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AtlasCuckd 5y ago
Congrats, you found your mealticket
ppanthero 5y ago
I know, many women like men more successfull than them. But seriously - sometimes guys are just idiots. She makes more? Who cares? Let her buy you nice things if she wants to. Otherwise make it not even a topic in your interactions.
Jack0fDiamonds 5y ago
Marry her and become a sexual monetary parasite.
MakeMenGreatAgain44 5y ago
You make roughly 130,000 a year? Good for you sir.
CocaineOnYourClit 5y ago
You make her into a beckybux
FearGarbhArMait 5y ago
+20 Karma for your name.
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You can give her to me if you want to.
[deleted] 5y ago
if you're making $175,000 a year then her $500,000/yr is just gravy. Lots of gravy, but gravy. But it's not like she's going to give it to you, so why change things up?
Bruchibre 5y ago
What's the problem? "How to handle this?" well nothing special, at least she's not after you for your money :) must be satisfying
thebigpapadragon 5y ago
Doesn't matter. It is all in how strong your frame is and if you have other relevant social proof.
My previous LTR made way more than me. She was a skilled professional and I was/still am a sales professional. What kept the balance in check is my sheer DGAF attitude, social skills (I've got a strong social network and all my previous customers sing my praises) and I do what I want, when I want. I never tried to keep up or prove myself financially. All my presents were cheap but had meaning. Crane machine toys I had won, jokey gifts and all manner of other things.
If you have embodied TRP (Have a strong frame, DGAF/Amused Mastery, Lift, A&A, Consistently set goals and do things you are passionate about, she will be enthralled in your presence.
justicecantakeanap 5y ago
Enjoy the ride
BrodinsOats 5y ago
Marry her
tony-bromo 5y ago
Treat her like you’d treat any other female.
Believeinyourflyness 5y ago
Damn what does she do?
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alvaro10101 5y ago
Don't overthink it. I m a MD. Women in this field work so much they are looking for any "good" connection they can salvage. Just don't be a dick and lead. You ll be fine.
hazaraMoghul 5y ago
I am a male nurse and i dated a female doctor. My advice, just be alpha, treat her just like other plates. She wont give you her money.
There is no unicorn. This is your turn, she is not yours.
Pro tip: learn guitar, play her songs. Take her for bike rides. Medical workers dig that shit.
redvelvet_oreo 5y ago
The only song i play her is the sounds of my cock smacking her face in harmony.
failingtheturingtest 5y ago
Fuck that pro tip. Don't learn a fucking thing "because medical workers dig that shit" Fuck her well. Be a man. That is all.
boy_named_su 5y ago
You fuck her yet? How long been plating her? I ask because you shouldn't be thinking about an LTR for at least a few months
Also, you probably shouldn't be talking about money with a plate
UnnatainableArab 5y ago
I can't believe any other answer is getting upvoted.
You haven't even known how the inside of this girl's feels and you're thinking about commitment...
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boy_named_su 5y ago
It's her job to ask for the LTR not yours. Evaluate her red flags and decide
You should plate/FWB her 3-6 months before you know her well enough to decide
awalt_cupcake 5y ago
Become the most charming man you can be and ride that money wave. Hell even put some back into your own savings. If it goes on, you'll be set for life.
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0kool74 5y ago
Think she wouldn't take your money if the roles were reversed? Better wake up and bank dat scrilla if ya can brah
awalt_cupcake 5y ago
If you can remove your identity from the arrangement and see yourself as an agent you can overcome any negative feelings involved.
Alternatively if you don't want to feel any remorse make a valid reason to need investments/funding/lending and build trust with her about finances. It'll take more time to do but then she'll be willingly and happily forking over money and it'll be toward a valid goal (you have hobbies? side business?)
RedLegendx 5y ago
You’re trying to put her on a pedestal just because she makes more money than you, don’t, she’s still a female with the same female behaviors all others have.
[deleted] 5y ago
Yeah you’re still banging her for her looks not her money. No sane man bangs a 70 year old because she makes 500.000 a year.
MrAnderzon 5y ago
Patrice O Neal talked about this by using Oprah as an example.
Basically you treat her the same, nothing changes. Treating her different would be putting her on a pedestal just because she has "money".
At the end of the day you're still the man and she needs you to be a man.
huntersam13 5y ago
marry her, then divorce her for some sweet sweet alimony
redvelvet_oreo 5y ago
Dont brain fuck this. She is like any other woman. My current LTR makes 250K and can make up tp 450K - 500K i(I have seen the job offers in the mail) in another state but moved to my city just to be with me. The key here is not put her on a pedstal or let her job/title/salary make her seem higher value than you even if thats true.
Her salary is irrelevant. Go about this the same way you would treat any other plate. The difference here is entering an LTR you will be on hard mode now. You will have a constant test of frame. There will be times you need to compromise and be more "beta"(more down the line like after being a year in). For me the biggest things that have worked for me in this LTR is:
1) Never show weakness.
2) Never complain to her about your problems. EVER.
3) Occasional dread needs to happen. It can be very light hearted depending how insecure your LTR is.
4) Lead and say no. Leading I found is harder with a woman who already thinks she is a leader and "alpha" but your frame has to be bigger than hers. She will try to impose plans and things to do on you and try to suck up all your time. Say no. Create your own plans that you have fun doing and bring her along. There will be a time you will have to give in to her shit but at the start you gotta establish who is the real alpha.
5) Create boundaries and use her imagination to your advantage.
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6) Dont be afraid to walk away from the relationship and dont use the money she makes as a crutch for finances. This is so important. Alot of dudes I have spoken to wish they were in my situation just because it would be easier for them financially and t hey would have to work less. This is bullshit and should not be a factor. The only time her earnings should be a benefit to you is when you go on vacation together and you and her chip down to g et the coolest high status rooms and resorts. She will treat you in terms of dinners and vacations way better than any other plate just because she can afford it. Play your cards right. It can be a very enjoyable experience.
7) Still be the man on a mission. She will admire your dedication to your mission.
voxiqs 5y ago
Do you look down upon men who would rather have an easier relationship?
redvelvet_oreo 5y ago
can you elaborate? What do you mean by easier relationship? Relationships are never easy. Its simple. You be the man. If not she will leave you for some one else.
Coming from the blue pill world its difficult but once you start embracing and implementing TRP it makes more sense and you inadvertently get what you want being a red pill man that you use to crave as a blue pill male. All the attention you crave, wanting her to care for you or notice you happens when you are being man. On the flip side of that being the TRP man this stuff dosent matter much to you. You dont need it or care for it.
voxiqs 5y ago
No, some are definitely easier
MrAgamemnon 5y ago
Nope. You always have to be the leader, that's the only thing about it.
If you are thinking of easier or harder, you've already lost the game. You've already put her on the pedestal.
voxiqs 5y ago
Thats a nice frame you got there
dr_warlock 5y ago
Grow a pair. She obviously doesnt care nor should you.