Summary: Swagger jacking..I know it's a dumb term but it works...If you have somewhat shitty taste or even mediocre taste, then copying a high SMV celeb is the fastest and cheapest way to get a few points added to your SMV (1 day of shopping, $300)
Body: One of the first things I had to admit with RP was I didn't have it all figured out. That was hard because EGO. It's possible you, like me, dressed "mediocre", even if you like the way you look. With maybe $300, you can completely reformat your wardrobe and instantly increase your SMV by at least 1-2 points. I highly recommend "swagger jacking" a celeb if you're ready to admit you might not have the best taste.
For example I used UFC champ Chris Weidman. I really like his style, how it's got the american feel to it, its classy, but still casual. Just what I was looking for as it fits in with my job perfect. Check out his instagram if you're curious, it's really got that all American boy feel to it but looks masculine and adult. So I pulled up his instagram, found a few pictures, and based a small shopping spree around that.
I spent about $300, got 6 shirts, 4 pants, and 2 pairs of nice shoes. Then a quick trip to the barber to get my hair done in a way that was close but not identical to The Chris. The results after were pretty amazing - Almost immediately random IOIs, women staring, and general interactions with women increased for the better dramatically.
Conclusion: It's possible you have shitty taste in cloths and style, and that's okay. What do you do when you're not a natural at good style? You use successful examples and try to mimic those things. Fake it till you make it. Find a celeb or two and copy a good amount of their style, from the way their pants fit, down to the style of neck on the shirt. Things need to fit perfect.
Lessons Learned:
1) the cloths you wear can literally increase or decrease your smv
2) you might have mediocre taste, try copying a high smv alpha males style (Brad Pitt, George Clooney, The Chris) for a quick hack to instant success
3) A good hair cut goes a LONG way, do not neglect your hair
4) Even for guys in LTR's this is GREAT, because when you increase your SMV, your LTR will want to increase hers as well to keep up, keeping everyone looking good, clean, and happy
5) try on all the cloths you buy , everything needs to fit perfect, I know as males if it 80% fits we say fuck it, lets buy it, but you should be picky. Everything should look pristine, no wrinkles, no wal-mart shit. If its baggy on your arms and doesn't make you look like you lift put it back
Edit Edit Edit Edit Nobody is saying look like a fashion model like you guys seem to think. Chris Weidman does not look like a fashion model. Choose an alpha male who still keeps it somewhat under the radar to avoid over dressing.
Also, this is just a temporary solution to your fashion problems, while doing this you should be looking into how to develop your own fashion and style ideas, but it's not easy, so swagger jacking is a good way to fake it until you make it.
[deleted] 10y ago
It does, and it does not.
When I was skinny-fat, during my Blue Pill days, I wore expensive suits (work in corporate office) and blazers; and indeed I looked good and I was often complimented by women. Was my SMV higher because of that? Probably.
Today, after hitting the gym for 3+ years I have a body that I am proud of, I wear t-shits and I get complimented on my biceps and at times my shoulders and chest, there's "that" vertical line across the chest that shows even when wearing a t-shirt and the pecs sticking out. Anything looks good on me. Seriously.
There's a drawback to dressing too fashionable and/or wearing expensive-looking clothing: giving the impression that you are a BB provider and not an AF.
It's OK to borrow someone else's style, but be careful who you get inspired by and the image you portray of yourself. In the long run you want to develop your own signature style, which follows no fashion but it's yours and yours only.
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Agree with this. They need to see that you have a sense of fashion, because it leaks over that you have sense in other aspects of life.
But a rugged look has always brought me more positive attention and looks than a clean one. Keeping chest hair that shows when I am wearing v-necks. Maybe even let the beard get a bit fucked up.
Again, TRP is a rough guideline - everyone will have different keys to their alpha version.
mykonos_rm 10y ago
I can vouch for this, especially when wearing an all saints leather jacket or a suit from the office. The jacket itself is practically a conversation starter
kranos33 10y ago
I agree with this. When I had a 'blah' body, I used to be more attractive with blazers/nice clothes.
As soon as I did a bulk, and a major cut (got ripped), things reversed. Wearing a tight nike/dri-fit shirt attracts much more (positive) attention. Nice jeans and shoes, slim fitting t-shirt (or a shirt) look very very nice if you work out.
