State of Mind Mastery Part III: Managing your Belief System | TheRedPill

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SavingMasculinity

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Beliefs DO NOT need to be true to be helpful. Replace negative beliefs with positive ones. Here are some common Bad Beliefs:

I’m too old/young/poor/ugly

No you’re not.

She’s out of my league

No she’s not. THERE IS NO FUCKING LEAGUE!!!

I’m not that kind of guy, that's just not me

Yes you are.

The Madonna--Whore Complex

Women can have both, a sweet, innocent side, and a side that wants to get fucked. Its not always black and white.

Girls don’t like sex

Yes they do.

Girls don’t like to be approached

Yes they do. If even just for the ego boost-- yes they do.

Its HARD to pickup girls

No its not.

Hot girls only date guys with looks, money, or both.

Not all of them.

Every girl has a boyfriend

No they don’t.

BELIEFS OF NATURALS:

Girls love meeting new guys and go out to hook up
There is no such thing as failure, only feedback
Its always on!
Approaches are either fun or boring and I decide
You never know what a woman is like until you approach her

INNER STATES

I am an attractive male
I always, instantly, easily, and confidently, approach women I’m attracted to no matter WHAT the situation is.
I am ALWAYS cool, Confident, and comfortable, no matter how beautiful a woman is.
Beautiful women LOVE me and are HAPPY to share me with other women.
It is TOTALLY normal to have 3somes on a regular basis. People who disagree are just jealous.

How to Practice:

Practice the inner states OUT LOUD IN FRONT OF A MIRROR 3 times a day.

This shit is pretty self explanatory. Don't make it complicated. Negative Nancies rarely get far in life. Choose to make it positive. Nothing fazes you. Nothing is a big deal.

Next up we will be focusing on getting into the right headspace via mental rehearsal. More content can be found on my site, which is my username dot com, but I will not link it here as I believe it to be against policy for non-Endorsed content creators.

I will see you next time fellas!

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ex_addict_bro 6y ago

"The Work" by Byron Katie helps with false beliefs. One of her books even lists the "universal fake beliefs" - beliefs shared world-wide, between all people, like "I'm ugly" or smh.

EDIT: "practicing affirmations" didn't work for me. You can repeat "I'm strong" all the day but finally if you don't go to the gym, you may be weak as fuck. Words build neither muscle nor money.

Vikingcel 6y ago

You can repeat "I'm strong" all the day but finally if you don't go to the gym, you may be weak as fuck.

"universal fake beliefs" - beliefs shared world-wide, between all people, like "I'm ugly"

The mental shenanigans people are willing to go through to acquire cognitive dissonance is astounding.

SavingMasculinity 6y ago

Yes, you are correct. Talk is talk- you SHOULD be living a life based on beliefs you would like to have about yourself. For example: If you want to believe you are fit and muscular, you need to go to the gym and workout or else that belief won't do any good since it's a lie. Again, beliefs don't have to be true to be helpful however, so you should act in accordance with that too. It really depends on the context and the belief in question. Beliefs about women? Those are the big ones that don't need to be true to be helpful. I believe women like to bang as much as men do, if not more. Is that true? Not for all women. But the belief helps anyway.

buttgoogler 6y ago

There's some truth to your words, but there's one quote i remembered some time ago: "Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits, Watch your habits, they become your character".

Telling yourself you got a 9'incher is not gonna help you grow one, but mentally it gives you a boost no matter what.

Scorptice 6y ago

It's gonna help if you are on a PE routine, though.

Loze1 6y ago

Social conditioning made me believe "I'm not her type". I'm not any girl's type by that measure. It's led to depression, feelings of inadequacy and it even went to the extent of suicidal thoughts. Add that to a fucked up childhood and I've still got deep emotional scars left over.

I'm un-learning it all.

_Sedation_ 6y ago

Same here man, it's hard to unlearn it. Feel like I can't click with nobody, but when I fuck them they love it, myself is the problem.

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jbpostv 6y ago

I’m currently renovating my belief system; some helpful points I’ve discovered.

Your self belief system isn’t right, by definition. Anything you believe about yourself or others can and probably has been true at some point and untrue at other point. Most importantly, all of your self beliefs and beliefs about others are reflective of the past, and therefore don’t reflect any truth about the now. And you don’t know the truth about yourself or others now either because we’re limited in our understanding of ourselves and others, and can’t assume. All truths are passing, partial truths and malleable by your attitude in the future.
If you’re struggling with your belief system, limiting beliefs, negative inner game etc, shut your inner game off and become present. You’ll notice women aren’t always attracted to the most intelligent or introspective men because in terms of success with women, actions and emotions are way more important than your thoughts/beliefs when all is said and done. Sexuality predates rational thought, it’s part of the animal kingdom, you don’t have to “think it.” Thoughts, if anything get in the way because no one can hear your thoughts. Since no one hears them, why do they even have to be true, rather than useful? Don’t think, or simply think positive self game as little as need be and trust the efficacy of the vibes you’re channeling. Just do it and feel it. Make presence and being attune to how you feel your default so you give off the right vibe. It’s hard to relate to, but women are subconsciously very perceptive of your body language, tone, vibe and emotional state, so communicate effectively at this level and get out of your head. Courtship works on primitive forms of communication, it might sometimes feel “dumb” or “irrational”.
When you start acting in contrast to your former belief system, become present and think differently you’re not going to feel like yourself. Not only will it feel uncomfortable, bold and deceitful but you might start to feel your identity blur like wtf, was that me? That’s not me who closed like that. Who is “me”? You might feel like some intangible consciousness inhabiting a foreign body, magically willing it into fortunate circumstances. You’re in revision, like building muscle and soreness, identity erosion is part of aches that comes with change. Forge on.

natyn0 6y ago

Thank you for sharing your introspection experience. This is the kind of "veiled" insights I had, which were scattered in my other thoughts.

kwesigabo 6y ago

Cognitive behavioural therapy focuses on disputing irrational thoughts in our belief systems (cognitive restructuring) - thinking affects how we behave/act.

A - activating event/emotion/thought/sensation. B - your belief system (about that particular antecedent). C - consequences. D - detect the irrational thought, debate (the pros & cons), discriminate the irrational thought, delete the irrational thought. E - you get a new effect & feeling.

CBT in a nutshell.