopefully we will get a followup from OP.
spoetnick 10y ago
Since balalasaurus doesn't explain this to me, would you be so kind?
To my knowledge, Trickle-truth is when a chick slowly but steady start to confess about stupid shit she's been doing, like cheating. Maybe the 'if we fuck your bf will never know' part could be a cue for this, other than that I don't see anything to support this. Even the guy never said he actually banged her. If I fucked a girl who's dating a BB and he confronted me, I'd tell him. The fact that the only reply this guy made was 'ill kick your ass' would be evidence enough for me that it's just a nolife, low value, douchebag.
Please let me know what i'm missing here.
I'm currently under the assumption that OP and his GF are in a LTR and doesn't have (m)any red flags.
I'm currently in a LTR myself, and if my GF were to come to me with a story like this, I wouldn't assume she's trying to tell me she's fucking someone else. It would be more like her to just vent and to let me know whats going on, maybe even trying to get me to (help her) fix it. But maybe that's just me being cocky/not insecure.
balalasaurus 10y ago
Women get hit on everyday. Taken women especially (because they're taken for a reason). In respect of this, they are usually adept at handling unwelcome advances - very often without needing to tell their SO about it.
From the post OP made, there are three things that stand out. First is the idea that this guy would be so bold/ that OPs gf would say blatantly that this guy wants to fuck her. To me that's OPs gf fishing for a reaction. If OP acts like a beta and gets emotional - which he more or less did - she has an excuse to justify her cheating.
Second is the fact that this guy upon 'confrontation' with OP tried to change the story. If he could have taken OP, he would have tried to. However being the lil bitch that he is he chose the other route - to act like it wasn't her. This points to the fact that something has happened, and the guy was genuinely afraid of OP because of it.
Third, the fact that he messaged OP after to tell him what his girl 'threatened' to do, is evidence enough that she's thinking about it (if you want to believe that she's innocent that is) or that she actually has done it. All in all this is one big example of OPs gf trickle-truthing OP. The way I see it she's more or less made her decision. OP can choose to engage dread and keep her around - not something I would do personally - or reclaim control and make the decision for them.
As an aside, being in an LTR 'with no red flags' means nothing. You should always keep in mind that a relationship means that each of you brings something to the table in exchange for what the other has to offer. My guess is that OP stopped providing something which his gf viewed as grounds enough to branch-swing.
Assuming that there are 'no red flags' invites a level of complacency that sooner or later will affect the relationship. That's why you should always have options, even in an LTR. Without options you show that you're investing disproportionately in the relationship because you can bet a woman will always have options. That's the nature of hypergamy
spoetnick 10y ago
Thanks man! Didn't expect you to reply for some reason.
Reading your story now.I agree that this guy hitting on her like that out of nothing is a stretch. It didn't occur to me to question that. I've seen guys do shit like that but to assume this is one of those rare guys is silly on my part. It's more likely that she's at least been flirting with him. You see this as a pointer for cheating. Wouldn't it be more likely that it is a validation test? The other guy flirted with her, validated her. Now she wants OP to do the same.
The guy was around friends, according to the story. I think that if things got physical, OP wouldn't have come out on top. This is also why OP backed down I suspect. One vs many never is a good idea. But unless the guy was afraid of OP, saying that he mistook her for someone else just doesn't make much sense. Still not sure what to make of this, yet your explanation sounds logical.
That the guy messaged OP again after he went away wouldn't seem to me as something truthful. He was shamed on his own turf. He lost some credibility towards his friends and is making a last stab, just to have the last word. Really childish i'd say. Whether or not the GF every said anything about banging everyone true, I don't know. I just don't know a lot of chicks that are into that sort of shit, or I'm still naive as fuck (which I probably am to some extend, hence all the questions).
Being in a LTR with no red flags mean a whole lot more to me than being in one with a lot of red flags. Which is never because who the fuck would date a chick with red flags. Having no red flags to me means that this might be a chick worth investing in.
Your last paragraph is spot on. This is one thing TRP has taught me and is one of the reasons why I think I'm in a successful relationship ATM.
Thanks again man. Your reaction now makes so much more sense to me. Between the explanations from ProdigyX and you, this has been one of my more informative RP evenings in a good long while. ♂
prodigyx 10y ago
Yeah I'll give it a shot. Starting with this:
Women don't want you to solve their problems. Check out the post on TRP 5 days ago by /u/1independentmale called "She doesn't want your help. Stop offering."
So why did she tell her boyfriend about being "aggressively" hit on? It could be a shit test (which OP failed completely by getting angry and confronting the guy). She could be looking for validation/ego boost by playing her boyfriend against another potential mate, which is a huge red flag. Women that act like this are the type that will claim you raped her, or key your car, or call the cops on you.
