Hello, I am new here and I do not know too much about TRP, but I came to this part for some help, advice, or even just insight in general. I am a descent looking 17 year old and I don't know if this girl likes me or not. about 107 days ago, I added this girl on snapchat without knowing her at all. We havent talked much at all. I usually left her on open because she mainly just sent a picture with "streak" written on it. I have maintained a streak with her for about 107 days now. Around day 98 I really started talking to her. My friend came into school one day and prep talked the shit out of me. So that night i guess I started talking to her. She has about 90 sonthing streaks and in the past 8 days I have been talking to her nonstop. I became her #1 best friend. This is coming from a guy with around 40k snapchat score while she has around 558k. To put this into perspective she sends and recieves about 1-2k snapchats a day. She tells me about all these boys that like her and ask her out to shit. She tells me how she doesn't like them. I dont really know too much about what that means. I mainly came here to ask why she seems to always bring up boys that like her. It obviously makes me jealous as shit. I like to skate, but at the same time I lobe playing video games. I try to hide the video games part from her so that she knows nothing about it. I will send her shit of me usually doing stuff, but recently I have been cought up at home so it looks like I'm a bum at home all day. Is this okay and what should I do. Last thing, she tells me all the time about how i'm funny and how I make her laugh. Is it good to be the "funny guy?"
PS I have never actually talked to her in person
I forgot to add one important thing in this post. I was joking around and said something like I smoke dick. She replied by say "I suck dick." I then said lies which she followed up by saying,"that is for me to know and you to find out."
VladvonK 6y ago
Get out, save yourself.
SquadZCody 6y ago
since you are the first and only comment, I respect it a lot. Is there anyway you can elaborate and explain why I should do this?
buncha_circles 6y ago
you have oneitis for a girl you've never met. talk to girls irl. grow some balls, ask one out. be confident, go for the kiss. this is all you need at your age if you're a decent looking 17 y/o as you say.
VladvonK 6y ago
She's obsessed with getting validated by other guys via snap chat. Even if she did like you that isn't the type of girl you want.
Take it from me. I had a friend I started liking, we snapped and texted daily for over a month. When the time came I finally found out she wasn't in to me, even though looking back it was blatantly obvious.
Unless a girl is sending you flirty texts or flirty personalized snapchats completely ignore any indications other than those you receive in person. You must meet in person, flirt, escalate, it's the only way to be sure. This way you won't waste your time and probably won't develop oneitis.
SquadZCody 6y ago
Thanks good shit!
MattyAnon Admin 6y ago
Avoid.
red flag.
She's playing you, just like she does all the others. It's very easy for a girl to say "I've got 1000 other guys chasing but I really like you". She probably says it to all of them.
Forget this girl. Go out and get real options. Don't let her control your jealousy/desires like this. You're getting played.
Get REAL options.
Rudeyyyy 6y ago
I can't believe I just wasted about 30 seconds reading that pile of garbage.
1) Before you even comment or ask a question- READ THE SIDEBAR. It will answer most of your problems
2) This chick literally sounds like the definition of validation and immaturity.
3) If she tells you about other guys you're in the orbiting beta friend zone. GTFO
4) Video games are cool. No you don't have to hide them. BUT you should not talk to her about them UNLESS she initiates and is a heavy gamer herself. Video games are fine in moderation. Playing Fallout for a few hours is fine, AFTER you have done all of your necessities and responsibilities for the day. With that being said
5) LIFT- for god sake fucking lift please. You will feel so much better about yourself and gain confidence and look better. Lifting should be a priority.
Personally for me, If I lift, get my responsibilities done for the day, get all my work done, read more of a RP book, THEN I will reward myself with the occasional netflix or video game at the end of the day. If I don't accomplish these things, I don't do it because I didn't earn it or work hard enough to get there for the day.
7) You scream beta tbh. Please if you're truly interested in this sub, go to the main sub and read the sidebar there, read the sidebar here, THEN ask your questions.
FYI no you're just her top beta orbiter and male gay friend to her. She thinks you have a pussy.
SquadZCody 6y ago
Hey thanks for the criticism, I think you just about nailed it. I do work out about three times a week and am slowly feeling better about myself. I have read a descent amount of the sidebar topics. I was looking for one to get away from being an orbiter:). I totally see where you are coming from, I'm just now wondering if there is anyway to bounce back from the position that I am in with her?
Rudeyyyy 6y ago
best bet, is to cut all contact with her. Be a ghost. Go into monk mode and then come back when you fell you're at top notch. This should be about 3-4 months AT LEAST.
I know because i'm doing the same thing to a girl. I met her before I found TRP, was a hard BP and did everything wrong when it came to trying to fuck her. I ended up ghosting her and when we get back to university in the fall i'm going to try to rengage with a totally different mindset and outlook and after using this summer to improve myself maybe i'l fuck her. She's on the backburner. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY MY FRIEND.
SquadZCody 6y ago
HEY JUST MADE AN EDIT AT THE BOTTOM, THIS MIGHT CHANGE YOUR VIEWS AND THOUGHTS
[deleted] 6y ago
Ghost this stupid bitch