Let me see: You are acting like a bitch, and she tells you to stop acting like a bitch...Hmmm...what to do...

If nothing else, READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR!

OK, before you do that, STOP ARGUING WITH THIS BITCH! That just further lowers your frame.

Now, go read the fucking sidebar.

Holy fuck, 220k and your own company at 25. What are you consulting on?

To answer your questions, I would advise focused meditation. Check out The Mind Illuminated for an in-depth how-to guide.

This type of meditation will train your brain's executive function, which will enable you to recognize an impulse or compulsion (like an angry emotion), and immediately drop it to focus on more rational long-term goals (like remaining stoic—which will better drive her attraction for you and keep you prepared for other options, rather than wasting your energy in emotional reactivity).

Dude, drop her ass

Maybe you're being seasonal. You can't be seasonal. This shit is year-round. You can't let some girl make you seasonal.

Yeah you're the prize not her. Downgrade to plate focus on yourself and your business and have fun. If you live together then move out or have her move out. In my experience when you show weakness they never forget and will always hold it over you.

Yeah she's hot and her pussy is good. You can get that all the time. The only common denominator is YOU LIMITING YOURSELF.

Time to next her. I hate to say it but she's probably fucking some other dude now.

Next time you bang a girl you're thinking of LTRing and they have multi-millionaire parents, just realize that at $300k savings + $220k a year you're going to be close to what they deal with in a few years assuming your company continues to grow. Doesn't matter if you're meeting Joe the food joint owner or Bill fucking Gates most of them started out like you with an idea and a business to grow.

Doing well in life by your definition or by the definition of those you wish to impress?

It really sounds like you need a group of male friends in this new town. Even if they aren't your preferable characters, go out for drinks and a good time with hopes of expanding your circle, all the while ignoring her texts or at least being vague and sparse with the responses. It sounds like the basis of your problems is her being your only true friend in this town, and that you're coming off as needy. Show her that you don't need her help and that you're capable of entertaining yourself without her.

Is it possible to regain respect after losing frame due to jealousy? How do you prevent jealousy when everyone wants your girlfriend?

stop being jealous.. that shit is just part of having a hot girlfriend. ive always taken it as a compliment and thought it was kinda funny. ive always rather enjoyed it when dudes try to hit on my girl at the bar or whatever. especially the drunk motherfuckers at 2am closing time. ive never felt the need to step in, i just sit back and enjoy the show. good luck with that shit homie you look like a clown trying to game my girl and we both think its funny and a bit sad

How do you gain social dominance in a new social circle, especially as someone who is more quiet naturally? This is just a weakness that gets highlighted at the dinner parties we go to (can you learn to be good at this, or do I just stop going to as many of them?)

yea you can get good at it.. learn how to drive a conversation. learn how to turn any random 10 second interaction into an interesting 15 minute conversation. learn how to be a story teller. that being said.. knowing when to just keep your fuckin mouth shut is equally important, and equally attractive. they are all just tools in your tool box, and you use them when it suits you.

How do you internalize your success when you're surrounded by wealthy people? (220K / year is part of the 1% where I am from, but I don't feel good about it at all, which is very sad since I came from nothing.)

youre doing fine. i dont ask people about money.. its one of those things you arent really supposed to ask people. that shits their business. as long as everyone you care about is eatin, you should feel comfortable with your money situation. live whatever kinda lifestyle you want, and let it speak for itself. people who ask you about your cash flow are dumbasses because its a rude thing to do

What do you do about a woman that is argumentative and disagreeable? She is like this with everyone, not just me. I never back down, but it leads to massive amounts of conflicts and fights since we're both extremely disagreeable people.

just stay dominant. she wants it, just like every other woman on the planet. shes not special. and honestly women like being disagreeable and argumentative for a very specific reason. for the beginners here we boil it down to a "shit test" and give some silly examples.. but its just to help them learn this concept. when she does shit like that, shes begging you "send me on an emotional roller coaster please, keep this exciting for me. i dont mind being the one to facilitate it. just show me that you arent gona act like a faggot every time i push a button." its a good thing, not a bad one. it means she likes you

We hang out 5/7 days of the week, 2 days are reserved as me time, is this too much?

nah

As an older guy:

This relationship is not going to last. Keep that in mind. It will run its course and it will end. You are both young, and figuring out what you want. So, enjoy as long as it last, but that means not letting her disrespect you, and you not doing things that you don't like to do just to please her.

You have your shit together, and keep it like that. Probably going to meet more interesting people over time and find somebody that you like.

Also, most models are dumb..... sorry to say that, but the only "super smart" model I met in real life, was a "plus size" model.

Remember, beauty fades, but stupid is forever.

