If you don't have anyone on there, it doesn't work. Don't waste time on it.

6 weeks is quite short, so you should be okay. However, don't be surprised if the unlikely event does happen - you know how the game works. If it was 6 months then you would have reason for concern.

Put her on the back burner

LDRs at college age tend to advantage the woman only, and end with her connecting with someone in her new location.

Enjoy the ride for now with the "you don't own her it's just your turn" spirit. Part amicably when it's time for her to move. If things pick up again when she returns great, otherwise no loss.

Remaining exclusive while she's physically away has no upside for a young man and much potential downside.

For 6 weeks? Dude 6 weeks are literally nothing why do you make a big deal out of this?

You need to study a local broad in your area while she is gone. Thats all you need to put your mind at rest.

No. Many people are, but there's no causation. Lots of Canadian and European RP dudes who are quite happy with their gun laws, medical systems, and all that liberal stuff.

Nah

I'm liberal/ libertarian but I have some conservative "personal views" .

I support social causes and about 50% of SJW(other are batshit crazy)

No, people here are all over the map politically, though a majority lean right. I'm a generation older than the average reader here, and came of age before the SJW/4th gen feminist archetype existed. Politically I am closest to Classic Liberal/Libertarian (but fit nowhere perfectly), and I'm a strong advocate of considering issues and policies on their individual merits, not according to party lines.

Left/right thinking perpetuates blue pill outcomes, makes straw enemies of people with much in common, and gets people enthusiastically working against their own interests, for the benefit of masters other than themselves.

Martial arts is fun and chalenging, and very bonding. Depending on the club, it can be like a new family.

I make friends just about everywhere I go, and since I'm not on social media I actually get their number and follow up with them. Dinner here or there, hell its the simple things.

I recently got good at making pizza, its dirt cheap, and now I can invite people over for a meal. Sit around and shoot the shit, come up with ideas, and gasp have fun even.

Asking a woman's opinion on anything never works. The reason she gave you shitty answers is because women always beat around the bush. In this case I'm thinking the bush is you being a fatty. Loose the weight and start lifting. Money doesn't mean jack shit unless you want to be a beta bucks.

Grow a beard, hides half your face but make sure you groom it.

The 1% of successful redpillers wouldn't be pulling 5 girls a week. That shit would get boring believe it or not.

Would 5 girls a week be guys in the top 1% of successful TRPers?

According to Slate I'm in the top 0.1% of men in terms of lifetime lay count; sitting at somewhere >120. The best week I've ever done was probably 6-8, I could find out exactly when I get home. Pulling 5 a week, week after week, would be insane. I would say nearly impossible, since my average rate when not exam/holiday/LTR time is one a week. If one a week=top 0.1% of male pop. then 5 a week would put you in the GOAT category. Honestly though unless you were famous the burn out would be immense, even doing two new girls a week makes you a cold cock zombie... me anyway, YMMV.

In terms of knowledge, started lifting at 14 and game at 15. I've tried most everything and would say I'm more qualified than most 'coaches' given I have better results and have even directly competed with several of the RSD guys. I came out on top each time but IMHO the RSD guys are intermediates with excellent marketing so not that impressive. I'm now 22 and in five years of active game I've fucked ~120 girls, been in a serious relationship with an absolute angel, dated models, fucked a pornstar etc. I feel like I'm top 1% for sure since I don't hear about other guys doing this shit either IRL or otherwise.

Also just as a side note, my best night was four new girls BUT that was at Sparty in Budapest. If you ever want to reap the rewards of the gym life and potentially catch multiple STDs having unprotected sex in a pool, hit it up. The whole thing borders on an orgy.

1-2 a month, high social skill and Red Pilled as fuck.

Five girls a week no one is doing unless they devote their entire lives to women. It's unmanageable and your social life and happiness will suffer.

the scars will go away with time. The best acne product I have used is this black African soap on amazon.

First step is to get the acne under control. Once you stop having active zits the scars will start to fade. Unfortunately it just takes time. You can get a dermaroller and try it, I've heard good things about them but never used one before.

Go on Amazon and search for "vitamin C serum" buy whichever one you want they are all good, and put some on your face in the morning and before you go to bed.

Use the 'power/charismatic' lessons of TRP. But do not ever EVER mention anything misogynistic or sexist.

