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Same thing happened to me. Just answer with yea I fuck other people, we are not exclusive. She might stay and she might not. Why do you care? You can find other plates. Keep approaching and chatting women up.

Side note: I played aloof and told both of them I didn't know what they were talking about when I talked to them 1 on 1 last weekend.

You've gotta communicate nonexclusivity bro. Implicitly is reccomended. If you don't get a what are we after 2 months or shit tests aboutall the other girls kick it up a notch until she gets it.

The key to being the true red pill man is to be outcome independent in situations where you might strongly want something that's just not going to happen. You might be surprised.

If they each are only with you because they think you've given them the relationship, then they're not really plates. You're just cheating on each of them. You're not actually a red pill man, you're a cunning liar, and you just got caught, so you're not as cunning as you thought.

If you tell them each, "Yes, I'm sleeping with other girls" they might stick around anyway, because you ARE all that. One or both might leave. You might have to get new plates.

Oh well.

Don't take it seriously. Let them know you see other people. Laugh about it. Maintain frame, maintain indifference, keep smiling. She'll take her lead from you that it's all ok.

Don't answer shit like "I am not anything to you", this is black or white thinking along the lines of "if this isn't going to lead to marriage you are treating me like garbage". Don't answer it.

Maintain frame, don't walk away, keep smiling... eventually she'll either fold and have really hot sex, or walk away. And that's her choice.

In future, try to have a frame where you imply there might be other people, and gradually warm her up to the idea.

Side note: I played aloof and told both of them I didn't know what they were talking about when I talked to them 1 on 1 last weekend.

It sounds like you don't have a choice. If you now come clean after playing aloof you'll lose their respect and your frame. Why didn't you come clean in the first place? You lose a plate?! So what, there's billions more. Sounds like a lack of outcome independence and abundance.

Just be upfront in future that you're seeing other people. Avoids any future drama.

The best route, and one that'll at least generate some respect, is to be honest and own it.

Tell them that you do like her and like to spend time with her but that you aren't a ltr kind of guy. Stuff like that.

"I am not looking for anything very serious right now"

Happened in pre-RP days to me as well. What did I do? I chosen the one I liked more (higher SMV ;). Few months after, we break up, I call that other girl, invite her to travel with me and my friend, I analyze situation, ask my friend to go sightseeing and I get my dick sucked as soon as we're in the shower.

What did I lose? Nothing.

IMHO /u/MattyAnon has the best response. They actually don't care about sharing an interesting guy. For some women (like my wife) it actually makes you more worthy of their attention.

Ooh boy sticky situation. Went though the same shit a while back. Fucked almost everybody every girl in a friend group. Told them all to keep it a secret. Then one day they all found out about each other. I wasnt RP back then so I just ditched them all. Ended up being a social recluse for fear I would bump into them again. My advice is be honest and be concise. You give them a choice and accept it regardless of what they do choose.

If youre upfront about not beeing exclusive they will care far less about it and value/chase you more for it. Sharing your time =/= sharing your affection.

Lying/hiding non-exclusiveness will only prime your plates for emotional harm. Like having the plates spinning over jagged rocks instead of soft sand. Why have them break if you can avoid it?

In my beta days i had an LTR toss out and brake all my/our actual plates during a fit. Crazy as fuck, right? Well, it's the same with dudes breaking plated girls for no damn reason.