About once or twice a week I wear a blazer/nice collared shirt, which mixes it up. And the people that see me daily at work, know that I am sophisticated.
The only accessory that I highly highly recommend to splurge, is a very nice watch. I do, wear a expensive watch (not a Rolex, but in the similar price range), and it shows up as classy when you are wearing just a t-shirt and jeans.
You suddenly get put into the magic AF+BB bucket, where all girls dream about dating/being with you (and not just fucking you), start thinking how your life would be together, and how your kids will look like.
They will both fuck you because you are good looking, and they want to date you long term because you have high value, and will make all her gfs jelly when she shows you around.
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I completely disagree. Watches are a really minor accessory. I've never understood the appeal of heavy watches like Rolex; they all remind me of something cheap you would find in a gas station.
With watches, simple is better.
These are just my aesthetic thoughts though. I'm a young college student. I don't know how influential a Rolex is. I don't know what potential business partners, employers, or associates think about watches. I'm only commenting on style. And large watches bulky watches are as stylish as cargo pants and a graphic tee.
KyfhoMyoba 10y ago
You may never have, but I guaran-god damn-tee you that nearly every woman has, like it or not.
But this goes back to the question: do you want to dress like BB or AF?
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Is a watch or shirt going to be the difference between BB or AF?
I'd prefer to spend $1000 each on 5 or 6 escorts that look like that than spend $5000 on a watch that looks tacky and fuck drunk women.
KEMiKAL_NSF 10y ago
To be never tacky, only one watchmaker comes to mind. If it is style that one seeks... Then look no further gentlemen... Patek Philippe.
kranos33 10y ago
You are still young, when you reach your 30's you will understand.
What you wear has a psychological effect on you as well. You probably could buy a replica watch of whatever uber expensive watches are out there for 1/10th of the price, and that it looks almost (withing 90%) the same.
But, they all do feel cheap, and they don't have the same psychological effect on you, as you know it is fake. (and your body language will leak out).
When you know you are wearing something that is worth more than the bank account of the super cute girl you are talking to, it creates this weird phenomena, where you feel a bit "above" her, and it leaks out on body language. You are seen as confident, and no matter how cute she is, you know you are more successful than her.
Also, once you have 300K+ saved up, splurging 6k on a nice watch will not make a huge dent.
When you are out of college, 6k is a very large sum, and I agree, you should stick with simpler but yet classy watches like you pointed out.
Just for curiosity's sake, I am wearing something like this: http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8062/8195225995_422caac76e_b.jpg
rpscrote 10y ago
Sounds like a fucking shitload of male hamster rationalizing. If you need some slick marketer to make you feel good about pissing away 6k on jewlery as a man, then you need a stronger frame. If you have 300k saved and your idea of good spending is a 6k watch you need to start a business.
I have a cheap $100 watch that looks good. I get no emotional boost negative or positive from a Rolex because I'm not a weak little bitch who defines myself by what fucking brands I wear. It's just an accessory that fills out the look.
You'd look a shitload better if you spent that 6k on Test and Tren
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My criticism was not about money, but style. There are simple watches which are as expensive as a Rolex (or similar watches). Rolexes just look tacky. They are not beautiful. That is my problem with them.
Much better to purchase another sportscoat or oxford than a shiny watch.
Fair enough. To me that just sounds like a crutch for strong self-belief. To each their own though. If I have millions in the bank, I'm going to be confident and proud whether I'm driving an Audi or a Camry.
This argument falls through when you consider the fact that there are many other expensive clothes or accessories which can: give you that psychological boost, but are also stylish.
I have no problem with 6k purchases. They just have to be good. There are numerous reasons for buying something: psychological, aesthetic, status, etc.
I don't know about the status of Rolex. I don't what professionals think about them. Aesthetically, I think they're garbage.
brokenfib 10y ago
Patek Philippe - simpler more elegant style, but the price is no joke. My father paid around $6K for one about 30 years ago and had it valued at more than double that recently. A seriously classy watch.
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Learning about brands like this makes me want to go into the fashion and clothing industry more than purchase a watch.