Just keep your head low and do your best at your job. You want points on your resume and career circle, your job isn't somewhere you want to make best friends at.

It's tricky when you have to work with women. We have one HR manager and she's a woman, I've caught her putting her emotions into her choices a few times. You really just have to put up with them but keep it very professional. I made the mistake one time of telling a female co-worker that I was arguing with my LTR when she asked what was wrong. She seemed very concerned and caring and shit, but for the next 2 weeks I had to deal with shit tests from her, sometimes in front of other co-workers, and I eventually dealt with it enough to get the relationship back to where I liked it.

For the long hours, you just have to put up with it or look for another job. Start filling out some applications and going to a few interviews. Then when you get a few leads, ask for a raise at your job and discuss better work conditions. If denied, pack your shit and move on.

He sounds badass. Have you got his number?

He has strong game. There is no other possibility.

uh, he's the epitome of white rappers right now that's pretty much it. face tats, etc. he polarizes instantly, so yeah, these girls that do come around are dtf every damn time. he's the bad-boy persona, it works.

Girls see him as fun and dangerous.

His attitude and his game is attractive to some girls. They definitely want to see what that guy can make them feel but he is not someone they want to bring home to meet mum and dud.

Implied DGAF attitude, bad boy dangerous vibe.

Its cool short term, but his shit isn't durable. The polarizing sexy stereotype is good at first, but once you get it out of you, you gotta find a middle to where you have some long term potential if you want to keep them around for a good bit.

Also not mentioned so far in the replies - SMV is different for women vs men. Men usually have a more logical approach. For women, you can't pick apart the features the way you did: it's all about the 'feelz', the experience they have.

Internalize that you are the prize, everything will fall into place from there.

Technical nitpick: it's not soft nexting when you were never together in the first place.

You can't 'soft next' or 'next' someone you didn't/couldn't have. If she threw you a bone, it doesn't mean she came crawling back. If she's all of a sudden friendly, it doesn't necessarily mean she wants to fuck you. Chances are she wants you as an orbiter.

escalate with her (kino) and see how she reacts. If she is into it, then keep escalating and get her in your bed. If you try to escalate and she rejects you and starts hamstering an excuse, next her, or soft next until a few months when she moves close by (since you'll be more attractive, better frame, better game, more charismatic).

Start small, set some SMART goals and follow through with them. Get fully involved in a hobby that you're passionate about. Start exercising regularly, clean up your diet. Do something that you're afraid to do. Explore the boundaries of who you are as a person by pushing yourself to grow.

IMO self respect is mostly about knowing your own boundaries and enforcing them. Know where you draw the line on the many facets of your life. How many times do you eat out a week? Do you work out regularly? Are you holding yourself accountable in your own life? Be in charge of yourself. Take responsibility for your life and start doing the things you know you should be doing. Self respect is a result of self discipline.

"Self-respect" and instead of ego, maybe we can use "self-confidence"?

So the key words in this two things you mentioned is "self". The ego and your self respect come from within, not from your ex. She doesn't make you more or less valuable of a man, only you get to make or break your value.

You are high value male

You are strong, capable, and filled with natures miracle hormone, testosterone. Use it.

You are smart, friendly, and funny. Any woman would be lucky to fuck you, and any man would be lucky to call you his friend.

She didn't breakup with you, she GAVE you opportunity. Opportunity to go out and be whatever you want to be! You're free man! You can turn yourself into a total badass and not have a girlfriend bring you down. Go do all the stuff YOU want to do now.

Meditate. It will help with controlling your thoughts and choices. It will help you think more logically. See a HB6 you want to shoot a load into? Well, you can A: overthink it and go home frustrated and shoot a load into your sock. B: Think to yourself, how can I become a guy that she would want a nut on her face from? Then that is how you would begin to transfer those rabbit urges into improving yourself (lifting, meditating, doing something to improve your career, meet new people, do your favorite positive / productive hobby, etc.). Or C: approach her and try to escalate and get her into your bed.

See man, I'm one of those who dont actually believe in Nofap. In my opinion, jerking off should be moderate ( 2-3 times a week atmost). What I'm opposed to is watching porn. Porn is the worst thing that has happened to men. Stay off porn as much as possible. NoFap is unnecessary hardship onto yourself. Specially if you're out of town and there is nobody to fuck.

