Women LOVE attention. No matter what they say they do love it. A woman’s value in the world is mostly determined by look she looks. Look at their actions; hair, make up, push up bra to show cleavage, short shorts, etc. For a lot of women attention valid them.

Now here is what’s funny, women like and want attention but no too much of it especially from a girl they just met. When you give a woman ALL of your attention especially in the beginning of a relationship it shows that you are desperate, how no option and you are not a CHALLENGE

Women like a man who is a challenge. It’s different. A guy who will lay down and make her his queen from day one is BORING. I tell my students all the time, women will forgive you for anything EXCEPT being BORING AND NEEDY

When you are a challenge it keeps a woman on her toes and it peaks her interest to want to get to know you more. Society (movies, music, tv) has brain washed men into proving our love to women, showing them that we care, putting woman above everything else, etc and that stuff is nice in theory but simply doesn’t work in the real world.

When you do all that stuff to a woman you just met for most women it’s a RED FLAG. You are too invested too early and that just isn’t attractive to women. Your job when first meeting a woman is to trigger ATTRACTION NOT AFFECTION

When you give a woman too much attention when you first meet her she is thinking, “He must not have any other women, he must be crazy, I can use him, I’m bored of him, he is a really nice guy” that is all bad lol.

A lot of men who are bitter get mad and blame women because they claim to have been used and abused by women. Fair enough, I have been there HOWEVER by being needy and clingy towards women we as man bring it on ourselves. Now I know some you guys are mad after reading that but it’s the truth. I expect the victim comments so bring them on hahah but I digress.

Every truly masculine man that I know doesn’t get used and abused by women. They take certain actions and a way of being that prevents that. Once I started to get good with women and started to notice certain patterns I stopped getting used by women. It just doesn’t happen anymore. It’s human nature that we take for granted what comes too easy.

Stop Over Communicating - In the beginning of a relationship reframe from replying to ALL of her texting messages all immediately, don’t text or call her everyday and letting know how much you like her or how you feel about her.

No Gifts - No flowers, chocolate, rings, necklace , etc. When you buy items for a woman you just met you are essentially are trying to buy her time. You are saying that you don’t think you are interesting enough to keep her attention so you try to buy it. Not going to work and it really sets you up to get used by women and become bitter.

Have A Mission - Your woman should NEVER be your entire world. Your mission in life should be number one. Your career, business or passion should be number one. As men we need direction and that is what a mission gives us. I noticed that men that don’t have a mission are never truly fulfilled and they try to fill that hole with a woman and that is a BIG mistake. If you don’t have a mission, find one! Not only will it make you more fulfilled but more attractive to women.

Set Boundaries - You have to let women know what you will or won’t put up with mainly through your actions but also through your words. ALL healthy relationships have boundaries and without them people become co dependent and that is the most dysfunctional type of relationship.

When you have HOLES in your boundaries you open up yourself to get used and abused. Women are attracted to women with a backbone. Setting boundaries makes a woman respect you because if a woman you are in a relationship doesn’t respect you she will put you through hell because she can!

Be Honest And Direct - Being honest and direct about what. If you just want a casual relationship, sex, etc let her know. Of course you are going to say this after you have sparked her interest. Women don’t hear brutal honesty from women and when they do I find that a lot of women find it attractive and refreshing.

Some women don’t like it but those are the women who are so stuck in their reality that when you are honest with them they can’t accept it. Men lie so much just to get laid that when a guy is honest and direct it really turns a lot of women on from my experience. Start being honest and direct with women and you will feel more free and get better results.

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Wishing you much success with women and dating.