I’m already dating a girl I still like and this newly ex-escort girl (27 yrs old) literally begging me into a relationship. She’s also switched into an acting career.
How do I manage this while keeping my other dedicated plate? Please feel free to pry more details out of me if you need more information
jay_jay_man 6y ago
Over the last 3 years I've fucked over 100 hookers and became "boyfriend" and friends with a few of them. Here are some of my observations:
Personally I would advise against being in a serious relationship with one. Do friends with benefits, fuck buddies, or a non-exclusive relationship where you are not the provider (not giving her commitment, cohabitating with her, paying her rent, romance, pregnant, etc).
mrpthrowa 6y ago
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Dream_21 6y ago
Great advice, 10/10.
krefnasterploc 6y ago
Thanks for the solid advice
The only thing that makes me think she really is out of the business forever is that she told me how she wanted to kill her self while she did it... Really gives off the vibe that she hated what she did and is disgusted by it. She claims to have only done this for two months also. Not that that makes much difference.
jay_jay_man 6y ago
I know girls that tell me they feel like a dog after they left my place or that they really hate it when I cum in their mouth but they are the same girls who call me (I never call them) ready to fuck when they need some cash. And after I'm done I see them advertising online for more clients. Just think about that, everytime she asks you for stuff or cash and you don't cough it up she'll be sucking some guy off within 48 hours to get what she wants.
Bro, they all play down the things they had to do, the number of clients that went through them, and the time they spent working. No girl unless you met her on the job as her client is going to tell you she's been getting plowed by strangers for years racking up a body score in the hundreds. They know you're going to be automatically repulsed by that. 2 months is just a safe number that seems short but not "too short".
I seriously doubt this girl has stopped escorting. "Acting" is one of the main cover jobs these girls use to moonlight along with "modelling, hairdresser, masseuse, makeup, stylist, etc".
Don't take up an old hooker about to go out to pasture and make her your girlfriend. Just fuck her, enjoy her company if she's good company, and send her home. She doesn't get to see you unless she's putting out.
GainzdalfTheWhey 6y ago
Any sentence that starts with "we'll, she said", just don't ever post here.
jay_jay_man 6y ago
/u/krefnasterploc I swear I could write a book on these girls. Ok, so tonight I was invited out tonight by my former masseuse (who I suspected was a former escort but denied it when I asked) who I'm friend with benefits with. In the past, she told me all the other girls in the parlor sold sex but her, she's not like that (lol).
Well tonight she invited me to her new workplace (she's been struggling to find a job for a few months now) which turns out to be a bar that doubles as a brothel. We chatted up for a bit, she got horny, wanted to fuck, I paid the bar fee, fucked her for 20 minutes in a room. Turns out, she wants to make some "Christmas Money" and is starting from now to save up by working in the brothel. Then she invited me to fuck two of her friends (a 7/10 and 6/10) but I got enough sex for the night and bailed.
What's the moral of tonight's report?
krefnasterploc 6y ago
I can confirm she does have at least one other friend who is unbelievably hot too. Like 9.5 level as well
Whisper Moderator 6y ago
Stop right there, you fucking idiot.
Stop. Listening. To. What. Women. Say.
Start. Watching. What. They. Do.
krefnasterploc 6y ago
This is true. No man this shit is sinking in thanks guys
night-addict 6y ago
Take your time with it bud. Read, practice, internalize. Good luck.
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I didn't even read your post text.
I opened it up looking for her age...
Surprise Surprise... she's about to hit the wall.
Where women decide that they'll settle down with a beta bucks loser for stability and a paycheck in exchange for some slow drip starfish sex every month or so.
Guess what role you're playing in this tale as old as time?
Run away.
You're a paycheck to her. Which means you are a beta pussy. As evidenced by you even considering trying to turn a ho into a housewife.
Fuck no.
FUCK NO.
Also meta - consider why she thinks you're a beta bucks loser. Fix that.
krefnasterploc 6y ago
That last sentence is making me really fucking think. The last few years I’ve been really damn proud of my progress. I usually feel like one of the manliest guys around now I know I need to go back to Degobah and read the side bar. Time to rebuild. Retool my kit.
Thanks bros
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Everything you do makes you into who you are... so have no regrets but make sure you learn along the way.
You're in the right place.
Start lifting and reading.
