Just asking for a friend.
No really, my friend wants to know if this is a good idea or not. I’ve read a draft and can see why they want to send it. They feel hard done by at work, and want to make sure that they show a bit of backbone and not be seen as an easy target. It’s a factual email that gets perhaps a little emotional towards the end. And it’s long, very long.
Best to not send it? Or best to shorten it and make it even more factual?
They are borderline thinking of quitting but they do enjoy their job, and want to do the best job they can do.
MrAgamemnon 5y ago
Your friend is a cunt, and he has had his little cunt feelings broken and now wants to be a big cunt by whining.
When his wife sucks another man's cock, does he write her an emotional letter too?
Life isn't fair.
If he isn't happy with his job, he should walk away (without burning bridges).
throwawayycheyeah 5y ago
No.
Most bosses wont even read that. HR exists for this very reason. Document any harassment or disrespect and let the system work.
Any boss who does read that email will probably hold a grudge or start making moves to get rid of you BEFORE you have a chance to make your case with hr.
FereallyRed 5y ago
Fuck No.
Aptote 5y ago
no
wtf is happening to this sub?
goblinboglin 5y ago
No, lol,
You don't want to come out as a pussy.
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
Yes, he should, so that you can get his job.
alpha-zach 5y ago
How can they enjoy their job and also want to quit.
No. Don’t send a long email. You voice concerns slowly and piece by piece. Otherwise nothing permanent happens.
But if they have a long list of grievances, it’s not likely they will see the changes necessary to warrant staying.
CharlesChadworth 5y ago
Most of the HR will know these managers, area managers or national managers etc. They go out to lunch and sometimes go to clubs/bars etc. I have seen this happen on facebook when I worked in retail a while back. All upper management/HR are bum chums.
More than likely if your 'friend' is lowest on the totem pole, he is fucked. My advice is tell him to apply for another job asap and leave this place without burning bridges.