I'm 24 and I look a bit younger for my age (cool by me, looking younger in my 40s/50s yada yada).
Occasionally I'll get ID'd by a barmaid, sales assistant, or my age will come up in conversation and the girl will sometimes mention that I have a 'babyface'.
Does this mean:
'You have an adorable babyface and I'd like to feed you with my big milkers'
Or
'You look like a child and my sexual attraction for you couldn't be lower'
Obviously it's a little context sensitive and I'd usually gauge the overall vibe but what's the general rule of thumb for a comment like this?
TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Good genetics. Congratulations.
BurntYams 5y ago
Shit test
“Yea, I’m gonna stay young and beautiful”
ReformSociety 5y ago
the fuck
kellykebab 5y ago
Twas hilarious
dr_warlock 5y ago
Spotted his problem, and its not his face.
FanaticMind 5y ago
Baby brain too
lvl100life 5y ago
Lighten up lmao
It's a simple question, IOI or IOD?
ReformSociety 5y ago
You're being outcome-dependent on what you think she meant.
Don't give a fuck what it means.
GoyInTheStripedPJs 5y ago
It's a shit test. Ignore all the answers you've gotten so far, this is the real answer:
"༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ gib milkies pls"
Works every time m8 trust me
RedKnightTime 5y ago
Who cares what it means
If the bitch don't like me, something's wrong with the bitch
Alphabetron1 5y ago
I too have the baby face and trust me it is a gift.
Just look at Rob Gronkowski, the poster child for baby faces, and see how it doesn't stop him from banging any girl he wants.
kellykebab 5y ago
What???
Guarantee you this is not what OP looks like. That dude has a classic Chad jaw and is massive. I'm sure he's not worried about his face.
vpjtqwv 5y ago
Lol wtf this guy looks as alpha chad as any man possibly can. What. Yea op looks nothingnlike that. Guaranteed.
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
He looks alpha chad bc of his body but he has no facial hair.
ReformSociety 5y ago
Who cares what it means?
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Agree and amplify:
"I know. I'm going to stay young and handsome as I age."
"Thanks, I'm blessed to have great genes."
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Or ignore and switch topics:
"Thanks. So have you seen that Trump meme?"
Rkingpin 5y ago
You had us until the meme bit
Governor_Humphries 5y ago
This is cringy. You are bragging in a try-hard way, not amplifying. Amplifying means taking things to a ridiculous level and being deadpan about it, thus indirectly calling attention to the stupid premise underlying the original statement that the person made. I'd so with something more like:
Son_of_Gatsby 5y ago
Hell no,
sounds awkward as fuck. Way too overengineered, too
Is actually really funny and something you can come up with on the spot, the thing about all of these A&As is just to get the tone right. How you say these things is way more important than what you say
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
No this is good. That’s funny and sure to make her laugh. Really.
ReformSociety 5y ago
This brings the attention and focus on your baby face again.
Now the girl is thinking whether you're joking or not and is making connections between an 11 y.o. face and your face and is now creeped at the thought of flirting with a child.
discohumpty 5y ago
These are fine. As one with a younger looking face, I usually just low ball my age a simple "I know, I'm only (insert age between 18-21, or a good six years younger). Saying 11 is childish. Make her think for a bit, as their little eyes go darting back and forth sizing you up. Amplifying that much on age, to me, shows it affects you. Just be non chalant and give her deadpan, holding eye contact stare, but with a friendly look on your face.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
I'm over 30 and still get I.D.ed for tobacco :-(
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Lmfao! I stopped getting id for tobacco when I was like 22.
I remember when I was 22 my buddy got id’d for a lighter. He was pissed but I was lmfao!!
antichrist_redpill 5y ago
I have a babyface myself and I am 18 years old so it has an even bigger effect. Your question should be: does a babyface lower your smv?
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I can't tell exactly if that's the case but my experience says yes. You look less masculine and people don't take you as seriously as they should be. Also they unconsciously think you are immature because of the way you look. That doesn't mean you can't have women, I had a gf who looked older than me and I have made out with girls although I have a major babyface and look like 16. I think I will have a much higher smv when I grow a beard and become older.