I looked him up and I understand your point though. These watches are good. I'm initially surprised people will spend so much on a trinket, but i guess it's really not about the watch insomuch as what the watch represents, how it makes a person feel, and the status it may hold.
flying-gogoplata 10y ago
I agree, if you take a look at Chris Weidman, he's far from over dressed. And as you said, you don't want to directly copy everything, that's why I said two celebs, because if you mix the two you should get your own unique spin.
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I wear what I want because my physique stands out regardless.
Plus T-shirt and jeans are so functional. I clean up when I need to, I don't need to peacock myself.
NidStyles 10y ago
I was thinking this same thing. It seems like a waste of money on something that is of temporary benefit. Wearing this stuff all the time seems just like a waste though. I can see having some nice clothes, but to live in them like that, well....
[deleted] 10y ago
This is definitely RP but it is SHORT TERM RP.
Heres the long term version:
Instead of investing your energy into choosing clothes, invest it into building yourself and your bank account. Then wear any shitty clothes you want to because YOU are the prize, not your fuckin clothes
SuperSlavisWife 10y ago
Anecdotal support for the argument.
Jon generally dresses quite neat, not sharp, but shirts or collared t-shirts and polos over t-shirts, black work trousers rather than suits or jeans, smart shoes, wool coats, etc. If he chats to a random female in a casual setting (so a cashier, old coworker, someone we meet at a historic building) when we're out the focus is 100% on him. She will look him up and down, try and get to whatever side I'm not on (if I'm at his left then she will somehow navigate to his right), try and touch him, keep eye contact, direct all questions to him, just subtle signs she's receptive.
Last time he was a bit messier. He hadn't cut his hair yet, he was wearing the same trousers but with one of his favourite t-shirts and steel-toe boots, he hadn't shaved and was walking a little less upright due to a bit of an issue in his back. Every single female we spoke to (5) discounting an old coworker addressed me instead. They essentially asked why I was paying ("he's holding onto his wallet tight"), whether I found his behaviour rude or acceptable ("where did you get him? can't you send him back?"), etc.
In other words, take the fancy clothes off him and he doesn't become a low SMV male in their eyes, but he does become hard to read. When he's well-dressed he's desirable. He's tall, handsome, not too thin or fat (although not as muscled as he would like), not too young or too old, got a good sense of humour and confidence. So when he's well-dressed, I don't matter. I am just further proof he's good enough to get a female. Take away the smartness and instead of ignoring me and trying to attract him they first want to see what I think of him and why I'm with him. They want to know if he's a high-ranking Beta (using Delta as the marker for average) or into Alpha territory yet.
forgetful_storytellr 10y ago
This is stupid.
You don't get cool by wearing someone else's clothes, this is high school logic.
Come up with your own style. What do you think looks good? Do something that other people aren't doing. Be your own man. I totally reject your idea of swagger jacking.
Alternatively, be a leader, not a follower. Sure, look to others for inspiration, but don't be a knockoff of someone else. Be the best version of YOURSELF, whatever that is. Oh, yeah, and wear clothes that fit you.
But obsessing about the clothes you're going to wear is for insecure bitches anyway. No one remembers what Napoleon wore when he conquered the known world.
DuncanMonroe 10y ago
How do you decide who you're going to model your "style" or fashion or whatever off of? Good idea, though, no shame in getting some help dressing better and getting a good look.
flying-gogoplata 10y ago
I watch MMA so I picked an MMA fighter. Find a sport or something, an actor, and pick one of the guys you find awesome, check out his instagram, find some pictures, done and done.
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I can attest to the fact that dressing a little nicer can go a long way.
I live in a college town and when I go to the college bars I always dress up slightly. Hell, not even slightly, just like business casual.
See when all the other males are wearing raggedy ass pre stressed T shirts from urban outfitters (jesus christ who is the D bag that invented pre distressed?) and sneakers with fucking duct tape on them because someone told them its cool to look poor me showing up in deck shoes, pressed slacks, and a form fitting polo type shirt with my signature silver pocket watch/chain the girls take note.
You don't have to be the best dressed dude in the world, just the best dressed dude in the room.
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Even the little things help. I can't spend $300 on gear but I can thrift better than any female on the planet. Of course I've been lifting for a year and whittling my fat ass down to size. I'm not yet at the point where I get that line from having good pecs....but at the same time all my existing clothes were baggy as hell.
