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redpharma7789

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So I met with a girl on Bumble. After I came over for “Netflix and cuddles” and fucked her, she’s hitting me with the “what are you looking for” spiel.

We fucked on Wednesday and we agreed to meet up again on Friday. She was sending me all these “can’t wait to fuck you sexy” texts and what not.

Now she’s giving me the “what are you looking for” shit... and she’s pushing it pretty hard. She’s plate material at most, but when I A&A’d a first response she went completely overt and asked me for a legit answer.

So I just answered with “Wherever things go. Let’s not rush this”.

After that she was a lot more responsive to my texts and we agreed to meet again today. Did I do alright? She added me on Snapchat a couple of moments later but I was “asleep”.

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VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago

You did fine. Just don't do "boyfriend" stuff with her if she's only a plate, she might get ideas.

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dr_warlock 5y ago

I took one to the beach once. Suddenly didnt want sex. Never again.

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OfficerWade 5y ago

Lmao.

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TrolsMan 5y ago

Wednesday, Friday, Today. Too much time together already.

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redpharma7789 5y ago

My mistake, forgot to mention Friday was cancelled (hence the meet up today).

What is a good balance of time together for plates?

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TrolsMan 5y ago

1/2 times Max a week

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[deleted] 5y ago

How do you meet up half a time a week?

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TrolsMan 5y ago

I meant 1 to 2 times a week xD

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TRPKiddo 5y ago

“My glasses. I can’t find them anywhere!”

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cobalt1728 5y ago

Girl is a fucking slut. Treat her as such.

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walawalawa 5y ago

Here's the thing...and I"m speaking from personal experience.

When you first learn game and you start banging girls on the first meet up---you get shit-tests.

Then you wonder "How do I handle this???" so you come to boards like this.

When you start to get better at this, you KNOW what to do...usually it's nothing.

You met her online. You banged her on the first meet up. What else is there?

Keep banging her. Your only texts should be "Come over" or "Let's meet up".

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cobalt1728 5y ago

Is anyone else just grossed out by the sheer number lf girls that fuck right away on apps?

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rygy3 5y ago

No, there's an even greater amount of guys willing to fuck at the first meet up

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[deleted] 5y ago

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cobalt1728 5y ago

This. Her shit is only gonna get worse.

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redpharma7789 5y ago

How would I bail without this backfiring on me (i.e. rape accusation, bitch going crazy, etc).

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TRPKiddo 5y ago

She literally sent you texts saying she can’t wait to fuck you. You’ll be fine.

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willowhawk 5y ago

She likes you. NEXT! S/

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ordinarybots 5y ago

NEXT JOKE ORIGIN

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willowhawk 5y ago

Must be a redpiller

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Atheist_Utopia 5y ago

Goodness, you can't be serious.

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GucciGangBucks 5y ago

You seem way to available. Why are you always so available? Create a life where you less available and visiting all the time. Why would she not think you like her if you’re seeing her like every other day. Make her wait a month too see you.

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