I've been saying this for over a year - by giving a beta with the respect of having a red pill conversation, it's akin to pedestalising a woman - they will act out.

Exact same thing happened to me. This guy was passive aggressive towards me for moooooonths because of something i said about his GF. I didn't even know what it was all about

BP men are like subhumans lol. What kinda bitchified male holds on to a grudge for that long.

The title is a completely different message than the post...

Summary: married woman grabs my ass, BP husband is ok with it. Wtf.

A married coworker of mine has said that he's scared of his wife. He talks shit on his wife at work but then follows it with acknowledging there's no way he could say it in front of her. It's so hard not to call him out for acting like a chickenshit because all he will do is make excuses (male hamster).

A group of us coworkers went out to see the Star Wars movie and this guy brought his wife. She's pretty and he later informed me that she used to be a slut ('used to be' heh). I went to my spot and bent to put the seat down, during which I felt a slight bump from the wife behind me. I thought she had bumped into me by accident. No big deal.

A couple days later, husband informs me that she intentionally grabbed my ass as I bent over. Husband was ok with it because wife 'does what she wants'. Smh

This was an odd realization for me when I noticed it. Its actually way easier to deal with most BP dudes because they have dude logic but are overly emotional. Just don't count in them if a chick is involved. Their priorities part the say they wish pussy lips did for them.

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I'm really liking the direction posts here have been taking lately.

Short, sweet and informative.

You called her out because you realized what she was doing and were worried about your friend getting hurt. I would want my male friends to do the same for me.

Beta men pedatstlize pussy, even above their own friends. They will throw you under the bus in a heartbeat if they think it will secure pussy. They absolutely need to be treated like women because they think and act like women: they have no sense of honor or loyalty.

I have the humility to admit when I'm wrong. Granted i am one to shoot unfiltered shit from my mouth at times and i'm toning it down. But that's just how i talk to guys, like how clint eastwood and his barber talk in gran torino.

But what's wrong with this PC world where i can't jokingly take a shot at someone? I wouldn't want to live in a world where people only say nice things to each other just so they can be "friends". I think it's wrong for a grown man to harbor animosity/be butthurt secretly and bash me to women, instead of manning up and confronting me in person and saying to my face: you crossed a line you SOB. End rant

The only people i can discuss RP philosophy with are middle aged men nowadays.

Many middle aged men are cucked as well. Wanna get some guaranteed, instant RP advice? Spent some time with a grizzled old war vet. They put on a RP clinic without even trying.

You should have called him for being a beta little bitch. Would have stung him if you mentioned the girl breaking up with him too.

It's cute how they respond to the same stimulus due to estrogen overload. On a second thought, it's actually heart breaking. Most men have unspeakable potential. But they wont discover it.

If you're looking for redpill men for your social circle there are ways of finding them without explicitly discussing TRP or any of its theories.

I started talking nutrition with a jacked older dude from one of my classes and as the conversation progressed I realized we had a lot of similar opinions on stuff. He used the term 'rational male' and I knew he was inconspicuously referring to Rollo, so I stuck out my feelers and recommended he should check out Robert Greene. He grinned and said something along the lines of 'ahh, I see you've done your required reading.'

This was when I realized I had a new ally who it would be safe to discuss redpill issues with, and funnily enough to this day neither of us has ever explicitly mentioned TRP, but we both know.

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"Confronted me trough Facebook" is an oxymoron

Best friend randomly brought up trp at lunch the other day. Shortly followed by 'those guys can't be real, I mean come on, what fucking psychos'

I just nodded and changed the subject. He's in the most beta relationship I can think of with a fat lazy bitch. He'll wake up on his own eventually, maybe. Oh well.

" You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. "

For someone to become unplugged, he has to accept the reality that he has been lied to his entire life, by a lot of people that he has known for a long time. And that can be very, very hard.

Blue Pill rule #1: Women are always the victim and can never be wrong

BP guys are practically women with dicks so treat them like women and they won't pose too much of a problem.

What a crock of shit. You won't be bending any matrix, but life will eventually bend you over, apply the lube, and bob your uncle, regardless of the pill.

RP sees reality with as much bias as any other of these pills. Bend the matrix.

Misleading title, but yeah for sure I agree. Don't treat BP men like women just think of them the same way. It is not RP to be condescending to other men just because they aren't as "alpha" as you are.

When dealing with the Beta mind you need to craft your words carefully.

Here's a thought...

"To the Beta do not give answers, but insert the right questions."

Give him just enough pointers so that he has the clue to follow, but don't bring him all the way to the conclusion. Let him arrive at the conclusion and don't punish him for taking a while. We all have room to improve, so when your friend improves just be glad he did.

 

I would love to have some RP friends, but they're few and far between. I've got a few, but they're natural alphas who have been cool since the 4th grade, and while they don't buy into women playing the victim they don't give too much thought to social dynamics. The most RP sentence that will come out of their mouths will be, "all women are sluts, except my mom and grandma." Everything else will be apparent in attitude and actions only.

However, what you really need is a few RP tolerant friends. I've got plenty of those, and they're great to hang with compared to your typical SJW sympathizer. These guys aren't going to sit around and talk about social dynamics. They're not going to abandon their blue pill beliefs and start plating women. They're probably not even going to be willing to shell out for a gym membership to lift with you, but you can lay some hard RP truth on them and they'll be receptive. These guys will give me their phone when they get a match on Tinder and tell me to go to town. They don't get angry when I call their close friends sluts right to their faces, because they're smart enough to see she doesn't actually have a negative reaction to it. They don't get angry when I tell them they're being little bitches and that their girlfriends are losing respect for them. These are guys who, if they found TRP, would probably jump right in and hop straight to anger phase.

LMAO. Sadly watching my old buddy get mined by a crafty foreigner. I never explicitly called out his girl, but she's no fucking good and before he married her I told him I'd not judge if he dumped her before the marriage. I said if you have any hesitation, don't do it. He's a smart guy and is maybe doing the math thinking he can't get a better price for fine pussy (she is pretty hot and basically a sex toy, can't lie). Anyway, your story sounds pretty similar. She trashes me every chance she gets and he AMOGs me and blurts out things I told him in confidence over the course of +15 years, that makes me look like shit. Fuck it, hard nexted him. Hate to lose an old buddy with all our history, but it's fucking toxic for me.

confronted me

 

through Facebook

heh...

I don't get the backlash from talking RP ideas. Maybe it's because I'm older but I only get the occasional "You must hate women." thing. I'm also careful with what I say. Try to say it like it's an old maxim.

Agreed. I made the mistake of talking RP mindset with my sister (who is usually open-minded and supportive). Yea, the holidays are never boring.

Those are kind of stretching lessons learned.

I've been thinking this for a while. Don't treat other men like women, that's insulting to what they're capable of. Rather just have a general understanding of the fact that they are BP. If that bothers you, leave them alone. But don't try tricks on men that you'd pull on women. Keep in mind we are the truest when it comes to social relationships.

Middle aged man here. Don't give up the fight. 25 years ago there was no pill, only lessons to learn. I definitely would be better off with this info long ago.