I find it funny how women are oftentimes teaching you (unintentionally) exactly how you should be behaving towards them. They typically exibit all of the behaviors that OP listed, because their solipsistic nature has them assuming that those behaviors will "work" with you, because she knows that it works on her. Sometimes it can be useful to pay closer attention to her antics.

I've said this before, conditioning is the same practice for training anyone/thing.

Reward what you like, ignore what you don't, correct what's dangerous.

Whether its your dog or a broad, the most devastating thing you can do is starve them of your attention. Attention is your most primal currency as a man.

Law 4: Always say less than necessary.

Law 9: Win through your actions, never through argument.

Law 16: Use absence to increase respect and honor.

by telling her that you're miffed over something she's done

This is important and very hard. You do absolutely get (slightly) better behaviour by punishing and rewarding. But often they are so dumb they don't even know when they've done something wrong. You have to find a way to tell them, but without being reactive. Basically something bad has to happen to them and not you. They respond to consequences to themselves, NOT to you being upset.

Eg silent treatment (apparently for girls this is a punishment whereas for us it's a reward), excessive flirting with other girls, dread, etc. THEN tell her what she did wrong. But never YOU being upset about it.

Point is... as well as what you say u/omlala there is sometimes benefit in actually telling her directly what she's done. Like a child.

This works particularly well for short-term game and with low self-esteem women. You can get plenty of hookups and plates spinning.

If your target is LTR-grade high smv women with a healthy sense of self-worth (raised by a good father figure), high levels of obvious dread and playing games with things like your attention and body language will work against you. You have to actually BE her best option, among high-quality men whose commitment she is a serious contender for.

All social interaction with women is governed by dominance, which is really about who gets to make what decisions. Its is not about the facts of the situation.

Don't try and explain your side of things.

Explaining yourself to her implies that she gets to make the decision and you need to petition her to change her mind. You may be factually right but you've already forfeited the real game that she's playing.

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Don't tell her why you feel a certain way. Don't ask for a second opinion. Don't use facts to back you up, don't try to flip the situation back at her, don't cite her past instances, etc.

These are all tactics that a submitting individual uses to try to convince an dominant individual to support them. Do this and you just designated yourself submissive.

It's a waste of time.

Yes, because you're losing the game that really matters - who's dominant and who gets to make the decisions.

And what's more, by telling a girl that you're miffed over something she's done (withholding sex, etc.) or over something she said (overly shit testing, etc.) you're showing her by that doing/saying those things she's got an effective way to break you, your frame and to get what she wants.

You're implicitly accepting that she gets to make those decisions and you need to petition her to make them in your favor. You're a dog begging for her treats whether you realize it or not. I promise she realizes it.

These're all effective ways of condition her to act or speak a certain way and all serve to get your point across.

The real transaction with dominance is that the dominant person asserts their right to make a decision and then pressures the other person to accept it. All the tactics in the post are a variant on this. You get to decide whether you have sex and you'll punish her by withdrawing attention if she doesn't let you make that decision. You get to decide whether her behavior is acceptable and if its not you'll withdraw commitment. Her shit tests are exactly the same. She asserts that she gets to decide that your behavior was unacceptable (dishwasher was loaded incorrectly) and she'll criticize and withdraw her approval (i.e. grumpy silent treatment) if you don't let her make this decision. Defend yourself and you're still letting her make the decision because you're petitioning her to change her mind. Effective shit test defenses all just deny her right to make the decision. Shrug and walk away. Ignore her. Make a joke. This is the real game.

The harshest punishment ive given out without going nuclear has been a simple "let's go" opening the door and escorting the girl out when her words and actions crossed the line. No yelling no explanation. Listened to apology acknowledged it with an ok ignored the crying and took her home. Soft nexted for a week and last two months have been peachy

College guy here (not currently in an LTR/no plates and have no desire to do so until I build my empire) but I still use TRP everyday in my female interactions.

I am currently in a teaching group of 7; 2 guys (me included), 5 girls. I have no desire to fuck any of them (and shit where I eat metaphorically speaking) but I have used some TRP strategies to my benefit over the past few months. So far push/pull strategies (going hot & cold; being talkative during interactions and then completely ignoring them/looking bored; periods of radio silence on group chats). So far it has been useful in getting them to invite me along to parties they go to, make introductiions to their girlfriends, obtain their written notes/essays and other small favours. They seek my validation as I am slightly older than them by a few years and took time out before college to do other things. I would however like to "condition" the girls further. I think it would be useful tool to practice for managing female co-workers in the future.

Do you think further use of your strategies would work on girls like these or do you necessarily need to be physical with a girl (Plates/LTR) in order to condition them?

What does one do if she starts mimicking these actions as a form of payback?

Ommy's back. Great advice. Women listen to action. Arguing doesn't work. Only handling them in a way in which they can't handle themselves works.

I completely understand, but I hope you can answer my question, isnt this being passive agressive? Shouldnt we be more straightfoward?(this is what I have grasped from trp these few months, be more direct etc)