There's gold right over ------->
imdar3ald3al 6y ago
Based on your comments, you clearly don't have the mental capacity to poke her without catching the feels. I'd ghost her permanently or until you have sufficient abundance mentality.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Dude, just plate both. Spend a limited amount of time with each. See them each only once a week during different days. A plate isn't a gf. You shouldn't be spending so much time with her that you can't see other girls.
Don't commit to the white either.
Rian_Stone 6y ago
Sweet jesus, this cannot be real.
You can't seriously be this stupid
krefnasterploc 6y ago
There’s been some good advice in this thread. I’m legit trying to spin a hot as fuck escort the right way . So what?
Then there’s this shit resorting to insults. Somebody has to fuck these women for free while not committing or getting hooked by them. Might as well be me.
Stay mad. I’m about to go plow her right now and I’ll think of your jealous ass when I pop lol
Rian_Stone 6y ago
Just don't commit or knock her up.
krefnasterploc 6y ago
Amen brother
mrpoopistan 6y ago
First off, let's apply the "subtract two from reported attractiveness" rule. She's an 8/10. Probably more like a 7/10, since there are no 10/10s in the world.
Helen of Troy she is not. All 10s are just 9s who are the perfect version of what a specific guy likes. Ask any boob many whether he thinks Jennifer Lopez is a 10. Ask any ass man whether he thinks a skinny supermodel is a 10. On and on and on . . .
When your dedicated plate contracts something, I'm guessing the answer is gonna be, "Not at all."
Seriously, she's switching into acting at age 27? So, she didn't even get a real education while hooking?
Good luck with that. The moment she gets hard-up for cash, this situation is going to become a mess. She'll easily be able to rationalize one-time regression. Then eventually she'll find a rube dumber than you who's willing to keep her in cash.
mdcrubengonza 6y ago
Go for it. Or don't. either decision will lead you to gaining more knowledge about yourself and your environment.
Kommanderdude 6y ago
Cool story brah. In for the “My escort unicorn gave me the aids” post 6 months from now.
Work_In_Progress92 6y ago
Can’t turn a ho into a housewife
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
Surrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrre she's given it up. Sure. Uh huh.
You see the problem right? HELLO BETA BUCKS!
Try to fuck her, watch her spin that while she took cock for dollars before, you have to wait. She isn't "that girl" any more.
Try and fuck her, watch the clichés unfold before your eyes.
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She's approaching 30 & looking to settle down with beta bux? Imagine my shock.
mrpoopistan 6y ago
She does deserve a little credit for making sure to cash out before she slams the sports car into the wall.
In my experience, most women don't face facts until around 32.
chasebandz01 6y ago
why would you date her? lol just plate her. free puss
McVaghunter 6y ago
Clients in that business are looking for proper 10/10 young females, because they know for a fact a 27 yo can never be a solid 10.
Knowing that her SMV prime years are far behind she's now ready to settle down (Right before hitting the wall, what a familiar coincidence) with someone stupid enough to still believe she's a 10; you're her retirement plan.
krefnasterploc 6y ago
I completely agree with you after further review
You are 100% correct. She is a cresting 10/10 and already going downhill fast. Will in all likelyhood be a 9 or 8 within a year or 2. I can confirm based on her pictures the last 2 years.
I will plate it and just pretend I like her and have a little fun. Nothing more. It might mind fuck me a little when she sends me all these god damn voice mails and texts about how much she misses me literally every hour of the damn day .. but I promise my red pill brothers today I will not commit to this woman with baggage
Narcissist456 6y ago
She might be BPD...
krefnasterploc 6y ago
What is bpd
Narcissist456 6y ago
Borderline personality disorder
[deleted] 6y ago
I've spent a lot of time around sex workers. I worked in the strip club, I've had escorts as clients (I'm a tax attorney), I used to drive escorts, I partied with them, I've had dozens and dozens of paid sessions with escorts/strippers/massage girls (and a few free sessions) and I've "dated" a couple.
The vast majority of these girls are fucked up. There are exceptions. There's the girl I met 4-5 years ago who decided that rather than party Friday nights at university with a bunch of frat dudes or nerds and sleeping with them, she might as well get paid for it. She graduated two years ago with honours, no debt, and is working at an investment banking firm in Toronto.