When you say
I am not sure if you are trying to disqualify this guy as someone she would never fuck, because he is definitely the type of guy she would fuck, as shown when she said this:
This is her telling the bf that this alpha aggressive dude got her wet. We all know that low value/unattractive men are invisible to women. Can you imaging if a low value beta chump said something like this to a girl? He would never have even gotten the chance. Women will shit all over and shut down a beta/low SMV male that comes on like that.
So why did she really tell her boyfriend this? If we ignore the possibility of it being a shit test or validation seeking, the only thing left is the hamster. The hamster is capable of some crazy mental gymnastics. Say she made out with this guy or more. She needs some way to justify her behavior. Being "aggressively" hit on is the perfect excuse. In her mind her infidelity is justified by this. And by telling her bf about it, not only does it solidify the justification in her mind, but it also helps ease the guilt keeping the secret because in her mind she told her boyfriend about it.
Now we can tell that her story doesn't add up. And if OP calls her out on her bullshit and pushes her, that's where we start to get the trickle-truth.
Or at least that is how I am interpreting the situation.
aguy01 10y ago
If she wanted to fuck the guy she wouldn't have mentioned anything about it. She is just shit testing her bf, which he obviously failed.
spoetnick 10y ago
Thank you man! This was just the other perspective i was looking for. I don't know if you want to discuss this any further, but in case you would, ill write this response. Your view is entirely valid but just wouldn't occur to me so fast. Guess i'm still learning and a bit naive at times.
I agree that helping her wasn't a good move. I also see this as a test and one that he failed.
Lets say I was OP and he had my relationship; I would disqualify this guy as someone my gf would hook up with. She is being harassed and complaining about it to her bf. In my personal experience, this is normal LTR behavior.
A few months ago I've had a experience like this. My gf was meeting up some friends and while she was getting drinks, some dude approached her. He was fat, not good looking, slightly drunk, and pulling all sorts of PUA shit. She laughed at him, wished him a good day and walked back to her table. I trust my GF, but when I have the chance I try to validate her stories. Not because I think she will try to lie, but because what she perceives and what actually happens can be quite different. So I check this story with a mutual male friend and he agreed that she listened to him while waiting for drinks, laughed at him in a non flirty way and walked back.
Seeing how this guy isn't what I would cal a AF, she still noticed him because he validated her. A part of her liked the attention, even if it came from a guy like that. She told me about it. How would this be different than OP's original story, besides the fact that my GF doesn't know the guy and OP's GF does? Or should I be worried about my GF cheating with this guy.
Back to OP's story. Would you say that this being a trickle-truth is more plausible than it being a shit/validation test? Does all trickle-truth come out full blown when the chick is being pushed? Is she actually feeling guilt and wants to be found out? What would be a good way in this situation to find out whether or not she's hiding anything like cheating without coming off as butt-hurt.
Something like GF - "He was so bold and hitting on me aggressively". OP - "Haha, did you like it? Did you kiss him?". Or would that be to forward? ♂
Thanks again.
prodigyx 10y ago
Nah this is a great discussion. This is what we are all here for.
I would agree completely with your analysis that
If we take your gf's situation, and replace the fat ugly guy with the agressive Chad Thundercock from OP's story, how would she have handled it? Hopefully the same way. She would have gotten tingles and more validation, but still brushed him off, before he escalates the conversation to the point where he can say "I want to fuck you" or "your boyfriend will never know". As others here have said, attractive women are very good at shooting down unwanted advances. When she tells you about him, it will be a shit-test. She wants to know that you are confident enough to not be shaken when some guy hits on your girl. "Haha, did you like it? Did you kiss him?" is the perfect response to this. Amused mastery.
Anyway, she would have brushed him off , you would have held frame, and both of you would have moved on. This is what is supposed to happen. None of this happened with OP, and that is why something feels so "off" about his situation.
I would say that in OP's situation, it being cheating and trickle-truth is more plausible than a shit test. Mostly because if it was a shit test, OP failed so badly that it gives me the impression that he has been failing shit tests for a while. And in a woman's mind, cheating on a beta is not cheating at all. AF/BB is so central to their nature that they don't give it a second thought.
If OP wants to get to the bottom of this...or how he should have handled it would be to take his gf very seriously. Tell her that she is right and this guy's "aggressive" sexual actions are completely unacceptable and that you are taking her directly to the Dean of Student's office to file a sexual harassment report. When she objects, tell her that it isn't her fault, that she is the victim here and that she should do what is right and report it before it happens to other women (Black Knighting can be fun and effective).