Also, this specially applies to men who are starting out on the game. Lift as much as possible and also try to channelize your sex drive towards gaming that HB6 while you're still out of town.(texting/calling/sexting etc.) so that once you get back, you can drill your poll and scoop out the oil.

Amen.

I would suggest checking out a few martial arts dojos and join one. This will give you confidence and frame. The more one learns martial arts, the less threatening and dangerous their frame tends to become. AMOGing and peacocking are insecure behavior traits. It reminds me of the joke about 4 men camping, each from a different branch of the military. Three of them make long speeches about how their branch is the toughest, most dangerous, and elite; while the fourth stays quiet, stirring the campfire with his dick.

stop masturbating, sexual frustration & discipline works wonders

Put on muscle, and lower your body fat. People will automatically categorize you differently from just those alone.

Generally speaking, I'm a fan of being as authentic as possible. Is that what you want to be? Energetic, dangerous and attractive? Then you must do energetic, dangerous and attractive things.

Energy start: eating fruits, vegetables and meat. That will give you physical energy. Additionally, drinking 2-3 liters of water helps.

Additionally, don't jerk off. High sexual energy comes from that.

Do things that push your comfort boundaries. Such things make you excited.

Dangerous start: learn how to defend yourself. Whether you learn how to use a gun or learn a martial art, knowing you can defend yourself in any situation gives you a frame of mind and a vibe that you are not to be fucked with. Your body language will display this.

Attractive start: get in shape. Lift, run do whatever you need to to get the physique you require.

If you are getting more shit tests from different sources then maybe it's time to reflect on yourself. Are you the best man that you can be today? Are you better today than you were yesterday? Or have you been slacking off and skipping meditation or lifting?

I had a cold last week and I put off meditation at night because I wanted to sleep more to feel better. I got better after 3 days but I avoided my meditation for like 5 days, then on Easter Sunday, I woke up feeling stressed out. I went to the gym and felt a little better, but throughout the day I was just dealt with waves of people's shit (mostly woman's.. actually all woman's). My sisters, my LTR, and even my niece could probably tell that I had a weak frame that day and they all just broke me.

And when I'm on a good streak of going to the gym every day and meditating every day, hitting macros every day, practicing my charisma / social skills every day and feeling amazing / alpha, I'll get comfort tests. Last night my LTR texted me that she was crying cause she missed me so much and that she missed my energy and touch. She misses the joy and happiness I bring her.

No it doesn't make them retarded. It makes them women. Shit tests come hand in hand with dating women. Get used to the shit tests because they aren't going away anytime soon, in fact they will get worse the more feelings she develops for you. I don't even agree and amplify anymore unless it's for my own humor. But I'd rather just ignore shit tests instead of coming up with a clever way to pass it.

No. Have whatever values you want, as long as they're not harmful to others/yourself.

Family values are fine. Look, there's nothing wrong with wanting a wife, kids, a house, and all that, and wanting a nice peaceful life with them. For all the talk on here, not every single woman will divorce you after 2 years.

Just don't be a dumbass, stay attractive, and don't marry someone unless you've been dating for at least a couple years and you'd trust her with your life. No guarantee that it'll work out, but nothing in life has a guarantee.

imatahigherplace -- As far as leaving people on read or replying to snaps/texts, you need to be so busy with your own life to the point where you almost forget to reply.

I think it comes down to what expectations you want to set. Immediate responses imply that you will be punctual and are constantly monitoring SC.

I practice this a lot. Instead of trying to respond as soon as something comes in, I just relax and respond at my own pace, and maybe a little extra time. Responding too soon can make it seem like the only thing I have to do is wait until another message arrives. I sometimes leave a message for hours even though it seems like they wanted to know what I was doing now. It implies that I was doing something interesting and did not want to be interrupted by something as trivial as Snapchat.

Live more and respond smartly.

Pick up manly hobbies. Or don't, honestly it really doesn't matter. I've been told I come off gay, in fact, I had this gay guy invite me over to his place a couple weeks ago. I thought he was just super friendly, but nope, just super gay and he thought I was too. I'm used to do it, but could care less because I know one on one with a girl, they lose it. And me being "extra" friendly or giving off a "gay" vibe just means I take care of myself.

I've also had girls think I was gay who I later banged when they found out I wasn't. So it can't really damage your game unless you let it. Own it, and you shouldn't have any problems.

I would try to find bars close to your apt. The techniques you need are all in the sidebar.