There's the girl I met 10 years ago. I fucked her 3 or 4 times per year for about 5 years - about a dozen paid sessions, the last few were for free. She "retired" and now owns and manages her own massage parlour/brothel.
But aside from those few, most of these girls spend their cash on bling and blow - and they're broken.
If you go down this path, expect lots of drama, lots of excitement, and some great sex. Enjoy the ride and don't expect it to last. Watch your pocket-book and don't "fall in love".
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krefnasterploc 6y ago
You sir have given me the best advice here (and the man above you)
Thank you both with honors sincerely
I will go down this route
D4rkr4in 6y ago
and no debt and working at an investment banking firm
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SidArthur2000 6y ago
Yeah. I like sluts. They’re great! They keep me frequently laid. I don’t appreciate anybody telling them to keep their clothes on. So I always evaluate women on their own merits. Their number never has anything to do with it, for me.
I see a lot of guys here devaluing this girl based on how many dicks she’s sucked — slut shaming. As long as she has no communicable diseases, that just makes her probably better at it! Fuck the haters!
krefnasterploc 6y ago
Op here
This guy has a point. Sure she’s probably sucked 100 dicks in her 2 month escort stint but she sucks a dick so good now she’s the first woman that’s ever got me to cum by BJ. And I’m not easy to pull that off with either
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In my experience, when it comes to BJ skills, no one beats a hooker. For fucking, I prefer girls who are legitimately horny, not faking it because it's her job.
mallardcove 6y ago
She is on the hunt for her beta provider and believes you are a good candidate.
What do you do to exhibit such provider like traits to these women?
krefnasterploc 6y ago
I am 33, make good bank(she is only vaguely aware) and lift 4x a week for the last 5 years. I also got pretty good eyes and facial features from the genetic lottery luckily
I also refuse to pay for anything for her when we’ve gone out and she likes me even more for this.
My beta feature that is probably the strongest is the fact that I am a bit soft spoken or on the quieter side don’t force my opinion strongly enough and in certain situations(I’m not saying that I sound like a girl I have a manly voice)
TitsAndWhiskey 6y ago
She can smell that money bro...
RunawayGrain 6y ago
10/10 looks, 1/10 mentally, and has made a profession of manipulating men with sex in return for financial gain. She's a plate at best, but more likely a booty call.
BetaBluePillAdvice 6y ago
You need to stop judging this innocent woman based on her past! Not to mention you shouldn’t be cheating on your current girl!! You need to realize that women can change and that it was just her career choice and that nothing she did was wrong or her fault, gosh. Tell her you’re already dating somebody but that in any other circumstances you would’ve loved to have been soulmates :,(
krefnasterploc 6y ago
I laughed pretty hard. Thank you for the wake up call. I will attempt hard to not be a giant faggot beta bux retard
stillah 6y ago
do not, under any circumstances, date an escort. i repeat, do not date an escort.
Herdsengineers 6y ago
i saw an interview with a brothel owner in europe (where it's legal) - he made a statement that you can take any perfect healthy girl, have her start at the brothel, and basically line up 50 guys, and have her suck each of them off. from that point on, she is always damaged goods mentally. it might be legal for him to do, her choice, but it's still damaging to her, she'll never be the same, even if she quits when she's done with her first day.
if she's a HB10, she shouldn't have any issue finding herself a 40-45 year old millionaire that just wants arm candy. plate her 'til she breaks and finds herself a sugar daddy.
jay_jay_man 6y ago
This is the second time I'm hearing about this, do you have a link to the video?
Westernhagen 6y ago
Gee, who would have expected that outcome?
Herdsengineers 6y ago
Nobody I know. But I thought it might help OP in deciding what to do with his banging hot whore.
My LTR now is maybe a 6.5. Tall, slim, but little tits. She's a member of the itty bitty tittie committee to be honest. short curly hair that's hard to keep from being a rat's nest. But she's smart, still pretty just not glam pretty, never married/no kids (we're in our 40's), low N count, eats right and works out regularly, very respectful, and treats me right. She's also seen enough housewives that do nothing and turn into fat goblins that she wants to work just to keep that from happening to her.
OP says "she's super hot and she wants me, but she's a whore? but she's hot so that makes it okay right?" That's just giving her a pussy pass because of her looks. The rest of society has given her a pussy pass for her looks too - look where it got her. She's a used up whore (excuse me escort) who is now trying to be an "actor" because she can't do anything else, and she has no real prospects for anything other than finding a beta bucks man that she can still suck in with her beginning to fade looks.
