I don't understand the dynamics of the situation at play here. She's pretty decent (thin, blonde, small, feminine face) and after I dropped her because I got too invested and started going beta she's now fucking a baldheaded, overweight guy with shitty style and a face straight out of ww2 anti-slav propaganda. I know he makes music and that's a chick magnet, but come on. What the fuck. I know he most likely has access to drugs, but so does every other college age guy with half a brain, so I doubt that's the case. On what basis do chicks choose guys when they are trying to get back at you?
I thought she would go for a different guy she has in her group that's around half an inch taller than me, meh slightly above average looking (def. not looksmaxing or nearly as good looking as I am tho), outgoing and we used to have a bit of a rivalry going on so that would be the obvious choice. She used to shit test me by flirting with the second guy, so I just don't get it.
What's the pattern here? The only explanation that comes to mind for me is that the second guy pump&dumped her, but that wouldn't really make sense considering he's going to keep seeing her nearly every day for atleast a couple years of college.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
They'll fuck whoever they think will piss you off the most. They'll get into the next relationship with whoever they think you respect the most to show that they're "respectable."
ChesterRickman 5y ago
Damn, that makes sense. I can see how from her point of view my distance towards the guy could be interpreted as respect. There's only one guy I can think of that would piss me off more, and she would have no chance in hell in getting him to fuck her because he's one of my bros, has a hot gf that's kinda similar looking so no novelty (especially considering he's mostly into arab/mulatto chicks as side pussy), and is so chill of a stoner he wouldn't stand her personality for 10 minutes. If she fucked any other guy from this environment besides the three I mentioned I would laugh her off.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Depends on the emotion they're trying to elicit and the type of girl they are. If she's doing it just to piss you off she'll fuck the guy you have zero respect for. If she's doing it to show you made a mistake in ending the relationship, she'll go for a LTR with someone that she hopes makes you think "Damn I missed out on her."
Cazken 5y ago
Forget about her
youareshandy 5y ago
Yeah, but this is a good question, for those guys who want to be the rebound.
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Cazken 5y ago
How
youareshandy 5y ago
In the perspective of not the OP, but of someone else other than the OP, who is looking for more plates:
You or I could be that guy. So yeah. It's a good question because I want to know the pattern too. Is that overweight, baldheaded guy RP? Is she branch-swinging to someone with more perceived SMV? Or does that principle even apply in this situation?
As OP stated, she got options, so what is she thinking?
RedSkeller 5y ago
You're trying to approach it with a logical standpoint, but you shouldn't approach it at all. She's dead. Your turn ended and no one can predict who a chick is going to bang next, it just had to be someone different. She'll keep ping ponging between dudes, so leave it at that. Can't worry about the fish you catch and release.
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Look at it this way: She was never worth your time and you were a major come up for her if she is now with some sloppy fat fuck.
Either way man, move on. Who cares what she's fucking? Maybe u just short circuited her motherboard and she's lost her damn mind.
Store_Front_Door 5y ago
A few years ago I met up with my Ex LTR 6 months after the break up, she had some papers of mine that I needed, I was completely moved on at this point with absolutely no desire towards her in any way shape or form. Well, she didn't, and tried to get some sort of closure. She basically told me that after the break up she jumped on tinder and matched with every muscular guy she saw (I've been a gym rat for 6 years, so it's kinda hard to top, but there's plenty of guys more ripped than me). I laughed and asked how much do they bench. To which she responded with "I never met them, because none of them was as interesting as you" (which basically translates to I hooked up with people who I thought were better than you, but in reality they weren't). So yeah, they'll jump on whoever has at least one attribute on you, despite the fact that their whole package might be lacking.