Life is a mediocre play with a bad ending in the 3rd act. The point is not to worry about where you are at the point of death, but to be happy with the way you lived your life.

Put another way, it's not to never take chances and arrive with a decent looking corpse, but to slide in brakes squealing, tires smoking and thinking "Damn, that was a helluva ride!"

If you want to have a family and kids, then have a family of kids. Just find a RP Woman to do it with, so you don't wind up divorce-raped and paying an ex-wife to fuck other guys and teach your kids to hate you.

The reality is, if you play your cards right, you should be able to pull quality women at any age. Stop worrying about end game, and make sure you're doing what you want, so you don't look back and say "I wish I had....[whatever you really wanted to do but didn't.]"

For me it is to give back to society, either through teaching or by doing volunteer work.

[FR] I've been dead. Important point - while it is comforting to have people who care about you leading up to the end, at the very end, you become completely self-focused. They no longer matter.

In short - we all die alone.

Shot to death by a jealous Beta at age 84?

More seriously, I think a lot of men will find that plate spinning becomes tiresome, and might find value in companionate love later in life.

Spin plates

If you spent your 20s and 30s building your empire like you're supposed to, then this stuff takes care of itself.

One extreme example is Hugh Hefner. Dude is old as can be and he's still banging out HOT 20 & 30 somethings like nobody's business.

Instructions for after retirement:

1: smoke weed

2: play video games

3: go fishing

I play golf with some guys in their 50s and they are all very successful business owners who have been divorced. That have all told me that they "finally" found a real woman in their 50s that they really like. It's like a theme.

From my experience in seeing my parents, and others - your 50s are a golden time.

My point is this - take your time. Unless you want kids. And even then, take your time, because kids with the wrong woman are extremely expensive.

Man, you can have a LTR while holding frame and being aware of trp ideology. Nothing is wrong with that.

After having established a community in which my children can thrive, and theirs too, I would enjoy my retirement. Spend some time teaching them, maintaining the community (through trade skills), exploring hobbies, and occasionally travelling to experience other parts of the world (possibly for the second or third time).

Biologically, it is instilling redpill in your future children.

For me though, the end game for me is retiring early to get out of the rat-race of working. Travelling the world and enjoying life with the ones you love.

Having a family doesn't guarantee that you won't be alone. All sorts of things can happen to prevent your family from being there with you in old age. In the end, most people die alone anyway, even if they have a family.

Additionally, there's options if you do want to go the family route but want to keep from getting screwed by the system. You can adopt children as a single Dad and you won't ever have to worry about your spouse taking them from you. You can get married/LTR when you're old and retired (less chance of divorce) if you want some permanent company.

More importantly though, what's wrong with being alone?

You're asking the wrong questions..

If you were lead through your entire life to your purpose in life, and it ended up without a family, then you should be satisfied. Unless of you failed to fulfill your purpose.

If you have a family and it is in service of your purpose, you win. The problem is when your family alone is your purpose.

Whatever you want. There are no Red Pill designated paths to walk in life.

There is just information about how the world works for you to use however you decide.

What do you want out of life? That's the real question.

I'm a year older. Im building my life for me now, two grown daughters, and I enjoy fucking girls half my age. I have plans for my future, and they don't include some bitch living with me. They can come visit, get fucked, but they gotta go home after I'm done. There are no more kids in my future, I made sure of that.

My future is building cars, street rods, muscle cars, drag machines, corner varving auto cross rides that will spill gray matter out your ear in a turn. Making fuel for them is another part. Having fun with my Siberian Huskies and giving them a huge yard to play in. Traveling the world is on the list, I want to go back to Germany, roll through eastern Europe and bag more thin young sluts when I'm not doing more important shit.

I'm doing what the fuck I want, when I want, and no females will be telling me no. That shit never worked before, it's sure as hell not working now.