At this point she will either go all in on her lie to try to save the relationship (file report, guy gets in trouble and pissed off, tells the true story), or start trickle-truthing with "I guess I was leading him on"... how did you lead him on?...."Well we flirt a lot"...what do you mean by flirting?..."Well he will grab my ass sometimes, and we kissed once". She might even try to do both, eventually admitting to them fooling around but claiming that he "forced" her. In her mind she can do no wrong, and it is literally impossible for her to take responsibility for her actions. This is where trickle-truth comes from. She can't logically justify her actions, only emotionally. It isn't something that is done intentionally, it is just how women are wired.
spoetnick 10y ago
Thanks again man. A lot of old info but put in a realistic situation for me. Helps me a lot. Putting the trickle truth in perspective. Lets hope I will spot it when it happens to me.
The black knighting part is golden. Something so devious wouldn't even enter my mind unless I was actively trying to fuck with someone. Great stuff. You take control and show her that there is no way out. Take the role of the SJW and see how it plays out. Loving it.
Great lessons here. Saving this thread and will definitely read up upon again.
BlackHeart89 10y ago
This whole situation sounds crazy to me. I'm trying to figure out why she even told you all that when she could handle it herself. Also, why does she have his phone number???
And then the shit talking he was doing over texts just to back down in the end. Why??? Then he texts you later saying that she said she would fuck everybody if you slip up... Wtf is that suppose to mean? Does that sound like something she would say/do?
Man. Honestly, you might be dating a slut bucket who is also an attention whore. Not saying she is. Just saying that she might be.
But to answer your question, yes. You handled it wrong. You should have just laughed the whole thing off and let her handle it. If dude actually starts touching or getting in her personal space or following her, then thats when you step in. Even then, I wouldn't risk catching a charge for a chick. As soon as you whoop his ass and go to jail and catch a charge, she'll break up with you 6 months down the line because, "you two aren't a good fit". But you'll have that charge for life. I would only consider stepping in after she exhausted all of her other options. Tell supervisor, school officials, cops, use mace, tell him off, walk off and ignore him, etc.
yoyoz69 10y ago
Some shits not adding up.
If he isn't sure who it is/was, how does he know she's in a relationship?
You fucked up by getting involved period.
If she was truly bothered, she could file sexual harassment (you say it's at work on campus)
If she does nothing/lets it be, she likes the attention and you should dump her.
The_Procrasturbater 10y ago
She told me that she informed him that she has a bf and that she was asked other questions by him . He seemed shocked that I actually showed up , I'm assuming he was scared so he made excuses
yoyoz69 10y ago
As in... "lol stop, you're so bad ;)" informing him or a stern get the fuck away from me?
This isn't the first and it won't be the last douche to hit on your GF.
This is not your place, she needs to shut that shit down immediately or you leave her.
Stayinghereforreal 10y ago
She needs to report his conduct to her supervisor at work, and then consider a restraining order if he ever does anything similar ever again.
You need to stop it with the Captain America crap. This is her issue to resolve via the obvious and readily available remedies of reporting his over-the-top antics. If she is not going to do that, she is not LTR material.
RedPillAccount69 10y ago
The chance that this actually happened is near zero. He probably asked her out for a drink or something.
Stayinghereforreal 10y ago
Fair enough.
floppymammarygland 10y ago
The bigger point here is that you completely fell into her drama trap. Can you imagine the tingles she got from all of that?
You lowered your value and are with a drama queen.
Bounce and make sure not to associate with women like this in the future.
jons_throwaway 10y ago
Well that wss definitely an alpha display.
Find out about the texts if possible. Ask for proof from him.
GC0W30 10y ago
Why would the other guy bother wasting time on responding?
RedPillAccount69 10y ago
Nothing Alpha at all about getting worked up about a girls bullshit test.
And let's say the guy is hitting on her, so what?
That is one of my complaints with certain guys who claim to be Alpha. They sure get awfully worked up about people hitting on their women.
That's called insecurity, and there is nothing Alpha about it.
jons_throwaway 10y ago
The only thing alpha was him establishing dominance over the other guy. That's all I meant.
RedPillAccount69 10y ago
I don't know man, at my local bar this is the fat fuck (but big, strong guy) who drives a super large Ford 350 despite being sued by everyone.
There was this chick at the local bar that all of us have know a long time and plowed multiple times.
He started dating her. Well, being the small-dicked prick that he is he was always super jealous and any time he even heard that one of us would talk to her he would send threatening messages, occasionally call, etc. And not even for hitting on her, just "hello".
I'll bet he thought he established dominance over all of us. In reality he was just a laughing stock.
jons_throwaway 10y ago
Touche my good man Touche