Brief background: 31 years old, probably fucked 50 girls, done a few Eurojaunts and fucked 8-10 girls from cold approach daygame. I've followed TRP for about 4 years now, and pretty much consider top posts here, as well as Heartiste and a few others, as gospel.
Now on to the question: about a week ago, I pulled the number off of a complete stunner. Hard 9 easily. As anyone of you knows, numbers don't mean shit, so I didn't attach a whole lot of meaning to this. This girl was really cute and sweet, and I do think I projected a few 'girlfriend' fantasies onto her. A few days later I see her Instagram since she's in my contacts, and she's even hotter than I thought (I caught her at work). Anyway, this girl is a total Music Festival Whore. Every other pic is of her dressed in the least amount of clothing legally possible (booty shorts and pasties), and it causes me some pain/discomfort to see and think about that.
The rejection isn't what bothers me, as I've been rejected before by hot girls, but seeing her Instagram and knowing what these girls get up to at places like this causes some anxiety, but it shouldn't BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT GIRLS DO AT THESE PLACES!
Where am I in the stages of grief, have any of you been here, and how do I pull out of this? Why does this hurt?
Thanks guys.
ziphias 6y ago
I would say just enjoy your turn with her, but I'm not sure you could actually pull it off with this oneitis you are suffering from that'll throw off your game.
Sleep with someone else, hit up this gal and do something fun and don't compliment her looks.
animal_one 6y ago
I've fucked two different girls in the last two days. I don't think it's oneitis, and I doubt I'll ever take her out as she's stopped replying. It isn't about this one particular girl, there's something larger going on.
Weefilly 6y ago
You're still not over the fact that no matter how great they or the situation they come with seem, they will always disappoint in the end. Cheers
animal_one 6y ago
You're probably close. I think it's some failure to fully accept AWALT combined with a latent madonna/whore complex. Thanks though.
Weefilly 6y ago
Explain the madonna/whore complex
animal_one 6y ago
Men wants to separate women into two categories: virginal good girls (Madonnas) and whores, when in reality it's a spectrum and AWALT.
[deleted] 6y ago
This fucking hurts the most.
That every woman I'll care about isn't the good girl I value her to be. She gagged on several dicks before I met her and likely during.
Idk if I'll ever love knowing this.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Truth is youre not an actual machine. You will have hooe every now amd then but they will quickly remind you "don't trust these butches" themselves.
BestSC86 6y ago
Why do you give a fuck?
Girls are social creatures and since every girl at Music Festivals dress that way, then if they go to music festivals they are going to dress that what whether they are jumping every dick in the venue or not. Some do, some don't.
What is the real issue is your apparent belief that chicks should be sitting at home knitting socks until they meet your awesome dick then apparently out of the blue they should become porn star dick starved whores for you only.
I don't really know what your problem is exactly? You do know that there are tons of girls who would freaking be grossed out and run knowing that you supposedly have fucked 50 other chicks.....bunches would not but a ton of girls would next you and look at you as you look at this chick.
losectrl 6y ago
This.
And share her IG.
animal_one 6y ago
Lol. True. As I said above, latent madonna/whore complex.
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animal_one 6y ago
New_single_Dad613 6y ago
Coming back into the dating scene after 14 years married, it's shocking and a big turnoff to see how many women are social media attention whores. What you're describing sounds like cognitive dissonance. Could it be that this particular woman has expertly learned to shift her face to face vs. online identity... like a star trek cloaking device for next level ASD?