The end goal is different for everyone, what you have to ask yourself is "Did i live a happy life? Was there something i'd wish i would have done? Once those questions are answered, then you have perhaps reached the end goal

"with a belly full of wine and a maiden's mouth around my cock, at the age of eighty”

Personally I would not get married, but that's my choice, I have gone over the statistics and probabilities. To sign a marriage certificate is to sign a legal document that transfers ownership of your male ability to the woman you marry, by male ability I mean the male capacity to acquire resources women can not such as protection, provision, labor, practical, logical and intellectual prowess, physical superiority and athletic ability, male authority and dominance, courage and competition, risk taking and most importantly commitment. You sign away all your power as a man and give it to the woman, and the woman gets a lawful guarantee that your male ability is now hers to control. What you get is the hope for sex and progeny, neither of which is guaranteed by social expectation or law, you have no rights as a husband at all. It doesn't pay to raise a family in a westernized country, not for a man anyway.

Should the woman decide to divorce you or you her, then you are liable for her standard of living until she marries again, if you discover that your kids are not yours you are liable, in some countries and american states if the woman can prove that you have in some vague way represented a father figure in a kids life for a few weeks regardless of your relationship with the kid or the mother you are liable, if you divorce with kids the mother gets custody by default regardless of her fitness as a parent and you are liable for all costs involved, if you choose to fight her in the biased family court system you are liable for all costs including her personal legal costs.

If you get married to any woman in this liberal day and age YOU WILLINGLY SCREW YOURSELF. There are thousands of putrid male corpses walking the streets, shadows of their former selves, they dreamed of ideological white picket fences, apple and kids. Their dreams were infiltrated and used as a means to fatten western civilization at the expense of these men, men who built, fought and bled for their countries.

Our western civilization is extremely hostile toward men, and that won't change in our lifetimes.

You are probably aware of what I've just been rambling incoherently about, you are well aware of the risks. The information available on the parent sub reddit is as amoral as a hammer, it is am empowering tool to be used which ever way you deem fit, the information is not there to tell you what you should do, or what is right or wrong, it is there to enlighten you. It is up to you to do what you feel is best for you.

I found my unicorn at 33. We will never married but we have kids and she's awesome at keeping my stomach full and my balls empty.

48, never married, no kids. Filling my life with music making (band & solo), writing books and doing whatever floats my boat. Guys much younger than me with families sometimes envy me for my freedom. I can do things they are never allowed to do. Sometimes, however, I look back at guys with families with envy, too. Is this it, I ask myself, when I'm gone, who will remember me?

I've been reading RP since it was new, and PU since before that. For a long, long time. I still suck at game, because I don't care enough anymore. Guess I got stuck in the anger phase long ago, never got out of it again.

EDIT: I often times ask myself the same question that you asked here. I have no answer.

I'm married with kids and turned to red pill.

If I had to do my life over with TRP knowledge, I'd spin plates in my 20s, begin looking for a long term partner to have kids with in my 30s, and the most awesome girl I found I'd settle down with, have kids with and do the whole nuclear family thing over the next 20 years or so.

Who knows what happens after that. Love is a real feeling, after all. You can feel love for a woman and not go oneitis or put her on a piedestal. Right now, I have a sexy, kinky, fit wife; the upside from that to fucking a few younger plates isn't worth the great downside of my kids not being in my life every day and them growing up in a divorced family.

And not having kids at all, that's not who I am.

With TRP I would have had more fun in my younger years and my legal setup would have been different, but I think I'd still be pretty much where I am right now.

Sylvester Stallone is 70 this year. He is still in great shape and might be fucking 20-year-olds. Certainly 40-year-olds.

Silvio Berlusconi is 78 and still spinning 20-40-yearold plates.

Anyhow, the goal is not to get married. Not to not have kids. If you can find a woman or 5 to have your kids without marriage (yes, you should raise them, or they'll be brought up by a single mother, which is not good for the kids), that's the goal.

Look up Erikson's psychosocial stages. You are biologically built to be worrying about this stuff and trying to do what you should evolutionarily be doing. Most people are following their biological roles. You don't have to let your subconscious drives control you. You can choose what to do.