I had the problem of downsizing my gear with little cash and knowing I was going to downsize again in another year.
I found that switching from baggy t-shirts to collared Dickies work shorts that actually fit closely makes a huge difference. Little things, like the seam where your sleeve meets the main part of the shirt actually rests on your shoulder instead of 2 inches down your arm. ...or the front of your shirt hanging low enough to where your belly doesn't stick out when you raise your arms....these things do wonders.
I'm actually waiting until I reach further fitness goals before I spend extra money on nicer gear. I'd love to get into suits again (had an Armani when I was in my 20s). But that's going to be a while.
And I'm sort of doing what OP is recommending here. I'm a heavy metal guy and I was at a show one time....singer from one of the opening bands was this chubby dude with dreads....cargo shorts, tennis shoes, and aforementioned work shirt with a band logo tastefully sewn over the pocket.
I admit I totally jacked this dude's style because he had a similar body type (chubby but not as fat as I was at the time), face shape, and hair (dreads). But he knew how to wear shit that fits and kept his swagger. So, yeah, what OP says but you might pick an example of someone with a comparable body type and face shape.
TL;DR... every little bit helps. Even if you can't dress high dollar you can have style on the cheap by making little changes.
yummyluckycharms 10y ago
Ok - I just need to know where this is possible
Man - just getting a nice pair of shoes is roughly a 100 bucks. Hell - even getting knock off brooks brothers shirts is 50 or 60. Where do I go online or in person to buy that kinda volume?
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You can't actually get quality clothing for that price. OP is trying to dress like a guy that can't even dress. I can't imagine how bad his sense of style must have been before he tried it.
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flying-gogoplata 10y ago
Go to a mall, all shirts from DKNY, calvin klein, gap, etc, are all $20-$30 on sale. Pants are $30-$40 on sale. 1 pair of shoes to start should be about $60. You gota make sure you only buy stuff on sale. It took me almost a full day at the mall because sales are not easy to find, and each store only had 1 or 2 items on sale that worked for me, so be prepared to make it a full day shopping trip.
yummyluckycharms 10y ago
I suspect you are writing from the states based on those prices.
As a price point comparison - a pair of average, crappy running shoes costs about 90-120 dollars, especially if they are non marking soles
NidStyles 10y ago
Merrells are $75 and they some of the best running shoes you will ever find.
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I'm in the states and he's right. You really just have to look around, shop regularly, and buy at the right times. In store sales are not really posted online.
$70-80 oxford shirts can usually be found for $40 in store if you go at the right times.
Right now is a great time for winter apparel and sweaters. I got a sweater similar to this for $50.
NidStyles 10y ago
Motherfucking discount outlets. I picked up about $500 worth of Quicksilver board shorts for less than $70. Not that everyone does the beach thing, but I do. Save that money on things that you know will be fine, and you have more money for the more expensive things, and always buy once, so buy quality. Gym clothes don't need to be expensive or fancy, you are basically using them to soak up your sweat, and outside of shorts that fit properly it doesn't actually matter...
yummyluckycharms 10y ago
Yes, as a canadian I frequently make runs down south for sales at the stores, so I'm pretty familiar with the prices down there. Its just so tough to find the time and energy for the drive though, and our currency being devalued by the second isnt helping.
P.S - nice sweater - something equivalent to that might be around 110 - 120 with tax up here in the big box locations. Cheaper if you go to the places with bad stitching or manufacturing defects, but not by much
kastaivag6321 10y ago
A nice pair of shoes are 400+ imo
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Not at all
They can get up to that range, but good quality shoes are around 200.
Usually 100 or less. My daily shoes are a variation of that and I got them for $50.
Darthstacker 10y ago
I typically pay around $100 for my $400 shoes. DSW anyone?
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rTkM 10y ago
Those shoes don't look good at all
[deleted] 10y ago
I disagree. They're good casual shoes that I can wear to chill with friends or on a date. Great with jeans and khakis. The ones I have are just plain leather brown with laces. They don't have that suede brown patch at the sides. I've had loads of people ask me about them.
NidStyles 10y ago
Well I agree with him. They don't look good. None of those shoes in that arena look good though. They look dainty. I don't want to look dainty.