Now, as someone who is a similar age and size to you who also rubs shoulders with multi millionaires on a daily basis due to family connection, but has nowhere near your income..

Dude, you are killing it. I am working to try to be in your position by 35 due to a late start.

I can't think of a single person who wouldn't be impressed by that resume at 25. I wish I had that kind of drive at 15, but I became a bankrupt addict instead.

Try not to compare yourself to others. Envy is a bitch no matter your success. Just use it as fuel to rise higher. And remember how hard you can fall and how many losers would love to see it happen to justify their shitty life.

As for the girl... I don't think you will have trouble replacing her. Just make sure she is aware of that. And that you are too.

I know a man who has a net worth of over a hundred million, but is an introvert who married a crazy beautiful woman. Better to remain alone then pick the wrong one.

Your problem is oneitis. A woman can't respect a man who places her on a pedestal because she has no choice but to look down on him. The problem with this chick is she's used to men putting her on a pedestal, so disrespecting men is her default mode.

Ask yourself ... would you rather have a HB7 who treats you like a king or a HB9 who treats you like shit?

You say she is an HB9 but what has she done in life that's impressive at all? She's good looking...so what? She sounds like a shit head. You're young and super successful... Why does she deserve you? This girl is going to cheat on you lol... And why? Because she's a bitch and because you have made yourself too available and not a challenge for her. She will seriously cheat on you with some bottom feeder.

Take a second and browse through some chicks on tinder and tell yourself if you wouldn't bang some other chicks on there based on pure physical attraction.

You need to start focusing on every negative aspect of this girl. It's already starting to ruin your life because you're soo emotionally invested that you made a life decision and moved to her town expecting to be together and now she's becoming hard to get.

The best thing you can do is start valuing yourself more and think about hitting up other girls who are even hotter or just stop valuing her so much.

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Dude you are absolutely crushing it-there is no one woman worth this many questions....

If you can get a model once, you can get one again.

Especially at 6’5 & Doing kickboxing + 220K/year ?

Fucking ridiculous, you are the 1% regardless of wether you are actually making 1% money or not. Most of those guys making crazy money are old as shit by the time they get there.

You have your shit on-lock and this ONE girl has you this worked up ?

I expect better from you bro :)

Just leave and do what you want and see how she comes running back when she has no other options as well put together as you.

Even if she doesn’t come back, it’s better for you-you come first dude.

Answer this question as honestly as you can to yourself :

How ready would you be to let her go right now and get back to single life and focusing on yourself, your needs and wants? If you don't feel ready now, what do you think would make you?

I'm not saying to next. I'm saying that she feels your attachement to her and it's repulsive. A woman needs to feel like you can stand up and leave.

She's a model hb9, I get it but with the kind of money you have, you could be engineering the kind of social life where you'd have three hb9 girlfriends.

firstly you moved into HER town. your FRAME is practically gone.

oneitis detected.

abundance missing.

man, you basically have a good life and it’s in order, but you’re fucking it up with this ONE girl.

get hobbies and get your balls back mate.

You can have pretty much any woman you want. Why are you hung up on this random model again?

Hmm. If only someone hat written the TRP Field Guide to Dating Models...oh, wait....

You're welcome.

Uncle Vasya’s Guide On Dating Models

-You Landed a 10. How to keep her in line.

Dread game. Let her catch you checking out some apartments back home.

You say your falling into beta behavior, but in her eyes you’ve already hit the ground.

And she isn’t “becoming” more disrespectful- she straight up DOES NOT respect you. Respect is black and white here.

Girls that hot require more swift and more extreme action. Weaponize your attention and withdraw it from her.

"The self confidence issues specifically come from the lack of respect and admiration from my partner."

There u go. You re young, attractive, rich, and you have shit going on for you. Explain to me how u need this specific girl in your life in any way? There are other ones out there.

"About 6 months ago I met a beautiful 20 year old HB9 model while traveling and we fell in love. I decided to move into her town since I have the flexibility and her moving to my town did not make sense at the time (perhaps this was a bad idea.)"

Love? You've only known her for 6 months. It takes pregnant women 9 months to pop a baby. You re not doing this right at all. Were u seeing other girls when u met her? Did u plate her at any point? You conpltely relocated for a chick u met only 6 months ago. That's very very weak.

After reading your whole post, I only have one question. WHY? Why are you torturing yourself so much for 1 chick? Dude, why would u try to date a model? They're no good. They're vain, they drown in male attention, are too high maintenance. Why the fuck are u doing this? 6 months ago you didn't have any of those problems. Why cant u just find yourself a cute chick who doesn't bring all this bullshit?

http://archive.fo/FH4Jh

why do you settle for 1 girl ? with your situation and age, you have to experience being fully unplugged, and you probably easily can