@bear-with-bit It's still a bad idea. I have no problem with men who got married before finding TRP trying to make it work, but if you take the pill and still decide to get married you're gonna have a bad time.
Bestof trp edition: Man of the house keeps the house in tip top shape, but once he dies, his wife loses her mind, hoards 40 cats, house becomes unliveable shithole, blames it on her dead husband. https://trp.red/t/1l1
Success begets success. If you haven't succeeded elsewhere -- like academics, work, business, arts, personal hardship -- then you won't "get" trp because you don't know how to learn and improve, let alone succeed.