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kastaivag6321 10y ago
I should've mentioned that I meant dress shoes though we must have different definitions of good quality. I generally don't consider anything below Carmina, C&J and similar brands to be of good quality and those are at least 350+ (depending on what country you buy them in ofc).
Edit: that sounds a bit condescending but it wasn't intended as such
[deleted] 10y ago
They look pretty good, but not much different from $200 shoes. If you paired them up with 200-300 dollar shoes, I wouldn't be able to tell the difference.
Although I'm kind of odd about shoes. I prefer to buy new dress shoes every year, than buy lasting shoes and cleaning them. What I'll usually do is just find a shoe I like and buy in bulk (3-4 pairs for 3-4 years).
kastaivag6321 10y ago
There really is a lot of difference both in the construction and aesthetics when you move up in price ranges. You're right in the sense that most people wouldn't be able to tell the difference but so is the case of fine wines too. If you don't have an interest in shoes then there's really no reason to spend more than $200 because you and almost everyone else won't notice the difference. Though if you're like me, you like shoes and buy expensive ones because you personally enjoy it.
I personally don't mind shining and think it's really rewarding seeing your shoes grow more beautiful with time as they develop a natural patina from years of shining and cleaning.
[deleted] 10y ago
Well even with fine wines, once you go past a certain price, say $1000, it's damn hard to differentiate between a $1000 bottle and $25,000 bottle. I often wonder how much of it is actually about the taste of a drink versus the status and culture associated with fine wines. If you got together a group of wealthy wine afficianados and they opened an expensive aged wine which tasted like grocery store wine, I wonder how many of them would [1] notice that their aged wine tastes like wine from walmart or [2] actually point it out and say "this wine is aged, but it's shit".
Dutch people serve McDonalds to food critics and pretend it's a new organic food
If you truly enjoy it, then it's worth it. Most of my apparel purchases are function and style. When I'm shopping for a loafer, I don't really care about the brand; it just has to look nice and last a certain time.
The only "expensive" (I use quotations because they're not too expensive) things I'm passionate about are guitars and amplifiers. But everything has to be judged by sound; close my eyes, play, and ask myself does this sound good?
With guitars, once you reach the price point of $500 it's hard to tell the difference in sound quality. There are many $500 guitars that sound better than $2000 or $3000 fender strats.
kastaivag6321 10y ago
I don't really know anything about wine but the point I was trying to make is that high end shoes are a bit of an acquired taste. I think the point where the differences become barely noticeable when it comes to shoes is quite high. There's a clear difference between $700 shoes and $1500 shoes; mostly in leather quality and finish at that price range though.
It's three in the morning here so I'm off to bed. Cheers!
triana0811 10y ago
All facts, dressing nicely automatically makes you look a lot better. Even women will agree to this logic.
BItchesBeOnMyD 10y ago
Just want to pop in to say that gay men are the best barbers and wardrobe helpers. Mostly my own personal experience, but most of guy friends agree that gay men know what looks nice on a man, and they are a man themselves, so they know what's comfortable. Gay men are usually in touch with this sort of stuff.
MeatCurtainRod 10y ago
This topic is incredibly underrated. Swagger jacking; a short-cut solution to finding out how you can make yourself a better looking dude, by observing a tried-tested-true or tried-tested-failed version of your potential future self on mass media.
Being able to dress appropriately is not something men should take lightly. It takes 5 seconds for a girl to make up their mind about you. Girls will judge you on your clothes. This ain't no secret. They see what shoes you wear. They see the cut of clothing you use to see how it fits your body. The more put-together you appear, the more 'able' they figure you are able to provide for them. All that shit.
Min0rvisit 10y ago
Comming from one who took the red pill just yesterday but still have an interest in style and fashion I recommend checking looklive.com. Site shows and inform what celeb recently have worn, name of items and cheaper alternatives. I for example really like David Beckham and have bought off pieces which he rocked.
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edwardhwhite 10y ago
I wear a lot of vintage. I am often stopped on the street by strangers complimenting my clothes, even when I was a fat fuck. The main thing is to have style, more than being fashionable.
FireTheHarpoons 10y ago
Where do you buy your clothes?
edwardhwhite 10y ago
etsy. they have killer leather jackets and boots. I am a huge fan of western shirts and have some bomb ones.