So the answer is: Don't whine about it but try to improve it. Grow a bear if you can and try out minoxidil. Try to emphasize your workout to become more broad. Start with OHP and focus more on vertical lat exercises.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
When you're young it does, but as you get older (and still look exactly the same) it signals good genetics and that you'll age well into your 50s and 60s.
kellykebab 5y ago
So many dudes in this thread who clearly aren't young-looking. Having a "high T", strong-jawed masculine face is going to be the most attractive male face at any age. Having a less masculine, eternally young-looking "baby face" is just objectively less attractive to women. This nonsense cope shit that this feature which most people find less attractive in your teens, your 20s and your 30s will magically pay off big when you're an old fuck is based on ignorance and wishful thinking.
Should you dwell on looking young and let it beat you down? Of course not. But you shouldn't create this fantasy narrative to give yourself false hope either.
Your advice is like getting dating advice from grown women: "Just be nice and it will all work out." Just obvious feel-good bullshit.
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
I agree, the masculine face is obviously top of the line. As a baby faced 21 year old I was fucking older women. I’m not exaggerating. They were fine as fuck.
Now I’m 28 and I look back at myself then and I think I looked fuckin 12. I don’t see how those women let me fuck them back then. I’ve always lifted but at some points my face was soft af. Now I’m 10% body fat and break necks left and right. I look much more masculine now and attract even hotter women.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
I've gotten IOIs from girls that don't give most guys the time of day, so I'm pretty sure I'm correct. So long as you look around 20s and not teens, it's not a big deal.
kellykebab 5y ago
I see you have a post that suggests you're still a virgin. Is this true? If so, your IOI's are basically irrelevant.
Also, as far as I know, you might be tall. You might have a masculine-looking "young" face. You might be jacked and broad-shouldered. Or you might be misinterpreting these IOIs in the first place.
I've seen no evidence in real life that a young-looking face that's a liability pre-30 magically turns into an advantage post-30. Most guys seem to remain just as attractive, relative to other men, throughout their entire lives. (After puberty obviously, which can significantly alter appearance. And assuming no significant weight gain or poor health.)
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Yes.
This is probably the correct answer.
It's a liability when you're 20 and look 14. It's an advantage when you're approaching your 40s and still look like you did your senior year of college :-)
kellykebab 5y ago
Okay, given that you're a virgin who is probably about 21 and I'm in my mid-30s and have fucked a few dozen women, I'm guessing my perspective is just a bit more accurate than yours.
However, I will grant you that as long as a guy has a highly masculine and symmetrical face, looking a bit young-ish after age 30/35 will be an advantage. But most people who complain about looking young do not have strong-jawed, masculine faces. They just look young.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
LOL way to have it both ways ;-)
kellykebab 5y ago
LOL okay virgin
Just try to think about this in a nuanced fashion:
Both of these claims could be true. The world is not simplistically black and white. The more you read and observe and live, the more you realize this is the case.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Fair enough.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
More like this, but you can make it work for you
Look and act as old as you can, and run with it. It's not a bad thing, but it's impacting you so fix it.
FereallyRed 5y ago
Just enjoy it. It's banter..
I got ID'd into my late 30's.
erzakai 5y ago
say “yeah i do actually, carved it last night”
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
'It lets me get away with a lot of shit'
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Betanorman 5y ago
Having a baby face is not the same as looking young, do you look like a child or a young man?
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
“Yea let me show you my baby dick, it’s tiny!”
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
"I have a manly cock."
masterpiece00 5y ago
Would be a good way to disappoint them, problem with sluts is they have ALWAYS fucked someone double your size.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Not unless she's done donkey porn.
BarackTheObama 5y ago
Only if ur small
masterpiece00 5y ago
Which by average is more than half the people here.
masterpiece00 5y ago
Unfortunately this, I have a babyface and can confirm. It's passive aggressiveness, they don't respect you and are trying to bring you down as you don't look heavy and manly like who they are fucking or like the chads whom are waiting at home etc.
Only problem is if you are having sex in your 40's/50's, it will be with post wall women in their 30's/40's with decades/years on the cock carousel and probably kids/stds.