If you were to try to put yourself on a 10 point scale, how would you go about assessing it? For example, it seems like things like tattoos can turn a boring dude into an attractive dude.
I'm not really interested in running out and getting inked so I can get laid. But, for my own benefit, I would like to have a way of measuring my progress as I try to lose weight, lift, and dress better.
Any thoughts?
sir_wankalot_here 11y ago
No you just turn into a loser with tats.
bicepsblastingstud 11y ago
:(
Meglomaniac 11y ago
Wow, TRP really needs to get over the whole "suits and ties, clean cut is best" attitude.
Different strokes for different folks. I can rock leather, bandanas, tattoos, and still earn 100k a year doing something other then IT.
It depends on your style to be honest and where you are going to spend your time. I switched from collared shirts and nice pants, to a leather jacket and a bandana and I saw my results skyrocket.
sir_wankalot_here 11y ago
Maybe it came out the wrong way. The motivation for getting tats was the same as why fat ugly chicks get tramp stamps.
Agreed
IT isn't all that it is cracked up to be. Jobs like welder, mechanic, chef etc have the advantage you don't need to spend a massive amount to get your education and they pay well. They are also jobs which are more difficult to automate and require a lot of skill so they are actually more stable then IT.
If you are a mechanic or a welder you might be overweight, but there is no way you could be the male version of a land whale. So most likely OP does not have a blue collar trade :-)
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Meglomaniac 11y ago
That I would agree too.
third-eye-brown 11y ago
No one said that. RP certainly doesn't advocate anything like "stay the same mentally, get clean cut, wear a suit, and bitches will flock to you!"
It's about inner game. Get a tat, sure. But that's not going to fix your mentality.
Meglomaniac 11y ago
there is a huge conservative side to TRP that basically implies if your not clean, clean cut, jock man, no one will ever come near you. Fix your life!
People are different, nothing wrong with rocking out and partying.
third-eye-brown 11y ago
I never got that idea. I agree though, that's idiotic. The places I've lived, girls love burly dudes with beards and tats.
leredditarmy5000 11y ago
Bandana is one step from fedora
Meglomaniac 11y ago
Not if you actually know how to rock it with style.
Im 6'6" 280lbs, built like a tank, bouncer my entire life, and i look good wearing a leather jacket and a bandana. Girls were all over me.
If I was a pasty white computer programmer who was 5'4" and 130lbs, it wouldnt look good.
That is what style is all about.
indyclone 11y ago
100k/yr bouncing? Damn
Meglomaniac 11y ago
If i was working downtown I could easily earn 1k a night 2-4times a week.
That being said, that isnt what I meant by earning 100k a year. Its that style != money.
HahahahaWaitWhat 11y ago
Post on Tinder.
etcomro 11y ago
Does the scale say something more or less than it did two weeks ago? Am I going the direction I want to?
Does the tape measure say more or less than it did two weeks ago? Am I going the direction I want to?
Base it off acheiving your personal goals and not the arbitrary judgment of others.
masterrod 11y ago
you can't.. that's for model shoots and magazines.. And even those determined by the ad..
TheMightyAnusFlap 11y ago
Lol bro looks don't matter. Women just want game especially the hot ones. Most people would say I am a 4 at best and since swallowing trp it's become ridiculously easy for me to game 9s and 8s. Honestly, really hot women get approached so rarely that they respect a guy who even speaks to them. All it takes to fuck a 9 is confidence. Just look at all the gross 80 year old dudes dating models. They don't worry about lifting and how they look
OneTouchHowMuch 11y ago
This is exactly the post I would expect from a person with your username.
Well trolled.
redpillbanana 11y ago
Pure physical appearance?
Back in the day, you could just upload a few photos to Hotornot.com and get some quick feedback.
Reddit has /r/Rateme and related subs but I don't know how good they are.
Tinder might be the best modern equivalent to Hotornot.com. Create a new Facebook account with just your photos, upload to Tinder, and then swipe every girl in your area and see what your response rate is.
