I'm 27. She's 23. Everything is checking out: extremely pretty, religious, strong family, culturally conservative, cooks, plays an instrument, loves kids, is slim (so is her mom) etc. etc. I've done my due diligence, and I'm reasonably certain she's a virgin. We are still getting to know each other, but for the first time in a while I'm dating a girl without the motive of taking her to bed. Of course, I have other girls on the side, but I'm interested in taking things further. Marriage + family is one of my goals. While it's fun to fuck around, I want to have a lasting legacy.

Dating in a consciously traditional manner is different, because there's lots of what could be called beta signaling in an alpha frame. Holding doors, paying for the check, switching her to the inside of the sidewalk. I've found that the best way to do this is with an absent air and a firm hand on the small of her back- not looking at her but rather scanning the horizon, and never an obsequious smile, because things like this are just what you do. I think that in a Southern context things like these function almost like demonstrations that you're of the same social class.

It's important to escalate physically, at least to kissing, which is going to carry much more weight for a Christian virgin. All girls want to be kissed passionately. When she's most into it, push her away saying "We should stop." or "It's time for you to go home now," as if you want to preserve her virtue. Meanwhile your eyes and voice are telling her you want to tear her clothes off. If the relationship progresses, I intend to push things, and see where she caves. The longer she fends off my advances, the better. I want a woman with self-control. At first though, I'm going to be even more careful than she would be in cutting off physicality or refusing to allow her to spend the night. it presents a strong image of self-control and allows you to impose a strong frame on the relationship.

Dancing around here, a country two-step, is pretty red pill in nature. They man leads and the woman follows. He usually rests his hand on the back of her neck, which is a domination hold in wrestling. He leads her though a dazzling set of spins and she enjoys herself immensely.

What do you guys think about TRP in intentionally traditional contexts?