Everybody has quotes/phrases that will stay with them forever. What are the most significant pieces of advice that impacted you the most?
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SkorchZang 9y ago
Never chase after a bitch.
penguin_says_slide 9y ago
If life gives you lemons, make life take the lemons back.
IoSonCalaf 9y ago
If life gives you lemons make chocolate cake and leave bitches wondering how you did it.
speed3_freak 9y ago
Watch out for lemon stealing whores
SheepKing 9y ago
"Girls are all little girls"
MgFeSi 9y ago
Never stop reading.
Hollyw0od 9y ago
Dont complain about your problems. 80% of people don't care and 20% are glad you have them.
animalpoo 9y ago
Inflict pain upon yourself, it's inevitable. Develop resistance
iteal 9y ago
A warrior doesn't seek pain, but if pain comes, he uses it.
peoplearejustpeople9 9y ago
Yes. I relate so much to this. I hate people who complain at the slightest discomfort l, especially when it's something physically active.
favours_of_the_moon 9y ago
You have to test yourself. That's not pain per se, but you have to overcome resistance in order to become stronger.
iteal 9y ago
Exactly, but to purposely inflict physical pain is just self-harm, and no, muscle soreness after workout is not self-inflicted pain ;)
RedCrayonWizard 9y ago
Fall seven times and stand up eight.
Never quit just because it's difficult.
DickHeadSummationGuy 9y ago
Jerk off before making any sex-related decision that you're already taking heed against. Chances are, you're thinking with your hormones and not your brain.
Treat everyone like a child...essentially, we're all just children who grew physically. Our motives and responses are the same as when we were young, we're just less vocal about them.
CliffordTheBigRedPil 9y ago
Don't sweat the small stuff
It's all small stuff
Mucl 9y ago
Don't sweat the petty things and don't pet the sweaty things.
LaV-Man 9y ago
A person is smart, people are dumb.
Merwebb 9y ago
animalpoo 9y ago
That and always have a wank before making a tough decision.
[deleted] 9y ago
Quite undervalued advice, I really wish I'd followed this advice before making relationship decisions. Ended up in the wrong city studying the wrong subject due to following my dick.
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Dronitto 9y ago
Are you me? How you ended up? Any advice?
MuchAdoAboutNada 9y ago
Fuck dude... It's weird knowing that the world is basically controlled by dopamine
peoplearejustpeople9 9y ago
Holy shit.
flatox 9y ago
Put yourself first always, ain't nobody else who's gonna do it for you.
[deleted] 9y ago
Most solid advice I've ever received.
iseelivingpeople 9y ago
Nobody wants to hear your fucking problems. Man up and do your shit.
alreadyredschool 9y ago
Never pass the buck.
TRPMackDaddy 9y ago
Practice
micky2D 9y ago
Always remember that you have the ability to walk away.
snowclimber 9y ago
Acceptance is the secret to peace of mind
Ambiguousdude 9y ago
It's possible to fully understand someone and anticipate them by looking at their parents.
Bwood56 9y ago
Not always true. Bad parents can inspire a child to be everything they wish they were
Ambiguousdude 9y ago
"Not always true. Bad parents can inspire a child..." You just said what I said
I never said parents solely create similarly thinking children. It means they are the cause of their children's thinking.
iteal 9y ago
"Life is not suffering; it’s just that you will suffer it, rather than enjoy it, until you let go of your mind’s attachments and just go for the ride freely, no matter what happens."
While this is not a phrase I repeat everyday, it was something that opened my eyes and led me on a new way of life.
Bwood56 9y ago
That reminds me of a personal favorite "Man cannot recreate himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor"
iteal 9y ago
I don't think this is what this means... I think we shouldn't suffer at all in our journey, it is just that our minds are so attached and maybe addicted to pain, whether it is emotional or physical.
Imnsho it is our choice whether we suffer from pain or just accept it and go on with our lives. Pain is inevitable, but whether I will suffer from it or not is MY choice.
LaV-Man 9y ago
Years go by fast, it's the days that take forever.
