Over the last 3 years I've fucked over 100 hookers and became "boyfriend" and friends with a few of them. Here are some of my observations:

• they almost always keep their escorting work secret from their partners while they sell their services.
• if they have a slight want for money they'll always fuck to get it. i had one "girlfriend" that wanted money from me to fix her phone, when I said no, she let the phone repair guy fuck her to get her phone fixed for free.
• they tend to view sex as transactional and try to use it as a weapon more often than regular women. right now, she might be giving you free sex because she thinks she can get a commitment for it.
• girls that tell me they've quit rarely do. one girl who wanted to "give me some space because I looked like I wanted it" I ended up running into a brothel a week later. Giving me space was just an excuse when she got dicked down by 10 guys a day.
• any client that's built a relationship with her can call her up at any moment and shoot his load in your girlfriend's mouth. sex means next to nothing for her at this point. I know, I'm the guy that builds relationships with the ones I really like so I can get my dick sucked at a discount.

Personally I would advise against being in a serious relationship with one. Do friends with benefits, fuck buddies, or a non-exclusive relationship where you are not the provider (not giving her commitment, cohabitating with her, paying her rent, romance, pregnant, etc).

I didn't even read your post text.

I opened it up looking for her age...

Surprise Surprise... she's about to hit the wall.

Where women decide that they'll settle down with a beta bucks loser for stability and a paycheck in exchange for some slow drip starfish sex every month or so.

Guess what role you're playing in this tale as old as time?

Run away.

You're a paycheck to her. Which means you are a beta pussy. As evidenced by you even considering trying to turn a ho into a housewife.

Fuck no.

FUCK NO.

Also meta - consider why she thinks you're a beta bucks loser. Fix that.

Based on your comments, you clearly don't have the mental capacity to poke her without catching the feels. I'd ghost her permanently or until you have sufficient abundance mentality.

Dude, just plate both. Spend a limited amount of time with each. See them each only once a week during different days. A plate isn't a gf. You shouldn't be spending so much time with her that you can't see other girls.

Don't commit to the white either.

Sweet jesus, this cannot be real.

You can't seriously be this stupid

First off, let's apply the "subtract two from reported attractiveness" rule. She's an 8/10. Probably more like a 7/10, since there are no 10/10s in the world.

Helen of Troy she is not. All 10s are just 9s who are the perfect version of what a specific guy likes. Ask any boob many whether he thinks Jennifer Lopez is a 10. Ask any ass man whether he thinks a skinny supermodel is a 10. On and on and on . . .

How do I manage this while keeping my other dedicated plate

When your dedicated plate contracts something, I'm guessing the answer is gonna be, "Not at all."

literally begging me into a relationship

Seriously, she's switching into acting at age 27? So, she didn't even get a real education while hooking?

Good luck with that. The moment she gets hard-up for cash, this situation is going to become a mess. She'll easily be able to rationalize one-time regression. Then eventually she'll find a rube dumber than you who's willing to keep her in cash.

Go for it. Or don't. either decision will lead you to gaining more knowledge about yourself and your environment.

Cool story brah. In for the “My escort unicorn gave me the aids” post 6 months from now.

Can’t turn a ho into a housewife

newly ex-escort

Surrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrre she's given it up. Sure. Uh huh.

relationship

You see the problem right? HELLO BETA BUCKS!

How do I manage this while keeping my other dedicated plate?

Try to fuck her, watch her spin that while she took cock for dollars before, you have to wait. She isn't "that girl" any more.

Try and fuck her, watch the clichés unfold before your eyes.

She's approaching 30 & looking to settle down with beta bux? Imagine my shock.

why would you date her? lol just plate her. free puss

Clients in that business are looking for proper 10/10 young females, because they know for a fact a 27 yo can never be a solid 10.

Knowing that her SMV prime years are far behind she's now ready to settle down (Right before hitting the wall, what a familiar coincidence) with someone stupid enough to still believe she's a 10; you're her retirement plan.

I've spent a lot of time around sex workers. I worked in the strip club, I've had escorts as clients (I'm a tax attorney), I used to drive escorts, I partied with them, I've had dozens and dozens of paid sessions with escorts/strippers/massage girls (and a few free sessions) and I've "dated" a couple.

The vast majority of these girls are fucked up. There are exceptions. There's the girl I met 4-5 years ago who decided that rather than party Friday nights at university with a bunch of frat dudes or nerds and sleeping with them, she might as well get paid for it. She graduated two years ago with honours, no debt, and is working at an investment banking firm in Toronto.

There's the girl I met 10 years ago. I fucked her 3 or 4 times per year for about 5 years - about a dozen paid sessions, the last few were for free. She "retired" and now owns and manages her own massage parlour/brothel.

But aside from those few, most of these girls spend their cash on bling and blow - and they're broken.

If you go down this path, expect lots of drama, lots of excitement, and some great sex. Enjoy the ride and don't expect it to last. Watch your pocket-book and don't "fall in love".

She is on the hunt for her beta provider and believes you are a good candidate.

What do you do to exhibit such provider like traits to these women?

10/10 looks, 1/10 mentally, and has made a profession of manipulating men with sex in return for financial gain. She's a plate at best, but more likely a booty call.

You need to stop judging this innocent woman based on her past! Not to mention you shouldn’t be cheating on your current girl!! You need to realize that women can change and that it was just her career choice and that nothing she did was wrong or her fault, gosh. Tell her you’re already dating somebody but that in any other circumstances you would’ve loved to have been soulmates :,(

do not, under any circumstances, date an escort. i repeat, do not date an escort.

i saw an interview with a brothel owner in europe (where it's legal) - he made a statement that you can take any perfect healthy girl, have her start at the brothel, and basically line up 50 guys, and have her suck each of them off. from that point on, she is always damaged goods mentally. it might be legal for him to do, her choice, but it's still damaging to her, she'll never be the same, even if she quits when she's done with her first day.

if she's a HB10, she shouldn't have any issue finding herself a 40-45 year old millionaire that just wants arm candy. plate her 'til she breaks and finds herself a sugar daddy.

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Do you honestly expect a whore to ever stop being a whore? The answer is no. Whores are broken in terrible, terrible ways that you're not going to be able to see until you get close to her and then it's going to be too late. You know the answer here. That's why you posted. You need to have the self respect to walk away from an HB10 that isn't going to be good for you.

You're still calling her an escort, aren't you?

That tells you everything you need to know.

So she just quit a career where she fucks people for money and has just started a career where she fucks people to get roles for money.

Yea...I can see how this makes her relationship material.

There is hooker gold in these comments. Thank you, everyone. Also, you guys use backpage or what?

Why would you not want to date someone you rate 10/10?

Just be cautious about getting further involved or developing oneitus.

1000-yard stare. Hard to believe she doesn't have it.

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You bang her only. NOTHING more.