I think you might have some anxiety when dealing with the opposite sex that this Alpha/Beta complex isn't helping. Women aren't goals they're people try not forcing a conversation but just let it happen naturally complement a book, shoes, food..etc. Also never touch a woman from behind and eye contact is a good sign a women is interested when approaching them. Hope this helps.

Do nofap, and get your murderer game on.

For better and for worse, people are scared of me and would never pull that shit, but it doesn't necessarily translate into IOI's either.

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The "Do I know you?" reply you get makes me guess that in terms of facial morphology you are only average or below average. There are limits to how much lifting can pull you up in SMV.

Specifically, the structure of physical attractiveness:

Variables one cannot change:

• facial structure
• height
• skeletal frame (ectomorph/mezomorph/endomorph)
• age
• penis size
• race/ethnicity
• voice timbre

Variables one can change:

• grooming/cleanliness
• style/clothing
• weight
• muscle/fitness
• posture/demeanor

I think what you need to do (besides the obvious of raising your SMV) is to reject and/or demonstrate that you won't put up with their shit. Females are so used to spineless betas taking their shit that when you don't it intrigues them. If you can get one or two chicks to respect you as a man, pretty soon they all will. I had the same thing happen to me before with some chicks that thought they could make me into their beta bux. When I nexted them they couldn't handle it and started to chase me around, basicly giving me social proof.

The reason this happens is not because girls try to box guys into the "Beta bucks" box. They do, but that's not what's causing this. It's not a function of race, of Toronto being a shitfest of pussified males and entitled females, or of your physique.

It's your demeanor and attitude, your behavior and body language. I can tell from how you are describing. You want girls to respect you? You want them to perceive you as alpha and not give you the same treatment they give other low SMV guys?

You have to command it. Wanting it and craving it - and being upset when you don't get it - is the hallmark of a beta.

Look at your example. You were blocked by a girl hogging up the elevator door or whatever. You hovered behind her for some time, unable to just immediately say "Excuse me" in a friendly but assertive manner. Then you reached out and LIGHTLY touched her - which is weird, light touches are fucking weird for women. Light touches communicate "I feel weird and unentitled to actually touch you, but I recognize I'm supposed to but don't get mad at me..."

That whole interaction screams to me that you do not feel entitled and comfortable in your own skin. Next time just immediately tell her excuse me or coming through if you want to get bye, and walk straight up to her and make eye contact so there's no question of who you are referring to.

You want to be considered alpha based on what? Your finance major at a major university? Your physique? Get real man, I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but you wanting and craving this kind of "recognition as an alpha" is part of the problem. You can't want it. You must command it through your behaviors.

Also that part about you getting furious because some girl told you not to touch her... Stan, why are you so mad? Try to understand you need to chill and not take this seriously, these are college thots, there is literally nothing going on in their heads other than trying to assess who has social value and who doesn't. Like you said, you don't have a clique, you aren't a known factor on campus, you're not part of this group or that group. It's not personal, it's not a reflection of you, it's just that you came up on them and telegraphed low value, which translates as creepy. You want to be alpha but your brain is getting pulled all over the place reactively in response to what 18 y/o chicks do.

Again, you seem to be upset that these women aren't engaging you with flirty shit tests or trying to qualify themselves to you, or engaging you in some kind of back and forth, or giving you IOIs. And I get it, it sucks. But the answer here is not to conclude "whelp, I guess high SMV men don't get that either! Women are just unbelievably entitled and rude!"

The answer is that you're just not high SMV - quite the opposite in fact because in college SMV is predominantly SOCIAL and you're not part of any social cliques, let alone a high value social clique. And you're further conveying low value by your social and physical behaviors and approach strategy.

Hopefully that is helpful. I'm not trying to tear you down to be a dick, but you have to be able to identity hamstering from your end to improve.

So you're saying about half the time it works 5% of the time.

You may not want to hear this, but you have the symptoms of Low SMV. You may be good looking and have potential, but you will soon find that when youre 180 pounds lean and more alpha in general then things will be way different.

Hell, even the SJW landwhale in the elevator will try to smoke your meat cigar

Put in 15lbs/6.8kg and all that will change. The change in how they react will give you cognitive dissonance. I'm speaking from experience here.

"5'11'', 155 lbs., skinny (but lifting, getting bigger & with emerging abs),... RP for a little over a year."

You've been red for a year but you're still 155lbs? Without abs at that weight? Clearly you haven't been lifting enough.

Gain 20-30 pounds of muscle first.

Your problem is that you are acting alpha without actually being alpha. Just physically speaking, 5'11" 155 is skinny as fuck and abs don't count on a skinny guy any more than boobs count on a fat chick. I'm guessing your example of touching the girl to get her to move was incredibly awkward and all they saw was a skinny guy rushing to class like his life depended on it.

It's ok to be this way as long as you own up to it and fix it, but don't act like women don't respect an alpha because they don't respect you. If women are mostly treating you like shit, you're not alpha. It's much harder to fake it than you think and women are good at sniffing out betas in alpha clothing. After all, propagating their genes depends on it.

If a woman is pressing me too much, I fade her INSTANTLY.

I had an insta-date with a gal over coffee. 4 minutes later I told her I was out. And I left. This story has been repeated at least 100 times in 25 years.

A woman who shit tests exclusively is a waste of my time. I should also mention that almost 100% of the gals I nexted within 5 minutes of sitting down with them are now fatty fat years later with 2 sick dogs and a handful of cats.

Nexting is god's plan for most women. Do not put up with her shit for long if it's early on and she hasn't proven any value.

She, an HB7 blonde, looked back and moved. Her friend, who looked just like her but with pink hair, square glasses, & red lipstick, yelled at me, ''DON'T TOUCH HER!

You seem to have met a feminist SJW OP. These people are highly unstable and consider any contact between male and female to be sexual harassment. You did well to simply move along.

Honestly if I had to take a guess i'd say you're approaching them weirdly or at the wrong times and you probably have a lot of outcome dependence. When you approach a woman and she feels like you're trying to get something from her (her number, sex, validation etc) she immediately shy's away because it feels gross and weird.

My advice is to youtube RSD Tyler outcome independence and watch everything on it

Don't even acknowledge the existence of those who wish to make your life more difficult if you can't avoid it.
Focus on you and just you and things will fall into place