Gouden_Eeuw 9y ago
Rather die like a man, than live like a coward.
E2DsIE 9y ago
spend your entire life asking questions, make your lifes pursuit answering them
rokr1292 9y ago
Always ask. the worst thing that can happen is they say no.
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[deleted] 9y ago
seems harmless, but this quote actually implies women are the prize (vice success)
shy guys never get the prettiest medal sends a better message
CharlesSaubis 9y ago
AKA "Faint heart never won fair maid."
blackhornatnight 9y ago
Not true. I've been the shy guy practically my whole life. I still fucked pretty girls, just not enough of them.
Diabolo_Advocato 9y ago
"Don't compete for attention, but work for affection"
I'm not about to spend an arm and a leg trying to convince some twat to sleep with me. I will give a woman attention and validation that is readily accepting it and reciprocates.
CruiseCruise 9y ago
There's no reason you're not enough.
Think about it, argue with it, eventually resolve it's already true. Based on that, you can build a life and your relationships.
Really look into that statement. See if it's true or not. Most of your misery and dumb choices have to do with not thinking you're enough. And most of your positive stuff that feels good... you arent actively doubting whether you're enough.
billthane 9y ago
Getting old is like being in a shower that's going cold. You feel it getting colder, and you turn the tap hoping for it to warm up. But in your heart you know that the heat's running out, and there's nothing you can do. As you struggle to finish washing, you can only wish that you'd done more while the water was hot.
night-addict 9y ago
Thanks for the existential crisis... Jesus
DreamBoatGuy25 9y ago
Jesus Christ that's depressing.
egodidactus 9y ago
But I like taking cold showers.
BrutusVeritas 9y ago
He who hesitates is lost.
i_just_had_pizza 9y ago
Don't be a pussy
alpha_n3rd 9y ago
Be fit.
Wish I'd listened earlier.
erniesmoove 9y ago
As this guy said:
Dont be a pussy
Danedina 9y ago
Write it down
Sepean 9y ago
Read the sidebar
insane_ramblings 9y ago
I did technical theatre in high school and the director was a two time cancer survivor, a prima ballerina, and just a hard core badass. My school had just built a new theatre and only people over 16 were allowed in the catwalks above the stage. At the time I was the only person above 16 and within walking distance of the school so I would be the student their early to do final adjustments.
We were setting up for some prestigious youth male choir. I think it might have been the vienna boys choir but i dont remember. Either way I got there an hour and a half before school started to do final adjustments on the mikes while the director was off doing stuff. AN hour into all sorts of petty, ridiculous adjustments he showed up to check on me. He asked me how it was going and I told him that wed been making tiny tweeks for an hour and should be done soon. He shut the sound proof window and muted the mike I'd been using to talk to the conductor. Then he said "IR, I'm going to teach you a very important lesson today." He unmuted the mike and said to the conductor "I'm here now. Let's wrap this up" The conductor asked him to raise the level of some mike and jean looked at me and said "watch. I count to ten and we don't touch anything" Then he said over the mikes "Okay is that better" The conductor said yes sounds good and we were finished. Jean saif "you see IR, everyone is full of shit."
BrunoOh 9y ago
If you have to make a difficult decision, go for the option that'll make the best story.
Ballosaurus 9y ago
Nothing helps you forget about old pussy like new pussy.
balalasaurus 9y ago
Never half ass two things. Whole ass one thing.
fnordsnord 9y ago
"There ain't nuthin' one of 'em is sittin' on that you can't get from another one." - My Mama.
Yep. My MOM said that.
Dad, on the other hand, said, "There are few things a man can do to improve his marriage more than finding a good toe-hold (in the bed)."
BonezJumpington 9y ago
Don't shit where you eat.
TattedGuyser 9y ago
haha I got a recent story about this and it's a fantastic one. Company I work at started our fairly small so another developer and I head to the pubs every so often and have begun to be somewhat friends. Back in October the company had decided to start growing a bit, so of course that means new staff and with that a pretty little brunette named Casey. Well Casey is a solid 7 in a room of dudes and a couple of older women, so she took to the attention nicely and it greatly inflated her ego. My friend and I laughed and joked about her ego trip and her being the only pretty one and I always jokingly warned him that 'Never bother even having thoughts about her, because you never shit where you eat'. He laughed and agreed.