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Any suggestions on browsing etsy? Where do you go?
edwardhwhite 10y ago
I search for my size in what I want. Think of a time where you liked the clothes. Then search '60s hippie, or Mad Men, or 70s shirt etc.
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parodixicalreaction 10y ago
Actually you probably acted more confident and felt better after you bought the clothes and got the haircut. That's what the girls responded to. Just wait a couple weeks and you'll be the same guy with the new clothes.
Its a temporary boost in your self perceived value but is built on a weak foundation that never lasts.
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LuvBeer 10y ago
MFA is very USA-centric. I would go as far as saying if you live in Europe it's a waste of time. Choosing someone you admire is guaranteed to be applicable to you.
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LuvBeer 10y ago
haha girls often compliment me on my fashion sense so I like to think it does the job well enough. I don't have anyone in particular but if I see something I like, be it on a celebrity or in the street, I'll look for it and even sometimes stop the person and ask them about it. I know the common wisdom is to buy a few high-quality staples, but honestly I buy cheap, fashionable clothes (other than shoes) and change them frequently. Fashion changes fast and my tastes do too.
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doveenigma13 10y ago
I agree. Find a guy that you resemble somewhat. As a white male, dressing like Dwayne Johnson wouldn't work for me.
Also scour social media of the women you are around, see what pictures they post and drool over. For my area Charlie Hunnam and David Beckham are on top usually. This of course is for my demographic, and easy to obtain for the most part.
Also keep in mind you are using styling cues from them to improve YOU, not just copying.
Thanks for the post.
foldpak111 10y ago
Once you lose the ego that's when dreams become possible. I'm making 15k a month passive income from my assets because I was willing to be humble, find a mentor, and bust my butt for 5 years.
Easih 10y ago
15k passive income monthly ? I dont believe you.That kind of income passively would mean you probably won the lottery or come from rich family or somehow struck it rich by selling your business
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Johnny10toes 10y ago
Good idea. I've still got some body stuff to work on but when I get that taken care of this is going to help me.
Thizzlebot 10y ago
This thread is stupid as fuck. Good luck looking like Johnny Depp rocking a fedora. That's where the m'lady guys get it from. Just wear shit that fits and own it.
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blacwidonsfw 10y ago
One post about style and it's Cosmo? Dude chill out you don't have to read a post if it doesn't interest you stop trying to be so edgy. Personally I liked this post as I'm gearing up to go to Vegas and I wanna up my style game before
Overzealous_BlackGuy 10y ago
Perspective is reality. What they see is what they believe. Dressing well is the most passive way to boos your smv.
Overdressing can kill it. Ops a fag ignore him.
flying-gogoplata 10y ago
Chris Weidman is over dressed? No. He is not.
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MattyAnon Admin 10y ago
It's not about what women want, it's about what we want.
If you want to be attractive to women, be attractive to women. Being more attractive is good for your sex and relationship life. This post is an extremely cost-time effective way to do that.
The only reason to say or think "who cares what women want" is if you plan to be or stay celibate, or genuinely don't care about the quality of women you fuck.
Frankly you sound like a feminist saying "who gives a fuck what men want, I'm going to stay fat" and then crying yourself to sleep on your oversized bed of donuts and cats.
TDCRedPill 10y ago
Those who see the benefits of others having a high opinion of you. If you're a hobo with no interest in sexual or social value, then aiming to increase your SMV is pointless, since it is a SOCIAL/SEXUAL market value. That's true.
Some of us see the inherent value in our lives of increasing our SMV, and the facts in the OP are accurate to do so. If you don't, you're definitely in the wrong sub.
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flying-gogoplata 10y ago
What are you even talking about? Stop trying to be so edgy.
What does that even mean, "I do it for me"? Do you know what SMV is? You can't "raise SMV for yourself". You're raising SMV to be more attractive to women, that's why it's called SEXUAL MARKET VALUE, that's the whole point of TRP, a sexual strategy. Keywords sexual strategy.
You're not going to attract 9s dressed like a fucking hillbilly bum and shit, sorry. You sound like you're just trying to be some kind of TRP buddha/tyler durden and it's pretty cringey.