Tattoos/piercings: I'm not a fan of them, and a lot of folks in TRP don't like them, but the truth is that many women are inexplicably drawn to them. I've seen my friends use "do you want to see my tattoos/nipple ring?" as a pickup line. They seem to be in vogue these days. That being said, there's no way I would permanently alter myself like that just to attract women.
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/r/rateme isn't that good. At least, subtrat 2 points from whatever they give you.
[deleted] 11y ago
/r/rateme is good
also /r/amiugly
KyfhoMyoba 11y ago
Go to hotornot.com and post a pic. Random people will rate your appearance on a 1-10 scale. There are other sites that will 'rate my picture' search for them. Average the results. Learn. Improve.
Casual_Tits 11y ago
Facial symmetry.
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And proportions (golden ratio).
There's a video about how tom cruise (and many other actors/models) have faces that adhere to the golden ratio. I can't find it now, but you can give it a shot...
https://www.google.com/search?q=golden+ratio+face&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS524US524&oq=golden+ratio+face&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.2008j0j7&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=119&ie=UTF-8#q=golden+ratio+face&safe=off&tbm=vid
teeelo 11y ago
I cant watch this video right now, but the funny thing about Tom Cruise was for years and years his top front row of teeth were waaay off center. Its crazy when you notice it and how no one really realized it.
Stayinghereforreal 11y ago
When I was younger, I would have said, "How attractive are the women who hit on you? Women tend to try and trade up, so those gals are typically on a lower level. That will give you a sense of things."
But looking back on things, that would mean that around 90% of guys would have no clue, because gals only hit on the top tier of men.
648262 11y ago
Like everything on Tinder. Get 500 matches. Do an average 1-10 of those. That is basically your number as well.
GunsGermsAndSteel 11y ago
To answer the question- we are men, so to gauge your attractiveness, take whatever number you think you are (let's say 8) and drop it two points. We're egotistical and vain to some degree, and we usually find ourselves far more attractive than others find us.
Rigorous honesty is the key here.
GunsGermsAndSteel 11y ago
I am medium. I would say I am a 5 based soley on appearance.
But also, I have a loud/big motorcycle, and I know how to ride it well. I have a beard that is not patchy and wimpy, and I am covered in tattoos.
I think that those things add, at most, two points- bringing me to a seven on my best day.
If I were to lose 20 pounds and dress better, I could stay on that seven all the time. The thing is, I don't really care enough to do it and I love eating too much food, so I do that instead of staying in better shape.
I am married and still get lots of sexin', and I get some interest from women (they get rejected quickly, though) so I suppose I should take that as an indication that I am at least slightly above average.
Humble_harpdarp 11y ago
If you're attractive, you'll know. Leaving it at that.
PlebDestroyer 11y ago
But how can you be sure? I find myself incredibly attractive when I look in the mirror. But I think I have severe narcissism problems or something.
Humble_harpdarp 11y ago
That is how you can be sure. If you're attractive people will tell you.
robesta 11y ago
I think you can typically say this for men, but a lot of women over/under value their own attractiveness.
bicepsblastingstud 11y ago
No, they know too. They might trumpet "I'm beautiful the way I am", but the very fact that they add "the way I am" is revealing.
robesta 11y ago
Disagree. This happens a lot when high value dudes slum it with 5s and 6s for easy pussy. The chicks start to think they're hot enough to lock down a dude like that. It's why the cock carousel exists.
bicepsblastingstud 11y ago
That's a valid point. That definitely does happen, yeah.
this-is-my-work-acct 11y ago
Roissy has a good test for this:
Dating Market Value Test for Men
byronshadow 11y ago
Good traits: Oval face, strong jawline, thick glossy hair, facial symmetry, tall, muscle definition, erect posture, even white teeth.
(Of course, your attitude and charisma make or break you. There are short bald guys with game and tall handsome betamaxes.)