For LTR's, be a little smarter, if you have to give her a pussy pass for any reason to justify LTR'ing her, she's not LTR material in reality.
D4rkr4in 6y ago
when I'm 40 or 50 I hope to pull a George Clooney
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Anon241469 6y ago
I think after 30 dicks, the number of dicks probably doesn’t matter much, and even non-whores have had over 30 dicks.
BestSC86 6y ago
That is some pretty bad hamstering....
It is only about 30 to 40% of women that have had over 30 dicks...that doesn't include bar chicks or Tinderellas.... the two mainstay of chicks targeted by the majority of TRP devotees.
Of course, don't date an escort...that screams damaged goods because just to get in to that business in the first place tells you that she is damaged mentally.
Anon241469 6y ago
“That is some pretty bad hamstering....
It is only about 30 to 40% of women that have had over 30 dicks...”
That’s right. The other 60 to 70% of women are underage and/or weigh more than I do!
jay_jay_man 6y ago
Freelance escorts typically take 30 dicks in a single month. Girls working in brothels take between 30 to 100 a week! Their numbers tend to be astronomically more than regular slutty girls.
Anon241469 6y ago
Absolutely. But, from a guys perspective... 30 dicks, 1000 dicks, 10,000 dicks.... it’s rather arbitrary where one crosses the line and says “more than [this line] is too many.” Which is why I said, once a girl has had 30 dicks, does it really matter how many more? To me, the only difference is that the girl who has had 1000 dicks is more experienced and more likely to be able to give extremely good blowjobs. If you want a girl who has had less than 30 then she’s probably either 14 yrs old, or she weighs more than you do.
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D4rkr4in 6y ago
or ugly, you don't have to be a land whale to be ugly
McVaghunter 6y ago
This.
It's sad that a lot of Men here who still believe there are girls in their mid twenties that fucked less than 100 guys. smh
chachaChad 6y ago
Do you honestly expect a whore to ever stop being a whore? The answer is no. Whores are broken in terrible, terrible ways that you're not going to be able to see until you get close to her and then it's going to be too late. You know the answer here. That's why you posted. You need to have the self respect to walk away from an HB10 that isn't going to be good for you.
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krefnasterploc 6y ago
No porn. Commercials and shit like that
I have verifiably seen them and she APPEARS to be going to legit work now not just riding 100 cocks every afternoon like she was before
D4rkr4in 6y ago
hey next thing you know you could be dating Sibel Kekilli (Shae from Game of Thrones, she used to be a porn star and now she's just acting like a whore on TV)
krefnasterploc 6y ago
Wow that’s a really cool comparison
The girl I know is hotter and younger than Sibel BUT her acting isn’t on a high level as this obviously. Still no reason to do anything but plate her
Zafer66 6y ago
damn i never saw it that way, thats funny as hell. from a real whore to playing a whore. whats the difference? she gets paid much more...
D4rkr4in 6y ago
i mean it just makes her performance doubly convincing right
IVIaskerade 6y ago
You're still calling her an escort, aren't you?
That tells you everything you need to know.
kick6 6y ago
So she just quit a career where she fucks people for money and has just started a career where she fucks people to get roles for money.
Yea...I can see how this makes her relationship material.
RedSkeller 6y ago
There is hooker gold in these comments. Thank you, everyone. Also, you guys use backpage or what?
krefnasterploc 6y ago
No! Not backpage! Stay off that. It’s 99% spam and traps
jrterry1969 6y ago
Why would you not want to date someone you rate 10/10?
Just be cautious about getting further involved or developing oneitus.
LateralThinker13 6y ago
1000-yard stare. Hard to believe she doesn't have it.
krefnasterploc 6y ago
Hahahahaha. Of course she does. But she has a few butterflies around me (barely but I really don’t care bc tits)
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krefnasterploc 6y ago
Oh I will. I just won’t marry or commit lol
musicvita25 6y ago
You bang her only. NOTHING more.
BestSC86 6y ago
Just getting into that business signals that these chicks are damaged as hell....
About as damaged as most of the posters on this thread showing their irrational subliminal loathing of women in general.