Fast forward 4 months and Caseys breaks up with her bf. Now this chick has never been alone more then 5 minutes, so she becomes a very big flirt in the office. We talk semi-frequently and she tells me she has feelings for my friend and another guy in the office. I laugh and play along because it's always funnier to hear the grimey details. Next time I'm out with my friend I mention this to him and he laughs and tells me he's been sleeping with her for the last 2 weeks.
That dumb motherfucker. Well I kept my mouth mostly shut and watched the Chaos unravel from afar. Took 2 1/2 weeks, but it turns out Casey decided to become very attached, showing up at his place at 2 am screaming for him to come outside, waiting for him in the morning to leave for work, driving him from work so he can't go anywheres else... the whole fucking package. So he ends it and she goes ballistic, blowing up his phone and wondering where he is, starts stalking him. So lately I've just been laughing at him at work. The icing? They sit next to each other at work. Hahahaha, lessons learned I guess.
night-addict 9y ago
OK, two things.
Please could you post this as an FR to the main sub. I reckon a lot of people would find it valuable.
TattedGuyser 9y ago
I'll post a FR once the whole ordeal has summed up a bit more, it's still very ongoing and a daily dose of entertainment.
As for the psychology, I think it's just her fear of being alone. coworker is very far from being an alpha, he's 21, 120lbs soaken went and is very 'skater boy'. He's very handsome though, but cant talk to women to save his life and he relies on them hitting on him and making the first move.
Overall I think this is a unique case outside of Alpha widowing, this woman just loves her attention from the men she beds and drools over her own friends bf's. She spent a few months in another country, kept 'friends' through tinder (is still in contact with some) and brought home a guy for a few months here.. It was quite the situation. I could write pages about this chick and how insane she is, including stories from just last night.
night-addict 9y ago
Huh. Well I guess a regular Chad would have the foresight and frame to ditch her at the first sign of clinginess, as I imagine plenty have...
DreamBoatGuy25 9y ago
Probably my favorite:
“Everyone must choose one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret.”
punch_drunk_squirrel 9y ago
Do better.
skiier23 9y ago
in no particular order:
"women want what they cant have and once they have it they dont want it anymore."
rich people get rich by saving not by spending"
("spending" refers to buying crap/status symbols. obviously it is important to invest and use your money for capital at the appropriate moments).
just found this one...get ready for a mindfuck..."the true definition of hell is your last day on earth the person you became meets the person you could've become."
"do or do not there is no try" - yoda. yeah, i know its from a fucking puppet but that's some real shit.
probs more but im done
AnotherAmen 9y ago
Nothing ever came from a simple life.
Johnny10toes 9y ago
Make a decision.
Red or blue? Blue. Toast or Biscuit? Neither. Table or booth? Table. Where do you want to go? Doesn't matter... Just kidding, make a fucking decision. Even group decisions. The other day we went to eat as a group of guys and when we entered the chick asks if we want inside or outside. They all stand with their thumbs up their asses not wanting to offend anyone for the wrong choice. "Inside." It was about to rain and even though the outside is covered, I don't want to sit in that shit.
EwokPenguin 9y ago
No body cares about your weakness
synaesthetic 9y ago
It's never too late to become what you might have been.
AZTRP 9y ago
There's strength in consistency.
[deleted] 9y ago
This one should be higher. It's difficult to realize that change doesn't happen over a few hours of reading TRP. To make meaningful change, you have to be consistently working towards your goals for months, years, and even decades.
Being motivated is useless if you don't have consistency and discipline.
herpes_delivery_man 9y ago
Stop being a pussy.
TheDon835 9y ago
You can do anything you put your mind to.
fakeAk 9y ago
Chemistry teacher once told me that every single thing has it bad and good side. It really stuck with me for w/e reason.