I am trying to understand this conversation from a TRP perspective.
I was talking to my ex (yes I know its bad, but i am trying to test the claim that TRP makes that most girls will cheat on their bfs/fiances) who is getting married soon. I wanted to see if i could get her to cheat. So I suggested we get coffee to 'catch up with an old friend'. Moreover, I wanted to sleep with her, because i never got to when we were together (she was 17 and afraid of pregnancy and we didn't know shit about condoms or bc's)
She told me that 'she has horrid memories and we never got along and that she is getting married and is trying to say no but that i am not understanding this'.
Many TRP guys treat women like shit and yet the women still chase after them. Theoretically speaking she should be thrilled to meet up.
Her bf is a BB and she's 25-26 currently so the wall is coming soon. I feel like I am more alpha than he is. He has a baby face and looks like a 17 year old kid.
What am i doing wrong?
EDIT: what i am trying to understand i guess, is why she is so resistant to meeting because of 'horrid memories' when trp says that women like jerks and men who treat them like shit?
redhawkes 2 6y ago
Male hamstering on overdrive.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
How?
redhawkes 2 6y ago
It's ex with a reason, and you're using TRP to hamster an excuse to talk to her. Block.delete. on everything.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
I broke up with her because she wasn't putting out and I was young and full of lust then. There wasn't any significant red flags back then.
I want to test TRP theory about girls cheating on their fiances with chads.
She tells me that she doesn't want to meet because her fiance is not ok with her meeting exes.
I thought women engage in branch swining? confused
redhawkes 2 6y ago
You're doing it again. Just stop the desperation and game other girls.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
What are you referring to?
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You're in denial.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
what i am trying to understand i guess, is why she is so resistant to meeting because of 'horrid memories' when trp says that women like jerks and men who treat them like shit?
redhawkes 2 6y ago
but she sees you as a thirsty beta, that's why (more precisely your behavior)
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
What do you mean?
fnordsnord 6y ago
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Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
I see. Thanks! A question for clarification:
She said she was afraid of getting pregnant because her mom got pregnant at the same age (17) and that fucked up her life.
How do you know she wasn't legitimately scared and wasn't attracted?
jm51 6y ago
Because if she was genuinely attracted to you sexually, she would have fucked you by now.
Many years ago, I was a drinks waiter at a cabaret club. (Remember them, you old farts?) A dozen women working there and me, the only male, apart from the manager who was so hands off that we hardly ever saw him. Place ran like clockwork.
At first it was 'Male present, act accordingly.' Three weeks later, they got sick of that shit and ignored the fact that I was male. I got to listen to women talk as if no male was present. We'd get the prep work done well in time before opening and there was fuck all to do for 40 minutes or so every evening. So we'd all sit at a table and talk. Quite the eye opener hearing women talk as if no male was present.
One night, the subject of 'your first time' came up. Each gal had her story. One of them, like your ex, had a bf when young that she didn't fuck. They broke up when she was 19. Her next bf was more pushy (her words) and he popped her cherry. When she broke up with him, she sought out her ex and fucked him 'to see what he was like'. Again, her words. Once she found that out, he once again was relegated to being yesterdays news.
If I had to guess her feelings for you, it's that you are some dweeb that she hung out with before she knew any better.
fnordsnord 6y ago
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Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
So what you are saying, if she was into me she'd throw caution to the winds and still put out?
Thanks. That offers me perspective. I think you are right, but mayhaps i was blinding myself.
I met with her a few years ago (after our break up), we went on a few 'dates', but she did not want to make out and told me she won't sleep with me. when i tried to make out, she refused multiple times.
fnordsnord 6y ago
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Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
i'll keep that in mind. thanks dude. i never thought about it like that. its gonna be hard but i won't talk to her again.
Xacic 6y ago
What aren't you doing wrong? WTF dude
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
what are you saying? elaborate
SirKolbath 6y ago
I think it would be easier to list the things that you are doing correctly.
Come on, man. You know better than this. Why are you digging around in your old trash looking for something new? She's your ex. Leave it that way and move on.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
I broke up with her because she wasn't putting out and I was young and full of lust then.
SirKolbath 6y ago
So freaking what? 3.6 billion women in the world and you're focused on this one.
This is your hamster speaking.
evanalmighty19 6y ago
Are you retarded? I feel like you're retarded.
Chaddeus_Rex 6y ago
why?
evanalmighty19 6y ago
Move on
Deep_freeze202 6y ago
She has already formed an image of you in her mind long ago, you could increase your smv become more alpha and exploit in group preference to get her attention, she might even take the bait but it wouldn't last. There's nothing you can do to change this, once a woman has categorized you, you're stuck there, women only swing back to a branch they've previously let go of if they have to settle and they only stay until a better branch is available and if one never does they become bitter spiteful cunts who exist solely to make your life a living hell as punishment for not being what her hypergamous nature makes her feel entitled to.
In short it's nothing you're doing wrong, you could do everything right and the result would be the same. Been there done that leave your exes behind for your own good.
Just two cents from a guy who refused to learn his lesson about exes and had to learn the hard way, but I'm sure most of the guys here would agree with the majority of what I've said.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Fuck you if you think I'm gonna read this bullshit. Have a Downvote.
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