After staring at the post for just under an hour I'm starting to realize this is as retarded as it looks, I'll just take a bottle of something and see if she wants to drink it together. I'll leave this mess in case someone more clearheaded than me can point out a missed opportunity or BP stupidity I'm missing.
Been seeing a girl for a month, on and off, very casual. Met three times, slept with her the second time and third time after a fun evening with her and her friends.
She invites me over for her/her friend's joint birthday drinks at hers and night out next week. Specifically says she's got friends staying over so I can't stay there. Think it's legit at this point but could be shit test?. I've been acting like a bluepill bitch since the last time I saw her for some reason, but not to her so I could use some guidance from an RP headspace if you have it for me.
Bottom Line I've been invited to a joint birthday drinks/night out with two girls, one of which I've been casually sleeping with. Do I bring a birthday card? A gift? I've slipped into BP overanalyzing whether or not turning up with a card and some candy or cheap flowers or something (for each of them) is coming from a place of good manners or BP neediness creeping in. I did the worst thing and got opinions from others who suggested everything ranging from "take her out for dinner" to "buy her a silver necklace" so having had my stupid answers from stupid people, what do you guys think?
Obviously the first thing that came to mind was a bag of Skittles but I think that might be too hardcore RP lol
Throwaway-242424 5y ago
Just buy her a bottle of wine or spirits like you would for any other acquaintance who invited you to a birthday party at their place.
900_year_old_vampire 5y ago
no
Kingern 5y ago
Concise at least. Maybe just a card? Are you thinking just turn up, or don't go at all?
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Don’t bring a fucking card. You chump. She’s not your grandmother. Bring a bottle of wine, some beer or some booze. Whatever your style is.
900_year_old_vampire 5y ago
its not something id do, but you arent me. if you want to go you should. why on earth would you get her a card
aDrunkenWhaler 5y ago
Buy her sex toys. If you do need to buy a plate a present, always buy her sex toys.
mountainbiker178 5y ago
Skittles
Brethren_Of_Man 5y ago
Put a bow on your member. Send dic pic.
KaiSmashSmashSawmash 5y ago
Get her a copy of roost vs Lady
menial_optimist 5y ago
get her a buttplug and a bottle of decent booze. Let everyone at the party see the buttplug.
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
Nice Chocolate bar or bottle of wine.
Or tell her you saved her present for later when she asks.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Yes. It's her fucking birthday. She's a human, not a dog.