Im almost 30 years old. I dont really have any life goals or something i'm truly passionate about. I'm not sure if i want to have a family someday. I have low motivation. very few things really excite me anymore. life feels meaningless. do you have any ideas? any books that you reccomend?
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Daddytoyou92 7y ago
Become a gym rat, make it your goal to be bigger than everyone
knowledgeseeker999 7y ago
I already go the time often, alot of the time i really don't want to go but i force myself.
BigFeetBigDick 7y ago
Lmao stfu. I truly doubt people who make such comments actually go to the gym themselves. That’s a bad goal, and unrealistic too.
russian-jewboi 7y ago
Speak for yourself bro. The gym is the only way I can get the asshole in my head to stop talking. On days I don’t go, I feel like absolute shit. It’s turned into my church, and I absolutely love it.
BigFeetBigDick 7y ago
What’s that have to do with what we were talking about, though? I never said don’t go to the gym...
russian-jewboi 7y ago
I became a gym rat because I felt like I had no purpose in life. The original comment said become a gym rat.
BigFeetBigDick 7y ago
Lots of people consider going to the gym3-5 times a week “gymratting”, but that’s keeping up with your health and testosterone, that’s awesome. That is what you should do. But if you’re legit tryna be the biggest and just spend 2-3 hrs every day in the gym and sit in your house all day eating tryna hit the 1000 calorie surplus and all the macros, then that’s not a productive waste of your time. Like you said, you should go to the gym because it makes you feel good. You’d be shit without it. But don’t make it such a big part of your identity and goals unless you want to be a full blown body builder, compete and make money off it. If you feel like you have no purpose in life you should still go to the gym (always should), but what you really need is hobbies and meeting new ppl. Go to the gym to support doing actually awesome things.
russian-jewboi 7y ago
Yeah that pretty much describes me. It’s a huge part of my life now, but it’s not the end all be all.
BigFeetBigDick 7y ago
Do you lift and are healthy? Sounds like low testosterone to me.
knowledgeseeker999 7y ago
yeah, I lift often but i don't do much cardio. Also i could eat healthier.
BigFeetBigDick 7y ago
How are you feeling otherwise? No motivation is often a sign of depression (which is very often caused by low t).
knowledgeseeker999 7y ago
I feel like i have wasted so many years. I have made so many bad decisions. I have so many regrets.
BigFeetBigDick 7y ago
You can’t go back in time man. But you need to start making good decisions if you don’t want to regret it again later. Don’t waste no more years. Get your testosterone levels checked and if they’re low, you know what the problem is. If they’re not, get a therapist. You need to get some hobbies and go out more, if you don’t already.
Tjinsu 7y ago
Start creating goals. Start taking responsibility for your worthless life that you lead now. Right now you're basically dead because you have no plan in place. Until you figure this out, you're gonna be lost for years. Me personally I had passion in things from a young age so maybe I was lucky but I still had to work hard to get to where I wanted to be.
Right now you're only in this position because you let yourself get there, so its time for you to fix it. No one on here or any books can fix your life, only you can. This is really all I can suggest.
mrmaldoror 7y ago
Everyone feels this, good luck.
billybetasnan 7y ago
That's life mate, you just have to attach meaning to things you enjoy.
Emerald__Faith 7y ago
Life is meaningless, literally.
What are you going to do about it?
Trphello 7y ago
god pill