Hyooge 11y ago
This is something that you need other people's opinion on because a lot of men overate their attractiveness, but to do this you don't just go asking people how attractive they think you are because this displays you wanting validation which is not attractive.
How do women treat you? Unless you're naive and fail to see IOI's you can gauge how attractive you are by how women react to you and treat you.
Do girls want to get to know you when they meet you? Do they show immediate interest before getting to know you? You can immediately qualify (and bed) yourself to a new girl just by looking good and acting fast.
Do they escalate by flirting and/or touching? Girls almost never do this unless you're either attractive to them or their pet.
Do you get daily looks from women and men in the street? Ugly people go unnoticed so if eyes fall on you time and again you can be sure it's because they like how you look.
What can you get away with? The better looking you are the more cheeky and cocky you can be.
secret_barber 11y ago
Better question is what can you DO to be physically attractive.
Dress for your body type. If you don't have fashionable friends that can advise you, enlist the help of in-store sales people. Go to a higher end department store (Macy's is great for this) and ask for help in selecting properly fitting clothes. You don't have to buy shit from them, but it would be nice of you since they typically work off commission. Biggest tip here, don't be scared of (what may initially feel like) tight fitting clothes. A proper fit should show your shape. Trust this looks much better than billowy shirts and baggy pants.
Shiny shoes always win. Bitch may try to tease you for over dressing, but they fucking love it.
Get a proper hair cut, in a salon, by a stylist. Tell them your goals, not the hair cut you want. Let them work their magic.
Be clean. Wash yourself, brush your teeth and smell nice. Don't use cologne.
Finally, lose fat, gain muscle.
All this will bring confidence and CONFIDENCE IS KEY.
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secret_barber 11y ago
I don't ever wear it, but that's a personal preference, for certain. If you're into wearing cologne, wear very little - no one should be able to smell it on you, just walking by.
CruiseCruise 11y ago
There's a video on youtube called I think "natural instinct manifesto" or something.
Really watch it and internalize it. It's really good.
the point is you're a man. women find masculinity energy attractive. Get in touch with your masculinity, enjoy your own basic energy as a man, get out of its way, do the shit that you want to do (like get strong and look good) because you naturally want to do that shit. Stop doing the anti-masculine shit that's unnatural anyway and which women are repulsed by. AND learn how to arouse women when you interact with them. That's really a powerful formula.
The the trick is knowing and trusting that masculinity just IS what women want. And that this is what you naturally are. It's then a matter of relating to your masculinity, and then getting comfortable using this energy to arouse women. This is what really matters.
My point is--yes, do the self improvement stuff. Build your body and your wardrobe. But i found that a shift in thinking from "attraction" to "arousal" was very effective for me.
You know what, just watch the video. personally, I think it's great and will actually help you get what you want. Cant recommend enough.
Here's the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pStv5PyANyI
AFPJ 11y ago
Height, facial symmetry. Sign up for HOT or NOT or OkCupid or whatever stupid shit kids do these days.
The above should get you an objective ballpark, but you should be focusing on improving - not measuring.
thepillwastaken 11y ago
Here's my thoughts -
Don't fucking rate yourself. That's stupid. Just find a style that you feel comfortable and confident with. Take care of yourself. Eat right and carry yourself like a man.
Men don't give a shit what they are rated on a scale.
MrEiffel 11y ago
It's called a mirror
gabilromariz 11y ago
You can try the chateau test for smv for men online: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-men/
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Is there one for women too?
gabilromariz 11y ago
Yep, there's a link for both on the banner at the top of the website. I like to take it periodically to make sure I'm not slacking off
GreatWalker 11y ago
Strong Chin, facial hair, hairline, facial symmetry, height, fat, muscularity.
Average all those together and determine if your hot. If you have all those, you're at least an 8.
R_E_D_1 11y ago
Pick the hottest girl in the room and introduce yourself. If she continues conversation unprompted, you're hot. If not, you've got work to do.